What to read on self-development. Independent development of a woman

A reasonable person always strives for knowledge of the world and himself as a particle of this world. Many books have been written on this subject. After all, each of us is trying to become better in order to use our hidden potential more fruitfully in the future. Acquaintance with the best works on philosophy, psychology and the creative development of the individual contributes a lot to the self-development of the individual. Literature News offers a selection of self-development books organized around the area you want to focus on.

Of course, the first step in self-development should be clearly defined in the choice of priorities. Self-development includes many directions, and in order to best do this difficult, but extremely useful thing, the first thing to do is to clearly define for yourself what exactly is most important to you at this life stage.

The main topics of self-development include:

philosophy of life;
Practical psychology;
classical fiction;
Physical development;
intellectual development;
Creative development;
Business

Alexander Sviyash. “What to do when everything is not as you want”

Books on the philosophy of life for self-development

El Tat. "Medicine for the Soul"

St. Petersburg psychologist under the pseudonym El Tat published a book for those who are tired of the endless cycle of modern life, driving the weak into the narrow framework of inevitability. But there is no weakness, it is only a state of mind that can and should be changed for the better. The book El Tat contains simple truths about health and happiness, popularizes knowledge about the world and man, formulated by Hermes Trismegistus, and also contains the author's judgments about humanity and the world.

Valery Sinelnikov. "The mysterious power of the word. Love Formula".

The book introduces the reader to an effective strategy for verbal coding for success, health and well-being, and even reveals the essence of the mysterious formula of love. After all, our whole life is governed by words. It is only important to choose the most appropriate words for any particular situation.

Alexander Sviyash. "What do you do when things don't work out the way you want?"

The popular psychologist Alexander Sviyash in his book, in a simple and intelligible language, sets out his unique methodology, diagnoses problem situations and gives practical advice for understanding the causes of events. With its help, the reader will learn how to correctly form the desired events in his life.

Barbara de Angelis. "Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know"

Practical psychology for self-development gh

Vasilina Veda. "Practical Psychology for Women".

The essence of the book is in its title. The author will help you gain popularity as the most charming and attractive woman. This book is for those women who want to learn how to always please the people around them, to reveal the true potential of a real Woman.

Andrey Gnezdilov. "Smoke from an old fireplace"

A well-known Petersburg doctor and storyteller has created a wonderful book about fairy tale therapy. After all, any fairy tale is a concentrated wisdom. The author's philosophical tales, written in the best traditions of classical and modern fairy tales, will help the reader cope with difficult situations that often ruin people's lives.

Barbara de Angelis. "Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know"

The popular author of psychological literature in his book gives ten simple tips for women that will help them feel confident and happy even in the most difficult situations that arise in the process of communication between a woman and a man.

Classical fiction for self-development

Margaret Mitchell. "Gone With the Wind"
Lev Tolstoy. "War and Peace"
Gustave Flaubert. "Madame Bovary"
William Shakespeare. "Romeo and Juliet"
Alexander Ostrovsky. "Dowry"

Classical works of world fiction do not need additional advertising. In each of them, in one form or another, the complex life collisions of the characters are presented. For centuries, people have been experiencing life with unflagging interest along with the heroes of these books, relating themselves to them, reflecting on the loyalty of their actions. This is exactly how a new life experience is acquired - watching the heroes of books, who often look more alive and real than the people around the reader. Also, the undoubted advantage of classical literature is their film adaptations, made by the masters of world cinema. After all, all of the above books have been transferred to the screen more than once.

Books for physical self-development

Bernie S. Siegel and Peter Calder. "Eye of rebirth"

Simple and affordable 6 initial exercises aimed at rejuvenating the body are very effective. Doing them, along with recommendations on proper nutrition and the properties of various food combinations, is quite capable of prolonging your youth and adding vigor.

Lucy Lydill, Narayani Rabinovich and Giris Rabinovich. New book on yoga. Step by step guide»

The book is a simple and accessible yoga tutorial that allows you to perform simple yoga exercises at home, even without a yoga mentor, which at the initial stage will be completely replaced by this book, which includes asanas for children, pregnant women, and the elderly, as well as breathing exercises. There is a large illustrative material that facilitates the perception of the book.

