Self-love is rather arrogant than blind; it does not hide our miscalculations from us, but it convinces us that these miscalculations are invisible from outside.
Samuel Johnson
Spoiled people suffer terribly when their selfishness is wounded.
Robert Walser
Vanity is a property of weak and vicious natures, while reasonable pride is inherent in people who are quite decent.
Nicola Sebastian Chamfort
Having become the property of man, the animal appeases his vanity.
Luc de Clapier Vauvenargues
William Hazlitt
So much is said about the fact that Christianity does not presuppose anything human; it presupposes something, namely self-love.
Soren Kierkegaard
Self-love and love of glory are the best evidence of the immortality of the human soul.
Kozma Prutkov
The performance of the enterprise pleasantly tickles pride.
Kozma Prutkov
The greatest of all flatterers is self-love.
François de La Rochefoucauld
In people, the qualities that they possess are not so funny as those that they claim to be.
François de La Rochefoucauld
To do justice to one's virtues in private is as reasonable as it is ridiculous to exalt them in the presence of others.
François de La Rochefoucauld
François de La Rochefoucauld
A narcissistic person is something between a fool and an impudent person: he has something of both.
Jean de La Bruyère
A narcissistic person is one in whom fools see an abyss of merit.
Jean de La Bruyère
Voltaire
We have very different properties
But there is one thing for everyone:
The Lord gave us self-satisfaction,
So that we do not spend money on poison.
I. Huberman
He who does not respect himself is unhappy, but he who is too pleased with himself is stupid.
G. Maupassant
We must learn to love ourselves - with a healthy and holy love, in order to remain true to ourselves and not lose ourselves. And truly, this is not a commandment for today and tomorrow - to learn to love yourself. On the contrary, of all the arts, it is the most subtle, the wisest, the highest, and requiring the greatest patience.
F. Nietzsche
A person without self-love is worthless. Self-love is an Archimedes lever that can move the earth from its place.
I. Turgenev
He who loves himself has no rivals.
B. Franklin
Everyone loves himself not in order to receive any reward for his love, but because everyone is dear to himself. If the same is not applied to friendship, then we will never find a true friend; after all, a friend for everyone is the second he himself.
Cicero
Each person has his own aspirations, his own ambition; the only difference is that among stupid people, ambition is also stupid and directed in the wrong direction, while among smart people, ambition is legitimate and worthy of all praise.
F. Chesterfield
Immeasurable pride and conceit is not a sign of self-esteem.
F.M. Dostoevsky
Our self-esteem will squeeze through any crack.
William Gaslitt
It takes a lot of pride to not show it too much.
Pierre Marivaux
Our first and last love is our self-love.
Christian Bowie
Of all human passions, the strongest is pride, which, when offended, never forgives.
V.G. Belinsky
Self-love can become a vice or a virtue, depending on the tastes and passions of a person.
Claude Helvetius
Self-love is a balloon inflated with air, from which storms break out when it is pierced.
Voltaire
Our self-esteem suffers more when our tastes are condemned than when our views are condemned.
François La Rochefoucauld
We cannot ignore the contempt of others: we have too little pride.
Luc de Vauvenargues
By the way older women are proud, who no one likes anymore, one can judge what their pride was in their younger years.
Nicola Chamfort
Love is stronger than pride: a woman can be loved even when she despises you.
Luc de Vauvenargues
The most proud people are the people who don't love themselves.
Nikolai Berdyaev
To be jealous means to make it clear to another that you see her as a rival. I won't give anyone that kind of satisfaction.
It is not necessary to exterminate only skillful rivals, some of them pretend to be sheep, so it is worth getting rid of everyone.
No need to be jealous if your chosen one has a lot of fans. It's vulgar and stupid... It's better to admire the fact that you know how to choose!
A rival is a creature aimed at the same prey as you.
Best Status:
Do you want to annoy your rival? – Give her a custom set of underwear. Let her put on a larger bra and decide that she has small breasts, and in tight shorts her ass will seem just huge!
My dear, you apparently didn’t understand something ... you are not my rival ... he can smile at you as much as he likes and follow you with his eyes ... but he will always love only me alone ...
I bought a short leash for my rival. Let him climb into the booth and not bark.)))
I'll probably give my opponent narrower panties and a more voluminous bra. Let him try on and doubt his perfection !!!
Girls will not be friends with those who pose a threat to their relationship with a man.
