If you write a wish and burn it. Family and personal psychologist Yana Borokhta

Our whole life is like a black and white zebra. When happy events happen in it, of course, we are happy.

But when something terrible and negative happens, it is almost impossible to get rid of an unpleasant feeling in the soul, and the whole meaning of later life disappears. Often, weak-willed people cherish and cherish resentment in their souls all their lives and cannot part with it. How to forget the past? How to get rid of negativity? How to cleanse the soul of negative thoughts and start smiling again?

Thought is material: no matter what is born in a person’s head, it will definitely manifest itself in one way or another in reality. This notion is easy to both confirm and disprove. It is confirmed only empirically (by examples), but refuted by science. However, many psychologists use scientifically based methods based on the belief in the materiality of thought.

If a person thinks that he is not worthy of love, it is difficult for him to find a loved one. Just because he is not looking for him - why, if he is not worthy? If someone thinks that he is not given to be a boss, he will never become one. Why strain when it's not given from above? If an athlete does not believe in victory, he will never be a champion. Not hoping to win, he will not give all the best - it's pointless!

This is where the materiality of thought is expressed: the inner reality is projected onto the outer one. As we think, so we act, and we get such results. Any of our problems rests on three pillars. The first is the beliefs that gave rise to it. The second is actions that are performed in accordance with beliefs. The third is personal experience, which we interpret in such a way that the existing situation does not change. None of our problems arise from scratch. For example, there is an opinion among some women that there are no men worthy of becoming their life partners. Such a thought makes a woman behave in a certain way and makes her lonely: she either avoids men, not tired of complaining about loneliness, or she looks for flaws in each of them, because she must somehow confirm her beliefs. Therefore, psychologists first of all find out why the patient has this or that problem.

To force a person to look at himself from the outside, rethink beliefs and change behavior, psychologists have many techniques. One of them is the method of burning problems. That is, in order to solve a problem, it is necessary to put it on paper, and burn what is written. There is another version of this method: all the same is done in the imagination. Of course, the second option is possible only if the imagination is well developed.

Here, for example, is a very common technique for getting rid of problems.

Problem Burning Technique

There is a wonderful way to forget all the unpleasant moments in your past. Take a large sheet of paper and write on it all your thoughts and grievances, all that has tormented you for many years. Feel free to express yourself. These are your own thoughts and you have no secrets and complexes from them. But don't rush to read it. You must burn this leaf. Together with him, past grievances and failures will burn, and you will quickly forgetpassed e . Trust me, it really works! The fire will throw off the stone from the soul, and you will feel relief and complete satisfaction with yourself.

Or here's another similar ritual...

Ritual of Burning Problems

If your plans are not being implemented because you are afraid to act, but only sigh, hoping that everything will happen on its own, then it is time to move away from such tactics. And in this situation, such a ritual will help you. Choose a day when the south wind blows. As in the previous case, write your problems on a piece of paper, take a yellow candle (the symbolic color of the south wind), light it and look directly at the flame, trying to imagine your troubles leaving, dying, and your hopes growing and gaining brightness and color.

Gradually, you will feel that fears begin to leave you, you will begin to see that you are wrong, considering the obstacles insurmountable. Then take a leaf with problems and burn it on a candle flame. Clench the ashes in your fist and go outside with a burning candle. Unclench your fist, let the south wind blow the ashes away. Substitute a candle under his impulse, let the wind put it out.

This technique is simple and effective, but pay attention to some of the nuances. You must realize what exactly is your problem. If you just write: “I have no friends (job, money, health, housing)”, and then burn the paper, nothing will happen, do not hope. You just complained. By complaining, a person is only trying to arouse sympathy.

A problem is a problem that needs to be solved. And if you express a desire to get something, it subconsciously sets you up for action. When the task is formulated as “I really want something”, then a positive result is implied. Therefore, having written down your problem on paper (for example: “I am lonely”), you must certainly mentally add: “I want a loved one to come into my life.” This will help set you up for the win. Otherwise, neither the burning of problems, nor any other technique will work, because they are all aimed at activating the internal resources of a person.

The second follows from this: if you have an unfulfilled desire, then there are resources to fulfill it. Of course, we are talking only about realistically feasible desires. And a desire becomes a problem only because you do not use the resources to implement it. Without such opportunities, the world would be mired in problems. We would all have the same bad health, we would all suffer from lack of money, unemployment and loneliness. But there are a lot of lucky people around who have everything! And among them, only a few received it by inheritance. The majority managed to turn on and realize their resources.
Here is an example from the lives of two friends. Both until recently suffered because of the housing problem. At the same time, the first earns well and is not used to denying herself anything. She does not even try to save, because she is convinced that it is useless. The second salary is small, and she lives modestly. However, the first one still roams around rented apartments, and the second, having sat on bread and water for several years, having worked at two jobs at the same time, bought a one-room apartment. The first one had and still has the resources to purchase housing. But they are aimed at solving other problems.

The problem with most people is that they tend to focus on what they don't have rather than what they really want. Such a position deprives of energy, because all the forces are spent on complaints. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to what needs to be changed in oneself in order to solve the problem. When the task is formulated correctly, options for its solution automatically come. Let's say you need money. The question arises: what is the most acceptable way to get them for you? Someone can change jobs, it is easier for someone to marry an oil tycoon.

