It is believed that men love low female voices. That's what the statistics say. However, a small survey conducted among my acquaintances suggests that a low voice is different for a low voice. So, despite the obvious advantages of the appearance of Elizaveta Boyarskaya, her voice attracts few people. Moreover, most men would have made their choice not in favor of such a woman precisely because of the unattractive voice. So what should a real woman sound like?
Psychologists believe that a woman's voice can tell a man a lot about her character and personality. This is not always true, but a certain image, nevertheless, develops. What can a woman's voice say to a man?
The low female voice is different. There are women with vocal cord problems or just smoky voices. Such men do not like unequivocally, simply because they sound the same as men. However, if a woman is the owner of a velvet voice, then she can consider herself truly fatal. After all, such a voice speaks of the self-sufficiency, strength and self-confidence of its mistress. It is difficult to possess such a woman, so a hunter wakes up in a man, and he begins to actively pursue her.
Like it very much men so-called "wet" voices. It is impossible to speak loudly and quickly with such a voice; it sounds beautiful only with slow, quiet speech, even with a whisper. This voice is truly feminine, it excites and lulls at the same time.
Also seduce a representative of the strong half of humanity maybe a breathy voice. Such a voice tells a man that he is desirable, that a woman is in a relationship, that she is ready for sensual love. This is a voice with a sexual connotation that cannot be unpleasant for a man.
High female voice adorns not every woman. And not every man is ready to perceive such a voice. Indeed, for many, a subconsciously high voice is associated with youth and immaturity, and therefore unpreparedness for adult relationships. However, if a man is set up to communicate with an infantile girl and is ready to take responsibility for her, then a woman with such a voice will evoke only positive emotions in him.
Loud, harsh, staccato voice no one has positive emotions. So, for example, psychologists say that it is precisely children's and women's voices that are distinguished by loudness and sharpness that can cause panic in the crowd. This is how a man perceives a woman with a loud voice. It is impossible to relax with her, you cannot find peace, she does not cause passionate sexual desire. So if you are not too lucky with your voice, you should work on it.

How to develop a voice that will become your faithful companion in conquering a man?

Teachers of speech technique advise doing a few simple exercises in order to develop a beautiful voice.
For a start it's worth work on your body- after all, it is his stiffness that causes the tightness of the vocal cords. Stressed shoulders and neck, poor posture, chronic diseases - all this prevents your voice from breaking out. Do not forget about the importance of physical exercise - daily simple stretching exercises will help you relax the thoracic spine and pressure on the vocal cords. All this will allow your voice to sound softer and more sensual.
Sing! After all, singing not only relieves accent and speech problems (stuttering, for example), but also perfectly releases your true voice. If possible, take a few vocal lessons - an experienced teacher will show you breathing exercises. And do not forget to start with a song every day - this way you “cleanse” the speech apparatus, “wake up” the ligaments and all day you do not have to clear your throat before starting a conversation.
Read aloud good books. Voice the dialogues of lovers, trying to breathe life into them and your understanding of love. Alone with yourself, you will be able to translate into reality your idea of ​​\u200b\u200bthe ideal voice, of how, in your opinion, a true declaration of love should sound. And only then, having practiced, it will be much easier for you to reproduce all this in reality - including in your own relationships.
Adjust the volume of your own voice. Do not speak too quietly - this is considered a sign of bad tone and disrespect for the interlocutor. At the same time, talking too loudly will alienate your counterpart and will not give you the opportunity to create the necessary intimacy and trust. So you should pay attention to the volume with which your interlocutor is talking and try to adjust to it. However, it is still better for a woman to speak a little quieter than a man, making the conversation pleasant and smooth.

To each his own approach

Each man is unique and requires a separate approach. You are unlikely to be able to charm different men in one way, so take a closer look at your potential companion.
A strong man can please a weak woman It makes sense, because opposites attract. And your voice will help you seem weak - speak quietly, smoothly, making pauses. Do not use obscene language, try not to raise your voice in any situations. A whisper, a quiet iridescent laugh, affectionate words - all this cannot be a truly strong man.
A soft and docile man requires a completely different approach. It is easier for him to feel that he is nearby woman you can trust who can take care and provide support. In this case, it is worth acting in contrast - if he speaks softly and smoothly, a woman needs to be able to clearly articulate her thoughts, not be afraid of specific expressions and power in her voice. All behavior show self-confidence, emotional stability and harmony with the outside world. In a word - do not be afraid to show maternal instinct, this is actually nothing special, because no one forces you to become his real mother, just be ready to meet the needs of a man who is dear to you.
In a word, if you do not want to become a chronic disappointment for your man, or for a man who is deeply sympathetic to you, work on your own voice - let it be a powerful weapon in seduction.

