The article talks about what types of etiquette rules exist, as well as what etiquette rules children should know from a very young age.

Etiquette is usually called the norms and rules of behavior in a certain place and in certain situations. It is very important to teach the child these rules, then parents will not have to feel embarrassed for their child, but on the contrary, and more than once they will have to hear words of gratitude for the good manners of the person they raised.

Types of children's etiquette

There are many types of etiquette. However, there are somewhat fewer varieties of etiquette for children than for adults, these include:

• Day off (this type of etiquette includes the rules of conduct in public places, such as cinema, theater, museum, etc.)
• Guest (standards of behavior away)

IMPORTANT: To instill in a child good manners, to make a well-mannered person out of him is possible only for those parents who themselves follow the rules of etiquette. After all, absolutely all children learn, first of all, on the personal examples of adults.

• Passenger (rules of conduct in public transport)
• Speech (rules of verbal communication)
• Family (rules of communication in the family)

IMPORTANT: In addition to parents, a role model for a child is his environment, so you should pay attention to who your child communicates with.

• Canteen (rules of conduct at the table)
• Telephone (rules of communication by telephone, including through messages and emails)
• Educational (rules of conduct in preschool institutions, schools, etc.)

By the way, for adults, in addition to the above types of etiquette, there are also the following:

• Military
• Diplomatic
• Corporate
• Professional
• Religious
• Wedding
• Sports
• Mourning

At what age should you start teaching etiquette?

Many parents may be surprised to learn that the rules of etiquette need to be taught to a child from birth.

• Even a very small baby can easily begin to be taught good manners with a look, intonation, and certain phrases. For example, you should wish the crumbs a good appetite, thank him if he handed you a rattle, etc.

IMPORTANT: Already at a very early age, it is worth praising the child for good manners, as well as showing the intonation of the voice when he does not act quite right.

• From two to four years, parents should begin to actively teach the child the rules of etiquette. You should tell him how to act and how not to, motivate the child and do not forget about personal example

IMPORTANT: At this age, it is worth using game forms of teaching a child etiquette. It is already possible to stage situations, use story games, do not forget about funny poems and fairy tales on the topic of etiquette.

• From four to six years old, the child should realize the need for teaching good manners - this will help him in communicating with peers and with adults. An important role in education is assigned not only to parents, but also to teachers of preschool institutions.
• Etiquette is also taught in schools, but by this age the child should already have some knowledge in this matter.

Children's courtesy etiquette: lessons

Children should be taught the rules of etiquette on an ongoing basis, using game forms, reminders, examples, etc. It must be an ongoing process. Constant pronunciation, demonstration by adults of good behavior without fail will be crowned with success.

As for teaching politeness to children in kindergartens and schools, there are specially designed programs and lessons for teachers. The necessary materials and video tutorials will not be difficult to find on the Internet.

Etiquette at the table for children and schoolchildren: rules

Teaching your child how to behave at the table should start from a very young age. Being still quite a crumb, the child must understand that eating should be in a strictly designated place - in the dining room, in the kitchen.

The rules of etiquette at the table, which should be taught to very young children, also include the following:

• For eating, you should use special cutlery, food should be placed on plates
• During meals, as needed, you should use a napkin

In the future, as they grow older, the child must remember the following rules of etiquette at the table:

• Sit down at the table and start eating should be together with everyone
• At the beginning of the meal, you should wish everyone present at the table a bon appetit
• Food should be eaten in silence, it is forbidden to indulge at the table
• Eat with your mouth closed
• At the table it is forbidden to champ, crunch loudly, get food stuck in your teeth with your fingers
• Large pieces of food should be divided using cutlery into smaller ones - do not fill your mouth with food.
• It is forbidden to lick the plate, even if it was very tasty
• Don't put your elbows on the table
• If the desired dish is located away from the child, then he should ask for the dish to be handed over to him - it is forbidden to reach across the entire table
• At the end of the meal, say "Thank you!"

Video: Presentation Etiquette and table manners

Etiquette for children away

It is very important to teach the child how to receive guests at home and how to behave at their home. For this, it is worth remembering only some simple rules:

• Do not come to visit without an invitation, but, in case of urgent need, inform the hosts about your visit yourself. Unexpected guests almost always bring anxiety and trouble to the owners.
• Do not persistently call or knock on the door - no more than two times
• When visiting, be sure to take a gift or a gift with you - it is impolite to go on a visit without a gift
• Guests should behave calmly and with restraint, it is forbidden to make noise and run
• It is forbidden to touch things of the owners without asking, look into locked rooms, open cabinets, etc.
• You can not give a bad assessment of the owner's house, including the existing mess, bad smell, etc.
• In the case of an invitation to the table, you should eat carefully
• Don't stay away for a long time
• Before leaving, be sure to thank the hosts for the warm welcome and refreshments.
• Guests should be invited ahead of time.
• It is mandatory to pay attention to each invited
• Before guests leave, thank them for their visit.

Etiquette of behavior of children in public places

In order for parents not to blush because of the limping behavior of the child outside the walls of the apartment, even at home you should tell him about the rules of behavior in public places.

I would like to pay special attention to the rules of etiquette in public transport:

• Before entering the transport, you should let everyone who gets out of it
• Men and boys must let women and girls go ahead of them, and only then enter the public transport salon
• It is forbidden to push passengers with their elbows, moving deeper into the cabin in order to take an empty seat.
• You should give way to the elderly, disabled, pregnant women and passengers with children
• When entering the transport, you should remove satchels and backpacks from your shoulders so as not to interfere with other passengers.
• Do not crowd at the entrance if there is no need to get off at the next stop
• In public transport, it is forbidden to eat, shake off dirt, raindrops, snow from clothes
• In the passenger compartment it is forbidden to run, talk loudly, dirty the seats
• It is forbidden to look closely at other passengers in the public transport cabin
• Animals must be transported in special bags or cages, and dogs must be muzzled.
• In transport, you should prepare in advance for the exit.
• On the street, standing vehicles should be bypassed from behind, only trams - from the front.

Etiquette of behavior of children on the street

On the street, as well as at home, as well as at a party, certain norms of behavior should be observed. Parents should pay a lot of attention to ensure that their child behaves well on the street.

The child must clearly understand that:

• Garbage should be in the bin, not on the ground
• It is forbidden to walk on the lawns
• It is forbidden to make noise, run, hurt others
• You can't point fingers at people, point out their flaws
• To avoid collisions with passers-by, when walking on the sidewalk, keep to the right side
• In the event of a stop, you should step aside so as not to disturb passers-by.
• It is forbidden to eat on the go, it is better to stop or sit on a bench
• It is worth remembering the rules of the road
• You can not leave the place where the parents asked to wait
• Do not give your address and phone number to strangers
• You can't go anywhere with strangers

Etiquette of children's behavior in the theater

It is so good when a child has the opportunity to develop culturally. Therefore, parents should pay attention to this issue and at least occasionally take the child to theaters, cinemas, museums, exhibitions, etc.

At the same time, parents should take care in advance to teach the child good manners. For example, in the theatre:

• You should look neat, it is unacceptable to come in dirty or torn clothes
• You should arrive early so that there is time to put yourself in order, put your outerwear in the cloakroom
• It is necessary to take a seat, especially if it is located in the middle of the row, in advance so that you do not have to disturb the rest of the audience later
• You should move along the row to your place only facing those sitting, apologizing for the inconvenience. Do not forget about the words of gratitude
• During the performance, it is forbidden to make noise, share impressions, talk on the phone - this can be done during the intermission
• Eating and drinking is prohibited during the performance.
• During the performance, you should sit still so as not to interfere with those sitting behind

Video: Rules of conduct in the theater

Etiquette of communication between children and people

There are also rules for communicating with people that absolutely everyone should follow.

Junior schoolchildren, like preschoolers, should learn the rules of communication with people, for this, if necessary, they should be reminded of the rules of speech etiquette set out in the section above, and reinforce them.

Rules of etiquette for the behavior of children at school

There are also certain rules of conduct at school. These include the following:

• Respect teachers
• Please arrive at school 10-15 minutes before class starts.
• You should come to school prepared - do all your homework, do not forget books and notebooks, do not forget your sports uniform
• It is forbidden to leave the school on your own during classes
• During class, if there is a need to go out, you should raise your hand and ask the teacher for permission.
• Missing classes is allowed only for a good reason.
• Turn off your cell phone during class
• At the beginning of the lesson, you should greet the teacher with a standing
• If you have a question or want to answer a question, you should raise your hand and wait for the teacher to pay attention to you
• Keep order in your workplace
• Eating is not allowed during class.
• The bell at the end of the lesson is for the teacher. Wait for the teacher to finish
• During the break it is forbidden to run, shout, swear, fight - disturb the order in the school

Most schools have their own additional rules, which must be clearly followed. These rules can be found directly at the school.

Etiquette of behavior of children in the family

Etiquette rules should be observed everywhere, and the family is no exception. Even the smallest baby should know:

• With parents, grandparents, etc. should communicate respectfully
• You can not argue with relatives, swear with them
• Entering the room to the parents, you should knock
• It is forbidden to swear, fight with brothers and sisters, snitch on them
• You should adhere to all the rules and traditions established directly in the family

IMPORTANT: It is best to teach the child the rules of behavior in the family by personal example.

Phone etiquette for kids

Parents should explain to the child that during a telephone conversation, all the rules of speech etiquette should be used. Along with these rules, the following can be attributed to telephone etiquette:

• Phone calls should be restricted unnecessarily from 21.00 pm to 08.00 am, and on weekends from 21.00 pm to 10.00 am
• A telephone conversation should begin with a greeting, and at the end of the conversation you should definitely say goodbye
• In places where the rules of etiquette do not allow talking on the phone, you should turn it off
• If you told someone that you would call back, then you should definitely do it.
• Rules of etiquette forbid answering someone else's phone calls
• Apologize if you dialed a wrong number
• Etiquette rules do not allow you to talk loudly on the phone in public places
• It is forbidden to play with the phone
• All messages must be well-written

Teaching Etiquette: Talking to Children

Teaching etiquette to children, in addition to game forms, can also be in the form of targeted communication. There is a huge amount of materials and lessons that will help both parents and teachers to properly build a conversation and easily convey the necessary information to children.

