I hate myself: reasons and how to deal with it. Why everyone hates me: ways to cause people to have a “warm” attitude What reasons can induce a person to hate

Stalin died in 1953, but for some reason some people still hate him. Probably everyone has their own reasons:

The second reason in that Stalin was a hard worker and did not like idlers, he forced them to work and persecuted them for parasitism. Therefore, all parasites, lazy people and loafers hate Stalin. Because they do not know how to work and do not want to work. They only want to consume, eat, spoil and enjoy everything that is possible and what is impossible, but at someone else's expense, in general - freeloaders.

Third reason that Stalin was an honest man, he kept his word given even to the enemy. He strictly carried out the decisions of the collective, if they had already agreed, then Stalin did not retreat from the persuasion. With his iron will, he achieved the strict fulfillment of the tasks and orders of the working people. He demanded honesty from all leaders, subordinates and did not like liars and deceivers. Therefore, naturally, all liars hate Stalin. And since now the main liars are sure to lead anything, they do not like Stalin. But most of all he is hated by liars and liars from among the TV and radio bosses, their deputies and other henchmen who have long sensed that now it is best to make a career and profit from lies and meanness. Stalin would have prevented them from lying, so they hate him.

Fourth reason in that they are cowards and they are afraid, what if Stalin returns and everyone will find out everything about traitors, scoundrels, rogues, bloodsuckers and cannibals. Therefore, cowards are terribly afraid of Stalin. And even at the mere mention of him, cowards and alarmists are covered with small red pimples, and some even gush green mucus and purple steam comes from their heads. Cowards hate Stalin and are even afraid of his portraits, because if they are sent to war, then because of their skins they will immediately surrender to the Nazis and become policemen, executioners and will hang everyone in a row and be afraid of Stalin's retribution.

Fifth reason that under Stalin it was impossible to steal so freely and widely. Simple and understandable rules for accounting and self-financing easily revealed every stolen penny, weighing, cheating and deceiving the people. Under Stalin, there could be no talk of large-scale theft, and even on a state scale - it was simply impossible not only to steal, but even to encroach on public property. For a bucket of wheat spikelets in the famine years - they gave a real term. Speculation was impossible, the selling price of the goods did not change from producer to consumer. Moneylenders, fat cat bankers, stock exchanges and pyramid schemes were banned. Defaults and air sales were impossible. Therefore, thieves, thieves and thieves, corrupt officials and embezzlers of all stripes and shades fiercely hate Stalin. It is clear that Stalin did not allow stealing.

Sixth reason that Stalin respected human rights not on paper, but in kind gave people free housing, built hospitals, schools, kindergartens. Under him, a person worked and received a salary increase and promotion for his work, a simple person could even grow up to a minister. The current human rights activists, who have grown up to this through meanness, slander, fraud and tribal blasphemy, naturally hate Stalin, because he did not line up people in line for human rights through corrupt courts and corrupt bureaucracy, but directly through the Soviets ensured the rights of the working people in in kind. For the fact that he deprived crooks of the opportunity to profit, he is viciously hated by venerable human rights activists fed on foreign handouts. They are ready even now to kill anyone, to rot in prisons and Gulags anyone who encroaches on their right to hate Stalin and profit from human rights.

Seventh reason is that Stalin was an internationalist. He was a real Georgian and knew the national question well, forbade anti-Semitism, but loved the Russian people, considered them the great and most respected people in the world. Therefore, Stalin is hated by all nationalists, Zionists, fascists, racists and all those who do not know the national question and are trying to solve their clan-tribal and small-town issues at the expense of other peoples.

If someone else hates Stalin, write, we will analyze what reasons you have for that.

Yes, and more. 130th anniversary of Stalin!

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Man is a social being. This is an indisputable fact. But there are people who are burdened by communication and a large number of people in general. Such a person is called a misanthrope. He adheres to the main principle of his life - "I hate people" - and does everything to avoid close contact with them. Sometimes such a life position is the result of any phobias, for example, social phobia. And sometimes it just becomes a philosophy of life.

I'm good at negativity

There are flowers that love the sun. And there are those who prefer shaded areas. By analogy, most people enjoy positive interactions with others. But misanthropes, on the other hand, delight in hatred. But that's not the point. Such individuals firmly believe that all interpersonal relationships are built on overt or covert hatred, and such concepts as love, devotion, affection are just a beautiful fiction of writers and poets. Why lie and pretend? You can be frank and just "not love."