Psychologists recommend using the burning technique in solving emotional problems, problems associated with fears or with negative past experiences. The effect will increase if fears and difficult memories are not described in words, but drawn in the form of images. Try to portray your own indecision, horror or fear of something. Consider: what do they look like? It is necessary to draw the image of fear, and not the situation in which it arises. For example, if a person is afraid of heights, he does not need to draw himself on the edge of the roof. You have to imagine what that fear looks like.

However, care must be taken when working with problem burning techniques. Experts do not recommend painting and burning your image, the image of other people, animals, and what you are closely connected with, for example, your own home. First, the problem and yourself must be separated. By portraying yourself in a problem, you identify with it, which is why it is fixed in the mind even more. Secondly, in world culture, fire is the oldest symbol of purification and deliverance. But, delivering and cleansing, he destroys. You can consider yourself a pragmatist who does not believe in any magic, but the subconscious mind lives and works according to its own laws. It stores archetypes that influence our thoughts and actions against our will. Who knows how emotional and impressionable you yourself are? Most likely, ritual burning will not harm anyone. But there are cases when this action caused serious physical illness in some, the second began to complain of weakness and helplessness, and the third suddenly felt like defenseless victims. Nothing surprising - a reasonable person is used to acting on the basis of an internal image of himself. And what to do when the image burned down, and with it, your own psychological resources turned into ashes?

By the way, you can burn not only notes and drawings. Some things we have negative memories associated with. It can be anything, say, the clothes in which a big trouble happened to you. You can just throw it away, or you can throw it into the fire with the knowledge that in this way you will forever part with a bad past.

The good thing about burning problems is that you always have it with you. You don’t need any magical items, you don’t need complex ritual actions, you don’t even have to have matches and a candle with you ... Just stretch your imagination. This will help not to lose the power of speech when calling to the boss, it will allow you to calmly walk to the house along dark alleys, not to be confused by aggression. If you find yourself in a situation that causes you fear, mentally surround yourself with an impenetrable wall of hot flame. This is also a method of burning the problem - in this case, the problem of fear. Imaginary fire purifies and protects you.

Instruction

Today there is a mass of literature and many Internet sites dedicated to the techniques of fulfilling desires. The essence of all such techniques comes down to one thing: the direction in the right way to implement the plan with the help of certain rituals.

The first rule, following which, you can achieve what you want is a positive attitude. Thoughts are material, so always think and dream in a positive direction, enjoy every day and gratefully accept even insignificant, but pleasant moments (praise from the boss, a good mark from the child, an unexpected visit from an old friend, etc.).

It is very effective to make wishes on an emotional upsurge: to the sound of chimes on New Year's Eve, blowing out candles on a birthday cake, receiving a gift or good news. If you believe in the magic of numbers, use the moments when the clock is 00:00, 11:11, 22:22 or other combinations that you like, save "lucky" tickets, memorize "beautiful" car numbers and do not hesitate - this is will bring you happiness.

Formulate dreams clearly, specifically and without the "not" particle, which implies denial. For example, the expression “I want my salary not to be cut” is incorrect, the correct one is “My salary is at the same level (I get more money)”. It is best to make wishes in the present tense, as if what you want has already come true: not “I want”, but “I am slim and beautiful”, not “I want my son to go to university”, but “My son is a student university."

Visualize the dream. Call on the imagination and present the result in the most vivid colors. Try to feel at least a fleeting moment of happiness from the fulfillment of desire.

“Let go” of your dream, forget about it for a while: you have an order, sent it and can calmly wait for fulfillment. The main thing is the confidence that the plan will certainly come true. Do not allow the thought of possible obstacles to the fulfillment of desire.

Be sure to write it down on paper. You can get a notebook or notebook for these purposes and describe your dreams. Remove the leaf with the desire to a secluded place or burn it, and scatter the ashes in the wind: this technique helps to “let go” of the dream.

At the same time, draw up a clear plan for the implementation of your plan and do the maximum that is necessary for this. Do not stipulate terms and methods: perhaps the desire is realized in a completely different way than you imagine, but in a completely different way, so do not limit the possibility of a dream to come true in the best possible way for you.

Absolutely believe that your wish will come true. Do not allow even a shadow of a doubt that it could be otherwise. Dream, believe in success, and all your plans will certainly come true!

note

For a wish to come true, you just need to make it right. Like in the cartoon "Up"! The main character there did not just make a wish, she visualized it in the album and came up with a little story about how it would come true. Or like a little boy from the same cartoon - he very clearly and clearly drew his dream in his thoughts and could describe it in great detail.

Helpful advice

How to make a wish so that it comes true! We all have desires and we all want those desires to come true. Even the most unrealizable. Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn - your main assistants are money and food! It is necessary to make one wish at a time and carry a treasured coin in your pocket before this wish is fulfilled. Do not lend money to anyone at this time! When guessing, it’s good to chew a few grapes or chewing marmalade.