Books for intellectual self-development

Charles Enel. "Master Key"

The classic book, written at the beginning of the 20th century, is dedicated to the system of creative thinking created by the author, which gives a concise and clear statement of the laws that underlie any success. After all, each of us creates our own reality.

Edward de Bono. "Teach Yourself to Think: A Self-Teacher for the Development of Thinking"

Thanks to the five stages described in E. Bono's book, the reader can turn his brain into a powerful thinking machine by learning to correctly structure and effectively use the process of processing data entering the mind.

Stanislav Muller. "Unlock Your Mind: Become a Genius!"

Becoming a genius is not as difficult as it seems. The super-learning technology proposed in this book by Stanislaw Müller? will allow you to turn on hitherto unused reserves of your mind, regardless of age and temperament.

Books for creative self-development

Julia Cameron. "Artist's Way"

The book is recommended for the development and disclosure of the creative abilities of the individual. It will be especially useful for those who are too suspicious and not sure of their talent. The book is a practical guide, the methodological course is designed for 12 weeks of interesting classes.

Stephen King. "How to write books"

The recognized master of literature in a simple and accessible form shares with the reader the secrets of creating really interesting texts. The book is read with the same pleasure as his works of art, there are living examples of semantic and stylistic mistakes made by other authors.

Books for self-development in business

David Allen. "How to Get Things Done"

According to the author, the ability to relax is often no less important than the art of concentrating on problems. The book is dedicated to developing the ability to structure events, the right organization, clear priorities and overall planning.

Yuri Moroz. How to start your own business. Beginner's Guide".

Would you like to open your own business? In this case, you will need a book by Yuri Moroz, a well-known business coach and consultant, the creator of his own distance learning methodology for business. It will be useful for both students and beginners, as well as those who already have experience in private business.

Frank Bettger. "From a loser to a successful businessman"

Frank Bettger. "From a loser to a successful businessman"

The book by F. Bettger was once recommended to readers by none other than Dale Carnegie, and this says a lot. The highest paid sales agent in the United States at the time shares the secrets of his successful transactions, helping the reader to believe in himself.

Oh Mandino. "The Greatest Trader in the World"

The book in a fascinating way introduces the reader to the laws of money and personal success. It is considered one of the best books on personal improvement in the field of selling and overcoming the difficulties associated with it.

Napoleon Hill. "Think and get rich"

The book of the famous philosopher and psychologist of success Napoleon Hill, based on personal life observations, has been a bestseller of literature on business self-development for more than 70 years. Thanks to her, you can build a clear plan for your personal success in life.

Robert Kiyosaki and Sharon Lechter Rich Dad Poor Dad.

The book is loaded with useful business advice, although it doesn't provide specific instructions for action. Instead, the authors give a field of accessible, sometimes anecdotal examples from life. Indeed, for a successful struggle for well-being, first of all, you should know the laws of how money works.

In search of effective techniques for personal effectiveness, Chris Bailey undertook an ambitious project - during the year he researched and tested many methods on himself: for example, he worked 90 hours a week, meditated 30 minutes every day, used a smartphone only an hour a day and tried to live in complete isolation. For his book, the author selected 25 of the best ways to increase productivity that helped him. Using them, you will stop, rake up the rubble of affairs, learn to prioritize and achieve goals.


2. Mikhail Labkovsky “I want and I will: accept myself, love life and become happy”

Psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky is absolutely sure that a person can and does only what he wants. This book is about how to understand yourself, find harmony and learn to enjoy life. After reading it, you will be able to realize why your life does not turn out the way you want it to; you will understand at what point something went wrong, and you will be able to solve your problems with the help of specific tips.


3. Barbara Sher “It's high time! How to turn a dream into a life and life into a dream

If you have long dreamed of a job that gives you something more than a salary, or wanted to do your favorite thing instead of a dull career that does not bring you any joy - it's time to start! In this book, Barbara Sher offers simple and specific instructions to help you become successful and happy in your business.

4. Douglas Moss, Narbut Alex “Dale Carnegie. A Complete Course in Communication Techniques

This book contains all of Dale Carnegie's most important advice, collected in 33 lessons. But the most valuable thing here is the excellent practical exercises for working out the Carnegie principles, chosen so that the algorithms for successful communication are “embedded” in your speech, thinking, and behavior. Also in the book you will find many exercises to awaken creative abilities, the ability to maintain peace of mind in any circumstances. A useful book for those who want to not only know Carnegie's success tricks, but really learn how to apply them!

