How to change your worldview? Changing worldview How to change a person's worldview for life.

Worldview is a system of views of an individual on the environment, a vision of the cause-and-effect relationships of an event (its causes and its consequences).

Worldview depends on the level of development of the individual, his position on the evolutionary ladder and understanding of the world. The right worldview forms the right worldview and, accordingly, allows you to take a worthy place on the evolutionary ladder. Whoever a person imagines himself to be, in the universe he will occupy not a fictional, but a well-deserved place.

Can animals in the zoo become aware of the world and themselves in this world enough to leave the zoo and return to their homeland? For example, according to the scenario of the cartoon "Madagascar". Imagine in reality how many processes need to be controlled in order to realize all the dangers that arise from the first minute of the escape of animals and bypass them? To do this, they will need knowledge of the control and tracking system used by people, the time of a possible absence of control, the methods and skills of controlling the means of the technosphere - a ship, an aircraft, etc., as well as operating features - the fuel used, lubricant, coolant, and much more, much more. In this case, the potential capabilities of animals should exceed the potential capabilities of people at all possible points of contact for the entire period of escape. At least for the duration of the run.

And the most important thing that animals will need when escaping is the right worldview. Animals must be clearly aware of themselves, their role in the zoo, the role of people, the spatial position of the Native Territory. Ways to overcome huge distances using vehicles of the technosphere. Methods of orientation over large spaces and distances.

The Right Worldview is what we need to correctly understand our place in the universe. At the same time, the following is important: being an observer from the outside, it is easy for us to assess the situation of animals when escaping from the zoo, provided that we ourselves are ideologically at the level of enslavers (people) who are on the evolutionary ladder much higher than enslaved animals. At the same time, the moral side of the issue seems indisputable to us - after all, in the menagerie there are animals that are not equal to us in development and awareness of the essence! Now leading to an informational direct question: what if humanity is just unreasonable animals for some civilization that is on the civilizational ladder much higher than us? Then we automatically take the place of animals in the zoo, and it becomes vitally important for us to answer the same questions that confront animals who decide to escape from the zoo.

In this state of affairs, it will be easiest for those who are absolutely satisfied with life in the zoo. Living life, such a person does not want to admit that life does not end with the cessation of the functioning of the body, because then you will have to see clearly and admit that life has been lived in vain, the “escape” did not take place, and in a new life you will have to start all over again. Therefore, it is much easier to live without thinking about anything, indulging in the pleasures and “joys” of material life, without burdening the consciousness with subsequent posthumous disappointment.

But people who correctly imagine the state of things are puzzled by the search for a way out of the created world order into areas that are close to themselves in terms of mood and energy. That is, to stop the unreasonable destruction of nature, their own kind. That is, to recreate the relationship of the kingdom of peace, joy, understanding, order, and then follow the path of self-improvement. At the same time, it is vital to have ways to correctly solve the problems facing humanity, which are effective only if there is a single purposefulness and the combined efforts of all mankind. Unanimity.

Alignment Filters

The Universe radiates in a huge range of frequencies. The human eye can only see a narrow spectrum of electromagnetic radiation - visible light. The ear distinguishes a narrow range of sound vibrations. The skin perceives a small range of temperature changes. And so on. That is, a person, due to limited perception, does not perceive a huge amount of universal information and builds a worldview based on a very small amount of information received from this universe.

Then there are more subtle filters - social: a person brought up in the Christian tradition does not perceive for himself (or simply blocks) a large amount of information related to other religions, atheism, secular life, and many other types of information. Other social formations do the same in relation to alien information, for example, communists to imperialists, Buddhists to Islamists, scientists to mystics, and many, many others. That is, from the information received from the universe (of which we are all a part), we deliberately cut out a fairly wide range of information as unnecessary. Then the genocide filters turn on - alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, TV, fashion and many, many others, they also bite off and throw away some of the information. You must have witnessed how a drunk person, surrounded by a crowd without noticing anyone, suddenly began to do what he could allow himself in a sober state, being only in complete isolation. His world narrowed down to a circle a meter or two in diameter. For such a person, the range of information perceived from the universe for the analysis of the state is so narrow that it cannot even be compared with an animal.