How would you hint to your loved one what you want for your birthday? To put it bluntly, pride doesn't allow it, and he doesn't understand metaphors. Many services on the Internet that support the Wish List function allow you to state your needs publicly without you having to do it directly.

Instruction

Wish lists are supported by many social networks, for example, VKontakte. Log in to your account. In the menu on the left of any page, find the "My Settings" tab, click and go.

Click on the line "My desires", which appeared in your menu on the left. Click the "Add Wish" button on the right.

There are also wish lists on the Ya.ru service. To add a desire there, log in to the Yandex mail system and select Ya.ru among the services.

The new page will have several tabs, including "My Page". Click the arrow next to it and select the line "My desires".

Click the "Record Wish" button. On the new page, enter the name of the desired item, attach a photo and a link below if you wish. Indicate the degree of need for the item, add tags. Click the "Want" button to save the settings or "See what happens" for a preview.

Related videos

note

Each area has its own "happy" places where wishes come true. These are stones, statues, architectural monuments and simply beautiful landscapes. As a rule, a special legend is associated with each of these places.

Helpful advice

One of the beautiful traditions to seal a love union is to hang a lock on the lattice of the bridge together with your loved one, close it, and throw the key into the water.

Desires. How you want them to come true - everything and without fail! They say that all sincere dreams come true necessarily. Still, it never hurts to be safe. And one of the elements of such "insurance" is the right choice of time for making wishes.

There is a whole string of dates and events conducive to guessing. It is quite possible that what was made on one of these significant dates or during suitable circumstances really comes true with a greater probability. Or maybe it's just auto-training. In any case, it's worth a try.

To begin with, a few general rules for formulating desires. First, you must wish for yourself. And only for myself. No “so that Uncle Peta buys a car” or “so that Aunt Valya has a good harvest of strawberries.” Only "I want me / me / I ...!".

Second, do not wish evil. Nobody. No small or large "mstiulek" near, distant, superiors, the president with the prime minister for anything. Even if you really want to or simply brought it.

Third, the desire must be formulated in a positive way. The prefix "not" is not appropriate. That is, even in the event of serious family troubles, not “I want my husband not to go to another,” but “I want my husband to stay with me and we figured everything out.”

The fourth is imagination. Try to imagine for a second the result of the fulfillment of your desire. Thinking of a trip to the Maldives, imagine aquamarine water, the purest sand, yourself in and a pareo. Step into this picture, try to be inside it at least for a split second. And then release all images.

Dates suitable for making wishes

Significant dates are a great time to make wishes. Christmas, New Year's, are good reasons to wish your dream. And for greater effect, you can even do a whole ritual of guessing. For example, on New Year's Eve, write down a wish on paper. And with the first blows of the chimes, this paper must be set on fire, then before the last blow, the ashes of champagne must be diluted, which must be drunk. Or, having made a wish, eat 12 grapes when the chimes will beat.

Events suitable for making wishes

There are a number of circumstances that are traditionally considered suitable for making wishes. For example, you are eating strawberries for the first time this year. Very vivid impressions, isn't it? Why not use their positive energy to make wishes? After all, most often dreams come true, conceived in such positively colored emotional moments.

Or, for example, another reason to make a wish is to be sitting or standing between two people with the same names. Why not? What about shooting stars? When you have a fraction of a second at your disposal, while a thin stroke of a meteor burns in the sky, you usually have time to wish for the real, the most intimate. And such desires will certainly come true.

As you can see, finding the right time or event to think of something pleasant for yourself is not so difficult. The main thing is to believe that the wish will come true. Believe earnestly and unquestioningly. And then everything will be as you want.

Sources:

how to make wishes over time
When to make a wish

In order for desires to be fulfilled, in addition to the efforts made, people come up with rituals for themselves. On New Year's Eve, Christmas time, and ordinary days, dreamers perform simple sequences of actions in the hope that this will attract good luck.

Visualize your desire more often. For example, imagine in all colors that you have already lost weight. You catch the admiring glances of men on the streets, try on tight trousers, and they turn out to be just right for you. You can imagine how your love life will improve after you lose weight.

Make a plan for the fulfillment of desire - so it will be easier for fate to help you. Indicate what steps you will take in order to fulfill the planned, and how much time you need for this.

To figure out the perfect way to make a wish, focus on your zodiac sign and its element. If you are Aries, Leo or Sagittarius, then the element fire corresponds to you. At dusk, light a candle and write your dream on a piece of paper. Periodically reread what was written by the light of the same candle. After the plan was fulfilled, the note should be burned.

For Pisces, Cancers and Scorpios, water is the main assistant. You can make a wish on the bank of a river or lake, looking into the water surface. Or write a wish on a piece of paper, make a boat and let it float on the water.

Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo will be helped by food and money. When making a wish, eat a few grapes or gummies. Until the desire is fulfilled, one should not lend.

For Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, clouds will become assistants. While in a cheerful company, raise your head up and make a wish. After that, it will certainly come true.

What needs to be done to make a wish come true? Many people ask this question. Well, if you are ready for a miracle and really crave to embody your desires, you can start acting. There are some simple and effective rules for fulfilling your desire.