You can at least take a picture of your p * zda and put it on your ava ... Remember, dear, - he is mine!
You know, because from him someone will have a son - it will be the most beautiful boy in the world, I swear. Only if I think about it, mom, I'll go crazy.
Went with a friend. To meet us with her ex with her new girlfriend. Come up. I started a conversation with him, and a friend so contemptuously says to his girlfriend: “Turn away, please, I’m afraid of horses!”. Killed.
Well, how are you with her - well? And me with him too, everything is like in a fairy tale. I love him too, and every day I change masks.
And I don't want to kiss you. No. Why do I need this, because you love her ... I want to hug her. Just hug. And cry heartily. Shoulder. And everything...
When I communicate with his girlfriend, I put brackets, depicting a smile, and she does the same to me. Kind of a nice conversation. But I'm sure, leaving us alone with her, they would strangle each other. And I would win!
It often happens that in our own game we become losers, and some pawn, knocking with his heels, takes away your king.
Do you want to walk with me on different sides of the street? Look, do not confuse! Let's face it - fuck you, chicken!
Yes, you can shout to the whole world that he is yours, and I'm just an ex. But at night he writes to me “sweet dreams my girl”. And you just “want you pussy”, feel the difference!
He tells her that he is going to drink beer with friends, and he comes to me with ice cream and flowers ... And why is he still not with me?
When I see my “rivals” I cry… FROM LAUGHTER!!!
A woman needs 45 minutes to evaluate her opponent and only 45 seconds to evaluate a man.
The heart of the best woman remains merciless to the suffering of her rival.
A young girl caught a golden fish. Rybka says: - Ask for whatever you want, only your rival will get exactly twice as much. - I want to have one line.
Kapets. There are such people ... How often do I fall in love ... And she begins to flirt with him. (And she has more chances. Because they study at the same school ... It's a shame. I love him very much.
His girlfriend says that he still loves me ... I told her that I love me too ... But why the hell are you still with him?
Listen, before you start flirting with my boyfriend. First, I would pay attention to my legs ... Your legs are like the legs of my chair!
My classmate has a boyfriend. They hold hands and kiss. But I like him and it hurts me to look at it. But when she cried because of him in front of my eyes, I really wanted to punch him in the face ...
I don’t pay attention to my rivals. (c)
You look at me, you talk about me to different people, but you yourself with another who is trying to become my friend, how difficult it is for me, but it’s not sweet for you either. 🙁 But I love you.
How my heart hurts now. I called the guy, and he with the other. She laughs merrily into the phone. Creature, but I love ...
Going overboard with jealousy can ruin your relationship, as none of your rivals would have ruined it...
Only I see the difference when he writes to me “Baby, come soon, I need you. (We are separated by thousands of kilometers). And to her - "I love you, will you give me a blowjob?"
A rival is a trash who wants the same thing as you
I like to look at 2 things ... at the water and how my rival is drowning there
You started this game and took me as your opponent, I was sure of my victory, but I did not take into account one simple thing: you did not tell me how to play YOUR game. . . But I will learn, I promise.
The best gift for a rival: a small bra and big panties, let her know that she has small breasts and a big ass!
The best gift for a rival: a small bra and big panties... Let her know that she has small breasts and a big butt!
When they betray, you can say to yourself “So they are fools if they didn’t understand that I’m better”, when they envy you can say to yourself “it means I’m better than them”, but how to justify yourself when a person who is both smarter and more beautiful? This rival tramples self-esteem into the ground
A young girl caught a golden fish. Rybka says: - Ask for whatever you want, only your opponent will get exactly twice as much. - I want there to be one strip.
A real lady expresses her attitude towards her opponent with just a glance.
When I see him with her, I want to say in verse: "The gorilla is coming, the crocodile is leading."
Jealousy is self-doubt. A woman in love with herself has no rivals.
Well, yes ... You're right, I'm far from her ... She's beautiful, her boobs are big, she will always give you ... And I ... I'm just sincere, and I can always understand ... And you go and fuck with this whore ...
I am very happy for them, they feel good and have fun together, she is perfect for him ... I will kill the bastard!
His ex called me a chicken… Yeah… Baby, it’s better to be a chicken than a bug-eyed blonde with an uneven layer of foundation (spots) and glued eyelashes… And in the pictures you always have pouty lips…
she is the one who first achieves a guy, and when she succeeded. . . . and a guy with her. It is only then that she realizes that she liked the race for this guy: to remove rivals, to figure out where to meet him, and to be closer to him, she gets to know his friends. yes, it is the race for him. and not a guy. . . And now she is looking for a new target. .
