Description by function:

1. R - ethics of relations:

It distinguishes well the relationships that develop between people. Knows who gets along with whom or does not get along. Self-attitude catches worse, therefore suffers from excessive gullibility. For him, honesty and decency in human relations mean a lot. Treason and betrayal does not forgive. With people who let him down badly, he breaks all relations. Differs in courtesy and gentleness in communication at a long distance. Humanism manifests itself in deeds, avoids declarations and beautiful words. Endowed with the gift of generosity. He knows how to forgive even his enemies, if they sincerely repented. He maintains an even, friendly relationship with everyone.

2. I - intuition of possibilities:

He has the talent of an educator, because he understands how to reveal the abilities of people. Children are treated like adults, encouraging independence and other qualities necessary for adulthood. He greatly appreciates a friendly exchange of views, which creates an atmosphere of trust and respect for the position of another person. Maintains mutual understanding in the team in which it is located. Oriented in the most difficult life situations. People turn to him for advice to confirm the possibility of what they aspire to or what they fear. Reaching for the new, the unusual. Likes self-education. He tries to find the relationship between various teachings and theories, as a rule, of a spiritual and humanitarian nature. As no one else understands the impact of religion on people's lives.

3. L - structural logic:

Knows how to force himself to be disciplined and executive. Conscientious, although slow in the performance of specific work. Shows attention to detail. He strictly adheres to his obligations. Works modestly, without noise and praise. Strives objectively, without emotions to understand the situation, analyzing the facts. However, it is difficult for him to express his understanding of the problem in analytical language. In a formal setting, he looks restrained and rather dry. He does not like to show his attitude in public. Difficult tasks are solved thanks to the large stock of patience with which nature has awarded him.

4. F - force sensory:

Impressive and vulnerable, hard to tolerate rudeness. He cannot put pressure on people, force them to do something against their will. Although he is very nervous in extreme situations, he pulls himself together and acts decisively if people close to him are hurt. A wave of experiences rolls even when the danger is behind. He chooses as partners those who push him to vigorous activity, mobilizes, and not those who protect him from unrest and relieve him of responsibility. Sharply responds to attempts to influence him by coercion or brute force. In such a situation, he is able to flare up, openly express his negative attitude. Irritable in dealing with ill-wishers.

5. R - business logic:

Cannot sit idly by while others are working. He does not need to be campaigned for. The best way to connect it to work is a personal example. He takes real pleasure from comfortable, well-organized work. He likes it when they help to get rid of the useless waste of energy, to rationally equip the workplace. There is no need to give him detailed instructions, to bring him up to date for a long time. He will find the information he needs. The main thing is that what is required for work is at hand. Has a tendency to overwork, to sit up at work. I am grateful to those people who will take care of his rest and health.

6. S - sensory sensations:

His mood is highly dependent on his physical condition. When there is inconvenience around or when he is sick, he is seized by pessimism and a bad mood. Experiencing an inner need to care for the weak and sick. However, it is necessary that they understand this, otherwise they are offended, although they will not say anything. Feels comfortable in small but warm companies. Cares about the mood of the people of his circle. If necessary, it will cheer up or console. He is critical of his appearance. Dislikes being told what to wear or how to look, although he needs approval and advice on the appearance and use of certain household items. Avoids flashy, eye-catching clothing.

7. E - ethics of emotions:

Better than others, he anticipates the brewing of conflicts. He draws attention to the negative emotions of people, condemns them, but he himself cannot prevent them. Knows how to listen to a person, sympathize, relieve him of emotional stress. He can open his feelings only to very close people. He deeply experiences negative, dramatic events in the lives of others, even if they do not directly concern him. Internally very emotionally tense and nervous person. Although he knows how to control his own emotions, he periodically needs emotional discharges. Breaks down in communication with loved ones, if he convicts them of lies, selfishness, indifference.