You will need

- beautiful notepad
- pen

Instruction

The best days for making a wish are New Year's Day or Birthday. It is in these days that you, as in childhood, do not doubt that a miracle is possible. It is good to make a wish on the growing moon. And you can declare any day for yourself the best for making a wish.

Get yourself a beautiful notebook where you will write down your desires. Write down your first desire in a notebook in this form: “I accept a cup of coffee from the Universe with joy and gratitude.” Or an apple. Or a beautiful pen - something that you can do right now. Then go and enjoy a cup of coffee, go to the store and buy yourself an apple or a pen. Your wish came true, so it works! Under the post, write: “It came true! Thank you!”, now write down two new wishes (one of them must also be self-fulfilling).

It is necessary to formulate the desire in the present tense (as if you already have what you dream about). Do not use the particle NOT in the wording. Formulate the desire so that its fulfillment does not depend on other people. For example: "I feel the joy of my son's recovery." When formulating a wish, write down each condition, but no more than 5. For example: “I want the prince to come!”. And if the prince comes to you on business - and leaves? And you probably wanted him to be in you, and you in him, so that he would be unmarried, etc. Your desire should be "green", i.e. should not harm your environment and you.

After you have formulated what you want, immerse yourself in the “cinema”, where you are the main character and where your wish has already come true. Feel every detail, your sensations, your feelings, colors, smells, tactile sensations. If you feel only great joy from the fulfillment of a desire, there is not a drop of fear, doubt - then this desire will surely come true!

Come up with a formula that will support you on the path to fulfilling your desires. For example: “I deserve a good life - and I always get what I want” or “I am the darling of the Universe - all my desires come true!”.

When making a wish, discuss the timing of its fulfillment. It happens that a wish made a long time ago comes true - but it is no longer needed. But there is a limitation: do not think of a performance in 15 minutes if you yourself do not believe that this is possible.

Take action! After all, the Universe has no other hands than yours. The universe will provide you with a lot of amazing opportunities, but they will not come true without your actions.

Do not spray on a huge number of desires. If you have several hundred Wishlists, chances are that most will remain just dreams. Choose a few things that are simply necessary. Their number should not be more than five. If there is only one desire, the speed of execution will increase significantly.

When the first list is ready, you need to redo it. Repeated work with adjustments will allow you to focus, devote more time, and this is precisely the key to success. The more often you think about the hidden, the better. And rewriting will increase efficiency several times. At the same time, indicate again what you feel, hear, touch, smell. You may want to capture even more details, do so. And try to use sentences without the "not" particle. Instead of "I don't feel tired", write "I am alert and active."

Any desire can be associated with some pictures or objects. If you hang the image of your desire in a prominent place, you will remember it more often, and this will speed up the process of realization. If you want a new car, find an image of it and place it on your desktop on your computer. You can hang the photo on the bathroom mirror, on the refrigerator and next to the TV. But it is important not only to install it, but every time your eyes fall on this object, remember the emotions that you described.

There are three stages of fulfillment of desires: study, contact, receive.

At the stage of study, it is worth learning everything about the object of your desire: positive and negative sides. To do this, you can use Internet search engines and personal connections: remember which of your friends talked about their similar ideas and plans. Even the most insane and adventurous idea always lives in its dreamer, and very often - in more than one. A good option is thematic communities on social networks, where you can not only study the information, but also ask questions to your like-minded people. It is important at this stage to imagine that the desire has already been fulfilled, to feel a surge of happiness and inspiration from this acquisition. However, you can not relax for a long time.

The next step is to find a way to contact the "supplier" of the dream. If this is your desire, you should find a good marriage agency and call or write an e-mail. It is easier with a product or service: in millions of online stores and websites, there is nothing easier than clicking on the "order" button.

The final stage of the fulfillment of desire is to receive it and sign for delivery. It would seem that this is the shortest and fastest stage. But this is where most dreamers stumble. Here are the most common objections of those who do not want to see things through to the end:

- I have no money. And who has them? Even the richest person dreams of more and says that he does not have money for it. Perhaps, to fulfill a dream, it is still worth borrowing or taking a loan? It is better, of course, to earn.

- I'm not strong enough. If they are there for a dream to appear, then there will be for its realization. Do not feel sorry for yourself in such matters. Like-minded people can be found on social networks or on specialized sites for startups.

- I have no time. No need to look for excuses, the lack of hours and minutes is often just an attempt to hide your fears of possible failure. Many people forget that it is the difficulties that make them learn and improve.

It must be remembered that almost any desire can really be fulfilled in one day. It is important to give the maximum of your strength to solve this problem and follow the stages of its implementation. Good luck!

The approach of the New Year holidays makes us look for the surest and most accurate ways to help fulfill any of our desires. In principle, there is nothing supernatural in this. Apparently, people feel how cosmic energy is “electrified”. There are more than a dozen different rituals, the simplest of them are the fulfillment of desires on paper with a pen.

Before exercising, retire and relax. Try to drive your thoughts out of your head for at least a few minutes, while relaxing the muscles of your body. To finally enter a relaxed state, breathe slowly. Inhale lightness, exhale stress and tension, blocks and clamps. Try to make sure that no one and nothing distracts you. Leave all the fuss outside the room.

