DOSTOYEVSKY:: Ethical-intuitive introvert (EII)

Female portrait

Quiet, friendly, even meek - such epithets come to mind when it comes to girls like DOSTOYEVSKY. The face is often with wide cheekbones, a graceful chin and large, radiant eyes. There are also narrow faces, very youthful until very late years. The look of representatives of this type is soft and compassionate. An unobtrusive, kind smile often lingers on their face for a long time. This girl is always ready to listen and support others, and if necessary, give quiet comfort and inspire hope.

Women of this type are very feminine and delicate, modest and even shy. But that doesn't mean they're spineless. Not at all. They have a special, meek, stoic manner to accept all the hardships and blows of fate.

They have a very ephemeral body, often there is a slight stoop. They dress quite modestly, trying not to attract much attention to themselves. And with age, and in general, they begin to choose mostly something dark and inconspicuous.

School life allows them from childhood to begin to develop obedience and diligence in themselves. These are quiet, diligent girls who will never argue with teachers. And even if they are unfairly given grades, they do not grumble, explaining the situation to themselves in some way so that the authority of the teacher does not suffer.

In the class, this girl, as a rule, has a couple of best friends, with whom she stands at recess against the wall and in a quiet voice, with dignity, discusses all the events of school life. She does not like to gossip, she tries to evaluate everything objectively, so that there are no guilty or offended. This is one of the most decent girls in the class.

Humanitarian inclinations are manifested in girls of this type very clearly. They are well versed in the vicissitudes of the personal life of all the heroes of literary works, which are studied under the program, and write the best essays in the class. In addition, they read a lot in addition to the program, write poetry and prose themselves, as a result of which their character acquires strongly romanticized features. This is, in fact, one of the most dreamy girls in the class.

Representatives of this type for the most part do not like to engage in sports. But in childhood and youth they like to dance. This occupation corresponds to their romantic, lyrical mood. And, most often, they prefer ballroom or classical dances.

Girls like DOSTOYEVSKY always enter the institute, because they study well at school, often graduating with a gold medal, and in general they make the most pleasant impression on the examiners with their excellent education, ability to behave with dignity, quiet voice and good knowledge. But it would be better if this girl chooses a humanitarian field for herself than goes to study as an engineer.

If you thought that girls of this type never have fun in companies, then you are wrong. But the company should be its own, where they are noticed, loved and appreciated. There, this quiet flower opens in all its glory towards friendship, love and good, warm fun. Keep in mind that she will not stay in friends where they swear or abuse alcohol next to her. She has her own, and very high demands on others. The man she dreams of must be correct, reliable, intelligent and self-confident.

When the girl DOSTOYEVSKY becomes your wife, know that a quiet angel now lives in your home. However, he has such a developed sense of duty that he will not disdain to clean, wash and cook. Of course, she does not like to cook, this is not what she sees as her calling. But she will never leave her family without food. And if one of the family members is so picky that she wants to eat only freshly prepared food, she will cook three times a day. That's how she's made.

She also cares about the health of her relatives, and therefore diligently writes in a special notebook (which she will keep all her life) not only culinary recipes, but also the composition of herbal preparations, as well as the most necessary medicines that can be useful for certain diseases.

Not only the husband, but also the parents on both sides, and the children will be embraced by her warm attitude. She will find time for everyone, an opportunity to help, as well as friendly words for the occasion. She takes care of the children. Moreover, he does it with pleasure and all his life. She knows everything about their spiritual structure, about the problems of their inner world, makes sure that they study well, strives to comprehensively develop their abilities, educates them gently but persistently. But it is difficult for her to make serious decisions when it is necessary to place a child in a school or choose an institute for him. However, this applies not only to problems related to children. So it's best to take care of identifying important milestones in the development of your family. She will gladly submit to you.

From life: "When I read E. Bern's "Games People Play", I thought, what kind of fairy tale corresponded to my life scenario in childhood? And I remembered that when I was little, my favorite fairy tale was about a princess, who didn’t have to do anything, because by magic everything around her was done by itself. So I dreamed about this, so that someone would come and do everything that needed to be done, and I wouldn’t have to do anything all my life ".

By the way, this quiet, warm, domestic woman is one of the most obedient wives. She loves her family with an even, warming love. But make sure that her entire spiritual resource is not wasted on girlfriends who exploit your wife as a psychotherapist. She herself, of course, will never refuse them. Out of compassion. Therefore, it will be right if you take matters into your own hands and somewhat limit the flow of those who want to receive a psychotherapeutic session and useful advice from her.