5. Larisa Bolshakova “Communicate correctly! How to pick up a key to any person. 64 tips of the master"

A person who owns the secrets of effective communication will certainly succeed in any field. Moreover, this person will become happy! Because the path to happiness is also the art of communication, finding joy and appreciating what you can do! The book will tell about the main laws of communication, which allow not only easy and free contact with other people, but also learn how to manage your life. Effective exercises help you quickly learn how to apply the advice of a psychologist in real life!

6. Mason Curry “Genius Mode. Daily routine of great people

Beethoven and Kafka, George Sand and Picasso, Woody Allen and Agatha Christie, Leo Tolstoy, Henry James, Charles Dickens, John Updike. Writers, composers, artists, choreographers, playwrights, philosophers, cartoonists, comedians, poets, sculptors… After reading this book, you will understand how to turn on the “genius mode” and create masterpieces with willpower and everyday work, without waiting for the mythical muse. Besides, you know what tricks famous people use to focus, gather their will, get down to work, keep faith in themselves - and achieve those outstanding results that everyone will talk about.

7. El Luna “Between need and want. Find your path and follow it"

A vibrant book that will inspire you to find and follow your true calling. His own path inspired the author to write a manifesto about the difference between “need” and “want”, which was shared by 5 million Twitter users and read by hundreds of thousands of people. “I wanted to send it to all my employees,” wrote one executive who read the article, “but realized that a third of them would leave if they read it. But you know what? If they don't want to work here, they need to quit - that's why I sent out this article."

8. Libby Weaver “Squirrel in the Wheel Syndrome. How to stay healthy and save your nerves in a world of endless cases

Poor health, fatigue, coupled with guilt for not having time, is an inglorious reward for a woman's participation in the daily race imposed by the modern pace of life. What happens to our health when we demand too much from ourselves, you will learn from the book of Dr. Libby Weaver. She not only talks about the impact of stress on the female body, but also offers effective strategies that will help you stop being a "squirrel in the wheel."

9. Jack Schafer and Marvin Karlins "Turning on the charm according to the methods of the special services"

Former special agent tells how to please people, read their behavior and influence them. The book covers all the techniques you need to win friends and make a good impression - with clients, potential employers during a job interview, members of the opposite sex on a date. These strategies have worked and are working for the special services, which means they will work in "peaceful" conditions.


10. Nigel Cumberland “Don't regret anything. And 99 more rules of happy people"

One hundred chapters in this book will help you achieve success in anything. Success can be associated with any area of ​​life or work: work and career development, relationships and family, personality and character, well-being and finances, health and tranquility, training and education, and much more.
In each chapter, you will learn about one of the rules that successful people follow. The first page of the chapter contains a description and explanations, and the second page contains exercises. Start working with them today to tune in to the mindset, habits, and behaviors that lead to success.
we consider them successful.


11. Jeff Sanders Good morning every day. How to get up early and get everything done

This book is for those who want to wake up in the morning and be energetic and productive every day. The author offers a lot of useful tips, tricks and proven methods that will help change your life for the better. Each chapter has a section where the author describes the problems you may encounter, as well as gives simple recommendations on how to stay on track and avoid obstacles.


12. Carol Dweck “Flexible Mind. A new look at the psychology of development of adults and children”

Carol Dweck decided to write the book after her students literally insisted that she share her findings from 20 years of research with the world. From this book you will learn why intelligence and talent do not guarantee success; how, on the contrary, they can stand in his way; why rewarding intelligence and talent often jeopardizes achievement; or managerial productivity.


13. John Gray “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. How to think more effectively. Practices for the development of your brain "

Have you noticed that you can’t focus on actions or thoughts in any way? Responsible work or a serious conversation was waiting for you, and you were full of enthusiasm to do everything “excellent”, but ... after a few minutes you were distracted by Facebook, email, snacks ... The brain is overloaded with information, you are tired, but the work is worth it, and becomes successful someone else. John Gray, by the way, author of the bestselling Mars-Venus Relationship, has done thousands of studies to find brain-enhancing, memory-enhancing, concentration-enhancing, and performance-enhancing agents, and now he's unveiling some truly revolutionary ideas!