History knows examples of the famous "unsociable" who, at the same time, conquered the world. These include A. Schopenhauer, A. Gordon, A. Malygin and many others.

Why does hate appear?

There are many factors that contribute to the appearance of misanthropy. Let's try to describe only the most common options.

  1. Any criticism is false. There are people who are so unsure of themselves that any criticism from the outside causes them just a storm of emotions and can prevent them from doing business again for a long time. Therefore, it is easier for such individuals to simply fence themselves off from the whole world, so as not to hear and not experience even a gram of negativity (or what they took for it).
  2. It hurts to notice your "mote", it's better to discuss someone else's "log". Now we will not discuss what caused an inferiority complex in barefoot childhood. But sometimes it is extremely painful to work with this feeling, and with the child's psychotrauma itself. Where can you see the way out? In "slinging mud at" others and noting for yourself all the shortcomings of others. After all, you can feel better not only by trying to develop yourself, but also by humiliating others.
  3. If I'm so smart, why am I so poor? Often misanthropy generates banal envy. No matter what: external data, success, material condition. But I don’t want to make an effort or admit to myself such a banal “green toad”. Therefore, it is better to replace the concepts, speaking of hatred in general.
  4. And who are the judges? Often attacks of hatred depend on the characteristics of education. Imagine an elderly grandmother who, due to circumstances, is forced to raise her grandchildren herself. Seeing other people's fancy cars and expensive clothes, she projects her pain and fatigue, calling them "thieves", "bandits" or "prostitutes". Because, in her opinion, it is impossible to earn such "money" by honest work. Thus, grandchildren will learn the same attitude towards others. And possible grievances in the classroom will only exacerbate hatred towards people. A classic example is the story of two brothers - bandits and murderers who committed their atrocities for three years. When, after being caught, they were asked about the reasons for such behavior, they replied that their mother, a former noblewoman, constantly inspired them, pointing to steamships and ancient palaces, that if it weren’t for “all these little people” who took away their entire fortune in the 17th , then now they would live the way they were meant to - they would bathe in luxury and opportunities. Naturally, along with a painful self-importance, she brought up in her children a burning hatred for other people.

So who is hated?

If you re-read all of the above, you get a strange picture: such a person, by and large, hates himself, and not others. For the fact that he cannot achieve something, he does not have a car, an apartment, a summer house, he cannot establish close and warm relations.

Why is it hard to work with misanthropy?

And all because pronounced misanthropes do not see anything bad in hatred and are unlikely to want to get rid of it. If there is a desire to change something, it means that you are still at the very beginning of the "path of alienation", and everything is in your hands:

  1. Realize that your emotions are your business. The rest, by and large, do not care what you think of them.
  2. Decide once and for all that you want to get rid of the hate. This is difficult, because such emotions are an excellent defense mechanism, a kind of "shell". Consider if you can take it off.
  3. And for this, clearly set yourself a goal for which you will change. General and vague concepts are not good. Everything should be clear and very personal. For example, I want a child, a house, to become a leader. To do this, I plan an interaction.
  4. Be sure to choose a psychologist or psychotherapist. Many stages of overcoming internal protests are very painful, and it is better to go through them with a specialist.

Is there any other reason for hatred?

Alas, misanthropy is the acquired skills of interaction with the surrounding reality. But there are other cases, one of the signs of which may be hatred of people. Let's take a look at some of these:

  1. In schizoid psychopathy, it is not entirely appropriate to speak of "hatred." However, it can be stated that society is generally perceived as a “herd of sheep”, therefore the schizoid does not want to adapt to a number of accepted norms and does not know how to take care even in relation to very close people. This "rejection of annoying people" and can be interpreted as hatred. However, the hallmark of such a person is considered to be the fact that the negative itself does not appeal. He is more preoccupied with his internal deductions and simply drives people away like annoying flies. If this is about you, I want to state that you cannot cope with this problem yourself. In this case, you will definitely need the help of a psychologist or even a psychiatrist.
  2. Response to overstress. This is a topic for a separate lengthy discussion. In short, sometimes life presents unthinkable trials: brutal rape, terrorist attacks turn the client's worldview upside down.

During the wreck of the ship "Admiral Nakhimov", for example, one of the victims described that a man, in order to save himself, drowned a woman with a child, taking away some floating object from them.