I am looking for a rival in the game of strip checkers
His ex-girlfriend hates me... Constantly trying to spoil... What could this be talking about? Tell…
It seems to me that real friends are those who start to like the same guy, they do not become rivals, but even vice versa ...
I know that now you are with her, but still this is our holiday. You hear, it is ours, because deep down in your soul you still remember me, I know. But I understand that you have a habit of her! and let me smear tears on my cheeks here. I wish you great love! But you are forever in my heart.
I'm not so bad when I see you with your girlfriend ... I'm in a good mood and I don't care about you.
the worst way to fall in love unrequitedly with a guy is a gay ... there are certainly no chances and there will already be not rivals but rivals ...
if she is a rival, her stasis becomes crooked legs, a small body and a big ass + she is also either a tall or a dwarf
Another woman, when she is cheated on, kills her rival in the arms of the traitor and dies herself by suicide or on the scaffold. The other endures, suffers and is silent; this is true love, this is the love of an offended angel, majestic, proud love, love that feeds on its own tears, without complaints and without murmurings.
You are not my rival - he only sleeps with me. And I'm your rival - he's cheating on you with me.
Pleasure is when you see him with a new girl and realize that you are much better than her!
And God forbid you not to know sadness from the malicious jokes of fools. And God grant you not to know sadness from swords, uniforms and mustaches. And so that you do not overshadow your rivals with false beauty. And so that uniforms, swords and mustaches always lie at your feet!
Girls, your ex-boyfriend's girlfriend may not be ugly, but I bet you've imagined beating her in front of everyone more than once.
She has the status “I love myself, I have no rivals”, I am your strongest rival.
come on, baby, let's put on tuli tomorrow and .... let's go crush rivals!!!
Status for those who at least once dreamed of pulling an opponent by the hair, or just an idiot who brought out ...
A woman in love with herself has no rivals ... (c)
Fools, I can not be jealous of you. They are jealous of rivals, and you are just miserable dust on the toes of my shoes - unaesthetic, but He himself will wipe them off for me
I never considered her my rival, as she is just a pathetic stereotype of his past...
Another woman, when she is cheated on, kills her rival in the arms of the traitor and dies herself by suicide or on the scaffold. The other endures, suffers and is silent; this is true love, this is the love of an offended angel, majestic, proud love, a love that feeds on its own tears, without complaints and without murmurings.
Yes, there are many women, but there are more rivals ...
A girl finds a needle in a haystack to prick her rival...
I'm not afraid to confess my love to him .. Not a .. Not a bit .. It's true .. And he will know that someone in this world loves him very much .. This will give him confidence, strength .. And someday she will thank me for it. 🙂
He spends time with me, we walk, we communicate. But he has a girlfriend. He puts her statuses and writes that he loves. And she has 4 of these, and you have 5 ... But I just love you. (
Women's happiness is a bald rival ...
Yes, you can shout to the whole world that he is yours, and I'm just an ex. But at night he writes to me: “Sweet dreams, my girl”, and you just: “I want you pussy” - feel the difference!
When they betray, you can say to yourself “So they are fools if they didn’t understand that I’m better”, when they envy you can say to yourself “it means I’m better than them”, but how to justify yourself when a person who is both smarter and more beautiful? This rival tramples self-esteem into the ground
never blame your rival for stealing your passion. either the passion is a whore in itself, or you are bad in a relationship!
And girls, think like that when a new guy appears and you go with him, and his ex walks past you and she thinks: “Damn, because his new girlfriend is scary! How could I be worse!”
A woman casts three glances in the mirror - to see herself with her own eyes, the eyes of a man and the eyes of a rival.
At that moment, leaving red marks on your neck, I whispered to myself that I love more than life.
I really want you to accidentally call her by my name, and she exclaims: “Who is this creature ?!”
in love with herself ... has no rivals)
A sober look at things, contacts, classmates and photos saves me. What saves me is a reckless evening and that my rival is a freak. I am saved by bright lipstick, two layers of mascara and long eyelashes. Mountains of chocolate and the night when you stopped dreaming me save me!!
Do you know what the difference is between me and her? She is spring, I am summer. She was next to you in front of everyone, violating decorum and publicity. I was your quiet madness, which few people knew about.