14. Eliezer Sternberg “Neurology. What explains the strange things that we do unexpectedly for ourselves?

Can't recognize an optical illusion? Do you hear voices in your head? Don't remember what you did last summer? Our brains are not capable of such tricks. Eliezer Sternberg, an experienced scientist and neuroscientist, writes about the anatomy and physiology of the brain, about the psyche (healthy and not), human relationships and other complex topics in a very accessible, engaging and gentle humor. The book contains many amazing facts from the personal medical practice of the author.
After reading it, you will learn to understand your own behavior and actions, even the most inexplicable ones, learn a lot about the causes and consequences of other people's actions, and also replenish your knowledge of a powerful bizarre computer "embedded" in your head.

15. Miyamoto Tetsuya “KenKen. Japanese brain training system

KenKen is a Japanese brain training system that will help improve memory, attention, and logical thinking. KenKen was invented by Yokohama teacher Tetsuya Miyamoto. At first, he just wanted to help the students, to make sure that they were not bored in the lessons. But as a result, he invented an intellectual simulator for the brain, which is already loved and known by 3,000,000 people in Japan and the USA, Australia and Germany, India and the United Arab Emirates. "KenKen" in Japanese means "wisdom squared". KenKen has been scientifically proven to improve cognitive abilities in young people and keep the brain active in people over 30 years of age.


16. Sveta Goncharova "Online Career for Moms"

Sveta Goncharova, founder of the popular online resource for moms www.flymama.info, knows from her own experience how difficult it is to find your own business and become successful. In her book, she gives a guide to action. What do you need to be prepared for when starting work on the Internet? How to be successful in your business? What can be done right now? The author also analyzes in detail the options for earning money for moms on the Internet. He tells how a traffic specialist differs from an SMM specialist, what affiliate programs are and how you can earn money with them, how to open your own online store, whether blogging is profitable and much more.

17. Twyla Tharp “The habit of working together. How to move in one direction, understand people and create a real team”

An indispensable book for leaders, managers and anyone who wants to learn how to work in a team. The author tells how to build teamwork in a company, how to communicate and collaborate with different people (with friends, with institutions, work outside your control, with virtual partners, with those who are higher than you in status, work with "poisonous" partners) and offers a lot of practical advice.


18. Daniel Smith, Think Like Bill Gates

Already by the 1980s, Bill Gates had turned his company, Microsoft, into one of the most successful on the planet. All this was due to his talent not to follow demand, but to anticipate the development of the market and anticipate events. The products created in Gates' company have actually completely captured the market, and there is no room left for competitors. Time magazine named Gates one of the 100 most influential people of the 20th century, and the extraordinary biography of Bill Gates will serve as a good example for anyone who wants to develop their business, achieve career success, and realize the most ambitious plans.


19. Clark Duncan, Alibaba. History of world ascent»

An insider's revelation of how one man built a global corporation that can stand up to giants like Walmart and Amazon. In just ten years, Jack Ma, a former English teacher, founded and built the Alibaba Group, whose shares broke records in 2014, reaching $25 billion. This book is not exactly a biography of Jack Ma. And certainly not a guide to conquering the planet. This is an inside view, a unique opportunity to get acquainted with an unusual entrepreneur, to recharge his ideas and energy. And see another world.

20. Fedor Konyukhov "My way to the truth"

The legendary Russian traveler Fyodor Konyukhov became the first person on the planet who managed to cross the South Pacific Ocean “from continent to continent” by oars. 160 days and nights of struggle, trials, incredible perseverance and amazing endurance! What does a man think about when he crosses the Pacific Ocean alone in a rowboat? How do you overcome fear and doubt? What draws strength and determination to continue the journey, despite mortal fatigue and danger? What is happiness according to him? In the book, Fedor confesses to us about this journey, about his thoughts and feelings, about the truths that he found in his faith and in God. Freedom without borders, available only on such a journey, allowed Fedor Konyukhov to open a unique path of self-knowledge, so that each of us would open our soul to God and find him there.

3. Important years

Someone calls the years from the twentieth to the thirtieth the second youth, someone - the beginning of adulthood. Dr. Mag Jay, a clinical psychologist, claims that this is the most important decade in a person's life.

In her opinion, during this period it is worth thinking seriously about work, love, physical and intellectual development. A smart and constructive book about years that should not be wasted.