Each woman has her own ideal, it can be a hoarse voice, or a pure timbre, but I am one hundred percent sure that all women will unanimously say: “Of course, a low voice.”

Why is it so? Perhaps the answer is genetics - low voice = strength of mind = success. Success may include different parameters, but in any case, whether it is the extraction of food, that is, hunting (the preference of women of ancient times), childbearing (value at all times) - all the same, the owner of a powerful voice will be perceived on a subconscious level as an alpha male, a kind of brutal macho , at whose feet all the individuals he meets on the way are thrown - some out of fear, some out of lust (depending on the situation or preferences).

“Where you don’t spit, some solid machos, but there are not enough men”

Although, again, the same scientists give hope: even if the male voice does not have such a strong charisma, it can still have an advantage for ladies. Guess why? It is unlikely that such a thing as loyalty will come to your mind. Yes Yes!

It is she who is faithful - it is believed that in men with high-pitched voices this quality is developed to a greater extent than in the representatives of the stronger sex, who, with their voice, roar and, of course, their mind, try to conquer as many women as possible. So, rejoice everyone - friendship has won! Someone wins, someone has the warmth of true love - there is plenty to choose from!

It has long been proven that testosterone affects the quality of the voice in men, but its role should not be exaggerated too much. A very low voice does not mean that this man has an excess of this hormone. If this were the case, then the entire bass part of opera houses would be observed by specialists - endocrinologists.

Conversely, dear girls, I draw your attention to the fact that if a man can sing high it does not mean that he speaks high, or that he has low testosterone levels, most likely a man has a large range. The main thing is in what register he speaks.

The transitions from a whisper to a powerful chest tone saturate Miles' voice with overtones that are so pleasant for a female ear, and a large range and excellent technique allow him to hit high notes, both in the falsetto register and in the mixed register.

A little about the technique of male vocals: in the chest register, the vocal folds close tightly and oscillate with their entire mass. The arytenoid cartilages are also included in the vibration. This density of closure creates a rich, bright, strong and resonant voice. This takes up relatively little breath. In the falsetto mode, only the edges of the folds oscillate and a spindle-shaped gap remains between them, through which air flows freely. Therefore, the sounds of natural falsetto have a blown character, are poor in overtones and do not have much power.

Let's move on to pleasant things, so what attracts women to us in male voices?

Monotone male voice? Enemies are afraid, women love. Researchers from the University of California and the University of Pennsylvania found that women are turned on by a monotonous male voice. Not boring, but monotonous. Without transitions to high tones and excessive expressiveness.

A male monotonous voice is a sign of independence, power and strength. Such a person shows that he is in control of the situation. He is courageous and not afraid of danger. Women love that kind of voice. They subconsciously feel a man who can protect them in any situation.

In this recording, British actor Alan Rickman reads Shakespeare's Sonnet 130.

What to do?
Get used to speaking calmly, without harshness and vain expressiveness. They are not afraid of those who speak emotionally, but of calm equanimity. There is more threat and warning in calm speech.

male whisper

Many men neglect to whisper. But in vain! Scientists have found that women are turned on by male whispers. Researchers argue that in words it is best to use hissing consonants (w, w, h, u). These sounds have the most exciting effect on the female mind and body.

Legend of Russian dubbing Vladimir Eremin

What to do?
Tell the girl in a whisper in her ear: "Sasha walked along the highway and sucked dry." You can choose other words, but remember about hissing consonants!

This conclusion was made by scientists who published their article in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society. The authors note that the ability to determine the strength of the enemy through voice exists in animals, which is why it is possible that it is also present in humans. That is why the world of nature is filled with many voices, thanks to which certain species of the animal world manage to “stake out” the most advantageous territory for themselves. In the animal kingdom, this is a normal phenomenon when rival individuals evaluate the strength of the enemy, for example, by a roar.

Another secret of female charm and charm - woman's voice. It can be sonorous, sexy, thin, breathy, gentle, but never hoarse, smoky, shrill, deaf, or grouchy. It may be different, but it must be natural, because it is yours.

The voice of any person - male or female - is not only our means of communication with people, the disclosure of our creative potential, but the voice is also associated with our sexuality. Can we control our sexuality and our voice?