Women of this type always show themselves very well in any job. They are friendly and responsible, never quarrel and do not demand anything for themselves, hoping that sooner or later they will be noticed and appreciated. They also consciously avoid getting involved in intrigues, spreading gossip and discussing someone behind their back.

They make wonderful teachers, editors, proofreaders, librarians, psychologists. They are good wherever you need to show patience and compassion for people. There are times when they even work as engineers, but, according to their own estimates, this work does not bring them much satisfaction. However, since they are always stoic, they do not complain about it.

"Dostoevsky" (type) socionics identifies as an ethical-intuitive introvert. Briefly, a person with such signs can be described as follows: his consciousness is directed inward, along the time axis he is not “here and now”, but seems to be hovering somewhere.

Solving problems that have arisen, he relies on his emotions and is not very prone to mood swings. Some researchers use the pseudonym "Cinderella" for the representatives of the weaker sex of this type.

Socionics. "Dostoevsky": appearance

A woman of this type, despite the absence of excessive extravagance, still looks elegant, dressed with taste. She takes care of her image, considers branded clothing as an important element, feels more confident in it. As a rule, Cinderella looks younger than she really is. The movements are well coordinated. Even more recognizable is the "Dostoevsky" man. Socionics provides a guideline that allows you to unmistakably distinguish this psychotype from the rest. This is a completely impassive face with features characteristic of the martyrs depicted on the icons: a straight, elongated nose, a regular oval. A modest smile is the maximum positive emotion that he is able to show. The figure is ascetic, thin.

Socionics. "Dostoevsky": manner of communication

A person of this type at first only observes people, studies what relations have developed between them, and then already comes into contact. He never shows initiative. He absolutely does not know how to be cunning, hypocritical, adapt to the current situation, play a role. If Dostoevsky has stronger ethics than intuition, he becomes touchy and harsh. Somehow it happens by itself that people pour out their souls in front of him, asking for advice. And "Dostoevsky" never repels them, even to the detriment of personal time. And if he cannot help with deed, then at least he will suggest a way out of the situation. Impartially, objectively, he will consider the problem from all sides and offer the best option.

Socionics. "Dostoevsky": features of behavior

The constant readiness to help loved ones who are in a difficult situation is a reliable sign for determining this type. And this is manifested not only in words, but also in deeds. He is especially good at bringing people together. He is always between the warring parties and is on good terms with each of them. He is not able to be aggressive, scream, exert volitional pressure on people. "Dostoevsky" punishes with complete disregard, which continues until the offender apologizes. "Dostoevsky" conscientiously and carefully performs both assigned work and homework. This type does not like any impromptu, prefers to plan everything in advance and follow the intended path.

The real problem for this person is the lack of initiative and determination, the inability to demand something for oneself. Of course, congenital timidity and shyness contribute to this. "Dostoevsky" does not respond to the insult, conceals it in himself, believing that the person who inflicted it will sooner or later understand everything, repent and, perhaps, even apologize. But he needs to understand that this happens extremely rarely, so he needs to learn how to protect himself, express his opinion and say no.

I need someone to pray for.
Think simple ant
Suddenly I wanted to fall into scissors,
Believe in your charm
From a song by Bulat Okudzhava

The young man Dostoevsky is modest, tactful and delicate, a great lover of reading and, in general, an intellectual. Most often there is an asthenic physique. He has a quiet voice, a meek look, an affectionate smile and an elevated train of thought. He likes to wear long hair, but according to modern fashion, he takes it in a ponytail. He does not pay due attention to clothes, believing that this is not the main thing in life, so he is usually dressed very modestly. Although occasionally there are real dandies among men of this type in expensive wide-brimmed hats and long coats.

When you talk to DOSTOYEVSKY, it seems that conscience itself looks into your eyes. He has the gift of understanding people. He is sympathetic, able to empathize with other people's sorrows and misfortunes, console, sharing your bad mood. You can trust him - he will never go against the interests of people close to him.

Being complaisant and meek, at the same time, DOSTOYEVSKY is distinguished by an extremely stubborn character and is able to quietly but persistently follow moral or religious principles. So, no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to lead him astray (if, of course, he has embarked on it). He may not argue with you, but he will not back down from his principles either.