You are waiting for real stories from life and fresh scientific research. As well as the observations of psychologists, sociologists, neurologists, economists and top managers involved in personnel policy.

4. Dreaming is not harmful

A bestseller with 35 years of experience on how to make dreams come true. This legendary book will help you discover your strengths and hidden talents, and then chart the path to your goal and realize your plan.

Barbara Sher is sure that becoming the creator of your own life is easier than it seems. You just have to be bolder: dream, read, do.

The book is really worthy of admiration (no wonder it came out in 1979 and is still popular). It is written to make you a winner. A person who gets what he wants.

5. Development of willpower

A book for those who want to learn self-control and become the master of their own destiny.

Renowned American psychologist Walter Mischel talks about how to develop willpower and apply it when faced with everyday challenges: the need to lose weight, stop smoking, prepare for dismissal and other important problems.

The publication is included in the top 100 Amazon.com in the "Cognitive Psychology" section.

6. Mindsite

Many people suffer from "mental traps": obsessions, mood swings, anxiety, unpleasant memories. How to get rid of these problems and become a happy person?

Psychiatrist Daniel Siegel talks about an important skill that can change your life for the better. This skill is the ability to focus on your inner world and abstract from the "autopilot" - ingrained irrational habits.

The real stories from the book prove that we have the power to change ourselves, our brains and our lives.

7. Memory does not change

Neuroscientists say that there is no good or bad, short or long memory. There is memory well or badly trained.

“Improving memory is not only possible, it is also interesting,” says psychologist Angels Navarro. You will agree with this statement when you see the fun brain training exercises in this book.

By doing them, you will not only train your memory, but also develop other cognitive abilities, which include attention and thinking.

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This book will help you get rid of overwork and stress. The author, a productivity expert, explains how to stay energized for 15-19 hours of wakefulness and not feel tired.

Work days will no longer seem too heavy and busy for you, and in the evenings you will be active enough to take care of personal goals.

A book for everyone who wants to do more at work and find time for family, recreation and hobbies.

9. An easy way to stop procrastinating

This book will be useful to anyone who constantly puts off difficult and unpleasant activities, and then tries to do the impossible in one day.

Renowned psychologist Neil Fjork has been procrastinating his clients for 30 years; and he believes that procrastination is a symptom of deeper phenomena, namely loss of motivation and perfectionism.

10. Never Eat Alone

Forbes magazine called the author of this book "one of the most sociable people in the world." And for good reason: Keith Ferration is the No. 1 networker. He, like no one else, knows that the most important skill in business (and not only) is the ability to build relationships.

The period of a person's education is not limited to the years spent at the school desk. To achieve success at work, in personal life and in communicating with other people, it is worth it. The book has always been considered the best teacher. What to read for self-development? Here is a selection of 40 fiction and popular science works worthy of becoming a reference book for a modern person.

Classics: 9 fiction books for all time

  1. Antoine de Saint-Exupery. "The little Prince". A fairy tale written by a French pilot for children should be read, first of all, by adults. The work teaches to truly love and make friends, and also makes you look at the world of adults through the eyes of a child.
  2. Bulgakov Mikhail. "The Master and Margarita". A mystical novel that is difficult to perceive, in which two storylines are intertwined - the events taking place in Moscow in the 30s of the last century, and the last days of the life of Jesus Christ.
  3. Gabriel Garcia Marquez. "One Hundred Years of Solitude" A work-parable by the Spanish author, leading to the idea of ​​how important it is to value and protect family ties in a world of people doomed to loneliness.
  4. Green Alexander. "Scarlet Sails". A romantic story about a naive girl, Assol, waiting for a prince on a white ship with scarlet sails. People do not understand it and shun it, but one day they will see - dreams come true, if you really believe.
  5. Dostoevsky Fedor. "Crime and Punishment". A socio-psychological novel that conveys the feelings of a student who killed an old woman for profit. Fear and remorse force him to admit his guilt, demanding just retribution.
  6. Orwell George. "1984". The most famous dystopia in the literature of the 20th century, describing a world where a totalitarian regime reigns. The story in the novel is fictional, but the author managed to analyze it so deeply and describe it in detail that it seems realistic.
  7. Leo Tolstoy. "War and Peace". The era of romanticism in the Russian Empire is a period of tender feelings and passionate confessions, balls and duels, and also a war going on with Napoleonic France. One of the best works of Russian literature captivates not only with the intricacies of the plot and a vivid description of battle scenes, but above all with the philosophical reflections of the author.
  8. Erich Maria Remarque. "Three Comrades". The novel takes place in Germany in the 1920s. But the hardships of the post-war period are just a background in the work, on which an inspiring story of love and friendship unfolds.
  9. Hemingway Ernest. "A Farewell to Arms!". The best book about the First World War, which makes one realize the value of human life, as well as love, which seems like a mirage in moments of near death.