Through the voice, a woman expresses the power of love. If she often swears, swears, she destroys the harmony in herself and around herself. In a conversation with a man, it is better for a woman to speak in a quiet, soft, calm voice. Such a female voice fascinates men, and evokes romantic dreams and fantasies in them. Negative voice vibrations can destroy a man and your relationship. And it's not about what to say, but how to say it.

Words with voice work wonders. They can inspire a man and move him to exploits. But here you can't do without trust. When a woman loves and trusts a man, her voice sounds very penetrating. And a man understands a woman from a half-word, from a half-look, even when she is silent, her facial expressions express all emotions.

The woman enjoys the process of communication. This is her essence. Therefore, long phone calls are so important for a woman.

To reveal her sexuality, her voice, a woman needs to sing. This is not necessarily choral or a cappella singing. A woman can simply hum songs to a child, or hum melodies under her breath. If a woman does not sing and talks little, she blocks her emotions. A very good outburst of emotions occurs at weddings, in companies - even if there is no voice, no one will hear you anyway in the general choir of voices.

But in the old days, women always sang: at weddings, lullabies to their children. The mother's voice affects the child in a special way. If you talk to him, but he does not listen, then when you start to sing, the child usually falls silent and listens with great attention - this is exactly what happens to me.

And songs can also inspire a man to exploits. It's a pity that not all men can appreciate women's songs. The song is not only the transmission of words by voice. This is the expression of your thoughts. And if the voice comes from the heart, it resounds in the hidden corners of a man. No wonder they say that a word can kill a person, but you can raise it to heaven.

How to speak so that a man hears you? Try talking to a man in a low voice coming from the heart - and he will hear you. A real woman will never stoop to squealing or grumbling.

If you're arguing, yelling at each other, and feeling like you're on the verge of a breakdown, try this: stop, breathe in three times, and say the phrase in a low, quiet voice. The reaction will be stunning. You can forget about the quarrel.

There is another little trick - nothing has such a magical effect on men as a whisper. It makes a woman seductive and allows you to approach a man, touch his cheek or ear. It will not leave indifferent any man. Just do not hiss at him, otherwise you can achieve the opposite effect and pass for a witch.

And one more thing: laugh more often. Laughter brings good luck. A laughing woman is nothing more joyful for a man. It's because he amused you (so he thinks)!

Speak sincerely, speak from the heart - you will be heard and you are provided with men.

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April 9th, 2014 , 04:57 pm

Voice inappropriate for gender and age.
Mutational falsetto or puberphonia - a condition in which men retain a high female voice even after adolescence. People with this disease, even in adulthood, speak in a high voice, which happens in little boys.

1. Functional factor
In most cases, functional factors arise as a result of any psychological problems. It often happens that when a voice begins to change in adolescence, a person on a subconscious level experiences opposition to a low tone, and specifically begins to speak in a high voice.

2. Organic factor
Organic abnormalities are usually caused by damage to the mucous membrane of the vocal folds, such as scarring, or developmental disorders of the endocrine system. In such cases, the larynx has a structure similar to that of a woman.

Symptoms of puberphonia
If, with a normal structure of the larynx, only a high voice comes out, and the frequency of the voice coincides with the frequency of the female voice, this indicates puberphonia. In this case, the voice quickly gets tired, and during singing it often breaks and higher notes are “not taken”.
Also, with puberphonia, the tone of the voice is constantly high, it is impossible to speak in a low tone.
If puberphonia is caused by organic changes, the appearance of scarring of the mucous membrane of the vocal folds, or disturbances in the development of the larynx, then hoarseness, a weak or rough high voice, which comes out with the air, is noted.

Diagnosis of puberphonia
If puberphonia is caused by a functional factor, then a fibrolaryngoscope and laryngeal stroboscopy will reveal normal vocal folds. During sound production, excessive tension of the external muscles of the larynx can be noted.
With organic puberphonia, damage to the mucous membrane of the vocal folds or a violation of the development of the larynx are observed.

Treatment of puberphonia

Treatment of functional puberphonia is possible with voice training, but it will take a long time. Recently, the method of introducing Botox into the muscles of the larynx responsible for the high tone has been used. Thus, the tone is lowered, and then, in the course of training with a phoniator, a way of voice formation is formed so that it becomes a habit. Foniator exercises carried out after Botox injection significantly shorten the treatment period, and the voice recovers faster.

Organic puberphonia may require percutaneous injection laryngoplasty,

Incredible Facts

Scientists say that men with a hoarse voice are the most attractive and sexy for the opposite sex.

Men are attracted to women who seem to speak with a breath.