Or another case: saying “this is not fashionable!”, you pass by very warm, comfortable and practical things ...

Opportunity filters - a person is unable to visit places, purchase books, or talk to people who are sources of information.

In connection with the foregoing, a person in its mass has a wrong idea of ​​the environment, that is, a distorted worldview. It is not complete. Moreover, the information we have is distorted. So it happened historically, or we were born as a species with a wrong idea about the world, or it happened due to our delusion, or it was someone from the outside (the director of the menagerie?) who gave it to us, today it doesn’t matter so much! It is important that our worldview does not give us a correct idea of ​​the world and, therefore, a very painful conclusion for a person: having an incorrect worldview, we, as a biological species, are not correctly aware of ourselves and behave accordingly in relation to the environment.

And according to this, if we do not change ourselves, we will be forced to disappear as an unnatural (unnatural) phenomenon. This is not a postulate of faith or teaching, this is not a prediction or prophecy, this is the real material need of the world to get rid of what is contrary to nature. Or in another way - we will eventually destroy ourselves. The elementary desire to survive should make us take an interest in phenomena that are outside the sphere of our current interests.

Imagine: the watchman in the menagerie went on a spree and the animals, being in cages (That is, we), and being not free in search of food, are doomed to extinction!

What is the mind and how can we see the light, how to see correctly ... or acquire the correct vision of the world - a worldview, the answers to all these questions are material, as well as their solution. In order to see the light and look at the world correctly, it is enough for a drunkard to stop drinking and one morning, waking up, to see what a mess he left after drinking, as well as what needs to be done to clean up this mess, prevent the next drinking, get a job, to distribute the debts accumulated during the booze, start a family, put yourself and things in order. Leave behind offspring. It's real? I think yes! You just need to make an effort.

At the same level of effort, there is a solution to almost all human problems. For example, having abandoned pride (not to be confused with pride!), a person stops blocking incoming additional information that he did not allow for consideration, considering his opinion unsurpassed, and his vision of the world expands.

Recognizing that there are many sources of true information, you just need to skillfully separate the truth from the husk, a religious person takes off the impenetrable cocoon of religion, and begins to accept a huge amount of additional universal information, which greatly increases the information potential that a person was deprived of, limiting himself to the postulates of religion. Having once admitted that the authority of modern science is not so unshakable, turning to the experience of ancestors, a person suddenly acquires a huge layer of experience of previous generations and understands what an abyss of information was inaccessible to him.

And so, gradually clearing the consciousness, a person expands the circle of vision - horizons. All of a sudden, he begins to feel that the depressing psyche, which means interfering with the vision of the world, the substances he takes - cigarettes, alcohol, other drugs and factors - TV, newspapers, computer, Internet, fashion, gambling and much more helped him to be in a state of suspended animation. Having excluded all this from his life, a person will wake up one day sober and see what kind of mess he left after suspended animation, as well as what needs to be done to clean up this mess, prevent the next drinking, get a job, pay off the debts accumulated during the drinking, start a family, put yourself and things in order ...

That is, you need to understand the main thing: everything that is stronger than a person must become weaker. Man must rule vice, not vice man!

People think that for insight you need to do something.

In fact, you need just the opposite - to stop doing something!

Watch TV, drink, smoke, be proud of your superiority, deny other faiths and religions, deny the existence of a mind outside the earth, consider modern science unshakable and unambiguously true, believe the news ... act unreasonably and much, much more. At the same time, a change in worldview is not something bodily-material.

