Today I want to touch on such a complex and painful topic as suicide. Is it possible to justify a person who has taken such a step? How many people - so many opinions. In assessing such an act, everyone will proceed from their own convictions, beliefs, knowledge about the life and motives of the suicide. What happens at the Soul level? How do Higher Beings, members of his spiritual family, react to a suicide? Consider this from the point of view of reincarnation.
Why are we given life?
Before becoming a human being, a spiritual entity draws up a contract in which he writes down all the details of his life. It indicates the nature of relationships with other people, their impact on the life of a particular individual. The contract also lays down the difficulties that a person must go through. They can be given for the purpose of developing the Soul or as a working off of karma. The contract also implies the presence of windows of opportunity, using which a person will be able to quickly cope with problems, untie karmic knots and improve his life.
Each new life is given for experience. No matter what, from the point of view of the Higher Beings, there is nothing good or bad. There is simply the experience of living in a particular role. All of us at one time were offenders and offended, murderers and victims, rich and poor, healthy and crippled.
If we come to Earth with a role, we must play it to the end. From the point of view of a person, this role may seem terrible, unbearable. But the living of such an experience is necessary for our Soul. The ultimate goal of each Essence is to reach such a development when it will not be necessary to incarnate on Earth. When all the lessons will be passed and learned.
What happens to the suicide on the other side of the veil?
Since ancient times, suicide has been considered a great crime. The Church calls this a great sin. Such a person was not buried, they were buried without a priest. In past centuries, it was forbidden to bury suicides next to other people; they were given a separate place in the cemetery. Suicides were mourned only by relatives, the rest treated them with contempt. It was believed that they would automatically go to hell.
Although in those days there were religious beliefs, and hardly anyone thought about gaining earthly experience, the attitude towards suicides was terrible. Why is that? Perhaps the memory of your true "I" is not completely erased. Intuitively, people feel what is good and what is bad. What is acceptable and what is not. It is possible that the hidden meaning of such a terrible attitude towards suicide is to scare people who are on the verge of doing the wrong thing.
Contrary to the beliefs of church ministers, suicides do not go to hell. Just because no hell exists, people invented it. Most often they go the same way as the rest, who died for one reason or another. No one condemns or punishes suicides. They punish themselves, because after getting rid of the biological shell comes an understanding of what they have done.
Life is a chance to gain new experience as a result of passing a lesson. The suicide misses the chance, but the obligation to pass the lesson does not disappear. That is, no matter how much you run, you still have to pass the exam. Suicidal people make life difficult for themselves. Each premature departure weighs down the karma. As a result, the lesson becomes more difficult. It's kind of like a game. You can complete it on an easy level, you can do it on an average level, or you can do it on a difficult one.
Most often, suicides do not incarnate immediately. They need time to realize their mistakes, calm down, gain courage to make a trip to Earth again. All this time Mentors work with them. They surround with attention, care, provide the necessary knowledge, help to create a new contract that the lost Soul would be able to fulfill.
Is there an excuse for suicide?
Each case is unique. You can’t just take and make a strict list of when you can kill yourself and when you can’t. Remembering your past lives, some people see and suicide. The reaction to such an action is different for both them and the Angels.
First example. A person lays hands on himself because he cannot get out of a depressed state, it seems to him that he is surrounded on all sides and there is no way out. After death, he sees a few disappointed Mentors, he comes to understand what a stupid thing he has done. There is no justification for such a suicide, a person was obliged to continue to flounder, as a result he would definitely swim up, gain valuable experience and be greeted after death as a real hero.
Second example. The girl decides to drown herself, because her older brother decides to marry her to a rich, but old and vicious man. Parents are dead, there are no other relatives, there is no one to ask for protection. The brother intends to receive a reward for the beautiful sister from her future husband, so it is useless to ask him to change his mind.
After death, the girl hears joyful laughter. It is her mentors who welcome her decision. What's the matter? And that suicide was planned in the contract. This is to teach a lesson to the greedy brother. In this case, the Soul will not be punished, and its suicide will not affect its karma.
Suicide is not considered any special crime if a person commits suicide due to health problems. For example, if he is physically unable to endure pain anymore. Angels treat our sufferings with understanding and sympathy.
But in any case, it must be remembered that no person is given more than he is able to endure. Remember, we ourselves draw up our own contract, which means that we plan all the physical and psychological suffering for ourselves. There are no problems that cannot be overcome. Time will pass, and you will understand what the lesson of these or those trials was.