Another example. The woman lost control and flew off a busy highway, receiving serious injuries. Her young son unsuccessfully tried to call for help. None of the drivers stopped. And when he got on foot to the nearest settlement, he barely interrogated to call an ambulance to the scene of the accident.

Internal conflicts based on religious beliefs and ethnic confrontations lead to mass “cleansings”, which children and adolescents can become witnesses of.

Naturally, such things are capable of provoking hatred both towards a certain group of people and towards people in general. And here the work must necessarily begin with a consultation with a psychiatrist, and then with a psychotherapist.

  1. Teenage maximalism. Another interesting and little studied topic concerns "universal dislike" as a manifestation of the formation of personality. Adolescents during the period of active hormonal adjustment are generally prone to frequent and spasmodic mood swings. Therefore, a slight disappointment, which at another time would have passed unnoticed, can cause global dislike. By the way, hormonally conditioned hatred due to a feeling of deep resentment can occur not only in adolescents, but also in pregnant women, young mothers or in people (note - not only in women) during the period of age-related menopause (yes, it turns out that men also have it) . Such problems require an integrated approach. And, in addition to a psychologist, you may need to consult a pediatrician, endocrinologist, gynecologist or other narrow specialists.

In conclusion, I would like to say that there are no unsolvable problems in life. But don't expect someone to help you if you don't want to. Do you really want a psychologist to catch up with you on the street and forcibly “do good”? Accept the fact that this is your problem, and it will be you who will fight it, if you wish. A psychologist, doctors and close people can only help you a little with this.

Morning, the street is a terrible heat, because it's summer. Birds are chirping outside the open window. On the big bed lies a girl who sleeps and sniffs sweetly. But this whole beautiful picture was spoiled by an alarm clock. It was seven in the morning on the clock, you ask why so early, now it's summer? The answer is simple - they go to the sea with the class. They gather near the school at eight in the morning. She opened her eyes as she set the alarm for safe flight. Her name was Shirayuki, a beautiful red-haired girl with eyes like two emeralds, with a perfect figure and a sweet but short-tempered personality. The room was in black and white. To the left of the door was a black door leading to the bathroom. Also to the left of the door was a double bed with white linens and black pillows. Opposite the bed there was a large desk with a stand, in which there were pens, pencils, etc., there was also a laptop on the table. Above the table were two shelves with books and notebooks. The window had white curtains fading to black at the bottom. On the sides of the bed were two bedside tables with a telephone, lamps and an alarm clock. Getting up from the bed, the green-eyed went to the closet to select clothes. Taking white denim shorts, a pink translucent blouse with a sleeve to the elbow and pale pink sneakers. After being in the shower for twenty minutes, she went to breakfast. Her mother and older brother were already sitting in the kitchen. "Good morning mom, Koheko, is Mizu still sleeping?" - Going into the kitchen asked the girl, wishing everyone a good morning. “Good sister,” the dark-haired man replied with a smile. “Good morning, yes Mizu sleeps,” her mother answered. Shirayuki went to her mother in both character and appearance, just like her older brother, but only in appearance he is in his father. Brown hair, blue eyes and a bright smile matched perfectly. Mizu is their younger sister, she has red hair and blue eyes, and her character is just like that of her father, she also likes to sleep, so she sleeps until almost two in the afternoon. Having quickly eaten, the beauty went to her destination. There were her best friends - Kiki and Mitsuhide, and the most hated, but at the same time beloved person. His name is Zen Wisteria. Even when Shirayuki transferred to this school, Zen immediately got on her nerves. And so, for example, when only a week of her stay at this school had passed, he poured a bucket of water on her. A year ago: "The red-haired girl entered the school in a good mood and went straight to the classroom. As soon as she opened the door, she immediately found herself completely wet. Turning her head to the culprit, the green-eyed noticed a white-haired young man. They constantly quarreled with him, he would either move her chair away, or something else. “Wisteria, I hate you,” the girl shouted, standing soaking wet. - Ahaha, - Zen laughed out loud, - Shirayuki, it suits you, - the guy said, staring at the beauty. - Get off the moron. Bypassing the guy, she went to the desk, as the bell rang, she could not leave. I had to sit wet." "Hello Shira," Zen smiled. "Back off." "Hello Shirayuki," the guys said unanimously. When the teacher came, everyone got on the bus, the green-eyed girl wanted to sit with Kiki, but it didn’t work out, Zen sat down next to her. Opposite there was a small table and a stand for a bottle or a plastic cup. An hour later, the guy fell asleep and Shirayuki, taking out a notebook and opening it, wrote on the first line, in the middle, a neat inscription: "5 reasons to hate Xena Wisteria: 1. He's narcissistic. 2. A womanizer. 3. A pervert. 4. He constantly mocks me. 5. Doesn't pay attention to my feelings because I love him." Having finished writing, she put the notebook on the table, just as the bus drove up to the houses and Zen woke up, red-haired and Kiki went to take the room. The white-haired one saw the girl's notebook lying on the table. - Apparently Shira forgot, - the guy said to himself and opened the notebook, - wow, - he said when he saw the inscription. After reading the reasons for her hatred, he went to Mitsuhide, offering to go to an amusement park. He agreed and went to call the girls. Half an hour later they were all standing in the park. First, the guys dragged the girls on the roller coaster, they went around almost all the rides and at the end of the day decided to go to the Ferris wheel. Getting up, Mitsuhide sat in the same booth with Kiki, Zen with Shirayuki. "Shirayuki, is there anything you want to tell me?" he asked, bending over Shira. "N-no," the girl stuttered. - Exactly, what is it then? - Zen asked showing a notebook. - Where did you get it from? - You forgot on the bus, and why did you get the idea that I am narcissistic and do not pay attention to your feelings? Yes, you are always like this. - Come on, what if I say that I love you for a long time? - saying so, he leaned forward and dug into her scarlet lips with a kiss. - Be my girlfriend? Zen asked, breaking away from her lips. - Yes. After he kissed her again, and Kiki and Mitsuhide, who saw everything, sat and rejoiced for their friends. At the end of school, Zen proposed to her, and that she agreed. They moved into a big house and lived happily ever after. And three months after their wedding, Mitsuhide proposed to Kiki. At the wedding of Shirayuki's friends, she suddenly became ill and vomited. The next day, she, having gone with Kiki to the hospital, found out that she was pregnant. Zen was very happy about this, indeed the girl was very worried about how the guy would react. Zen's parents really liked Shirayuki and visited them every week. They had many children and they all lived happily and joyfully.