The world order is self-sufficient, it exists regardless of our delusions and distortion of consciousness. We, having an incorrect worldview, do not represent the correct world order. It is hidden from us behind distortions. Now imagine the reverse situation: the distortions are slowly disappearing. And our outlook gradually turns and becomes correct. We will perceive this change as a process of curvature of the existing worldview, that is, a distortion. You need to have some courage and a stable mind in order to correctly endure the process of correcting the worldview, and bringing it to the true. At the same time, you need to understand that much will have to be left behind and abandoned forever! For example, holidays with the use of alcohol ... any ... and in any quantities. Life without TV, fashion. Relationships between people without lies, deceit, bank loans without interest... business activities without profit... a society without rich and poor... The most important thing is that this is not a fairy tale and not the delusions of an idiot! This is how our ancestors lived before the baptism of Rus'! Many thousands of years...

At first glance, today it is absolutely impossible, but this is from the point of view of a distorted worldview. From the point of view of true reality, such a concept as loan interest has no right to exist. And he really wasn't. In Rus', he appeared after 988 AD. In Japan, China, it is practically non-existent today. Prior to this, having developed economic internal and external relations, Russia had no idea about the existence of loan interest. Drinking alcohol and smoking tobacco was introduced in Rus' by Peter 1. that is, 300 years ago. Televisions appeared in the 20th century. So talking about the impossibility of life without these perversions does not make sense!

From the point of view of rationality, these human perversions, their essence and harmfulness are visible to everyone. But not everyone is strong enough to give them up. And that's just the point. It is clear that after the refusal there will be a break - we have been sitting on the needles of television, fashion, prestigious and others for so many years that we involuntarily merged with them. But for the sake of our children, for the sake of the future of mankind, we will do it right? A child is born and grows up in an environment of worldview prepared for him by adults. And over time, he accepts both their worldview and lifestyle. Seeing the distorted organization of society around him, even a reasonable person succumbs to the influence of the majority and accepts the proposed scheme of life. If someone suddenly begins to see clearly, the system pulls him back. Therefore, insight and change in worldview should be universal and, if possible, one-time.

The most important thing today is still not even an understanding of what should change in our worldview, but an understanding of how we will make these changes.

And here it is necessary to repeat: there is no need to do something! You need to stop doing unreasonable acts. As a result, our consciousness, devoid of constant oppression, will wake up by itself.

A person would not have fallen into insanity if our ancestors had not begun to accept seemingly harmless and invisible perversions into their lives - a small loan interest, cultural drinking of alcohol, harmless fashion, the wealth of some and the poverty of others, prestige, smoking. Now you need to turn on the back! If humanity does not want to disappear from the face of the earth, as a biological species, it is forced to switch to a reasonable, rational way of life. This is only in conditions of conditional loneliness in space. If we finally admit that we are not alone in space, then this will also require combining efforts and increasing their effectiveness.

It is vital to understand one simple thing: everything that leads to the separation of people who are the indigenous inhabitants of the planet earth - husband and wife, father and son, neighbor and neighbor, Russians with non-Russians - contributes to the sleep of the mind.

This division into male and female mentality, rich and poor, capable and not so! Successful and unsuccessful, beautiful and scary, distant and close, high and low... It is much more difficult to get rid of it than everything that was before. But in the face of the danger of extinction, we simply must unite as in "Madagascar" - zebras and lions, hippos and penguins! It's not even about water! The point is whether we will live at all or not!

So the conclusion is simple:

1. To acquire a true worldview, you need to exclude factors that depress the psyche from your life.

2. Organize your life based on the principles of reasonableness and expediency within the power of everyone. It just takes effort to change yourself.

3. It is much more correct to treat other representatives of the biological species "House of Reason" as future comrades-in-arms in relations with representatives of other civilizations.

And now about the zoo.

We have what we have! Only what we have is ours and only we are free to dispose of it - the last will: to die or not to die! There is no third!

tell everyone how to change mindset! And let it be done what our enemies fear:

Let someone wake up... let someone speak...

What to do?

If you are sitting in the cinema hall, you understand the essence of the events taking place on the screen, causal relationships, foresee the outcome and are ready to give recommendations to the heroes of the film ... But being in the film itself, you do not see this ... and your affairs are not so good. We cannot influence the director by playing by his rules.