Well, actually the method itself. We will try to open it completely. So:

You will need sheets of paper, a red pen and scissors. You can choose between white and color paper.
After calming yourself and your thoughts, you need to take paper and a pen. Briefly and clearly write your desire. State it in as simple a form as possible. This is what the initial stage requires of you.
Now you should focus on desire. Breathe deeply and slowly, lower your gaze to the record you have made. Five to ten minutes will be enough.
Now take a sheet of paper. We said that it can be of different colors. For the best effect of the ritual, we advise you to choose the color of the paper, depending on your desire. Green is the material side and health, red is love and passion, blue is the removal of negative programs, and so on. Don't forget scissors and a pen. We make a wish in the present tense. For example: I receive 75,000 rubles a month, my weight is 60 kilograms, all the organs of my body are healthy, and so on. You can continue in this matter ad infinitum.
Now a large sheet of paper should be cut into strips. From one such sheet, an average of 20–25 strips is obtained.
Write your desire on each strip. Printing is by no means recommended. At the end of the process, many strips with our desire are obtained.
Your name should be written on the other side of the strip. Write it in the form in which you are most pleased to hear it.
Now you can hide the pieces of paper in various places in your home. It is advisable to hide them where only you look, and this happens often.

The method lies in the fact that you are constantly confronted with a written desire and remember it immediately. A very powerful visualization technique. Performed frequently.

Fulfillment of desires on the growing moon - what are the rituals and divination?
Feng Shui wish fulfillment, wish card.
Materialization of thoughts - how to get married? Materialization of thoughts for money
Fulfillment of desires, lunar calendar for 2016 Ritual with bay leaf for the fulfillment of desires
How to make dreams come true - where to start?

We believe that on New Year's Eve, Christmas Eve and Epiphany, the wishes we made will come true. If a year has passed and the plan has not come true, this does not mean that the desire is unattainable, you just made it wrong.

To begin with, remember one thing: in the desire for particle "not" must not be present . In other words, your wish should be "I want to be thin" and not "I don't want to be fat." And to one of some definitions, always add "healthy and happy" - "I want to be in shape, beautiful, healthy and happy."

In advance program yourself that the wish will come true. Visualize, dream, attract to yourself everything you have planned.

Consider how can be realized desired in life. To not just wish and want, but also to do something for this. Write a plan and move towards your goals.

Don't get hung up after New Year's Eve on a made wish. Make up your mind and let it go, do not bother your head, let the subconscious get used to this thought and find clues for the realization of desire.

All the signs of the zodiac in achieving the desired help their native elements .

For example, Aries, Leo and Sagittarius born from Fire, fire will help. To do this, in the evening or at night, when no one bothers, light a candle and looking at its flame, scroll through the desire in your head (New Year's Eve can also be quiet and calm). You can write it on paper and burn it - provided that you want to get rid of something - an illness, an uninteresting job, a despot husband, extra pounds. If you want to increase or acquire, write down the desire and read it aloud.

Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces accompanied by Water. Therefore, make a wish while looking at the water. It can be the bank of a river, the sea, an aquarium or a running faucet - whatever. Write down the wish, burn the paper, and wash off the ashes with water.

Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn are under the auspices of the Earth. Money can help them. Make a wish and find yourself a talisman coin, wear it until the wish comes true.

Gemini, Libra and Aquarius- Signs of Air. They can make a wish or looking at the clouds, or being in the company. They do not care that the crowd can look at them with all their eyes when they look at one point and try to concentrate on desire, the main thing is that they sincerely believe that everything in this life is feasible.