It is worth remembering that the conversation should be:

• Not tiresome for children, and therefore not long
• Emotionally colored, not monotonous - children should be interested
• Two-way - children must take an active part in the conversation
• Bright and memorable - you should use various visual examples in the form of pictures, audio materials, video materials

IMPORTANT: Learning the rules of etiquette in the form of a conversation is best used for older preschool children and schoolchildren.

Etiquette games for kids. Contests, quizzes for children on etiquette

Detailed scenarios of games, competitions and quizzes, both parents and teachers can easily find in bookstores, libraries, the Internet, etc.

Etiquette books for children

In all bookstores, as well as on the Internet, you can find a wide selection of literature on etiquette for children. These can be both books as a manual for adults, and books for older children to read directly.

Here is a list of just a few of them:

• Rules of conduct for educated children. Galina Shalaeva
• ABC of courtesy. Lyudmila Vasilyeva-Gangnus
• Polite words. Olga Korneeva
• Bon appetit! Politeness lessons. For children from 1 year old. Sergey Savushkin
• Etiquette for children of different years. Andrey Usachev
• Grow cultural. For children 4-5 years old. Svetlana Pyatak, Natalia Tsarikova
• Lessons of Politeness and Kindness. Handbook on children's etiquette for teachers of kindergartens and early development schools. Elena Barinova
• ABC of etiquette for kids. 33 rules of good manners. Natalia Ivanova
• Etiquette for the future lady. Antonina Eliseeva
• Sociable tales. Conversations with children about politeness and culture of communication. Tatyana Shorygina
• 1000 etiquette lessons for the smartest kids. Valentina Dmitrieva
• Fairy courtesy tips. Viktor Kudlachev, Irina Fomenkova
• We learn to be exemplary. Vladimir Stepanov
• ABC of courtesy. Natalia Chub

Fairy tales about etiquette for children

All in the same bookstores you can also find fairy tales that are designed to teach children good manners.

Poems about children's etiquette rules

I say to a friend: “Hi!”
And he answered: “Great!”.
There's nothing wrong here
Both words fit.

Senior, if we meet with him,
The first "Hello!" We are speaking.

Clothes are in order - everything is clean, tidy -
It's nice to talk to such a person.
A dirty, shaggy, ragged look -
Tells friends to stay away.

"Hello!" - talking when we meet
To all friends, acquaintances and relatives.
And when we leave: "Goodbye!" —
Let the parting be short.

It's rude to talk
teasing mockingly -
It's bad, it's ugly!
Need to apologize.

Mom has a lot to do around the house,
In the cares of dad day after day.
And we are ready to help relatives
Let's save the games for later.

If grandma gets tired -
Let her rest.
Well, the grandson will not make noise,
There will be silence in the house.

For help and support
Thank you always.
And, having received a gift,
"Thanks!" we are talking.

The adults are talking.
Important conversation.
They shouldn't interfere
Such is the agreement.

We have trouble in the yard -
A sneak appeared.
We don't hate her.
We just don't play with her.

There are kids like this
They praise themselves wholeheartedly.
They usually say this:
“It’s indecent to be a braggart!
Be good not in words
But in deeds and deeds.

Laugh at friends
Discuss them behind their backs
Only bad guys can.
People shouldn't be offended!

Old lady on the bus
Give up the place.
Sensitivity and attention
Show to the elders.

Quietly we enter the transport,
we don’t run here, we don’t litter.
We do not shout and do not sing -
We're behaving well!

Let someone's thing you like -
Restrain your desires.
Forget, or turn to the owner,
But don't you dare steal someone else's stuff!

In public transport
Be calm, be quiet.
Be polite -
Respect others.

Do not lie and slander
When you are in charge.
Decide to admit your guilt
Children must be honest!

Lessons of politeness and etiquette: cartoon for children

There is a huge selection of cartoons, both Soviet and modern, that are able to teach a child politeness, which clearly demonstrate the rules of etiquette. Separate series about politeness and about the rules of etiquette can be found among such modern cartoons as:

• Malyshariki
• Smeshariki
• Luntik
• Lessons from Aunt Owl

Pay attention to your child, teach him the rules of etiquette, and then you will be able to raise a good person.

Video: First LESSONS OF POLITENESS FOR CHILDREN

THE MAGIC BOOK OF THE KING OF ETIQUETTE.

The culture of each family is made up of the traditions of the people. It is carefully passed down from generation to generation. Politeness is a reflection of our inner culture and our spirituality. Ivan Alexandrovich Ilyin wrote: “In the world there is only one opportunity to get out of the dust of life and resist its whirlwind: this is spiritual life. Life is an art, and like any art, it is designed to create harmony. Telling, explaining to our children why, why, how a person is obliged to behave in an appropriate environment, we try to induce and develop moral feelings in children, their spirituality, teach them to live in harmony with others. We open the doors to the world of knowledge and science for our children, but we must also instill kindness, politeness, and the ability to interact with each other correctly in our hearts and minds. A polite person has no time to be bored. He always takes care of friends and family. All good people in the world try to help each other. Builders build kindergartens, schools, shops. Doctors treat diseases. Teachers teach children. Tailors sew clothes. Why shouldn't we be polite to each other? It's not difficult at all. You just have to follow the rules of etiquette. It is very important to observe them at home too. The polite words "Hello", "Thank you", "Good night" are pleasant to hear for everyone. The morning greeting "Good morning" is a sign of attention and respect for a person. Good wishes in the morning energize and bring good luck.

Both children and adults want to have many friends. But not only friends, but simply acquaintances and strangers who would treat him kindly. “Human life rests on self-management and self-education, the art of living is the art of educating oneself,” said one of the Russian thinkers. Adults can and should help launch this “art of living” mechanism for our children. After all, it is not difficult to give way to an old person, a baby, a disabled person. It's easy to help mom wash the dishes. It's easy to clean your room. A polite person always follows all these rules. And not only these.

Frank instructions and edifications are difficult for children to perceive, so the book is based on teaching the rules of etiquette through fairy tales. The tales are periodically interrupted by the rules of courtesy from the magic book of the King of Etiquette.

Tell the children about World Greetings Day and spend the holiday "Hello, friend!". That day is November 21st. It was invented by two American brothers Michael and Brian McComack.

“Learning etiquette is useful in life”, “You won’t learn in childhood - you will get wet in life” is said in folk proverbs. And proverbs are folk wisdom.

WHERE IT ALL STARTED.

A Sultan lived in a distant country. And he had an astrologer who fulfilled any of his desires. For many years he served his master and did many miracles for him. There was a fountain in the palace, in the water of which all the cities of the world were reflected. A garden where birds of paradise sang, a mirror that could make anyone laugh. But no one saw it. The greedy Sultan showed nothing to anyone, but hid everything behind seven locks. The astrologer had a book. He wrote down in it fairy tales that he composed, wise advice on how to make people happy and much more. But it was not an easy book. Each time, surprisingly, new pages suddenly appeared in it with fairy tales and advice that the astrologer did not write. In a word, a real magic book.

One morning the astrologer woke up and realized that he had wasted his years on the Sultan. There is no benefit and joy from his work to people, he really did not help anyone in life. And he decided to leave the palace, taking his magic book.

He walked and walked and came to a small house by the road. In this house lived the children of the poor, brother and sister. Their parents died and they were left alone. A boy and a girl sheltered a traveler.

Children got up every day early in the morning and began to work. The boy sculpted birds from clay, and the girl helped him. Then they painted them together and sold them at the market. That's what they fed. The astrologer also began to help them. The toys turned out beautiful and they were well bought. There was a great heat wave that year. Many birds have died. But trouble did not come alone. Voracious locusts attacked the fields and began to destroy crops. Hunger has come. Nobody bought toy birds anymore. But the children continued to work every morning. Soon there were so many birds that they filled the whole room. Once two old men were passing by the house, and the astrologer heard their conversation: “Yes, our affairs are bad. There were no birds at all. There is no one to drive the locusts away and save us from this scourge.” At this time, he had a ready-made bird in his hand. He spoke the magic words and the bird came to life. Then he revived the next bird, then another and another. And so all the birds they made. The birds gathered in a large flock and, having flown on the locust, quickly pecked it. The gardens blossomed again and the fields turned green. Things have gotten better for the kids. People rejoiced at the salvation, and everyone tried to buy toys from them. But the astrologer rejoiced most of all. Finally, his dream to help people came true. He opened the magic book and wrote on its pages:

Love and hard work do wonders.

The world rests on mutual understanding, love, friendship and respect for each other

FAIRY TALE "EVERY PERSON IS KNOWN BY WORK".

The old man planted millet near the house. It grew thick and tall. He collected grains, and from the stems he tied a broom.

Good! thought the old man, looking at his work. Then he took his balalaika and played cheerful music. Broom suddenly jumped up once, twice and started dancing around the hut. And the faster the old man played, the better the broom swept the room. Removed all rubbish and put it in its place.

Good! - the old man repeated again and carried him to sell.

A pockmarked man bought a broom. Brought it home and threw it under the bench. A broom lies idle for a day, another, a third, but they don’t even remember about it. And he conceived a broom to escape from the lazy owner.

There are many mice in the house. Once they climbed into the peasant's pantry and ate all his supplies. The man got angry in earnest and decided to catch them. Caught, caught, did not catch a single one. Tired of the chase, and out of frustration, he threw a broom at the mice so that it flew out the window. The broom returned to the old man.

Grandfather was surprised at his return. And the next day he again carried to the market.

The merchant's wife bought a broom. But she also felt bad for him. Where he sweeps, he will be thrown there. Once he was left in the rain on the street. He got wet, caught a cold, completely forgot how to dance. He also ran away from the merchant.

For the third time the old man carried it to sell. The girl Maryasha liked the broom. She straightened the twigs on the broom, carefully tied it with a string, and placed it near the stove. Every day I took him, swept the hut, cleaned the house. And how he danced for her! How tried! Didn't leave a speck of dust or trash. Everywhere is clean and tidy. The neighbors called the girl “Maryanushka the hostess” for her diligence and kindness. She kept the broom forever. People do not say in vain: "Where there is desire, there is skill."

Work feeds, and laziness spoils.