The main thing that humanity needs to do today is to go beyond the limits of the game - into the hall, and from the outside look at the events taking place in its life. It is simply vital for us to form a correct idea of ​​the world and the events taking place around us. At the same time, we must correctly realize our place in society, nature and in the universe and our destiny. For a correct understanding of the world, we must clean our physical filters - expand the ranges of the organs of world perception - vision, hearing, touch. Further, humanity is simply obliged, for the completeness of the information perceived from the universe, to remove the social filters leading to the division of society - the jealousy of religion, political prejudice, sexual and racial differences, everything that cuts off the flow of information from the universe and narrows the horizon. After that, having acquired the ability to recognize true and false information, humanity or each individual individually will form the most complete and correct idea of ​​the world order.

Today, the picture of the world for earthlings is approximately as follows:

Many thousands of years ago, on the earth, located on the periphery of the galaxy, there was a developed civilization of our ancestors. After the planet entered the dark arm of the galaxy, earthlings lost the support of the center of galactic light forces. Aggressive Dark Ones approaching the earth, mastering the art of mental suggestion, pitted earthlings against each other and they destroyed civilization in terrible wars. After that, the dark ones continue to control science, culture, and, most importantly, the information used on earth. Having created a controlled group (a secret world government) from the chosen earthlings, and having given them a certain amount of information and technology, the dark ones control the civilization of earthlings and direct its development in their own interests, through the monetary financial system, means of genocide, information means - religion, teachings, beliefs. To do this, they rewrote history, replaced science, moral guidelines. The main goal is to seize the resources of the planet and their development by the hands of enslaved masters.

Management of today's humanity is carried out at the level of thoughts. To date, several self-regulating systems for controlling humanity have been created to prevent its insight into the receipt by the latter of information dangerous to the dark.

1. Psychiatric hospitals. It is worth declaring someone crazy and any information coming from him will not be perceived by anyone. The ease of being accused of inadequacy makes it easier to hide "dangerous" information.

2. Authoritarianism. The human system for accepting reliable information is based on the authority and merit of individuals offering information. No authority can not be a carrier of serious information. This significantly narrows the circle of information carriers in our understanding.

3. Evidence. Information not proven accepted evidence is not considered reliable. The cumbersomeness of the existing methods of proof involves the "write-off" of a huge amount of reliable information in the category of unreliable.

4. Mass character. Information not accepted by the majority of votes shall be deemed not accepted.

5. Fifth column. The presence of hybrids and modified dark people among people allows the latter to form the necessary tastes for humanity - fashion, life priorities, lifestyle, attitude towards their own kind (people), and thereby reduce the possible resistance of humanity through disunity, wars, irreconcilability, greed and much more .

Today's idea of ​​humanity about the world order is modeled and supported by the dark ones. Therefore, the existing worldview of mankind does not imply ways of getting out of the control of the dark and mastering the independent control of the planet. Mankind is capable of resistance… the trouble is that the majority of people have no idea about the true state of things. It does not see the enemy, the purpose and method of resistance, the poverty of the real state of affairs.

For this reason, the following is essential today:

Stop the oppression of the psyche that interferes with the correct vision of the world -

  1. stop drinking, smoking, taking drugs, getting rid of compelling habits. Open your eyes and start looking.
  2. not to get involved in dubious scandals and troubles associated with the mass opposition of man to man - wars, pogroms, conflicts, especially on ethnic grounds.
  3. get rid of financial dependence - loans, debts to the banking system, the state. In fact, a handful of managed bankers.
  4. to study the true history of their people, state, clan, humanity. This will help to create a correct picture of the relationship of peoples on earth before outside interference.
  5. to reconsider the impact on life of global intoxicating factors - ideological - religions, teachings, theories of the structure of society, to identify and discard the false ones from them. Correct - unifying.
  6. change the worldview and, in accordance with this, the way of life, interests, values. People cannot be enemies to each other.
  7. on the basis of all of the above, accept that humanity has a common enemy, in the face of which humanity must unite, understanding that all past grievances arose with the complicity and intrigue of this very enemy.
  8. discard all thoughts of a possible peace treaty with the dark forces in order to avoid war, knowing that humanity is food for them.
  9. clearly imagine that all unreasonable and inhumane actions in relation to itself, humanity performs under the influence of the mental influence of the dark ones. Therefore, continuously control your thoughts and emotions, guided by universal ethics of harmonious existence.
  10. Remember that the Temlyans are much weaker than us physically and in the ability to be creative.