Source: WANT

And, of course, we all want these wishes to come true. Even the most unrealizable ... It turns out that this is possible. In principle... Well, the easiest way is to make wishes for the New Year under the chiming clock. True, you can’t guess much at these moments, and by this time many have already drunk quite a lot. So very strange, if you look at a sober head, desires come true. So, desires exist in order to come true. You just need to guess correctly. First, the general rules. 1. Never use the particle “not” when formulating a desire. For example: the desire “I don’t want to be full!” it is better to formulate it like this: “I wish to be slim, blooming, attractive and charming!”. Something from this set is sure to come true! 2. A Very Important Moment - to think about how this desire will be realized. For example: “I want to go on a round-the-world cruise” But you can also get on an ocean liner as a cleaner! Therefore, it is better to formulate the desire as follows: - I want to go on a river cruise to relax and ... - Complete the phrase with other details. The more there are, the better! 3. Having made a wish, one must firmly and unconditionally believe that it will come true. There should be no doubt about it! Just make a wish, give it up for a while. Let the energy of desire "cook" in your subconscious. 4. It is necessary to visualize the result as often and as fully as possible, i.e. present the results of what has already been done. For example, if you want a luxurious apartment, imagine not only the interior, but also how you will celebrate a housewarming party, how to watch TV in the living room, how to dine in the dining room, etc. 5. It is necessary to say affirmative sentences-affirmations as often as possible to yourself or out loud (out loud is better). These statements are especially effective in the evening before going to bed and in the morning, while still half asleep. The mind at this time is still (or already) dozing, and the words seem to be imprinted into the subconscious. Moreover, all actions should be only in the present tense: "I have (do) this and that." 6. Make yourself a symbol of a fulfilled desire. For example, a coin. And carry It with you until the wish is fulfilled. 7. Make a plan to achieve what you want. Many neglect this simple rule. But what is easier: write or even just imagine all the steps necessary to implement the plan! But the process of guessing for effective (quick and easy) obtaining a result for all people will be different. Let's turn to classical Western astrology. So… If your zodiac sign is: . Aries, Leo or Sagittarius - Your main assistant is fire. Choose a time at dusk when no one bothers you. Light a candle. Make a wish while looking at the flame of the candle. Write it down on paper. If you want to get rid of something, then immediately burn your records. If you want to purchase something, read your entry by candlelight more often. And when the wish comes true, you can burn this paper with gratitude to the Higher powers. . Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces - Your main assistant is water. On the shore of the reservoir, looking at the water, you need to make a wish. Write it down on paper. Then make a boat out of a note and let it sail. It is better at this moment to be in a boat or on a bridge. . Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn - Your main assistants are money and food! It is necessary to make one wish at a time and carry a treasured coin in your pocket before this wish is fulfilled. Do not lend money to anyone at this time! When guessing, it’s good to chew a few grapes or chewing marmalade. . Gemini, Libra or Aquarius - Your main assistants are a cheerful company and ... clouds. Invite as many of your friends as possible and make a wish during a noisy party. Or wishes. You can guess several at once. You can also make wishes while walking, looking at the clouds. Those are the simple rules. I hope they make your life much easier. Good luck!

METHOD #1: VISUALIZE DESIRE

“Cultures and religions of different peoples of the world have their own mechanisms for making and fulfilling desires. But, according to my observations, all these mechanisms have one common principle - complete concentration and detailed consideration of desire, ”says practical psychologist Marichka Zhuravel.

EXAMPLE OF DESIRE.

But, according to the expert, before concentrating, it is necessary to “try on” the desire. This is necessary for a person to make sure whether he really wants this particular dream to come true.

To do this, you need to ask yourself four questions:

1.What will happen if my wish comes true?

2. What happens if it doesn't come true?

3. What will not happen if my wish comes true?

4. What will not happen if it does not come true?

“After such a small analysis, everyone should listen to their inner feelings: what does he feel inside? Marichka Zhuravel says. - If, at the thought of a fulfilled desire, a person’s soul is joyful, calm, then this is the very cherished desire. If he feels anxiety or uncertainty, it means vice versa.

FIVE SENSES

But let's say that the "fitting" was successful. You can start making a wish. The first rule in this matter: you need to clearly articulate the desire. It cannot be abstract (a la “I want everyone to be happy”), but must express a specific dream of a person. What should be avoided here is the “not” particles. For example, you can’t formulate your dream like this: “I don’t want to be poor.” Need: "I want to be rich." The second rule: the desire must be tangible. It needs to be visualized. Assistants in this matter are the five human senses! “For example, a person wants a car. To visualize his dream, he needs to: decide on its brand and appearance (vision); then - imagine, for example, the sound of a motor (hearing); the next stage is to mentally run your hand over the seats in the cabin, feeling the material (touch). In general, a person must create for himself the full effect of being in a dream car, ”the specialist conducts an educational program.

The next recommendation of a specialist is that a person must imagine that the desired has come true. The sensation that arises in this case must be carefully fixed in memory. And exactly at midnight, under the sound of the clock, it is worth saying this desire and feeling again that it has already come true. “After all the ritual done, the dream is charged with a certain energy that the universe feels. The desire is ready for fulfillment,” concludes Marichka Zhuravel.

METHOD #2: WISH COLLECTION

According to the director of the Leleka Family Psychology Center Tatyana Dugelnaya, every wish you make is worth visualizing. To do this, you can make an album of desires: one page - one desire. On each of them, a person, with the help of drawings, text notes, clippings from magazines, as well as their own photographs (this attribute is mandatory for the desire to have a “master”), must depict their dreams. The main thing in this matter, as the psychologist says, is not to confuse anything. “If a person pastes an image of a car, then his photo should be in the driver’s seat, not the passenger’s. Otherwise, someone else will get the desire, ”says the specialist. According to Tatyana Dugelnaya, you can periodically view the album, writing down all the thoughts and emotions that are associated with the fulfillment of this desire. “If wishes come true, then such an album can later become an album of achievements,” the specialist sums up.