A little time passed, and the astrologer was going on the road again. He thanked the children for the shelter and went to travel. For a long time he wandered through the forests and fields, finally, his road led to a beautiful city. All the houses there were multi-colored, the windows were painted, and on the roofs there were weathercocks. It was evident that hardworking people live here. It's just that the residents behaved strangely. They passed each other angry, unfriendly. There was no laughter or friendly conversation anywhere. Children quarreled among themselves and threw stones. And it was all the fault of an evil sorceress who settled in their city. It was she who bewitched everyone. The Stranger immediately realized that the inhabitants could not do without his help. He went out into the square, sat down on a bench and opened his magic book. People began to stop and come closer. The magic book attracted more and more people. Soon the whole area was filled with people. The old man began to read page after page about the amazing rules that can change life for the better in their beautiful city:

Good morning you said.

Good morning you replied.

Two strings tied you

Warmth and kindness.

Greeting expressions: Hello, Good evening, Good afternoon, Good morning, Greetings.

All over the world it is customary to greet each other when meeting. Residents of Italy, for example, say “Chiao!” when they meet. The Japanese bow low. Residents of Latin America embrace when they meet. In Israel they say "Shalom".

It was invented by two American brothers. Michael and Brian McComack. They sent many greeting letters to different parts of the world and received answers. This idea was supported by the leaders of states and ordinary people.

HOW TO RECEIVE GUESTS CORRECTLY.

*Guests are invited a few days in advance.

* The house should be clean and beautiful.

* The festive table is distinguished by special solemnity.

* The table must be covered with a clean ironed tablecloth.

*Appliances are placed according to the number of guests.

*Delicious treats are prepared for guests.

*Each guest needs attention.

*Small souvenirs can be prepared for guests.

* Think in advance what games you can play and what surprises your guests will enjoy.

Well-dressed hosts welcome guests. Greet every guest with a smile. The guest is pleased to see that he is welcome.

*Seeing off the guests, they must be thanked for coming and rejoicing with the hosts.

*If at the celebration some of the guests meet for the first time, they must be introduced.

* The boy is introduced to the girl. The girl is the first to give a hand when meeting.

* For gifts, they always say “Thank you”.

* A gift is a necessary item for a birthday. It is given to someone they want to please.

* A gift can be made by hand. It keeps the love and warmth of the one who made it. But you have to be sure that you will like it.

*The gift does not have to be expensive, but it must be neatly and beautifully packaged.

* Girls are always pleased if they are given flowers. They should be immediately placed in a vase of water.

*The gift is accepted standing, not sitting.

*Smile to the donor and thank.

* The gift is desirable to consider.

*Gifts must be new.

People liked everything that was written in the book so much that they decided to follow these rules, and made the astrologer their king and called Etiquette. Life in the city has changed a lot. People began to say greetings to each other, to visit each other, to wish health when they met. The rumor about the extraordinary king and his book spread far across the country. The evil sorceress tried again to quarrel everyone among themselves, but she did not have the strength to cope with the wise king and the polite inhabitants of the city. Then she decided to go where they do not know about the King of Etiquette, the magic book, or have forgotten about them.

At the edge of the forest, near the city, a mighty oak grew. A spider named Frosik lived on one of its branches.

The spider was friends with the old oak and respected him, because he knew and kept many secrets of the forest.

Frosik was an excellent master. He knew how to weave strong silvery cobwebs, with the help of which he descended.

Good morning, grandfather oak! - shouted the spider waking up

He did not forget to greet his old friend and the frogs from the neighboring pond. So today, as usual, I went to them, but did not hear my cheerful friends. A shaggy old woman in torn clothes was sitting on the shore and quarreling among themselves its inhabitants:

Hey, you goggle-eyed, don't let anyone sit on your leaf! And you, the green one, give it to him properly!

The little frogs sat on a shiny leaf of a lily and, forgetting about everything in the world, cursed among themselves. The sun hid. A beautiful, clean pond suddenly began to become covered with swamp slime.

Something is wrong here - thought Frosik and quickly climbed the tree.

Grandpa, oak! Some old woman quarreled with all the frogs and turned the pond into a swamp - he shouted.

The leaves on the branches rustled uneasily, and the old oak said:

It's been a long time since an evil sorceress has appeared in our area. It can be seen somewhere that the inhabitants of the forest began to forget the rules of the King of Etiquette. After all, the sorceress becomes stronger when someone behaves incorrectly, offends others. We will not be able to drive it away - the forest will die, turn into a rotten swamp. We must fly to the king. Only he can help us. The road is not going to be easy. Can you do it, my young friend?

I can handle it! I have to save my friends and our forest, the spider replied confidently.

Well, well, good luck! - the oak rustled.

Frosik pushed off the branch, and the wind carried him on a cobweb to the king in the palace.

Two dirty wolf cubs were sitting on a stump near a hazel tree.

I am the eldest, so I will take the biggest nut for myself, one said.

No. I found him, he is mine, another shouted angrily.

The dispute turned into a quarrel. Then the brothers even attacked each other with their fists. Frosik realized that the cubs had forgotten the rules of the King of Etiquette. How to be? We must hurry, because the sorceress is getting stronger and stronger every minute. But he could not help the wolf cubs. He went downstairs and began to play games with them from the magic book and remember the rules of Etiquette.

MAGIC BOOK GAMES.

Games for learning and reinforcing the rules of etiquette and polite communication.

Game "WHAT HAPPENS IF..."

... A word game for the development of the imagination and the consolidation of orientation towards the correct behavior.

1 What will happen if everyone stops washing, washing dirty hands.

2What happens if they stop saying hello to each other

3What will happen if all the children tell lies.

What will happen if people stop protecting nature..

What will happen if children eat only sweets..

6What happens if people do not follow the rules of the road.

7What happens if everyone quarrels

8What happens if you do not turn off the water in the tap.

Game "Daisy"

To solve a riddle means to perform a mental operation, to find a solution. Children consolidate knowledge about hygiene subjects. Cleanliness, neatness, neat appearance are necessary for health.

Players receive a card with a painted center of a flower. They solve riddles and receive petals for the correct answer. Whoever collected the flower faster, he won.

* Bone back, Escapes like a living thing

Stiff bristles, But I won't let him out.

He is friends with mint paste, foams with white foam,

Serves us diligently. Don't be lazy to wash your hands.

(toothbrush) (soap)

* The rain is warm and thick, there are a lot of teeth, but nothing eats

This rain is hard. (hairbrush)

He is without clouds and clouds

Ready to go all day long.

(shower)

The track says

Two embroidered ends:

Wash at least a little Like a hedgehog in appearance

Wash the ink off your face! But does not ask for food

Otherwise, you will dirty me up. Will run through clothes

(towel) And the clothes are cleaner.

(clothes brush)

* In the Linen country I walk, I wander not through the forests

A steamboat is sailing on the river

Now back, then forward And along the mustache, along the hair,

And behind him is such a smooth surface - And my teeth are longer

Not a wrinkle to be seen. Than wolves and bears.

(iron) (comb).

* I will smear your shoes on one finger

And I'll clean their sides Bucket upside down.

So that you don’t even recognize (thimble).

Two dirty shoes.

Promise me to take care of them!

What will I smear? Guess!

(shoe polish)

*Is he an eccentric or ignorant? holding on girlfriend

Look at anyone: Behind my ear,

Clothes are worn on top. One stitch

He has her inside. Century runs after me.

(wardrobe) (needle and thread).

* A warm wave splashes, an iron fish dives,

On the shores of cast iron. And leaves the tail on the wave

Guess, remember: (needle and thread).

What kind of sea is in the room?

(bath)

I work in the locker room

I keep my coat on weight.

(hanger)

If the river through the pipe

Comes running to your house

And hosts in it -

What shall we call it?

(water pipes)

* I am related to Moydodyr,

Open, open me.

And cold water

I will kill you alive.

(water pipes)

* Duck in the sea, tail on the fence.

(ladle)

*Not a moth, not a bird-

Holds two pigtails.

(bow)

*Gum Akulinka

I went for a walk on the back.

And while she was walking

The back turned pink.

(sponge)

On the poorest

Not even a shirt.

(needle)

* Experienced tool -

Not big, not small.

He is full of worries.

He cuts and shears.

(scissors)

*Naughty sandals

Once they told me:

We are afraid of tickling

Shoe strict ...

(brushes)

* And shines, and shines,

It doesn't flatter anyone.

And tell the truth to anyone

Everything as it is will show him.

(mirror)

*Waffle and striped,

Smooth and shaggy

Always at hand

What it is?

(towel)

*Thin-legged Nenila

All dressed up.

Shoe strict ...

(brush)

The game "Guess who it is?".

Many mysteries indicate that animals also take care of themselves. This game can be played with phantoms (beads, cards, postcards, etc.), which players receive for the correct answer. The one with the most forfeits wins.

** He washes his back and ears. Uses trunk like a shower. Guess who he is. Well, of course, this is ... (elephant).

Lives in the North, bathes in the sea. He can roar loudly, eats fish, but is called ... (polar bear).

*Licks daughter with tongue. She also feeds with milk, who is the mother? (cow)

*Drinks milk. Sings songs. Often washes, but does not know with water (cat).

* In a cage, a motley head cleans feathers so deftly, what kind of bird? Guess? Well, of course ... (parrot).

* I know how to cleanly wash not with water, but with my tongue. How often do I dream of a saucer of warm milk (cat)

* Eyes, mustache, tail, and wash everyone cleaner (cat).

* I swam in the water, but remained dry (goose).

* Without arms, without legs, but washes (fish).

* Splashes in the river with a clean silvery back (fish).

* I respect water in any weather. I guard myself from dirt clean gray ... (goose).

* Without a team, they get up in formation, go to the pond, who goes in a long chain, who loves discipline so much? (ducklings).

*Amazing baby: just out of diapers, can swim and dive, who is his mother? (duck)

* I perform in the circus, I wash clothes best of all. Who is it? (raccoon)

Game Say the opposite.

Playing with antonyms. Enrichment of vocabulary. Vision of alternative behavior.

Prepare chips or forfeits (pebbles, beans, small cubes) For a correct answer, the player receives a forfeit. Whoever collects the most wins.

Good morning- Good night. Have fun --- be sad.

Neat ---- sloppy. Love --- hate.

Hello --- Goodbye. Laugh ---- cry.