Having the right worldview, you will see who is responsible for soldering, economic and informational oppression of mankind, ideological and historical genocide, the destruction of the human species, a reasonable person. Salvation is in uniting people!

Earthling, help Earthling! Wake him up!

Otherwise we will all die in our sleep. tell everyone what they don't talk about. Someone wake up...

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1. I want to tell you what sociologists don't talk about.

1. The existing world order on planet earth.

7. The position of the earth in the world hierarchy of planets.

8. The true rulers of the planet earth.

10. Science on earth and beyond.

13. Where can you learn to learn.

18. I want to tell you something that culturologists don't talk about.

20. Priorities of managing humanity.

25. Directive Alain Dulles.

26. Harvard project.

28. Fracture.

30. I want to tell you something archaeologists don't talk about.

37. Who arranged the Genocide for us?

38. How the ROC conducts genocide.

39. What do the ROC and the CIA have in common?

40. What kind of science does Harvard do?

42. A few words about rationality.

48. How to change the worldview?

Materials used in this work

"public safety concept"

Petrov K.P. Zaznobin V.M. Efimov V.A.

Secret CIA Blue Book Project

Secret CIA project "Harvard Project"

"Academy of Information Science and Applied

Ufology" Vladimir Azhazha

Volga group for the study of anomalous phenomena "

Gennady Belimov

Development Fund "Third Millennium"

Bible; Koran; Slavic-Aryan Vedas

Archival data of the registry office of the Russian Federation

It happens in life that everything around seems gloomy and gloomy: houses, people, everything that surrounds. It seems that the whole world is currently set against you, while you don’t like anything and everything is bad. How to change the worldview and start living better than before with new outlooks on life?

However, it is worth considering whether everything around is really so bad, or whether everything is not all right in you, and you are confused and you urgently need to change something. After all, sometimes changes come only when internal changes become a reality. Only in this case, a person begins to enjoy life and live fully. And all that, maybe you need to change your worldview?

Before talking further, it is worth understanding the understanding and concept of worldview. The worldview itself is the whole set of principles, one's own views and assessments of the environment that determine the general understanding of the world and the people in it, as well as life concepts, one's own and other people's behavior. Worldview is necessary for a healthy consciousness of any person.

If your life experience of interacting with different people turned out to be sheer negativity and disappointment, you should not think that all people are like that and treat them in the same way as those who once offended or betrayed you. And this is exactly what happens to you, all the ideals that have been built since childhood are destroyed by you, and there is no feeling that it could be otherwise. However, change your mind! Then life will be joyful.

How to change the worldview, where to start? Start with yourself, find out what exactly you don't like about your environment and other people. Try to answer the question: Why? Perhaps in this way there will be answers, the solution of which will help to change from within.

If this does not help, refer to various sciences: philosophy, psychology, conflictology, look for answers to your questions in them. Since the wrong worldview consists not only in negative experience, but also from ignorance of some life truths and rules of behavior and interaction.

Finally, understand that everything around you is silently “screaming”, change your outlook! But even such attempts may remain futile and unanswered. How then to change? Then, initially you need to pull yourself together, calm down and go to a good psychologist. He will definitely be able to influence your worldview and reveal those secret knowledge and your problems that you sometimes don’t even know about.

Speaking about contacting a specialist, many immediately abandon this idea for one simple reason, that not everyone correctly understands the specifics of the work of a psychologist. Moreover, a large number of people do not know the difference between a psychologist and a psychiatrist, and often confuse them. However, this makes it difficult and impossible for people to access their own help and certainly does not change the worldview.