For treason: An Englishwoman - throw herself into tears, a Frenchwoman - will kill him, an Italian - drown herself, a Spaniard - will kill herself, a German - will kill a rival, a Russian - will find another.
she is the one who first achieves the guy, and when she succeeded .... and the guy is with her. Only then does she understand that she liked the race for this guy: to remove rivals, to figure out where you can meet him, and what to be closer to him, getting to know his friends. yes, it was the race for him., and not the guy ... And now she is already looking for a new goal ...
Crap! Sometimes you think, well, how can he like it? But I so want to be in the place of this ...
I'm sad that he's with someone else! But I know he's not happy.)
How difficult it is to see him with another girl... I was trying to get him for almost half a year, and some kind of squirrel-tail lured him in just a few minutes... No, well, where is the justice?!
Here you look at the girl of your ex and think: God, what an ugly woman and so you sit with your girlfriend and slander her pictures, in which she is beautiful ...
I’m glad that everything is fine with you, even if not with me ... After all, I love, which means I wish you happiness ...
In love with herself, she has no rivals.
Laughter prolongs life. Looking at the photo of your new girlfriend, I will live forever.
No, it doesn't hurt me at all. It's just a shame that mine will now belong to someone else.
If your rival says that she is white and fluffy, let her go to the solarium and shave.
I have a companion. Well, nothing, a brick in the face will cool her ardor for my boy. (C)
Girls don't have friends, they only have rivals....
I will take my rival to the mill, grind her into flour and bake cakes!!!)))
If you want to equalize your opponent (rival) with sea level - do not deny yourself this pleasure =)
No, no honey! I won't kill your new girlfriend! I have many friends! They will do it for me!
I want it so much, I want it so much ... Pull out all the hair and gouge out the eyes of that bitch who flirts so nicely with you!
The best gift for a rival: a small bra and big panties. . . Let her know that she has small breasts and a big butt!
Although it is not destiny for us to be together, but you will never be in my place and know that he forgot me, just because I wanted so!
No longer together! But as soon as I find out that he has another ... I immediately try to find out who she is and what she eats with! What for? After all, despite the fact that I love him ... I don’t plan to be with him anymore ...
If you can't see it in your eyes, read your lips, I'll never give it to you!
A woman will even find a needle in a haystack to prick her rival!!!
You started this game and took me as your opponent, I was sure of my victory, but I did not take into account one simple thing: you did not tell me how to play YOUR game ... But I will learn, I promise.
He who loves himself has no rivals.
B. Franklin
Exit to the ice to the stormy applause of the fans, who do not spare their hands, meet Him. A failed jump and a grimace of pain, the athlete's face twisted.
60 seconds. Exactly that much time was left before the start of Evgeni Plushenko's short program at the Sochi Olympics.
A champion with a capital letter, who leaves the ice far from being a champion. An athlete who brought Olympic gold in the team figure skating competition, but did not risk his health or, perhaps, his reputation in individual competition. A man who confidently declares that only he could represent Russia in men's skating, and that he needs a fourth Olympics. Is he now a champion in the eyes of the public?
Many will defend Plushenko for a long time to come, saying that health is more important, that he acted like a real man, agreeing to go to the next Olympics in his career, recalling broadcast footage where his wife Yana Rudkovskaya sighs in her invariable pink hat with earflaps, puffed out cheeks.
On the one hand, of course, Plushenko decided to save his back, assembled in detail, on the other, why did he need this Olympics? For a farce? Remind yourself? Will he establish himself in his own eyes and in the eyes of Yana Rudkovskaya?
If you followed the news at least a little bit, behind the words of Plushenko himself, you would probably notice how he remembers, at any opportunity, that he underwent 12 operations.
Imagine that you start each day by telling others about how you often broke your arms as a child, or how many times you fell off your bike. Represented? Now tell me, will you be afraid to sit on a bicycle or disturb your hand? I think yes.
According to the psychotherapist and doctor of medical sciences L.P. Grimak, “self-persuasion is one of the most effective psychological tools for self-building a personality, selecting the information necessary for this, overcoming other people’s and alien attitudes, as well as one’s own prejudices that prevent an adequate, accurate perception of reality.”
Plushenko "self-convinced" himself, but, unfortunately, not in the direction he would like.
“I had 12 surgeries”, “I learned to walk again”, “There are four screws in my back”, - all this could be heard from him in recent months. Surely, these words influenced the fans too. After all, it’s a pity for the athlete, but here he is, so injured, so brave, going to the Olympics.