Generous --- greedy. Faithful --- traitor.

Hello - goodbye. Speak - be silent.

Be friends --- enmity. Kind angry.

Healthy is sick. Light ---- darkness.

Allow-prohibit. Kindness-cruelty.

Joy is sorrow. Smile --- frown.

Day Night. Give --- take away.

Bitter -- sweet. Peaceful - warlike.

Scream - be silent. Clean --- dirty.

The game "Why do they say so."

We develop logical thinking. We teach children to understand proverbs.

Etiquette to learn - always come in handy.

You don't learn in childhood - you get dirty all your life.

Eat kalachi, but less babble.

Eat mushroom pies, but keep your mouth shut.

Put the pig at the table, she and her feet on the table.

The owner is happy to have a good guest.

The ability to behave decorates, but it costs nothing.

In a strange house, do not be perceptive, but be friendly.

Not for the price of a gift is expensive, but for the giver.

He knew how to call guests, know how to meet.

The guest does not stay long, but sees a lot.

To visit, you need to drive to yourself.

Purity preserves health, and temperance strengthens the mind.

Everything is sacred to the pure.

Whoever sows peace will reap happiness.

Don't be hasty, but be patient.

He destroys himself who does not love others.

Magic tree game.

Learn to communicate politely. Enriching vocabulary. We learn the alphabet.

Game progress: look at the tree. It is not simple. It has unusual leaves. These are kind words that help in communicating with each other. Find a place for each leafletters of the alphabet. Remember these words, and they will help you find friends.

A-neat, active

B-noble, incomparable, grateful

B-generous, attentive, loyal, delightful

G-genius, heroic, literate

D-kind, worthy

J - cheerful, desirable

Z - caring, wonderful

I- perfect, interesting

K - beautiful, cultured

L- beloved, affectionate, amiable

M - sweet, gentle, peaceful

N - gentle, unique

Oh original. a great

P-beautiful, obedient

R- determined, vulnerable

S - modest, brave

T - hardworking, talented

U - smart, smiling

F- fantastic

X- brave, good

H - honest, sensitive

Sh- playful

E- energetic

Yu- nimble

I am bright, clear.

The game "Guess and name."

Develops logical thinking, enriches vocabulary, consolidating knowledge about "human helpers" - body parts and organs.

1 What organ helps a person to see the beauty of the surrounding world? (Eyes).

2 A sport where the players throw the ball into the basket. (Basketball).

3 A place where people go to watch sports. (Stadium).

4 Which animal is called "man's friend"? (Dog).

5 What organ, part of the body is more necessary for the work of an artist, a cook, a musician, a football player?

RULES OF THE MAGIC BOOK.

* The strong help the weak.

*Give way to the younger one. Compliance is a sign of strength, self-esteem, good breeding.

*Always share a toy with a friend.

* Passing through the door, the boy must let the girl go ahead, give way to her.

* Etiquette expressions: please, be kind, let me, let me, I beg you, if you can.

* A kind word always works flawlessly. The tone is polite, not flattering, even, not rude.

*Cleanliness, accuracy, neat appearance are a sign of good breeding.

*Clothes must be clean, ironed, buttons and hangers neatly sewn on, shoes polished. A handkerchief should always be in your pocket.

Thank you Frosik for reconciling us - the cubs said. - We will never forget the rules of Etiquette again. Happy journey!

Goodbye, friends! - the spider answered and flew further on its silvery cobweb.

And while he was flying, King Etiquette wrote new tales and rules into the magic book.

TALE "ZAYKIN STONE".

A hare ran down the road. Suddenly he sees a large stone.

What a wonderful stone - said the hare, stopping. - Whose is he? Looks like nobody. So it will be mine. The fox has a hole, the bear has a lair, the wolf has a lair, but I have nothing.

The hare began to walk around the stone and guard it. The woodpecker flies past. I wanted to sit on a stone to rest, and the hare would scream:

Don't you dare sit on my stone. Shh!

The frightened woodpecker flew away.

Oh, bunny, bunny. You didn’t start a business, said the spider, descending next to it on its cobweb.

The hare was embarrassed. And what is he craving? Suddenly there was a crunch of branches and a bear came out to the edge with a large bundle of firewood. Goes, groans. It's hard for a clubfoot.

Mikhail Potapovich, sit down, have a rest - the hare offered him.

The bear sat down on a stone and rested. He thanked the hare for his kindness and moved on.

And then the hare offered the squirrel with a basket of mushrooms to rest and brought the basket home.

He helped the hedgehog pick apples and take them to the hedgehogs.

Until the evening he helped the forest dwellers. Tired, and he sat down to rest on a stone.

Then a magpie flew in and brought him an invitation to visit from his new friends. The hare washed and combed his hair. Then he picked up nuts and berries and ran to his friends. He knew how to visit properly.

RULES OF THE MAGIC BOOK.*

*Guests come with flowers and gifts.

* Guests are always smartly dressed, bring changeable shoes. At a party it is not customary to walk barefoot and in slippers.

*Guests come in a good mood, prepare congratulations, jokes, riddles, if the guest refuses to speak, do not force him.

* The guest after some time invites the one whom he visited.

* You can not be capricious, shout, quarrel, call names.

* The guest should not touch the things that interested him without permission.

*Guests thank the hosts for the holiday at the end of it and the next day.

One of the important features of a cultured person is the ability to behave at the table.

*At the table, they not only eat, but also communicate: they talk, listen, smile. But they talk quietly, a little and with a mouth free of food.

*Sit at the table with a clean face and hands.

* Eat and drink without leaving traces of food on the tablecloth.

*Do not bow low, but only tilt your head slightly.

*Only the hands are on the table.

*At the table you can not speak loudly or with a full mouth.

* If a fork or spoon has fallen on the floor, we are not in a hurry to pick it up, we will ask for another one, but when we leave the table, we will pick it up.

* We do not rush to eat, but we do not sit for a long time at one dish.

*We change paper napkins as needed and with a new dish.

* In the right hand we hold a knife, with the blade down, and in the left hand, a fork, with the cloves down, if the food (meat, sausage, cheese) needs to be pierced, or with the cloves up, if we put a side dish on the fork.

* We hold the fork firmly when we cut off a piece, and the knife at a slight inclination.

* We bring only a fork to the mouth, not a knife.

*We always thank the hostess for the treat with kind words.

TALE "ROSE AND DANDELION".

In some kingdom, in some state. Many fairy tales begin with these words. There are many different kingdoms in the world. There is also a kingdom of flowers among them. So unusually beautiful flowers grew in this kingdom. Each flower was unique in its beauty, its fragrance. And a rose grew among them. She was a terrible arrogant and braggart. She believed that there were no flowers equal to her.

Fi, - she said, looking at the modest forget-me-nots, - how ugly you are. I am the prettiest here. Why are you needed? All the same, the gardener loves only me.

The gardener loved all the flowers and treated every plant with care. One day, an unfamiliar flower appeared in the garden. Nobody knew where he came from? The gardener did not plant it.

Who are you?” the rose asked angrily.

My name is Dandelion. I flew here and grew up, answered the yellow flower.

Only you were missing here. I don't have enough space, she said.

Do not be angry, dear rose, I will not stay long here. I'll fly away soon, the dandelion justified.

Rose didn't believe him. Because flowers can't fly.

Day after day passed. And then one day the rose fell ill. Her luxurious flowers began to wither. Every day she got worse and worse.

Dandelion was very worried. Despite her difficult nature, he loved her. He turned white with worry.

I am ready to give my life for her, if only to help her!” he said, sighing sadly.

The gardener, examining his flowers, saw that trouble had happened to the rose.

Well, friend dandelion, help the rose, he said and began to dig it out of the ground.

The white dandelion head suddenly crumbled, and the seeds scattered throughout the garden. The dandelion gardener made medicine and watered the rose with it. She immediately came to life.

And why did I offend him? He gave me his life. He was the most faithful and devoted friend, the recovered rose cried bitter tears.

But spring came and all the flowers suddenly saw that several new dandelions had grown in the garden. Their yellow heads stood out brightly in the flower bed. Everyone was so happy about this that it was decided to arrange a holiday in their honor.

Thousands of lights flashed in the sky. It was a fireworks display. Daisies, asters, forget-me-nots gave the best wishes to dandelions. The bells composed music for them and played it on their instruments.

The dandelions smiled and nodded their yellow heads to all the flowers in gratitude. How beautiful the world is when there are many friends in it!

MAGIC BOOK RULES,

* Do NOT always try to be the first.

*Don't be angry or jealous when you lose.

*Don't be arrogant if you can do something better than others.

* Know how to yield, do not argue over trifles.

* Know how to accept the help, advice and remark of a friend.

*Try to help a friend do what he can't do.

Time passed, and Frosik was still on his way. But what is? He began to quickly lose height and fall to the ground. His silver web had been torn from the long journey. He sank lower and lower and finally found himself near beautiful little houses. Skilled craftswomen have recently settled there. Azure flowers, emerald blades of grass in their embroideries seemed to come to life. Here is a fairy tale the king wrote about them in a magic book.

TALE "BIRCH SIDE".

Many years ago there was a village by the river. She was famous for her skilled artisans, and especially for embroiderers. All the girls of this village were wonderful craftswomen. Everyone in the neighborhood marveled at the extraordinary skill. He learned about the girls and the khan from the neighboring kingdom. He planned to kidnap them so that they would work only for him from dawn to dawn. He called his faithful servants and ordered the village where the girls lived to burn, and bring them to him.

Once the girls went to the forest to pick mushrooms and berries. There was a girl among them. She understood the voices of animals and birds, she spoke with the wind and clouds. How did she do it? It is evident that she felt her native nature with her heart.

Meanwhile, the Khan's soldiers were rushing on fast horses to the village to fulfill the order of their master. Girls walk around and do not know that trouble is near. Only suddenly the girl hears how two little birds are talking to each other: “Fly away from here as soon as possible, sister. Evil warriors will be here soon!"

The girl began to call her friends, but it was too late. Horse clatter can be heard quite close by. Then she plucked an unknown weed, uttered quiet words and waved towards the girls. At the same momentthey turned into white birches. Khan's servants flew in, but they can't find anyone. So they returned with nothing to their khan. And on the site of the village, a birch grove has grown.