So the difference in specialists is as follows: a psychiatrist deals with people with mental illness and extremely asocial deviations; a psychologist works only with healthy people who are confused and cannot find a way out of the situation due to not knowing the basics of psychological interaction with people and the world as a whole.

Therefore, do not stop halfway, go to a specialist and change your outlook! Then you will be able to correctly assess any situation in which you may find yourself and find the keys to the perception of people and things in a global vision.

Perhaps your vision of things is catastrophically wrong and delivers a lot of negative experiences and suffering just for your understanding and attitude.

School of Yuri Okunev

Good day to all! With you again Yuri Okunev.

Have you ever had a strong feeling that something in your life needs to be changed? On some subconscious level, do you feel that you are not following the path you dreamed of?

If so, then it will be extremely useful for you to learn how to change your worldview, because it is precisely this that often prevents us from moving in the intended direction. As a result, at some point we find ourselves far enough away from the wonderful life that we saw in our dreams. And before it's too late, this situation must be changed!

If you remember that the worldview is, then you can change this system by changing the angle from which you look at everything that happens around and inside you. It is extremely difficult to do this. Especially those who have already developed a whole arsenal of habits, attitudes and opinions. But if you really want to change your life for the better, then you have to start with yourself.

For example, you will need to learn to perceive strangers in a more positive and friendly way. Or, let's say, overcome the fear of public speaking. It may be necessary to abandon the wait-and-see tactics like "I'll sit on the shore, wait until the corpse of the enemy swims by" in favor of the method "I'll go and defend my rights now." And so on.

As a result, at least you will get invaluable experience. Well, ideally, you will become a happy person who lives the way he likes. Tempting, right?!

Belief System Correction Mechanism

I offer some general rules that will be appropriate in absolutely every case. Such a step-by-step instruction for correcting the worldview.

Step 1. Understand yourself

You ask, is it possible to change ingrained views? And how! But first you have to find out what exactly in the current situation does not suit you. Why did you even think about the need for change? What confuses, alarms, upsets? Now think about why.

For example, you don't like your job. You have a good salary, a pleasant team, a polite understanding administration (yes, dear, you are lucky!), But every morning you have to literally force yourself to drag yourself to a hated office. Perhaps you dreamed of working in a completely different field? Perhaps you prefer a more active/inactive schedule? Perhaps there is not enough opportunity to express your leadership / creative / organizational skills?

Step 2 List #1

After you have roughly outlined the problem, write a list of the things that need to be changed.

If we continue to work with the example already taken, we get:

  • Change scope of work.
  • Find a job where you could dangle from one end of the city to the other all day / sit at a table, sort through papers.
  • Find a position where you could command / create / work calmly.

Step 3 List #2

Now you need to make a checklist of more specific tasks that you need to solve in order to get what you want.

For example:

  • Express your wishes regarding the desired job to your boss. Perhaps the solution to the problem will be simpler than you expected.
  • Write a new resume taking into account new job requirements.
  • Send out resume.
  • Monitor companies that may be of potential interest to you.
  • Make a direct mailing of resumes.

Step 4 List #3

I will be infinitely happy if your desires coincide with your capabilities. But this does not always happen. Therefore, most likely, you will have to make a parallel list of what needs to be changed in yourself in order to achieve what was planned.

  • Conquer the fear of change.
  • Become more active and purposeful, confident.
  • Sign up for trainings for managers/organizers.
  • Go to refresher courses.
  • Learn a new profession.

After all the points are indicated, you will have no choice but to strictly adhere to them. Do not forget - now a new life begins for you, and therefore leave old habits, fears, beliefs in the past.

Auxiliary tools

Good films, articles and books that aim to motivate a person will provide very powerful informational and psychological support. Suitable for you:

  • Biographies and memoirs of people who have achieved success on their own: Franklin, Ford, Jobs, Akio Morita, Richard Branson, etc.
  • Works about the nature and mechanisms of our psyche, the sources of our fears, doubts and inspiration: Nikolai Kozlov, Eric Bern, Viktor Frankl, Ron Hubbard and many other authors have already done tremendous work in this regard.
  • Research papers on the development and functioning of society, health, financial well-being.
  • Life-affirming books that give a powerful charge of optimism and hope for the best. From this row « Seagull named Jonathan Livingston» Richard Bach, or « How to become the best version of yourself» Dan Waldschmidt.
  • The following articles, in which I will give a more complete list of inspiring and world-changing books and films.