DO NOT BURN

“As for making a wish, the “golden rule” is that you don’t need to want something very, very much. Otherwise, a person can harm himself. With his desire to get what he wants, he can "burn" the energy that should have been used to fulfill his dream, ”advises Tatyana Dugelnaya. Then, according to the psychologist, as in the previous ritual, each person must present his desire in great detail, “saturating” it with his energy. “I also advise you to imagine that it has already been realized. Let the person fix the image of the “winner” in his own memory,” the specialist says. And, finally, after this (an equally important ritual) - the desire must be released into the universe (so as not to "burn" its energy). One way, according to the psychologist, is to imagine that a wish will never come true: the feeling of unfulfillment will moderate the ardor of a person. Another option: you can write a wish on a piece of paper and burn it. By the way, the psychologist does not advise making a wish on the night of December 31 to January 1. “The first day of January is the beginning of the New Year according to the solar calendar. The energy of the sun can burn desire. It is best to "saturate" the dream with the energy of the moon by making it on New Year's Eve according to the lunar calendar. "Lunar" 2011 year will come on February 3, "- says the expert. In addition, according to the psychologist, on January 4 there will be a solar eclipse (it happens only twice a year). “And all the wishes made on this day have a very strong energy,” says the psychologist. “During this period, each person can not only get rid of negative feelings, but also form a program for the fulfillment of their desires for six months and even for a whole year.”

And finally, the last step: after the ritual of guessing, each person must ask himself the question: “What am I ready to do within the next 72 hours to make this wish come true?”. Yes, according to Tatyana Dugelnaya, to make a wish come true, it’s not enough just to make it up and send a request to the universe - you need to take a minimum step towards it within 3 days, that is, some kind of action.

METHOD number 3: EVERYTHING BAD - ON THE FIRE

According to the head of the Center for Transpersonal Psychology and Psychotherapy "Evolution", psychologist Valeria Tymoshchuk, on the last day of the outgoing year, each of us should find a little time to be alone with ourselves. “Let a person take small sheets of paper and describe their difficulties and troubles on each of them - in general, what prevented you from being effective, joyful and harmonious,” Valeria Tymoshchuk shares her “recipe”. - Then you need to light a candle and, concentrating, burn the leaf. At the same time, you need to imagine and feel how the fire burns the negative energy of all the troubles that have happened. Then, according to the specialist, the ashes from all the burnt sheets should be put on a plate and approached to the open window. “You should dispel the ashes from the window with these words: “I let go of my life everything old, unnecessary, everything that prevents me from being effective, joyful, harmonious, happy. So be it!”, sums up the expert. After this small ritual, according to the psychologist, each person should focus on three positive events that he would like to appear in his life. “And in the first minute of the upcoming New Year, you need to say your wishes into a glass of drink, as if it has already happened, and drink,” says Valeria Tymoshchuk.

METHOD #4: MANDALA - TO HELP

An effective method of individual psychotherapy is drawing mandalas (translated from Sanskrit as “disk” or “wheel”). As Valeria Tymoshchuk says, mandalotherapy is needed in a person's life when a certain question or task appears on his way. Also, by drawing mandalas, you can restore harmony in the soul. “Drawing a mandala and focusing on colors and symbols, a person is in a meditative state and addresses his subconscious. There are already answers to all his questions, ”the specialist talks about the principle of mandalotherapy.

NEW YEAR'S MANDALA. You can create a mandala not only for some question or problem, but also for a cherished desire. As always, for starters, according to the psychologist, you need to formulate it. After - retire, take a sheet of paper and draw a circle with a diameter of about 15 cm. The center of the circle is the center of the inner world of a person. Then - time to paint the mandala and fill it with different symbols-drawings (anything that a person associates with his goal), starting from the center of the circle. “If we talk about colors, then, of course, each color initially has its own properties. But you should not build on this alone, says the expert. - Each person has his own “color dictionary”, where each color denotes a certain emotion or feeling (after all, not for everyone, for example, love is associated with red, for someone it can be white). Therefore, you need to paint the mandala in accordance with your own ideas about the properties of colors (the same applies to figures). So, the drawing is finished. If it inspires the author, then it can be used as a kind of moral “feed”: You can hang the mandala either at home or just carry it with you.

METHOD #5: FEED THE ANGELS

This ritual can be performed on December 31 in a state of complete relaxation (the ideal place is the bathroom). “Every time I make a wish, I take away his selfishness. This means that I imagine this: everything that I have thought for myself, all people receive, - art therapist Rivil Kofman reveals his secret. For example, a woman wants a new pair of shoes. Closing her eyes, she should see how many other women go to the shoe stores. There they are offered a huge assortment of different shoes and are helped to try on each pair of shoes they like. And finally, you need to fix the happiness of each of them from a successful purchase.

Still, according to Rivil Kofman, you need to thank the future fulfillers of desires. “To do this, it is enough to mentally invite them to visit, treat them with something tasty and give a small gift as a token of gratitude. By the way, personally, I always imagine angels as performers. I have many angels: each of them has its own function. In this ritual, it is important to feel the moment when the performers are delighted with the reception. Then you need to see them off and forget about your desire, sending it to the universe, ”says the art therapist.

METHOD #6: THE ROAD TO THE NEW YEAR

“The New Year's path can be built from any material at hand,” psychologist Tatyana Zaitsevskaya begins her story. - For example, it can be cut out of paper or laid out from books, placing small candles along the road. Then you need to choose a symbol for the next year. It can be either a toy of a cat or a rabbit, or any other object that symbolizes what a person is striving for,” says Tatyana Zaitsevskaya. The "salt" of all this needlework is not just to make a kind of transition to the New Year. Not at all. According to the psychologist, in the process of creativity, a person must take stock of the outgoing year: analyze what has come true and what has not, and clearly define priorities for the next year. And already on December 31, shortly before the onset of the new year, you can sit silently in front of this path for a couple of minutes, gathering your thoughts, and then, to the sound of the clock, walk along this path to your desires.