Since then, birch trees have been compared with girls. They call them slender beauties, decorate them with ribbons for the holiday and dance round dances around. Since then, the girls of the craftswoman appeared in the polite city, decorating the houses of its inhabitants with their work.

Feeling nature with your heart means loving it and protecting it.

FOREST RULES OF THE MAGIC BOOK.

*Do not destroy bird nests.

* Don't leave trash in the forest.

*Don't break trees.

* Do not destroy anthills.

*Do not throw garbage into water bodies.

* Don't catch butterflies.

* Do not tear the cobwebs, because this is someone's house.

*Do not take home forest dwellers.

*Do not light a fire in the forest.

*DO NOT pick wild and forest flowers.

* Do not trample the grass, walk along the paths. The grass cover retains moisture and gives shelter to a huge number of beneficial insects and small animals.

*Do not shoot down unfamiliar or known poisonous mushrooms. Many of them are medicine for forest dwellers.

TALE "GOLDEN FISH".

In one glorious city there lived a boy. He was very fond of reading books about sea voyages and dreamed that one day he would go to distant lands to uncharted shores. There was an aquarium with fish on the table in his room. The boy took care of them and enjoyed watching them frolic. He especially liked the goldfish, only recently for some reason she did not swim with the others, but hid among the plants.

One day the boy was walking past his mother's room and suddenly heard the sound of the sea surf and someone's singing coming from it. There was a large sea shell on a chest of drawers in the room. Sounds seemed to be coming from her. The boy took it and put it to his ear. All of a sudden everything went dark. Multi-colored lights ran along the walls, and the room suddenly disappeared. The boy found himself in the blue hall of a magnificent palace. A girl was sitting on the floor and playing with colored stones. She turned around and said:

I've been waiting for you for a long time.

Are we familiar?

I thought you recognized me.

On her head was a golden crown. It was the princess. The boy suddenly recognized her as his favorite goldfish.

How did I get here? And why are you so sad?

I called you. I need your help. My beloved goldfish sisters are in trouble. I know that you have a good heart, and you will not refuse to help me.

Of course I'm ready.

There is one person in your city. He has fish in his aquarium. He does not like them, does not notice them, and they slowly die. This man works in a museum

Take this old coin. It has lain on the seabed for many years and is of great value to people. But I know that the greatest value is love and life. We need to hurry. Put your ear to the sink and you'll be at home.

The boy did just that.

He quickly found an old man from the museum who had an aquarium.

I'm changing for goldfish, - said the boy and opened his hand.

The old man grabbed the coin and examined it carefully.

This is a rare item! I agree to change, but where did you get it? Stole?

His hand trembled with greed, and his eyes gazed fixedly at the boy.

Give me the fish," the boy said calmly. "I can't tell you where I got it, but I didn't steal it.

Within half an hour the fish were swimming in his aquarium.

The boy became even more friends with his fish. With the help of the shell, he got into the palace whenever he wanted to play with the princess. He had no idea that the old man was following him. He hid at the window and saw how the boy first disappeared, and after a while reappeared. After waiting for the right moment when the boy came out, the greedy old man grabbed the sink and rushed home. He closed himself in the room, leaned his ear against the sink, and immediately found himself in the blue hall of the magnificent palace. On a high throne sat the king of the sea, and next to him were girls in golden crowns. These were his daughters, the fish princesses.

Who are you? Why did he come here uninvited? - the angry voice of the king boomed. The old man could not utter a word for fear.

Father, we know him. He is a greedy and cruel person. Because of him, we almost died if the boy had not saved us.

Ah, that's it. Well, then you should be a fat crab and guard my treasure chests for exactly three years and three days.

At that very moment, the old man turned into a huge crab and lay down at the royal storerooms.

Years have passed. The old man returned to the museum. He never deceived or offended anyone again.

The boy grew up and became the captain of a beautiful ship. He gave an aquarium with fish and a shell to his son. A little time will pass, and the sea will rustle in it, and gentle singing will call a brave heart on the road. But that will be another story.

PAGES OF A MAGIC BOOK.

*We are responsible for those we have tamed.

* Take care of your little friend, love him and take care of him.

*Do not hurt homeless animals.

* Mutual assistance, kindness, nobility are the features of a well-mannered person.

*To come to the aid of someone who is weak and defenseless is an act worthy of respect.

And our traveler, of course, was helped by the girls of the craftswoman. They gave him a colored thread, on which he flew to the palace.

Morning has come in the city of polite people. The weathercocks opened their wings and wanted to shout a morning greeting, but the sun did not appear in the sky, and they froze. Frosik flew into the bedroom window of King Etiquette.

Your Majesty, good morning! Wake up soon! I beg you very much! Trouble! - the spider began to wake the king.

Good morning! Who woke me up? Why are the cockerels silent? - the awakened king asked in surprise.

It's me, Frosik the spider. An evil witch has appeared in our forest. She bewitched my frog friends, and turned the pond into a swamp. The sun has not risen in the sky, so the cockerels are silent.

You are a brave bastard. Thank you for coming to me. We need to quickly drive this uninvited guest away. You can save not only your friends, but also all the inhabitants of the city, because without the morning greeting of the cockerels, they will not be able to wake up. There are magic words that she is afraid of. Listen carefully.

The king leaned towards Frosik and whispered magic words to him.

Then he waved his hand, and our hero instantly found himself at the old oak tree and the pond, near which the sorceress was sitting.

The spider boldly sank down beside her and said loudly:

Get out old woman!

The field, the forest is our friendly home!

We will live, do not grieve!

Let's value friendship!

The sorceress suddenly trembled, fell on the grass and turned into a dirty puddle, which immediately dried up. The sun appeared in the sky. The water in the pond brightened and became transparent. And the frogs croaked merrily.

Hooray! Happened! Never come back here again!

The old oak and the trees rustled, gratefully greeting Frosik. He climbed to the top of the oak tree and heard the roosters crow in the distance. A new day began for the polite residents of the city.

And new pages appeared in the magic book.

Fairy tale "PINK ANGEL".

Marusya was happy. Finally, the teacher praised her for her academic success, and she managed to make peace with her friend Vanya, with whom she had quarreled the day before. Her parents appreciated her efforts. She had never received such wonderful gifts for Christmas. New toys took up all her time, she didn’t even want to go outside. Mom looked into the room and said:

Marusya, it's time for you to take a walk. You can't sit at home all day. Be a good girl.

Marusya went out into the street. It's already evening. There was no one to be seen in the yard. She rode a little on the hill and sat down on a bench.

The girl turned around and froze in surprise. Two snowmen stood nearby. Black eyes looked at her cheerfully, and her mouth smiled.

Not be afraid of us, girl, - said one of them. - We will not offend you. Help us. We were recently made of snow, and we still do not know the city well. We must give a gift to a child who did not receive it on Christmas night. It's very sad, but sometimes this happens and it's not fair.

The snowman took out a gift from the bag and showed it to Marusa. It was a pink angel. He looked at the girl and smiled. Marusya's heart skipped a beat. Here is a toy! She suddenly wanted to take it for herself so much that she forgot about the promise to her mother to be a good girl. She said:

This me.

The snowmen were delighted and gave her an angel. While she was looking at him, the snowmen disappeared.

Suddenly, the angel stopped smiling. His face became sad.

Well, okay, you're still mine, she said and ran home.

At night, she had a dream that she was walking around the city, and only toys were walking towards her. They are all very sad.

Where have people gone? Why are there only toys walking around the city? - the girl asked the cat in boots passing by.

You probably do not know that you are in the land of toys. We are not just toys. We are Christmas gifts. Our main toy, the pink angel, got sick. And now all the children will not receive gifts. But there is one girl who can fix everything.

Marusya, be smart!

Marusya immediately woke up. She jumped out of bed and ran to the tree. It was empty underneath! Her Christmas presents are gone. So it wasn't a dream? So, because of her, all the children will be left without gifts? We need to return the pink angel to the snowmen. But where to look for them?

Marusya quickly dressed and ran out into the street. Snow was falling softly in the yard. She went to the bench, near which she met snowmen and saw a girl.

Hello, my name is Marusya. Have you seen anyone here?” she asked.

The girl shook her head.

I do not know you. What house are you from?” Marusya asked again.

The stranger answered quietly:

I am Taya. My mother and I recently arrived from the village. Here in the city the doctors promised to cure me. They say I have a bad heart.

She turned away and lowered her head. Marusya quickly took out a pink angel from her pocket and said:

Well, of course, they will definitely heal. Look what I have. This toy is for you. She will bring you happiness.

The pink angel smiled again.

Two cheerful snowmen looked out from behind the house and, nodding their heads contentedly to each other, went for a new toy.

It snowed quietly. Christmas has come to town.

RULES OF THE MAGIC BOOK.

*Never cheat. Truth is stronger than lies.

* Never take someone else's.

* Take care of your toys, do not break them, do not scatter them.

* If a toy is broken, be able to politely ask an adult to fix it.

*Share toys with other children.

Spider-Frosik, on the advice of the wise old oak, opened the Forest School, where everyone could study the rules of the King of Etiquette. And, of course, there were plenty of students. Nobody wanted the evil witch to suddenly appear again, and this can happen if you do not know or forget the rules of Etiquette.

Here are some fabulous stories that happened to our heroes. And you, dear reader, have also been to fairy tales, because we get there when we read them, when we listen, when we draw. Our fairy tales are very useful and you will return to them in conversations, in drawings, in games.

This article was written after a very uncomfortable situation, the culprit of which was my grandson, but I blushed like a yellow-mouthed schoolboy, realizing that he had nothing to do with it at all, it’s just that they didn’t explain to him how to behave in an unfamiliar company ... In short, everything necessary on the topic “ETIKETE” - poems, moralizing, well, a little bit of history ...

Etiquette(from French étiquette - label, inscription) - norms and rules of behavior of people in society. In its modern form and meaning, the word was first used at the court of King Louis XIV of France - cards (labels) were handed out to guests outlining how they should behave; although certain codes of norms and rules of conduct have existed since ancient times. In our understanding, etiquette is the rules of good taste that will make communication between people of different cultures and social strata as easy as possible.

What is ETIKET?