DOSTOYEVSKY is not one of those who are ready for open confrontation. However, he is able to foresee a conflict situation and bypass it. If she fell on his head in the form of a drunken bully in a dark alley, then DOSTOYEVSKY will be able to joke so kindly that in the end the potential offender will part with him as with his best friend.

Dostoyevsky has an extremely large reserve of patience, but if you nevertheless managed to offend this wonderful person, his meek appearance and downcast eyes full of sadness cannot fail to make the proper impression on you. There is no doubt that at this moment you will want more than anything in the world to fall through the ground.

Step one (forward)

DOSTOYEVSKY, sitting modestly in a corner in company, is not always immediately noticeable. He, as a rule, does not participate in the general noisy conversation. But he will read the desire to communicate in your eyes and will respond with pleasure if you sit next to him and start a conversation.

Ask him something about the moral law, about how people should behave. He will be happy to present you with some concept of improving public morality.

Listen to him with understanding, without allowing any aggression. Do not voice, for example, such recipes: "Hang all the bastards and scoundrels on lampposts, period." This way of thinking is not close to him and will immediately scare him away.

Step two (forward)

DOSTOYEVSKY's dream is to hear something like this: "We have nothing to fear, because we know what to do." But, taking into account his manhood, do not tell him that you will protect him and think for him. Both points must be present in your relationship non-verbally.

You can give him a corkscrew when he tries to take the cork out of the bottle with his teeth. Try with him to disassemble the instructions for new tools and devices. Do not say: "It is clearly written right there that you need to start with this screw." Say instead: "Let's try it like this" - and feel free to do as you see fit.

If someone shows aggression against you, do not wait for him to show heroism. As an ethicist, he may be able to get out of the situation through diplomacy.

If this fails, come to the fore and act in your own way. The protection of your common territory should take place without words in deeds, without the intervention of your partner. He will feel supported and protected. And in gratitude for such support, he will want to be with you for a long, long time.

Step three (forward)

The thought of comfort unconsciously attracts DOSTOYEVSKY. Draw him a pastoral picture of a cozy family nest. It should be warm and beautiful there. Tell us what a caring father he will turn out to be.

Persuade him to go to the store for a wedding suit, at least try it on. Express your admiration, say that it is inexpensive and you can afford to be so beautiful once in your life.

Key phrases:
"We are such a beautiful couple."
"Let's have a romantic candlelit dinner tonight."
“How nice to feel your care”, etc.

Step back

If asceticism and constant quiet sadness about a decline in morals have finally brought you mortal anguish, you no longer need to resist your desire to leave. Try not to injure this subtle being. In this case, one must be very careful with the mask of his information conflicter.

Tell him this: “I don’t understand anything about your infinite humanism. You need a more subtle and spiritual nature.

It's good to hint to him about your atheistic beliefs. This will make the right impression on him. Repeat emphatically from time to time: “Religion is the opiate of the people. They only fool our brother and that's it! How can you trust them?"

As soon as he discovers your lack of spiritual interests, he will immediately be disappointed in you. His conscience will not allow him to maintain a relationship with a person who has not lived up to his expectations so much.

Artistic image: PETROUSHA GRINEV (A. Pushkin. "The Captain's Daughter"), ALESH KARAMAZOV (F. Dostoevsky. "The Brothers Karamazov")

Lyubov Beskova, Elena Udalova

Female portrait of Don Quixote by Lyubov Beskova

Dostoevsky. Female portrait

Quiet, friendly, even meek - such epithets come to mind when it comes to girls like DOSTOYEVSKY. The face is often with wide cheekbones, a graceful chin and large, radiant eyes. There are also narrow faces, very youthful until very late years. The look of representatives of this type is soft and compassionate. An unobtrusive, kind smile often lingers on their face for a long time. This girl is always ready to listen and support others, and if necessary, give quiet comfort and inspire hope.

Women of this type are very feminine and delicate, modest and even shy. But that doesn't mean they're spineless. Not at all. They have a special, meek, stoic manner to accept all the hardships and blows of fate.

They have a very ephemeral body, often there is a slight stoop. They dress quite modestly, trying not to attract much attention to themselves. And with age, and in general, they begin to choose mostly something dark and inconspicuous.

School life allows them from childhood to begin to develop obedience and diligence in themselves. These are quiet, diligent girls who will never argue with teachers. And even if they are unfairly given grades, they do not grumble, explaining the situation to themselves in some way so that the authority of the teacher does not suffer.