METHOD #7: LUCKY CALENDAR

Many of you have probably heard of the "wish card". About the poster, which is divided into sectors according to Feng Shui - family, health, children, career, etc. As you know, these sectors need to be filled with the pictures you like on this topic, and your photo should be placed in the center of the poster. The visualization effect is triggered - a person looks at the pictures and attracts what he wants. “I am a fan of the Vedic culture, so my ritual will be connected with the Slavic gods. I propose to “strengthen” the map of desires and make a “Happy 2011 Calendar,” says psychologist Natalia Galitsyna. - From December 25 to January 6, there are Veselova days - 12 days, which are responsible for each month of the new year. And it is on these days that each person will be able to saturate his new year with the events necessary for himself. And the Slavic gods will help in this. So, according to the specialist, for each season his own god answered: for spring - Khors, for summer - Yarilo, for autumn - Dazhbog, and for winter - Svarog. “I propose to divide the poster into 4 sectors, or dig deeper by making a full-fledged calendar for 12 months, because each month also has its own god,” says the psychologist. - A person needs to find images of these gods on the Internet, choose the ones they like and paste them over each sector. In addition, each god bore its fruits and was revered in its own way. Horse was revered from December 22 to March 21, Yaril - from March 21 to June 22, Dazhbog - from June 22 to September 23, and Svarog - from September 23 to December 22. Also, all gods have their own symbols. They also need to be glued to the calendar.

LIKBEZ BY SYMBOLS

So, Svarog is the god of fire (his symbols are sky, fire, heat). During this period, rituals to attract money and prosperity to the house will succeed. You can safely glue images to the sector of this god, symbolizing material well-being. Then Horse is a male deity, embodying the desire of boys and men for knowledge, spiritual growth, self-improvement, to overcome the difficulties encountered in life and find the right solutions. In this sector, you can glue images about a career, achieving important goals, fame. The next one is Yarilo. This is the god of the summer sun, light, goodness, the patron of weddings, nature. In this sector, people who are looking for their half can glue pictures of happy couples (preferably with their own face), and family people - photos of the whole family so that Yarilo protects her. In addition, Yarilo gave a good harvest and healthy offspring. This means that those who dream of children need to stick photos of pregnant women and newborns in this sector. And, finally, they expected the fulfillment of desires, health and other benefits from Dazhdbog. According to the advice of a specialist, you need to hang such a calendar in a secluded place, away from prying eyes. And do not forget to thank the gods for fulfilled wishes.

METHOD #8: MAKE A MAGIC WAND

“The owners of the magic wand are fairies and wizards,” says psychologist Elena Voznesenskaya. - As you know, their images came to us from a fairy tale. The latter, as you know, reflect our collective unconscious. That is, it means that in each of us there is a fairy or a wizard who can fulfill wishes. Our magical abilities manifest themselves in everyday life, for example, when we guess someone's desire and suddenly give the person something that he had long dreamed of, but did not say. Therefore, each person can become a magician for himself.

First, of course, you need to make a wish (the rules for making a wish are similar to those described above. - Auth.), Then - make that same magic wand. It can be made from any materials at hand, even from a simple pencil, decorated with ribbons and various sparkles. But what will be the magical procedure for creating a miracle (for example, three waves of a magic wand) - everyone decides for himself. According to the psychologist, the ritual can be performed at midnight on December 31st. Have each member of the family, holding their own magic wand in their hand, say out loud their wish (or one for all). Yes, it is good to perform such a ritual with the whole family - after all, then the desire of everyone is "fueled" by the energy of other family members. “Actually, there is no magic here. Indeed, thanks to faith in this ritual, we give energy to our dream. Therefore, the circumstances in our lives will develop in such a way that we get what we want, ”Elena Voznesenskaya reveals the secret.

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE:

Lada Luzina, writer:

“Once I learned about one New Year's ritual that needs to be performed not on New Year's Eve, but on January 1 throughout the day. Its essence: if a person wants to spend the New Year calmly in the family circle, then all day you need to be lazy, lie in bed and not leave the house. If, on the contrary, in order for the new year to be bright and with a lot of positive impressions, then during this day he needs to change clothes several times. I decided to test this ritual for "professional suitability". A couple of years ago, on January 1st, I changed clothes, probably about 5 times. The most amazing thing is that it helped! The year was indeed very turbulent. But when I tried to follow the well-known principle “as you celebrate the New Year, so you will spend it,” nothing worked. Therefore, I no longer believe in this ritual. For example, once I celebrated the New Year in Paris. The next year was perhaps the darkest in my life.

Newspaper "Today"

Portal for the student. Self-training

If you write a wish and burn it. Family and personal psychologist Yana Borokhta

Problem Burning Technique

Ritual of Burning Problems

You may also like:

Portal for the student. Self-training

Problem Burning Technique

Ritual of Burning Problems

You may also like:

RELATED ARTICLES