What is etiquette
We should know from childhood.
These are the rules of conduct:
How to go to a birthday?
How to meet?
As it is?
How to call?
How to get up?
How to sit?
How to greet an adult?
There are many different questions.
And he answers them
This is the same etiquette.
(A. Usachev)

politeness lesson
Bear, five or six years old
Learned how to behave
- Away, bear,
can't cry
You can't be rude and swagger.
Acquaintances must bow
Take off your hat to them,
Do not step on the paw,
And do not catch fleas with your teeth,
And don't go to four.

No need to slurp and yawn,
And who yawns to his heart's content,
He must cover with his paw
gaping mouth.

Be obedient and be polite
And give way to passers-by
And respect old age.

And granny bear
In fog and ice
See you home!

So Mishka is five or six years old
Learned how to behave...
Although he seemed to be polite,
He remained bearish.

He bowed to the neighbors -
Foxes and bears
I gave way to acquaintances,
He took off his hat to them,
And the unfamiliar came
The whole heel on the paw.

Poke where you don't need a nose,
He trampled grass and crushed oats.
leaned on his belly
In public on the subway
And old men, old women
Threatened to break a rib.

Bear, five or six years old
Learned how to behave

But apparently the educators
Wasted time!
(S. Marshak)

Parting

We wish:
Bon Voyage!
It will be easier
Ride and go.
It will lead, of course,
good way
Something good too.

(A. Kondratiev)

Good morning

Invented by someone
Simple and wise
Greet when meeting:
- Good morning!
- Good morning! -
Sun and birds.
- Good morning! -
Smiling faces.
And everyone becomes
Kind, trustworthy...
May good morning
Lasts until the evening.
(N. Krasilnikov)

Your child is rapidly growing up, and there comes a time when, in addition to affection, care and games, it is worth taking the time to learn etiquette. This is especially important in our time, when many people often forget about good manners and do not attach importance to elementary politeness.
The sooner you start instilling good manners in your child, the easier it will be for both of you in the future, and your child will certainly thank you for it. Sometimes kids just don't understand that it's impolite to interrupt a conversation, poke your nose into adult affairs and loudly discuss people's shortcomings. In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, busy moms and dads don't always find time to focus on etiquette. But if you remember and instill in your child a few simple rules of behavior, you can raise a really polite and well-mannered person.

So, what should a growing baby know?

Etiquette Rule #1

When you ask for something, be sure to say " please».

Etiquette Rule #2

When you receive something, be sure to say " Thank you».

Etiquette Rule #3

Do not interrupt adults when they are talking to each other, unless there are emergencies. As soon as the adults finish the conversation, they will definitely pay attention to you and answer all your questions.

Etiquette Rule #4

If you want to get adults' attention while they're talking, walk up quietly and apologize before you jump in. Polite people do just that.

Etiquette Rule #5

If you are in doubt whether it is worth doing this or that thing, it is better to consult with adults, they will surely give you good advice that will help you and, quite possibly, can save you from any troubles.

Etiquette Rule #6

Try to be restrained and not show your negative emotions in public. It's ugly, you won't earn respect for yourself that way.

Etiquette Rule #7

Never comment on the physical features of other people, the exception is a compliment. Even if a person is ugly in appearance, this is not at all a reason for discussion: in this way you can offend or upset another.

Etiquette Rule #8

When people are interested and ask how you are doing, answer them, then be sure to ask the same question afterwards. A person is always pleased when they are interested.

Etiquette Rule #9

When you spent time at your friend's house, don't forget to thank him and his parents for a great time and for a delicious treat, be sure to say that you will come to visit them again with pleasure.

Etiquette Rule #10

Before entering anywhere, be sure to knock first, and only when you are allowed to enter, open the door.

Etiquette Rule #11

When you call someone, be sure to introduce yourself first, and then politely ask if you can chat with the person you are calling.

GREETINGS

For farewell and meeting
There are many different words:
“Good afternoon!" and " Good evening!“,
“Goodbye!“, “Be healthy!“,
“I am very glad to see you“,
“We haven't seen each other for a hundred years“,
“How are you?“, “Goodnight“,
“Bye everyone“, “Goodbye“, “Hey“,
“I will be glad to see you again“,
“Not saying goodbye!“, “Until morning!“,
“Good luck to all!“, “Be healthy!”
AND " Break a leg!“.
(A. Usachev)

Etiquette Rule #12

Always give thanks and say thank you for any gift you receive. In this age of e-mail and text messages, for example, your grandmother will be very pleased to receive a handwritten letter or card from you thanking you for the gift she received.

Etiquette Rule #13

Never use profanity in the presence of adults. Adults already know all these words and find them boring and unpleasant.

Etiquette Rule #14

Adults should be addressed with “you” and called by their first and middle names. The only exceptions are relatives.

Etiquette Rule #15

Don't laugh at people for no particular reason. By such behavior, you show a person your weakness and narrow-mindedness, all the more, all people are different, there are also very touchy. The person may be offended or angry at you.

Etiquette Rule #16

Even if you are bored during a game or some family gathering, try not to show it. Believe me, people do their best to make everyone interesting and fun.

Etiquette Rule #17

If you accidentally bump into someone, apologize to that person..

Etiquette Rule #18

Cover your mouth with your hand when you cough, yawn or sneeze, and do not blow your nose in public places, in public.

Etiquette Rule #19

When you open the door to get in or out, look for someone behind you to hold the door and help the person.

Etiquette Rule #20

If you pass by older relatives, acquaintances, or teachers who are busy with some business, ask if there is anything you can do to help. It is quite possible that you will be very useful, and you will also be able to learn something new and interesting for yourself.

Etiquette Rule #21

When an adult asks you for a favor, try not to grumble and do it with a smile.

Etiquette Rule #22

When someone helps you, for example, a teacher, be sure to thank, the person will be pleased and he will surely help you next time.

Etiquette Rule #23

Try to use cutlery correctly while eating. If you suddenly do not know how to do it right, consult your parents, they will certainly tell you.

Etiquette Rule #24

During dinner, keep a napkin on your lap, and when necessary, blot your lips with it.
Top 25 Etiquette Rules for Kids

Etiquette Rule #25

If you can't reach a dish or item at the table, politely ask to be handed it to you.

What is etiquette?
It's possible,
This is not…
Etiquette as a label
And a good mark
But not only in the diary,
In people's language...
It is very easy to live culturally.
Everything is fine,
Which is not bad.
(A. Stepanov)

About the handshake

We should know from childhood
ancient science:
Must submit first
Senior junior hand.
Women to men
Girls to boys...
But at the same time the hand
Don't shake too much!

And I want to give advice
For both big and small:
Needs to be washed clean
hands in front of it.

***
If someone starts to drown
Or groaning in a hole...
You can stretch out your hand
Stretch out your hand first
Senior and lady!

(A. Usachev)

The main rule of courtesy

At Zmey Gorynych
THREE HEADS -
And you need to him
Contact YOU.

Push-Pull
With two heads:
Call him on YOU
We are indebted to YOU.

And only one head
At the OWL.
But you need to go to her
Contact YOU.

Contact YOU
I advise you to
And to people, and to birds,
To seals and lions!

But there are gentlemen
That are full of simplicity
And they know one thing:
YOU.

They are strangers
With simple words.
With these words
Like YOU, YOU and YOU.

Their heads are similar
PUMPKIN!
And they climb with a loud
"YOU" to YOU...

But YOU even to them
Contact YOU...
Since there are many of them in the world,
ALAS!

(A. Usachev)

Sooner or later

Who comes to visit late -
He doesn't act seriously.
Disappear from the table
Both halva and pastila.

Get only the bones
For those who arrived late!

Who comes to visit early
It's also weird...
The owner is wearing a bathrobe,
Or they sleep in the house at all.

And they look like a sheep
The one who arrived early.

Come try to visit
Exactly at the appointed hour.
Or - sooner or later -
You will not be invited to visit!
(A. Usachev)

Uninvited company
birthday penguin
Called a friend penguin.
And the friend did not come alone -
He brought his mother from the south ...
And on the tail came the wife,
And it wasn't just one:
Her friend with her husband
Came for a dinner party.

Another friend brought for the evening
There are ten different children...
There was a very strong argument -
Leave home with no one!

Someone's brother and his wife burst in:
What to do at home on weekends?
Brought a neighbor with her granddaughter
And with the bull terrier Zhuchka.

There were so many guests in the house
That the ice floe has broken...
And our master in the house then
Didn't invite the penguin.
(A. Usachev)

Scarecrow
dressed up scarecrow
In our garden:
dressed scarecrow
After the latest fashion.

New vest
And a piece of a T-shirt
Yes, slick shirt
Sticking out from under the sweatshirt.

under red shorts
Pants with stripes are visible,
And over the vest
Two ties are on.

One leg is in a galosh,
The other wears boots
Yes, polka dot cap
Tied up on the head.

And well dressed!
And dressed cool!
Just don't call him
Visiting for some reason.

Call the scarecrow
Scarecrow among the people ...
Even though the scarecrow is dressed
After the latest fashion!
(A. Usachev)

snail invitation

I sent invitations
“Today, exactly at six,
With terrible impatience
Looking forward to your birthday...
There is a strawberry pie!”.

Friends showed up right on time.
The birthday cake was eaten
And drinks were drunk.
The giraffe and the rhinoceros came
Seven forty flew in at once ...
Only there was no snail.

She crawled in three days later
With a bouquet of forget-me-nots:
"My friend! Please forgive me -
I went to you for three days ...
And I hasten to give you a bouquet.
Thank you! Goodbye!
But next time please
Call me EARLY!”.
(A. Usachev)

cat and dog

Once called Anton on his birthday
Vitka with a dog
And Katya with a cat.

The guests did not have time to sit down at the table,
As a conversation familiar to everyone went ...

The dog growled, “I hate cats!
I am ready to drive them day and night.
The cat hissed: “I despise sheepdogs ...
I also came to visit, a gift!”.

They snorted at once - and immediately grappled:
Saucers fell, cups broke
A vase of flowers flies off the table...
But the water could not spill them.

In general, the birthday was not boring:
The guests were washing jam from their clothes.
And the salad was scraped off the ceiling...
Poor owner! And who is to blame?