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Hello. My grandfather is suicidal. Is it true that for this a curse is imposed on his entire family? If so, where can you read about it? How to honor such people? Thanks Hello!
Indeed, according to church tradition, one cannot pray for suicides. The criminality of this sin lies in the fact that the suicide is indignant against the creative and providential order of the divine and his appointment in our world, arbitrarily ends his life, which belongs not only to him, but also to God, but also to his neighbor, and which was given to him for moral progress, and not for abuse of it, renounces all the duties that lie on him and is not called to the afterlife. The life of every man is a precious gift of God; therefore, whoever arbitrarily takes his own life blasphemously rejects this gift. A Christian laying hands on himself offends God doubly: both as Creator and as Redeemer. Such an act can only be the fruit of complete disbelief and despair in Divine Providence. And whoever is a stranger to faith in God and hope in Him is a stranger to the Church. She looks at the conscious suicide as a spiritual descendant of Judas the traitor who, having denied God and rejected by God, "went and strangled himself" (Matt. 27:5). That is why the suicide is deprived of church burial and commemoration. But the descendants do not bear the curse for the sin of the suicide. In general, children are not responsible for the sins of their parents. When they try to resolve the issue of the consequences for children and direct descendants of the sins of their parents, they quote: I am the Lord Your God, a jealous God, punishing the children for the guilt of the fathers to the third and fourth [kind], who hate Me, and showing mercy to a thousand generations to those who love Me and keep My commandments (Ex. 20: 5-6). Here it is definitely said that the Lord does not punish innocent children for the guilt of the fathers, but only those whose own crime (those who hate Me) is successively connected with the sins of their fathers. This understanding is fully confirmed by the following passages:
- Fathers should not be punished with death for children, and children should not be punished with death for fathers; each must be punished by death for his crime (Deut. 24:16).
- In those days they will no longer say: "The fathers ate sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge," but everyone will die for their own iniquity; whoever eats sour grapes will have set teeth on edge (Jer. 31:29-30). Therefore, do not be afraid - there is no curse on your kind! Pray for your father, who committed suicide, you can only in your private home prayers. You have no right to submit notes about his commemoration in the Church, since the Church does not pray for suicides. God bless you!
At the seminars on "Health" and "Love of Wisdom" I already told that from the point of view of healing, our ancestors first divided diseases into mental and spiritual ones, and physical ones are born from both of them.
To sincere all negative emotions were included, and they were divided into categories:
— nav land(acquisitiveness, greed, bribery, lust, gluttony, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the gastrointestinal tract and genital area;
—nav water(touchiness, uncertainty in goals, freezing in development, problems, inability to control speech, inability to agree, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the legs, arms, skin, kidneys;
— nav fire(anger, masturbation, assault, grumpiness, sarcasm, intransigence, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the liver, gall, skin, blood, settles tumors in the body.
— nav air(dreaming, lack of goal setting, action structure, contempt, stereotyping, stereotyped thinking, development in only one profession, etc.) - gives rise to diseases of the lungs, head, lymph.
But to Spiritual illnesses attributed:
- suicide,
- drug addiction
- gambling addiction
- alcoholism,
- smoking,
- polygamy and polyandry,
- inability to be a mentor for children and family,
- not the continuation of generic skills and not increasing the level of their skills.
Since until 2021, according to the modern calendar, new tribal programs are being worked out, we will also have to face the spiritual diseases of the family, and very soon - in this, 2019. Therefore, in the next articles, we will try to pay more attention to this as a team.
Suicide of relatives
So, if you find out that in your family there were single or repeated facts of suicide, then in your life this may manifest itself not only as a similar craving, but also as a difficulty with other spiritual illnesses.
And also, as one woman writes, that all men (in her case, and women of this type will meet a man with such a disease in the family) are attracted with the same inclinations: they cut their veins, try to hang themselves, etc.
And this is not just the karma of the clan - this is the feat that needs to be accomplished, the failed exam, in which there will be more and more tickets for each subsequent generation.
So the question is: “Well, why me?” - inappropriate, because the repetition of such a disease in 9 generations of the genus leads to its degeneration: the appearance of genetic mutations, infertility, mentally incurable diseases, childhood disabilities, etc. In order to prevent the fading and drying of the family tree, everyone must do their best!
Deeds capable of clearing the karma of the family if there was a suicide in the family
1. Discourage suicides- let go of those people who passed away not by God's will, but by their own foolishness (left a violent death).