In the class, this girl, as a rule, has a couple of best friends, with whom she stands at recess against the wall and in a quiet voice, with dignity, discusses all the events of school life. She does not like to gossip, she tries to evaluate everything objectively, so that there are no guilty or offended. This is one of the most decent girls in the class.

Humanitarian inclinations are manifested in girls of this type very clearly. They are well versed in the vicissitudes of the personal life of all the heroes of literary works, which are studied under the program, and write the best essays in the class. In addition, they read a lot in addition to the program, write poetry and prose themselves, as a result of which their character acquires strongly romanticized features. This is, in fact, one of the most dreamy girls in the class.

Representatives of this type for the most part do not like to engage in sports. But in childhood and youth they like to dance. This occupation corresponds to their romantic, lyrical mood. And, most often, they prefer ballroom or classical dances.

Girls like DOSTOYEVSKY always enter the institute, because they study well at school, often graduating with a gold medal, and in general they make the most pleasant impression on the examiners with their excellent education, ability to behave with dignity, quiet voice and good knowledge. But it would be better if this girl chooses a humanitarian field for herself than goes to study as an engineer.

If you thought that girls of this type never have fun in companies, then you are wrong. But the company should be its own, where they are noticed, loved and appreciated. There, this quiet flower opens in all its glory towards friendship, love and good, warm fun. Keep in mind that she will not stay in friends where they swear or abuse alcohol next to her. She has her own, and very high demands on others. The man she dreams of must be correct, reliable, intelligent and self-confident.

When the girl DOSTOYEVSKY becomes your wife, know that a quiet angel now lives in your home. However, he has such a developed sense of duty that he will not disdain to clean, wash and cook. Of course, she does not like to cook, this is not what she sees as her calling. But she will never leave her family without food. And if one of the family members is so picky that she wants to eat only freshly prepared food, she will cook three times a day. That's how she's made.

She also cares about the health of her relatives, and therefore diligently writes in a special notebook (which she will keep all her life) not only culinary recipes, but also the composition of herbal preparations, as well as the most necessary medicines that can be useful for certain diseases.

Not only the husband, but also the parents on both sides, and the children will be embraced by her warm attitude. She will find time for everyone, an opportunity to help, as well as friendly words for the occasion. She takes care of the children. Moreover, he does it with pleasure and all his life. She knows everything about their spiritual structure, about the problems of their inner world, makes sure that they study well, strives to comprehensively develop their abilities, educates them gently but persistently. But it is difficult for her to make serious decisions when it is necessary to place a child in a school or choose an institute for him. However, this applies not only to problems related to children. So it's best to take care of identifying important milestones in the development of your family. She will gladly submit to you.

From life: "When I read E. Bern's "Games People Play", I thought, what kind of fairy tale corresponded to my life scenario in childhood? And I remembered that when I was little, my favorite fairy tale was about a princess, who didn’t have to do anything, because by magic everything around her was done by itself. So I dreamed about this, so that someone would come and do everything that needed to be done, and I wouldn’t have to do anything all my life ".

By the way, this quiet, warm, domestic woman is one of the most obedient wives. She loves her family with an even, warming love. But make sure that her entire spiritual resource is not wasted on girlfriends who exploit your wife as a psychotherapist. She herself, of course, will never refuse them. Out of compassion. Therefore, it will be right if you take matters into your own hands and somewhat limit the flow of those who want to receive a psychotherapeutic session and useful advice from her.

Women of this type always show themselves very well in any job. They are friendly and responsible, never quarrel and do not demand anything for themselves, hoping that sooner or later they will be noticed and appreciated. They also consciously avoid getting involved in intrigues, spreading gossip and discussing someone behind their back.

They make wonderful teachers, editors, proofreaders, librarians, psychologists. They are good wherever you need to show patience and compassion for people. There are times when they even work as engineers, but, according to their own estimates, this work does not bring them much satisfaction. However, since they are always stoic, they do not complain about it.

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Female portrait of Don Quixote by Lyubov Beskova

Dostoevsky. Female portrait

Quiet, friendly, even meek - such epithets come to mind when it comes to girls like DOSTOYEVSKY. The face is often with wide cheekbones, a graceful chin and large, radiant eyes. There are also narrow faces, very youthful until very late years. The look of representatives of this type is soft and compassionate. An unobtrusive, kind smile often lingers on their face for a long time. This girl is always ready to listen and support others, and if necessary, give quiet comfort and inspire hope.

Women of this type are very feminine and delicate, modest and even shy. But that doesn't mean they're spineless. Not at all. They have a special, meek, stoic manner to accept all the hardships and blows of fate.