You can invite
Any company
Just not together
Cat with dog!
(A. Usachev)

unfamiliar insects

Insects came to Ladybug
They are not very familiar with each other.

The bumblebee next to the Fly sat awkwardly -
They were not introduced by Ladybug.

Glad to chat Grasshopper with Beetle,
Only the Grasshopper is unfamiliar with the Beetle.

In complete silence, they sat down on the benches
Two juvenile Dragonflies.

A gloomy Cricket was attached nearby,
He drank a glass of nectar - and was silent.

Magnificently the hostess set the table,
But the insects did not talk:
Silently all the guests got drunk, ate,
And dispersed, spread, scattered.

It's very awkward to communicate
If you don't know how to apply!

***
Are you very tired or just a little -
I advise you not to yawn in front of guests:
Tiredness, yawning, and sleepiness
The owner of a well-bred must hide.

Guests will certainly find it strange
When he starts hugging the couch
And suddenly snores among the soft pillows,
Forget about your beloved friends and girlfriends.

Lead the guests. And then in bed...
And you can yawn, and yawn, and yawn!

***
If the host respects the guests,
So, the owner of the guests escorts:
Someone to the door
Whom - to the road ...
But don't say goodbye to anyone on the doorstep!

It's not a rule of etiquette
It's just such a bad omen.
(A. Usachev)

Stone Flower

The mistress of the Copper Mountain is rich:
In the chambers of her golden carpets,
Crystal chandeliers, diamond arches…
What, imagine, she needs gifts,
If this mistress has a mountain
Full of malachite and silver?!

Everything was not nice to the rich hostess.
But the poor master Danila came to visit:
With a bow, appearing in a luxurious hall,
He handed me a modest malachite flower.

A poor young man was met royally,
Although he did not bring a diamond bouquet.
This story has become a legend...
Such etiquette works wonders!

***
I hope the smart reader understands:
Gift for friend and mom
More expensive is not the more expensive ...
And the one
What is made by hand!
(A. Usachev)

If you don't like the gift

If you don't like the gift,
Try not to shout loudly:
"I don't collect stamps anymore
And I'm not going to collect!”

Or, having received a book as a gift,
Refrain from shouting throughout the house:
“I won’t read it ... Figo!
Could you buy me a computer?

"I will not drink from this cup!",
“I won’t wear such a shirt!”,
“Why did you buy me a doll? ..
Where did you dig up this crap?”

May you not like the gift,
Maybe he is not handsome and not bright,
And will deceive your expectations ...
It is not the gift that is important, but the ATTENTION!
(A. Usachev)

Cannibal and etiquette

Teaching a cannibal baby
Cannibal dad:
If you want to eat your neighbor -
Remember etiquette.

Don't throw yourself like a bone
For guests in the apartment:
If a guest enters the house -
Smile wider!

Let the neighbor be a hundred
Or hit ten
Help them take off their coats
And hang on a nail.

Yes, not a guest, but a coat!
Eat in the hallway - no way!
Cannibal healthy
Eating in the dining room.

And remember from a young age
What do the ancestors say?
No lunch if not
There are napkins on the table.

And don't forget beautiful
Lay out appliances
Otherwise they will talk about us
Rumors, talk.

Homeless people come to dinner
Or the queen...
Put the knife on the right
Well, the fork on the left.

Study it hard.
Well, where is the spoon?
And don't yell at dad...
I repeat baby

Whatever is in the plate -
Poison or poison
Put the fork on the left
Knife and spoon on the right.

Now you can sit down
And decently eat a guest ...

To be fed
You have to be educated!
(A. Usachev)

maritime history

Boy Volodya
Bored at a party:
Chair underneath
Rocked and rocked.
He represented
That he is a brave sailor...
He sailed on the sea
And from the deck - a break.

To put it more precisely, he fell off the chair:
Well, at the same time he was doused with compote.

That's what happened to little Vova.
The case, of course, is not new:
This happens with the sea wolf,
If he sways in a chair for a long time!
(A. Usachev)

Do not interrupt!

Santa Claus came to our garden.
Santa Claus called the guys.

The beard is white as cotton,
And with a bag of gifts.
Santa Claus said: - Guys!
Well, who will read the poem?

We taught poems in the garden:
I taught and my brother taught.
We immediately jumped
I jumped up and he jumped up.

- They dropped the bear on the floor!
- One, two, three, four, five…
- Tore off the bear's paw.
- The bunny went out for a walk.

- Suddenly the hunter runs out,
- I won't leave him anyway.
- Shoots directly at the bunny,
Because he's good!

And while we read
These sad poems
All the guys laughed:
- Ha ha ha and hee hee hee.

And grandfather from laughter
The beard fell off.
So he left us.
What nonsense!

(A. Usachev)

Incident on the stairs

The marquis walked to the ball alone
Famous surnames.
Chagall, of course, is not alone,
And with a lovely lady.

He proudly walked in front of her,
Pushing the servants.
And then a dear lady suddenly
The heel came off.

And the worst surprise
The heel brought the charmer:
She rolled down
Up a long, long staircase.

- Madame, where? shouted the marquis,
Running down after the lady...

But, being near
He was greeted with an angry look:

- You are an unworthy gentleman!
What the hell for
You walked ahead, sir,
Didn't you walk behind?
Who from the fall of the lady
Can't hold
He is unworthy of a lady
Accompany to the ball!

Blushing with a tomato
And hanging your nose down
Was forced in disgrace
Drive away Marquis.

(A. Usachev)

About the dangers of shuffling

Ancient people
Be smart
Because everywhere
They walked silently.

And if they made noise
They are walking
Deer in the forest
Didn't get it.

And the mammoth would run away from them,
And the moose
And die of hunger
People had to!

(A. Usachev)

miraculous word

papa smashed
Precious vase.
grandmother with mom
They frowned immediately.
But dad was found;
Looked into their eyes
And timidly and quietly
"Sorry," he said.
And mom is silent, even smiling.
- We'll buy another one
There are better ones for sale...
"Sorry!"
Seemingly,
What's in it?
But what a wonderful word!
(V. Yusupov)

Main rule

There are pawn games
There are chess games
With kegs and skittles,
Balls and tags.
There are games with chips
There are stick games
Rackets and all
Other gimmicks.
There are different games
And there is only one rule.
Must be the rule
All respected:
IT IS FORBIDDEN TO CRY
HARM
AND STOMP YOUR FEET,
IF YOU LOST!
(G. Dyadina)

Hospitality

Get off this couch
Otherwise, there will be a hole.
Don't walk on carpet
You will poke a hole in it.
And don't touch the bed
You can wrinkle the sheet.
And do not touch my closet -
Your claw is too sharp.
And you don't have to take books -
You can break them.
And don't get in the way...
Oh, don't you better go?
(O. Grigoriev)

A bit of history.

For the first time, the word "etiquette" was used at the court of the French king Louis XIV: at one of the receptions, the guests were given cards with sets of rules - the so-called "labels". But the first instructions on how to behave in certain situations are found on clay tablets of the Sumerians and ancient Egyptians.

Etiquette played an important role in Ancient India with its caste system. In ancient China, by the first half of the 1st millennium BC, norms of behavior - "li" - were developed, in which all human life was regulated literally to the smallest detail. For example, men were ordered to walk only on the right side of the street, and women - only on the left ...

In the XI-XII centuries. formed the rules of Western European etiquette. They clearly defined the boundary between different classes, as well as between representatives of different levels of the noble hierarchy. So, at a gala dinner at the French royal court, all peers had to take their places according to their status - someone was closer to the monarch, and someone was further from him.

In the first half of the 14th century, the first code of good manners, Il Galateo, was published, authored by the Florentine Giovanni della Casa.
The prescriptions set forth in it concerned not only persons of aristocratic origin, but also representatives of other classes, that is, they were universal.

In the 18th century, the bourgeoisie also had its own norms of etiquette. The rules were pretty strict. For example, a woman was forbidden to be alone with a man if he was not her husband or close relative... Although in fact many violated these regulations.

Meet Domostroy!

In Russia, for several centuries, the main instruction on family and domestic relations was the famous "Domostroy", created during the time of Ivan the Terrible. For example, it strictly regulated the rules of hospitality. So, guests were received in accordance with their age and social status. If they came to visit an equal in status, then they drove straight to the porch. If the owner of the house had a higher status, then they stopped at the gate and walked through the yard on foot. Those who stood at higher levels of the social hierarchy were not supposed to visit the “lower in rank” themselves, just the opposite ...

The woman was not considered separately from the man and almost did not participate in public life. She was allowed only occasionally to go to church on a pilgrimage, and rarely to visit, and then, as a rule, with her husband.

According to Domostroy, the wife had to do household chores day and night. She was ordered to consult with her husband about all household chores, who was charged with the duty of educating her and even punishing her, which many husbands probably used with pleasure, since beating negligent wives was considered commonplace in those days ...
A woman was forbidden to eat and drink secretly from her husband, and drinking alcoholic beverages like wine or beer was not allowed at all. Appearing on the street was allowed only by covering his head with a scarf.

A la West

Under Peter I, the patriarchal way of life began to change. Women began to dress up in a European way, to walk with their heads uncovered, they were taken out into the light ...

Gradually, new rules of etiquette began to take shape in society, close to European ones. Girls without fail were taught music, foreign languages, dances, and girls of marriageable age had to be able to maintain small talk. The upbringing of girls was usually governesses and bonnes. Among other things, the girls were taught how to behave with young people, how to greet guests, how to behave with relatives or seniors in “rank” ...

Marriage games and "emancipe"

If in the 18th century girls were married off at the age of 13-14, then by the 19th century. the marriageable age has grown: a young lady was considered a bride from 16, less often from 15 years old. At the age of 16, they began to take her out into the world. Usually the girl was accompanied by her father, sometimes by her mother or an older relative, sometimes the whole family went to balls or theaters. At the same time, the girl had to look modest: a simple hairstyle, a light light dress with a shallow neckline, a minimum of jewelry.

As a rule, girls got acquainted with potential grooms just at social events. Until the age of 25, a girl could go out into the world only with one of her relatives or guardians. If before this age she did not marry, then she was allowed to travel alone from now on.

The rules of conduct between the lady and the gentleman were clearly regulated. For example, if a girl remained unmarried until the age of 30, she did not have the right to host men without the presence of an older relative and could visit them only when accompanied by one of her relatives.