In the world of psychology: 10 books that change people

  1. Napoleon Hill. "Think and get rich". The bestseller, first published in America back in 1937, has been reprinted 42 times and is still among the top sellers. For those who want to become successful and rich, the author of the articles advises to take 13 specific steps and get what you want.
  2. Allen Carr. "An easy way to quit smoking." A legendary book in which the author described the technique that he himself developed and quit smoking with its help. The method has changed all the habitual ideas of smokers that only the strong-willed can say goodbye to cigarettes forever. It is based on unobtrusive psychotherapy, which the reader does not even notice.
  3. Brian Tracy. "Get out of your comfort zone." This is a practical guide from a well-known business coach. From the book you can learn about 21 methods to improve personal effectiveness. The implementation of the rules proposed by the author in life will allow you to better manage your time and yourself.
  4. Miller Sharon. "Stress tolerance". The reason for many failures in the business and personal sphere is the inability to adequately respond to crisis situations. The book will teach not only to calmly experience stressful conditions, but also to make them useful.
  5. Ekman Paul. "Psychology of lies, lie to me if you can." How not to become a victim of psychological manipulation? What words and gestures betray a lie? The answers to these questions will be of interest to everyone - from a housewife to a politician.
  6. Keith Ferrazzi. "Never eat alone." A collection of articles on networking - an effective communicative technique that allows you to quickly establish friendships and through them solve life's problems.
  7. Robert Sutton. "Don't work with the f***." Loafers, egoists, manipulators, hooligans - there are many people who interfere with productive work. But the main thing is that you have to coexist with them. How to deal with destructive team members? Which of them can be changed, and which one is better to part with?
  8. Covey Stephen. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. In his book, the successful entrepreneur and motivational speaker introduces readers to the intricacies of self-improvement. The author teaches how to set goals correctly, lists the skills inherent in a leader.
  9. Chaldini Robert. "The Psychology of Influence". The popular science work that glorified the American scientist opens the door to the complex world of interpersonal relationships. The book is worth reading for those who want to better understand others and their motives, learn how to influence people.
  10. Frankl Victor. "Say yes to life" The book-revelation, written for those who have lost their life orientation, lost faith in their abilities. The work is based on the personal observations and experiences of Viktor, a psychotherapist who went through the Nazi death camps.

Ten books for self-development of men and women

Most men would like to see themselves as successful, determined and attractive. What topics are of interest to the representatives of the stronger sex? Memoirs and biographies of famous people are not only entertaining, but also educational. Useful information for yourself can be gleaned from manuals on imageology, the psychology of personal and professional growth.

  • Barbara de Angelis. "Secrets About Women Every Man Should Know"
  • Waldschmidt Dan. "Be the best version of yourself!"
  • Gray John. "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus".
  • Larsen Eric. "On the limit".
  • Machiavelli Niccolo. "Sovereign".
  • Rand Ayn. "Atlas Shrugged".
  • Seelig Tina. "Make yourself".
  • Flusser Alan. "Real man."
  • Humes James. "Secrets of Great Orators".

Women are concerned about what clothes to wear to look stylish and attractive. In addition to fashion, they are interested in the basics of healthy eating and cooking, raising children and relationships with men. Modern ladies are not alien to the problems of professional growth.

  • Blumenthal Brett. "A Year Well Lived"
  • Brodsky Danielle. Diary of a Business Woman.
  • Grace Natalia. “Work, money and love. Guide to self-realization.
  • Goodman Amy. “We put it on, we throw it away.”
  • Lowndes Leil. "How to make anyone fall in love with you."
  • Tim Gunn. Fashion bible.
  • Fat Natalya. "Duel with treason".
  • Harvey Steve. "You don't know anything about men."