They have a very ephemeral body, often there is a slight stoop. They dress quite modestly, trying not to attract much attention to themselves. And with age, and in general, they begin to choose mostly something dark and inconspicuous.

School life allows them from childhood to begin to develop obedience and diligence in themselves. These are quiet, diligent girls who will never argue with teachers. And even if they are unfairly given grades, they do not grumble, explaining the situation to themselves in some way so that the authority of the teacher does not suffer.

In the class, this girl, as a rule, has a couple of best friends, with whom she stands at recess against the wall and in a quiet voice, with dignity, discusses all the events of school life. She does not like to gossip, she tries to evaluate everything objectively, so that there are no guilty or offended. This is one of the most decent girls in the class.

Humanitarian inclinations are manifested in girls of this type very clearly. They are well versed in the vicissitudes of the personal life of all the heroes of literary works, which are studied under the program, and write the best essays in the class. In addition, they read a lot in addition to the program, write poetry and prose themselves, as a result of which their character acquires strongly romanticized features. This is, in fact, one of the most dreamy girls in the class.

Representatives of this type for the most part do not like to engage in sports. But in childhood and youth they like to dance. This occupation corresponds to their romantic, lyrical mood. And, most often, they prefer ballroom or classical dances.

Girls like DOSTOYEVSKY always enter the institute, because they study well at school, often graduating with a gold medal, and in general they make the most pleasant impression on the examiners with their excellent education, ability to behave with dignity, quiet voice and good knowledge. But it would be better if this girl chooses a humanitarian field for herself than goes to study as an engineer.

If you thought that girls of this type never have fun in companies, then you are wrong. But the company should be its own, where they are noticed, loved and appreciated. There, this quiet flower opens in all its glory towards friendship, love and good, warm fun. Keep in mind that she will not stay in friends where they swear or abuse alcohol next to her. She has her own, and very high demands on others. The man she dreams of must be correct, reliable, intelligent and self-confident.

When the girl DOSTOYEVSKY becomes your wife, know that a quiet angel now lives in your home. However, he has such a developed sense of duty that he will not disdain to clean, wash and cook. Of course, she does not like to cook, this is not what she sees as her calling. But she will never leave her family without food. And if one of the family members is so picky that she wants to eat only freshly prepared food, she will cook three times a day. That's how she's made.

She also cares about the health of her relatives, and therefore diligently writes in a special notebook (which she will keep all her life) not only culinary recipes, but also the composition of herbal preparations, as well as the most necessary medicines that can be useful for certain diseases.

Not only the husband, but also the parents on both sides, and the children will be embraced by her warm attitude. She will find time for everyone, an opportunity to help, as well as friendly words for the occasion. She takes care of the children. Moreover, he does it with pleasure and all his life. She knows everything about their spiritual structure, about the problems of their inner world, makes sure that they study well, strives to comprehensively develop their abilities, educates them gently but persistently. But it is difficult for her to make serious decisions when it is necessary to place a child in a school or choose an institute for him. However, this applies not only to problems related to children. So it's best to take care of identifying important milestones in the development of your family. She will gladly submit to you.

From life: "When I read E. Bern's "Games People Play", I thought, what kind of fairy tale corresponded to my life scenario in childhood? And I remembered that when I was little, my favorite fairy tale was about a princess, who didn’t have to do anything, because by magic everything around her was done by itself. So I dreamed about this, so that someone would come and do everything that needed to be done, and I wouldn’t have to do anything all my life ".

By the way, this quiet, warm, domestic woman is one of the most obedient wives. She loves her family with an even, warming love. But make sure that her entire spiritual resource is not wasted on girlfriends who exploit your wife as a psychotherapist. She herself, of course, will never refuse them. Out of compassion. Therefore, it will be right if you take matters into your own hands and somewhat limit the flow of those who want to receive a psychotherapeutic session and useful advice from her.

Women of this type always show themselves very well in any job. They are friendly and responsible, never quarrel and do not demand anything for themselves, hoping that sooner or later they will be noticed and appreciated. They also consciously avoid getting involved in intrigues, spreading gossip and discussing someone behind their back.

They make wonderful teachers, editors, proofreaders, librarians, psychologists. They are good wherever you need to show patience and compassion for people. There are times when they even work as engineers, but, according to their own estimates, this work does not bring them much satisfaction. However, since they are always stoic, they do not complain about it.