By the end of the 19th century, mores became freer. The so-called "emancipated" women who avoided secular conventions and advocated equality with men ...

National, professional, universal

Nowadays, there are a great many norms of etiquette - both written and unwritten. For example, there are national rules of etiquette that operate within the same country or nationality, and there are professional ones.

In some situations, strict adherence to the rules is necessary, in some situations, conventions and formalities can be dispensed with. But certain general norms are accepted almost everywhere: for example, people of a higher social status are called “you”, the younger one should not interrupt the older one in a conversation, a man should open the door for a woman, and so on ...

Why follow the rules of etiquette? First of all, to pay tribute to the social status of another person. And, finally, in order for our interlocutor to feel comfortable with us. It is often said that nothing is so cheap and valued so dearly aspoliteness …

Olga Tretyakova
Lesson on etiquette "Polite fairy tale" for children of senior preschool age

Learning task:

Improve yourself as a person through communication with people; to consolidate knowledge about the basic rules by which people live, to give an idea that the main thing is not to know the rules, but to fulfill them; to promote the development of children's ideas about the properties of carbon paper - an exact copy of the picture.

Mental task:

Develop the ability to understand your own mood and the mood of other people; to develop the ability to examine objects and phenomena from different angles, to identify dependencies; select material, think over the course of activities to obtain the desired result; stimulate the activity of children to solve a problem situation; expand vocabulary in the field of feelings and emotions.

Educational task:

Build communication skills; to teach the ability to control one's behavior, restrain oneself and listen to the opinions of others; to learn to coordinate one's actions with the actions of a partner when doing work together; foster a sense of mutual assistance; teach to be honest, courageous; to form the highest moral qualities of a person: kindness, honesty, courage, perseverance in the face of temptations, a critical attitude towards one's "I"; the ability to independently improve the traits of their children's character.

Demo material:

Symbols: cloud, cloud from the sun, cloud with rain. Postcards depicting some public holidays. Drawings of magic items: invisibility cap, flying carpet, shoes of runners, treasurer's sword, firebird feather, magic ball. A book with a fairy tale by O. Wilde "The Boy is a Star". Ri-sunks for the fairy tale "The Boy-Star": a beggar woman, a boy, a queen, a prince. Illustration of a Russian hut, images of a plowman, a potter, a warrior, a weaver, a blacksmith, a hunter.

Handout:

Pictograms: joy, calmness, sadness, surprise. pink hearts; Leaves for the oak of wisdom. Numbers for the game "Find a pair". Sheets of white and carbon paper, pen. Flowers for stroke. Pyramid rings. Accessories for table setting (tablecloths, plates, cutlery, glasses, tea pairs, glasses to choose from; elements of festive decoration: a candle in a candlestick, flowers, sequins, sweets, a ship with pirates, a vase of flowers.) me and slices of bread.

Musical accompaniment:

Excerpts from fairy tales: "Thumbelina" G. -Kh. Andersen, “The Tale of the Priest and his Worker Balda” by A. S. Pushkin, “Cat’s House” by S. Ya, Marshak, “Tin Soldier-Tik” by G.-Kh. Andersen, "Aibolit" by K. I. Chukovsky. Russian folk music for dance Background music at the beginning, end of the lesson and while working with carbon paper and table setting.

Lesson progress:

Guys, when you went to kindergarten, did you notice what morning it is today? What air? The air is clear, fresh and clean. What sun? The sun is bright and lu-clear. What sky? The sky is high and azure. What is your mood on this wonderful morning?

Mood is the emotional state you are in. It can be joyful, sunny, when you want to laugh, smile at everyone around. And when the mood is like (the sun) - the teacher's show. Pictogram "cheerful man".

Or maybe the mood is very sad, gloomy, in the eyes by themselves, like raindrops, tears come running. And it looks like such a mood is like a “cloud with rain”. Pictogram "sad man"

And sometimes the mood is not very joyful and not very sad, and so from the middle to the half. Calm. I do not want to laugh and shed tears too. And I want to sit quietly, think about something of my own, quietly play, read or draw. And the mood is similar to "the sun from behind the clouds" The pictogram is "calm person."

Guys, each of you can feel your mood. Let's play the game "Guess what mood." The teacher reads the situation, and the children show the mood with a pictogram

What mood are you in...

You meet your mother

You walk through the park

Petting a cat

Fell into a puddle

Drawing in an album

You go to the dentist

Talking to a friend

Look at the soiled clothes

Reading a book

Dancing at the party

admiring nature

You smear green on your broken knee

Do you buy ice cream?

Guys, our mood is constantly changing from joyful or sad events. Would you like to be in a fairy tale? Magic items can help us with this. What magical items do you know? (Flying carpet, treasure sword, invisible hat, Aladdin's lamp, magic ball, walking shoes). With the help of a magic ball, we will go to a fairy tale.

Now I will start a ball, and you will guess what mood the heroes of the fairy tale had. If there is a cheerful mood, then you will clap your hands, and if you are sad, then stomp your feet.

Musical excerpts from the fairy tales "Thumbelina" by G.-Kh. Andersen, "The Tale of the Priest and his Worker Balda" by A. S. Pushkin, "Cat's House" by S. Ya, Marshak, "The Tin Soldier" by G.-Kh. Andersen, "Aibolit" by K. I. Chukovsky.

Guys, you did a good job with this task. Many Russian folk tales begin like this: “Once upon a time there was an old man and an old woman. And they had three sons." Peasant families in Russia were large, the whole family lived in one hut, but each person had his own occupation.

The weaver wove canvases on a loom.

Potter - made pottery.

Plowman - plowed the land

Hunter - engaged in the extraction of animals

Blacksmith - forged iron

Druzhinnik - defended his family and the village.

The Russian people were very wise. No wonder they say: "There is a lie in a fairy tale, but there is a hint in it, a lesson for good fellows." Let's remember the proverbs and sayings that the Russian people composed and make a pyramid of them.

Fear of bad weather - and there will be no happiness

Heart rejoice and face bloom

Singing merrily - spinning merrily

Every quarrel is red to the world

Anger is a bad advisor

Finished the job - walk boldly

Scolding people is no good

Woe, no grief - if only there was no more

For bread, salt - every minute is good

Well done! Not only proverbs and sayings convey the mood of a person, but also music. Listen to the music playing. What do you want to do? (dance) Let's dance.

We danced well, and now let's remember the names of the numbers from one to ten. And now let's play the game "Find a Pair", everyone is looking for a pair and together they go to the table on which there is the same number.

And when we still have a good mood? For the holidays. What holidays do you know? (children list familiar holidays). Three of the children who answered choose a couple and go to set tables for the holidays: March 8, birthday, new year.

You all love holidays. What should you wear for the holidays? (with gifts). The best gift is flowers.

You have many friends, with which you can quickly make a lot of gifts? (using carbon paper)

And what is it for? (to get a copy, repeat the drawing)

We take two sheets of white paper. Between them we put a sheet of copy paper. Which side down? (oily, paint on it). Your task is to circle the flower with a pen, and whoever wants to draw a stem and leaves for it. Try to keep the drawings the same; you cannot move the carbon paper sheets to another place. Well done, you have completed the task, and now exchange copies with each other. Now our gifts are ready and we are going to visit, let's see how the guys coped with the task. Let's give them gifts.

Let's continue our journey. Take your seats.

In a year you will part with the kindergarten and go to school, but toys and friends will remain in your memory for a long time, you will remember how we raised you, taught you the rules by which you need to live.

What rules do you remember?

To better remember them, let's hang wonderful leaves on a tree. This is an extraordinary tree. This is the oak of wisdom.

Be generous

Be frugal

Be hardworking

Be careful

Love animals and plants

Be curious and observant

Help the small and weak

Respect adults

Don't offend people

Be polite and hospitable

Be honest

Listen to the elders

Look carefully at the oak of wisdom and remember these rules for life.

Whoever remembers will be smart, and whoever remembers and fulfills will be wise. We need rules not only in kindergarten, they will be useful to you at school, college, when you are adults, when you become fathers and mothers, you will teach these rules to your children.

Let's continue our journey. Now you will hear an excerpt from Oscar Wilde's fairy tale "The Star Boy"

1 excerpt

Once, in the cold of winter, two lumberjacks saw a bright star fall from the sky. In the folds of the cloak, they found not a star, but a small child. One of the lumberjacks took the child and, despite poverty and hunger, brought him into the house. The boy grew up very beautiful, but angry, proud and cruel. Once, when a woman came to their village, he threw stones at her and did not want to believe that the woman was a beggar, his mother.

Who liked the boy - the star? Why?

Who liked the beggar?

Give your hearts to the character you like (Children give pink hearts)

The teacher silently analyzes the situation, which children gave hearts to which hero. Then he puts out two vases with sweets and slices of bread.

Guys, the heroes of the fairy tale also want to give you gifts. Take for yourself the gift that you yourself want, but only from the hero that you really liked. The star boy treats you with sweets. And the poor woman has no money, but she wants to treat you with bread. (Children take the gift on their own. They gave hearts to the one they like and took the gift from the hero they liked).

1 option

Guys, after all, you gave your hearts to a beggar woman, but why did you decide to take hearts from a cruel star boy? It is clear that you are still children and you really want sweets, it is difficult not to succumb to the temptation. But all the same, one must learn to endure and not give in, to maintain sincere feelings.

Option 2

What good fellows you are! After all, sweets are tastier than bread, but you still chose a beggar's bread and acted honestly, didn't cheat, you have willpower.

2 excerpt.

But after the beggar mother left the village, the star boy suddenly turned into a monster. Then he realized that he had acted badly and for three years he was looking for his mother around the world. He experienced many misadventures until he became beautiful again. He met a beggar woman and obeyed her. Suddenly, the beggar turned into a queen. And soon the boy-star became the ruler of the city. He was fair, kindly treated the orphans, the poor and the sick.

Guys, do you like the star boy now?

We had a condition that you can take gifts from someone you really like. Now, if you like, take the candy from the star boy.

Remember guys:

For all living beings on the planet

I believe in the law of conservation of matter:

Nothing goes unnoticed...

And, therefore, good is that substance -

If you gave it to your neighbor -

It will return to you in return.