Female sexy voice

The actress, as you know, fascinated everyone with a high, enveloping notes, voice.

Very memorable was the way the actress spoke with a breath. It was this manner of singing and speaking that simply struck the men on the spot. A connection was established between the attractiveness of the female timbre and the size of the body of the owner of the voice.

As a rule, these are women of medium build. It is these representatives of the fair sex that are most attractive to men.

Low male voice

Women are attracted by the owners of a pleasant low voice with a characteristic hoarseness. At the same time, the timbre should also be deep enough.

Scientists say that a rather tall man with a low voice is ideal for the opposite sex. However, tall does not mean big. Beauty should be courageous, but not aggressive.

Returning to women, it is worth noting that Dr. Yi Lu (Yi Lu) says that the highest voice is an indicator of a woman's sexuality.

At the same time, it should not be too high, so as not to give off "squeaky", characteristic notes of hoarseness should be caught in the timbre of the voice. Hoarseness in the voice and breathy speech is almost a hundred percent guarantee that a man will go crazy for such a woman.

Of course, the parameters of the female figure are also important. Petiteness, ideal body proportions and, of course, a recognizable voice turned Marilyn into a real sex symbol of the century.

Women, in turn, prefer men who are taller than them, physically stronger with an accentuated hoarseness in their voice, which gives them masculinity. However, excessive aggressiveness in external data, not only does not attract the weak half, but, on the contrary, repels.

A number of studies have been conducted involving both sexes. The results were quite interesting, albeit quite predictable: in the company of an unfamiliar beautiful woman, single men lowered their voices to attract her attention. Psychologists say that the stronger sex does this on a subconscious level.

New studies confirm the results of previous melons obtained in the course of observations. In 2010, psychologists from Albright College, Pennsylvania, US also proved with numerous examples that men and women change their voices to attract the opposite sex.

Moreover, representatives of both sexes change their voice downwards. The results of this study broke the stereotype that most women try to speak in a higher voice to attract the opposite sex.

On the contrary, they artificially lower the timbre of the voice, adding to it attractive notes of hoarseness. Indeed, this technique works especially when meeting on the phone, when the girl does not have the opportunity to flirt in her usual way: smile sweetly, innocently flap her eyelashes.

The sexiest women in the world

Sexuality is not just beauty, it is also a kind of highlight that can distinguish a woman from the crowd of numerous beauties. It is thanks to this very zest that the following women entered the list of the sexiest women of the 20th century.

Photos of the sexiest women:

1. The first line rightfully belongs to the incomparable Marilyn Monroe. A recognized sex diva of the last century, she still excites the imagination of men with her forms and memorable gentle voice.

2. Cindy Crawford . The fame of the beauty was brought by a spicy mole above the upper lip. It is worth noting that it was this mole at the beginning of the journey that prevented Cindy from building a career. Several times the girl was asked to remove it, to which she refused.

3. Pamela Anderson . The girl became the living embodiment of the Barbie doll of the early 90s, when the cult of silicone and artificial beauty prevailed in the world.

4. Monica Bellucci . The typical Italian beauty of the actress conquered the entire male population of the planet with its brightness and naturalness. For many, this beauty is the embodiment of what a true woman should be.

5. Jennifer Lopez . It's no secret that the highlight of a sultry Latin American is the most prominent part of her body, which, by the way, its owner insured for a large sum of money.

6. Milla Jovovich . This American actress of Russian-Montenegrin origin has the characteristic high stature of the model and the correct proportions of the body. Mila is very popular, both among famous directors and among major advertising agents. The girl is the face of popular cosmetic brands, as well as the leading role in a number of Hollywood films.

7. Madonna . This miniature beauty has been conquering everyone with her amazing voice and extraordinary body plasticity for decades. Its popularity is comparable only with the popularity of pop king Michael Jackson.

8. Naomi Campbell . The highlight of the "black panther" - her hot temper and unpredictable character. Apparently, there are men who like the passions that she creates. In the press every now and then there are details of various stories that happen to Naomi due to her intemperance.

9. Brigitte Bardot . The French actress at one time conquered the whole world with her unusual and at the same time, natural beauty. Blond Bridget has been the standard of female attractiveness and sex appeal for many decades.

10. Audrey Hepburn . The angelic beauty of the actress, her touching childish spontaneity became exactly the highlight that did not leave indifferent any man when Audrey appeared on the screens. Her huge eyes, sweet smile touched the hearts of the audience and made the entire male population of the planet fall in love with the actress.