In addition, you will find powerful theoretical training and strong practical support on my website.

This article contains 7 rules for those who want to become happy and achieve something in this life. Are you one of those? Get comfortable.

No. 1. Mirror Rule

The people around you are your mirrors. They reflect the features of your own personality, often not realized by you. For example, if someone is rude to you, it means that you want it that way, you allow it. If someone deceives you again and again, then you have a tendency to believe anyone. So no one to be offended.

No. 2. Choice Rule

You realize that everything that happens in your life is the result of your own choice. And if today you communicate with a boring person, does it mean that you are the same boring and boring person? There are no bad and evil people - there are unfortunate ones. If you rake in their problems, then you like it. So don't complain to anyone. You are the reason for everything that happens to you. You are the author and creator of your own destiny.

No. 3. Error Rule

You have to accept that you can be wrong. Not always your opinion or your actions other people should consider correct. The real world is not only black and white, there is also light gray and dark white. You are not ideal, you are just a good person, and you have the right to make mistakes. The main thing is to be able to recognize it and correct it in time.

No. 4. Matching Rule

You have exactly what, and exactly as much, what you correspond to, what you deserve, no more, no less. It concerns everything: relationships with people, work, money. If you cannot love a person to the fullest, it is ridiculous to demand that this person love you the same way. So all your claims are meaningless. And at the same time, when you decide to change, the people around you also change (for the better).

No. 5. Dependency Rule

Nobody owes you anything. You can selflessly help everyone you can. And you enjoy it. To be kind, you have to be strong. To become strong, you must believe that you can do everything. Although, sometimes you need to be able to say “no”.

No. 6. Presence Rule

You live here and now. There is no past, because every next second comes the present. There is no future because it doesn't exist yet. Attachment to the past leads to depression; preoccupation with the future breeds anxiety. As long as you live in the present, you are real. There is reason to rejoice.

This article contains 7 rules for those who want to become happy and achieve something in this life. Are you one of those? Get comfortable.

No. 1. Mirror Rule

The people around you are your mirrors. They reflect the features of your own personality, often not realized by you. For example, if someone is rude to you, it means that you want it that way, you allow it. If someone deceives you again and again, then you have a tendency to believe anyone. So no one to be offended.

No. 2. Choice Rule

You realize that everything that happens in your life is the result of your own choice. And if today you communicate with a boring person, does it mean that you are the same boring and boring person? There are no bad and evil people - there are unfortunate ones. If you rake in their problems, then you like it. So don't complain to anyone. You are the reason for everything that happens to you. You are the author and creator of your own destiny.

No. 3. Error Rule

You have to accept that you can be wrong. Not always your opinion or your actions other people should consider correct. The real world is not only black and white, there is also light gray and dark white. You are not ideal, you are just a good person, and you have the right to make mistakes. The main thing is to be able to recognize it and correct it in time.

No. 4. Matching Rule

You have exactly what, and exactly as much, what you correspond to, what you deserve, no more, no less. It concerns everything: relationships with people, work, money. If you cannot love a person to the fullest, it is ridiculous to demand that this person love you the same way. So all your claims are meaningless. And at the same time, when you decide to change, the people around you also change (for the better).

No. 5. Dependency Rule

Nobody owes you anything. You can selflessly help everyone you can. And you enjoy it. To be kind, you have to be strong. To become strong, you must believe that you can do everything. Although, sometimes you need to be able to say “no”.

No. 6. Presence Rule

You live here and now. There is no past, because every next second comes the present. There is no future because it doesn't exist yet. Attachment to the past leads to depression; preoccupation with the future breeds anxiety. As long as you live in the present, you are real. There is reason to rejoice.