There are many interesting books. All of them, both artistic and scientific, develop the intellect, aesthetic taste and spiritual qualities of a person. That's why it's important to keep reading and keep a close eye on what's new.

Today in our article we will try to answer the question of what books to read for self-development. Such publications are now very popular, as they can help a person not only with the definition of a life goal and its achievement, but also improve relations in the family and society, win over others, and achieve inner harmony. But which options should you pay attention to?

What book is worth reading for self-development?

First, let's turn to publications that are suitable for reading by both men and women. Basically, such books are aimed at helping the reader achieve his goal. Moreover, this goal can be in the field of business, love relationships, interaction with society, or personal gaining peace and confidence.

"Rich dad, poor dad"

So, which book should you read for self-development in the first place? It's best to start with this world bestseller by Robert Kiyosaki. The basis of the book was a comparison of the business views of Robert's father, who was a civil servant, and his friend's father, running his own business. As a result, the latter became a rich and successful person. It was his path to success that Robert himself chose, who achieved considerable success in business.

"Money Ceiling Quadrant"

This book was also written by Robert Kiyosaki. But this time the work is devoted not so much to business as to the thinking of rich people. The author helps readers understand how rich people think. What helps them work less and earn more, pay low taxes and feel financially independent.

The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Stephen Covey, the author of this book, offered a completely new look at management systems and the very concept of leadership in a team. This book presents an approach to improving your personal effectiveness. The author calls skills a set of knowledge, skills and desires. And the 7 skills presented in the book are arranged in ascending order depending on the level of maturity of the individual.

"To hell with all of it! Take it and do it!

So, what other book is worth reading for self-development? This is, of course, the work of Branson Richard. The book is a kind of manifesto of the author, it reflects his position in relation to life. Richard suggests taking everything from life, not being afraid to take risks and act. At the same time, it does not matter at all whether there is enough life experience or knowledge to implement the plan. The main thing is not to stand still.

"How to Win Friends and Influence People"

This is the most popular and famous book by Dale Carnegie. It is a collection of practical tips and lessons on how to communicate with people. At first glance, the book may seem a little strange or unusual, but it works. Another reason to read this manual will be the fact that it is still used to teach psychology in universities.

“How to work 4 hours a week, while not hanging around in the office “from call to call”, live anywhere and get rich”

If you want to achieve success, but do not put off all the joys of life until later, and do not know what book to read for self-development, this is the work of Timothy Ferris for you. In the book, the author sets out a philosophy of life, according to which there is no need to put off entertainment and spend all your time on work. A person must see his goal, go towards it, but not deny himself all the joys. The book will teach you how to cope with life situations and achieve success without spending 24 hours a day and 7 days a week on it.

"Psychology of lies"

The author of the book is one of the most famous modern psychologists Paul Ekman. The subject of his study has always been the phenomenon of deception. This popular science publication presents the results of many years of work. The reader will be able to learn how to recognize deception by the behavior, speech, facial expressions and gestures of the interlocutor. This book is a study guide and practical guide.

"How to make anyone fall in love with you"

The author of the book Lail Lowndes tells readers that in order to be attractive to everyone, you need only 6 ingredients. It is 6 components that are necessary for success, about what they are, the reader will learn after reading the book. In addition, Lowndes shares 85 tricks that will help you master love magic and win over any man or woman.

"Your neighbor is a millionaire"

Many people often wonder why I am not as rich as my acquaintance or friend; how others manage to earn so quickly and so much, etc. Stanley Thomas, the author of the book, will provide answers to these and many other questions. In addition, the author will teach you how to become successful and rich. Many useful tips for improving your financial situation can be found in this book.

Spiritual development

  • Particular attention should be paid to Osho, the Indian spiritual teacher. His works help to find harmony and comprehend the world around. First of all, it is recommended to read: "Mustard Seed", "Be Simple", "Keys to a New Life". The writer's books on meditation techniques are especially popular.
  • Books by Louise Hay, based on the personal experience of the writer. Particular attention should be paid to the works "Heal Yourself" and "Woman's Wisdom".
  • The author of many world bestsellers Liz Burbo will be interesting: “Your body says: “Love yourself”, “The Big Encyclopedia of Essence”.
  • Vadim Zeland and Valery Sinelnikov are especially popular among Russian writers.