On February 14, the day after the injury, Plushenko's manager, Ari Zakarian, said that the athlete's injury, due to which he left the national team without a medal, would not prevent the skater from going on tour, which starts on March 4, with the program "Show of Champions and friends."
It even made me feel a little better. Exhaled. After all, Plushenko will not recover for two and a half weeks, but for a whole month! A month to heal an injured back, assembled piece by piece and secured with screws. A month - and the skater is back on the ice.
I do not believe that the fourth Olympics in the life of Evgeni Plushenko was not a well-planned PR. Remember the 2013 European Championships in Zagreb, when he also withdrew from the short program due to a back injury, remember how much talk this caused. And as a result, his trip to the Olympics is a hype, no, even a hype! Everyone talks about him, writes, films are made about him, crowds go to him for interviews. He is not forgotten.
I don't know what Plushenko is trying to achieve. But if he finished his performance at the Olympic Games immediately after the team competition, he would not have lost anything, and would have ended his career as a Champion, while giving way to the young.
The skater did it his way. I think he forgot that sport is not a show. In sports, you have to go all the way. The only thing I can advise Evgeny is not to forget that he is, first of all, a man. And if he went on the ice to defend the honor of the country, then he must go to the end, weigh all the pros and cons in advance. And not to leave at the last moment, without meeting the expectations of the country, without protecting its honor.
The Olympic Games are not the place where you need to indulge in narcissism, bathe in your narcissism. The games are designed to identify the strongest among healthy, strong and ready to fight for medals athletes.
What conclusions can be drawn after the end of the Olympics?
The main thing is that Plushenko is alive and can continue to admire himself, giving dozens of shows around the world. The main thing is that he earned money for new operations in Israel. The main thing is that he pleased his beloved wife, who told the media that Plushenko decided to try to compete in individual competitions only for her sake.
“I am beautiful, I am strong, I am smart, I am kind. And I myself discovered all this ”Stanislav Jerzy Lec
Society forces you not to love yourself and be like everyone else: you are a gray mass, you are one of billions, you are nobody. We are told from childhood that being narcissistic is bad. Otherwise, everyone will call you names like a narcissist. Can't love yourself? What nonsense. You are the only one who knows himself well enough. You know what you're worth, but why should you be ashamed of it?
You can deny your strengths and good qualities for a long time, but at the same time you will be unhappy. Accept that you are better than others at something. You are smarter, more beautiful, kinder or stronger. You probably have such character traits that others never dreamed of. You are better than the rest! Don't be afraid to admit it to yourself.
"He who is in love with himself has no rivals" Marcus Tullius Cicero
Narcissistic people have their own enormous advantages.
1. Narcissists believe in themselves.
Each narcissistic person will entrust in his strength and ability to complete any task. He will overcome obstacles and reach the goal no matter what. Narcissists are easier to cope with difficulties, learn from mistakes and always go forward. They believe only in themselves and know that everything in this world depends solely on their perseverance and desires.
2. Narcissists live by hobbies and their goals.
Narcissists choose their own path, and do not follow someone else's. They burn with their talents, hobbies and passions. They devote their lives to fulfilling not other people's dreams, but their own. Narcissists are not witnesses to life, but active participants. They have their own goals, dreams and plans. Narcissists know they deserve more.
3. Narcissists think they're good.
Criticism and failure can undermine the self-esteem of any person, but not a narcissist. He knows he's good enough. The narcissist ignores distractions and listens to his inner voice. He is not afraid to be alone and not like everyone else. He does not need to disguise himself as a gray mass.
4. Narcissists take responsibility
When something not very good happens, the narcissist will not look for someone to blame. He understands that it is pointless to point a finger at the circumstances around him and blame the forces from above for everything. Only the one he sees every day in the mirror is to blame. What to do? Next time you should calculate and develop a plan more carefully. Everything depends on you. But narcissists do not blame themselves for a long time, they already have new ideas and plans.
5. Narcissists have their own standards.
Narcissists live in their world of standards and constantly try to become even better. They do not allow themselves to be manipulated by other people's patterns. They will not do like everyone else for fear of standing out from the crowd. They will not tolerate humiliation of their dignity. They will not be friends, love and sleep with just anyone. They know their value and those around them.
If you want to be successful and happy - love yourself! Be narcissistic and spit on envious losers. If the creator did not want you to be proud of yourself, why did he create you this way? This is not arrogance. You are really good.