For these people, it is necessary to perform the rite of Trizna during the year (if there are several such people, then in each rite, commemorate them all). There are special memorial days for this: 30.03-1.04, 14-15.04, 7.05, 29.05, 14-15.07, 7-14.08, 30.08-1.09, 30.09-1.10, 31.10-1.11.
For the ceremony, it is necessary to prepare a funeral meal, set the table, put a candle, put a common dish (if you don’t know how much) or plates according to the number of relatives who died in this way (if you know the number). And also put plates and put food for the living, for those who are in your house.
Have a meal together, before the start of the meal, invite, in your own words, looking into the candle of the souls of these deceased ancestors, show them to their dish (plates) and say:
“Here is food for you, here is holy for you! Eat with us, accept our love. Be filled alive."
After the meal is over, the plates of the living must be removed from the table, leaving only a clean tablecloth, and then open the window or window, hanging a towel on the other side of the window: one end on the street, one end on the windowsill in the house. Wave this white towel out the window 9 times while saying (3 times):
« I wave a towel, but I wish you a good road. Veles God! Help my family: help me guide my soul through Kalinov’s bridge, across the Smorodina river, my soul (say the name, if you know, of the person who died a violent death) to the other side, to Velesov’s meadows, to God’s gates! May it be so!".
After that, the words of the feast for a person are read: these could be appeals to God Veles, there could be special texts of lamentations (see ethnography). For example:
Appeal to Veles
Remember Veles in your meadows
The ancestor of my honest relative (who was called).
And let from old and young
From every generation
My family will accept it.
Lead him, Velese, into the light of Iria,
Make him eternal memory.
Remember him, in the age of the departed
And all relatives in the flesh,
In the age of the departed and in the age of the dead
And give them the goodness of Iria,
Create an eternal memory for them.
Goy!
After the words of the feast, crying, you express to the Soul or Souls what you want, thank her for the fact that he (she) was, gave lessons for the family, knowledge. Leave food until the morning. In the morning, take out this funeral food and feed it to street animals, birds, bury it under new trees: aspen, willow, viburnum. Can't be thrown away! So it is necessary to do at least 9 memorial days.
2. After 9 feasts, you need to do rite of reconciliation of living relatives, so that between them there is no dope that was in your family. Moreover, you continue the commemoration of suicides for a year.
Ideally, if you do this ceremony on April 19 on the holiday of the god Delight, who was responsible for the ability to enjoy life, or on February 16 and 08 on the holidays of God Start (aka Prove among the Western Slavs), which unites the family.
Among those who now live in the house, everyone's hair, a wax candle, a red woolen thread are taken. It is necessary to weave something like a pigtail from a thread and hair. And seal both ends with wax, while saying:
“Like hair to hair lies, tightly and calmly, so you live, do not know grief and rubbish, do not scold each other, do not hold evil, value each other. Goy!
After that, it is good to clean the space of the house in any conspiracy and in an accessible way.
3. Make a joint action with the whole family: On February 16, on the day of the god Start, who mends the world in the family, the whole family does a general cleaning in the house.
The next time, on May 16 and August 16, to plant trees or flowers on any land in honor of those who died through self-violence, and on November 16, the whole family should again do a general cleaning. And the eldest woman in the family these days in the morning should cook dinner, as for a holiday, and as soon as she salts it, she should say:
"Punch, Patch! Let's fix the life and the way, so that everyone is happy for the other, so that everyone is here until they eat a pood of salt. Goy!
4. In order for grace to return to the family, it is necessary make a charmed blanket. It should contain a piece of rags from the things of each relative living in this house. And you can make such a generic blanket or carpet by collecting a piece of cloth from the clothes of all relatives who are currently alive in the family.
5. And it would be nice in honor of the unity of the family embroider a tribal swearing with the image of the World Tree or, whoever masters it, embroider the so-called self-assembly tablecloth, in honor of strengthening the union of the clan and delivering it from various misfortunes.
This is a large tablecloth embroidered, where there is one single image in the entire length of the tablecloth, this is the World Tree with the image of many fruits, flowers, including various fantastic birds. For example:
All these drawings of historical swearers are associated with the adoption of Navi in the family.
How to cleanse the family from mental illness you will learn from the material.
Continuation…
So, our paths parted, but after a couple of years, his wife suddenly called and said that something strange began to happen to her husband shortly after the wedding: he seemed to have gone crazy, and after a short time he committed suicide throwing himself under the train.