Playgrounds are becoming a battlefield. Venerable alcoholics set the table on benches and swings until it's time to rest - lying on a children's slide.

Because of the off-season, great series are not released.

Public transport turns to hell according to Dante

Blood pressure rises, and bad habits become even more harmful.

Many cool festivals for which there is not enough money. Sitting and licking their lips at lineups with foreign performers, being content with the performance of Pavel Zibrov.

You get wet and sticky.

Traffic jams are becoming a red-hot trap. Into which they launched a ball of snakes pressing on the horn, hissing curses from the window.

It's harder to find an excuse for being at home.

You water, pull out weeds, dig potatoes - maybe grandma will give a coin for completing the quest.

A romantic rendezvous on the beach is interrupted by drunken men and noisy dirty children.

Turn off hot water. But the increase in temperature outside the window does not eliminate the need for hot water. It remains to sit and choke on a sense of the irony of utilities.

The “romance” of a coat, autumn spleen and melancholy disappears. Autumn rain opens the doors of perception to all that is good and beautiful in our world. What can not be said about the summer - the time of parasitism and remorse for the mistakes of the past.

The level of human intolerance towards each other is rising. You become harmful and irritable, and then a trickle of sweat flows down your back - and you explode with anger.

They feel the pulse of the city weakened by the heat and become impudent, leading a march against society.

Everyone who has a guitar goes outside with it. Even those who shouldn't. Especially for you on 27 CDs we release the collection “Songs from the Yard” with such favorite hits as “You threw”, “Blood type”, “Watchmen” performed by the guitar orchestra named “no, there must be some other chord” .

While honest hard workers work in the office, lazy people rest on the islands. In summer, a need for social equality awakens in a person, which cannot forgive such acute injustice.

Dependence on the air conditioner turns you into a weak-willed creature who finds it difficult to leave the confines of his own home or office.

In the summer, people put a lot more pressure on each other and force them to spend time together just because “it's cool outside”.

At this time of the year, your favorite courtyards in the city are sure to be occupied by unpleasant people or couples. And you are constantly unlucky to come first.

Vampire inclinations wake up: you draw the curtains, wear sunglasses around the clock and wait until the sun disappears below the horizon in order to finally go out and take a normal walk.

The beloved city begins to smell in thousands of shades, but these smells are not pleasant.