Books for women

Now we will try to answer the question of what books a woman should read for self-development.

"Man is from Mars, Woman is from Venus" - a bestseller by the famous psychologist D. Gray, published back in 1992. The book is devoted to the relationship of the sexes and will give answers to many questions regarding personal relationships.

"Running with the Wolves" is the famous book by the master of psychoanalysis and the successor of the Jungian tradition, Clarissa Estes. With the help of myths and fairy tales, the author helps women find themselves, find their way and understand their destiny. This book is dedicated to the full disclosure of female nature.

These are the publications that should be read first of all by any woman. But what books are worth reading for self-development if you are already familiar with the above? Pay attention to the following works.

"Never Eat Alone" is a wonderful book by Kate Ferrazzi dedicated to the rules of dating and continuing relationships.

"Blackberry Wine" by J. Harris will help you sort out life if you no longer understand what is happening around you. The publication will help to find the meaning of life and understand what is happening.

"Duel with treason" - a book by N. Tolstoy intended for women who had to deal with treason. How to survive it, what to do and how to treat it - these and many other questions can be answered by this publication.

The Intuition Tutorial is a book by Laura Day that will help you learn to listen to yourself.

Books for men

"An easy way to start a new life" (N. Fiore). If you decide to change your life in a radical way, then you should start by reading this particular book. It will help you go the chosen path to the end and not turn halfway. You will learn not to put things off until later and unnecessarily complicate your life.

"The wisdom of the crowd" (J. Shuroviesky). It is generally accepted that the society, called the "crowd", harms the individual. However, the author proves that society can help the individual in development and formation. How this happens can be read in detail in the book by James Shuroviesky.

"Do it yourself" (T. Seelig). This is a book about how to achieve success and reach your goal. The author assures that anyone can achieve a lot, but it is necessary to start small. The path to a big goal should consist of small tasks, and the implementation of each of them will bring you closer to the final goal. In fact, the author offers a ready-made algorithm of actions that you just need to use.

"The monk who sold his Ferrari" (R. Sharma). This is a book for men who find themselves in a crisis situation. The author tells about a successful lawyer who had everything for happiness, but for some reason there was no happiness. Robin Sharma, who managed to combine Western psychology with ancient Eastern wisdom, will tell about how to get joy and pleasure from life.

What books should a teenager read for self-development?

Children and adolescents, by virtue of their age, develop by reading fiction. It is difficult and uninteresting for them to perceive philosophical or psychological literature, even if it is written simply and accessible. Therefore, we will present a list of fiction books that will help a teenager develop his intellect and enrich the spiritual world.

"Harry Potter" (J. Rowling). Fiction is interesting for children at any age, and books about young wizards also "grow" along with their readers. The heroes are not only involved in incredible adventures, they are also worried about common problems for children: the definition of good and evil in ordinary actions, the value of friendship, first love, family ties, etc. In addition, if you are answering the question of what books to read for self-development at 12, then the Harry Potter series is for you.

The Catcher in the Rye (J. Salinger) is a book created for teenagers and describes the life of a teenager. The work is focused around typical teenage problems: misunderstanding of the world and others, an attempt to find the truth, finding oneself, searching for the meaning of life, etc.

"D" Artagnan and the Three Musketeers "(A. Dumas). Adventure literature has always been attractive. In addition, it teaches friendship, devotion, duty, loyalty to one's word, and makes clear the value of moral principles.

In addition, you should pay attention to the following works:

  • The Hobbit, The Lord of the Rings (J.R.R. Tolkien);
  • "The Fault in the Stars", "Looking for Alaska" (J. Green);
  • "50 days before suicide" (S. Kramer);
  • "Percy Jackson" (R. Riordan).

Timeless classic

If you want to know what books to read for self-development, the classics are the best answer. In many ways, classical fiction is superior to modern non-fiction psychological and motivational books. Here is a list of works that you should definitely pay attention to:

  • "Idiot", F.M. Dostoevsky;
  • "Dead Souls", N.V. Gogol;
  • "Eugene Onegin", A.S. Pushkin;
  • "Divine Comedy", A. Dante;
  • "Romeo and Juliet", W. Shakespeare;
  • "Madame Bovary", G. Flaubert.

Thus, there are a great many books for self-development. You can choose for yourself publications both among popular science literature and among the classics.