I had a hard time believing this story because he was one of the most positive and upbeat people I have ever known.
And now, having started working with the 13th lasso and closing my eyes, I, unexpectedly for myself, found myself on that village road to the cemetery, where the whole wedding procession once went ...
Then there was a passage through the grave deep into the 13th lasso. And I feel that this guy is in front of me. The image was rather blurry. I can just understand his condition. The thought that came is "painful expectation repeated." Further: "A necrotic connection with his mother that formed at that moment (I saw a black silk loop that came out of the grave and wrapped around his neck), dragging him after a while into the world of the dead."
There he was also pushed by a young wife (a version of a black widow), who, as it were, was specially sent to him from above.
I saw the image of Jesus Christ in the crown of thorns and felt the torment of a person who found himself in a similar situation. This image echoed the image of my friend.
Further, the idea came that the relatives of the deceased themselves can send a portion of high-frequency energy from themselves. This will help the soul to purify itself in a shorter time, but it should be exactly light and pure energy, not overshadowed by resentment, suffering and other negative states. Another question: how possible is this for an abandoned person, a relative. Besides, as all of you probably know, it is not customary to commemorate suicides in the church.
In my version, I saw one of the representatives of the Higher Forces. For me, they most often look like ancient Gods. I confess, I am not strong in this topic, so I just perceive what I see, but I understand how great their strength is. At the same time, I always feel like some grain of sand in the universe.
So, a bright beam of white light came from above. After that, the image of the guy was filled with purity and became clearer.
Information has come - this is already a kind of work for me. I can do something for the guy (here you need a certain level of a person through whom this energy can pass - someone who connects these 2 worlds, an intermediary). I transferred (blew) this drop to him.
Then there was an explanation: "She will give him purification and liberation." This will somehow help his soul in a future incarnation.
Then there was the following information: "It will be a kind of filling and karmic decoupling from a past life". I did not understand the meaning of these words immediately, until I saw the image of his mother (who, by the way, I had never seen in my life). The image was quite bright, and I saw a smiling and rather young woman.
Those who work with family problems, karmic situations, etc., know this secret: with positive changes that take place along the line of solving events, the appearance of the “participants” of that time is somehow transformed, which indicates the positive changes achieved according to the situation being solved.
Next thought: "God is long-suffering and merciful(I specifically looked on the Internet to see if I mixed up the words, it turned out that I didn’t) . Death helped him to cleanse himself. Their lineage is closed and interrupted." I saw an empty place, like an even layer of black soil, where there is nothing, and just emptiness.
And now I had to disunite these 2 once kindred souls in past lives: mother and son. This was also my help for them: "Give freedom to souls. Completion of karmic relationships and liberation."
There was quite an interesting picture of this work. Two pinkish light ribbons protruded from the layer of black soil, which looked like balloons with photographs of a guy and his mother. Their faces were bright and smiling.
And when I separated them by clicking in the indicated place, where they were attached, they scattered in different directions. Everyone will now have their own path and their own new life. Probably they will not meet again, of course, a little sad, but everything in this world continues in one form or another.
P.S. Something strange happened while writing this article. Suddenly, a strong gust of wind arose from somewhere, and looking out the window at that moment, which, by the way, was closed, I felt this gust of wind through the window glass. And the tree, which, as it seemed to me, was about 30 years old, suddenly cracked in half, and fell with a creak. I don’t know how symbolic this is, but the fact remains!
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Suicide is condemned in many world religions. For example, according to the law of Orthodoxy, such people are not buried and are buried separately, from the cemetery area. According to Eastern religions, such an action is considered a neglect of valuable experience in a separate part of rebirth. If in some family there was a similar case, then the karma of the entire subsequent generation is spoiled. Everyone will have to pay for this act. The next incarnation will be even harder, and you will have to drag this strap to the end. The spirit of such a person can pass into a family member, a person who committed suicide, so that he could feel all the pain caused to his loved ones. In some countries, there is an opinion that the souls of these people cannot leave our world. Their spirit wanders for several centuries tied to a certain karmic place and looks like ghosts that frighten us. Thus, they are punished until they realize what happened and work off their mistakes. In any case, you will not envy such a fate .. I was looking for all this information out of curiosity, to fill in the gaps in this area, what I found, I wrote above. Perhaps you are familiar with this topic and can supplement my information, I will be grateful.