8. T - intuition of time:

Lives and works calmly, measuredly. Does not like lagging or running ahead. It is hard to adapt to a new working rhythm. Does not tolerate a waste of time. Will not wait long for an optional person. He is punctual himself, he finishes the assigned work exactly on time. Spare no time to work. Work is evaluated by the amount of time spent. Work activity always separates from entertainment. He knows how to calculate how much time should be spent on whom. Dislikes talkative people who spend a lot of energy discussing irrelevant issues. Will not tear people away from work with empty questions.

External signs:

The most reliable landmark that allows you to identify this sociotype by appearance is an impassive face. The classical features of his appearance resemble the faces of saints or martyrs from icons: a straight, elongated nose that does not recede far from the plane of the face. The face itself is usually the correct oval shape. On the face, as it were, lies the mark of suffering. Never shows violent positive emotions. Can only smile. At a distance, on the face of the EII is written, as it were, a mute reproach to everything sinful that is happening around. The same is heard in the intonation of his speech. EII with enhanced ethics tends to have a thin, ascetic figure. In movements sharp, quite mobile. If intuition is strengthened, then the figure is full, blurry, clumsy movements. Facial features in this case also deviate from the canonical pattern. The gait of the EII has the following feature: the feet do not leave the ground high, they move parallel to the floor. Due to the small step, the gait is minced. There are extremes in EII clothing. On the one hand, he does not strive to stand out, he prefers modest, but tasteful clothes / ethical type /. On the other hand, it can dress up very brightly, like a parrot, according to fashion. The latter is typical for men of the intuitive subtype.

Communication style:

EIIs like to first observe people, evaluating the emerging relationships, and only then enter into communication. They don't take the initiative first. The sharpness, touchiness inherent in EII, especially if ethics are strengthened, make him uncomfortable in communication. His moralizing tone, monotonous "church" voice extinguish playfulness and cheerful mood, set people in a minor mood, as if forcing them to think about all the bad things that are happening in this world. The most characteristic for determining this type of personality by the manner of communication is his "confession". People often turn to him for advice and consolation in a difficult moment of their lives, pour out their souls. The EII never pushes people away, it is ready to listen to them as much as necessary until the person calms down. It does not take into account your personal time. He tries to understand everything objectively, impartially, discarding emotions. After that, logically brings the person to the necessary conclusion. Because of his inflexible position, sometimes others perceive him as a naive person who does not know how to live like everyone else. He really is completely incapable of cheating, adapting, playing the role necessary for the situation.

Behavior features:

The main feature of his behavior, which helps to reliably identify this socionic type, is the readiness to help close people. This is especially true for those who find themselves in difficult life situations. Moreover, his care is manifested not in words, but in deeds. EII is good at reconciling people. He, as it were, stands between the warring parties, maintaining good relations with both, which often causes fire from both sides. Cannot put pressure on people, shout, be aggressive. The most powerful of his punishments is the complete disregard for a person. Such people stubbornly do not notice until they admit their guilt and ask for forgiveness. Another characteristic feature of EII behavior is conscientiousness in the performance of specific work. He does everything carefully, with high quality. Diligent. Demanding for cleanliness and order. She often cleans at home, carefully folds things (women). He likes a calm, measured course of life. For everything he tries to prepare in advance. You can always rely on him. Doesn't like to stand out. When others work, he also works together with everyone. If everyone is sitting, he is also sitting. Usually does not tolerate scenes of violence, the sight of wounds and blood. Cannot stay indoors for long periods of time.

Your strong point is a deep understanding of people and human relationships. You are interested in the motives of actions, spiritual qualities, relationships between people that you have been watching for a long time. And the longer this study lasts, the more accurately you determine the character of a person: what he really is, and not what he wants to seem.

You strive for warm, friendly relations between people, do not tolerate rudeness and violence. This manifests the humanistic orientation of your personality, for this you are valued and respected by others. Your knowledge of people and life experience will always help you find your place in the team. Your other advantage, thanks to which you deserve the gratitude of people, is your constant sensitivity, kindness and attentiveness to people. You try to show your compassion for them in deeds, and not just in words. You, not sparing your own time and effort, help everyone who really needs your help.

The ultimate goal of your activity is to create a calm, harmonious, conflict-free environment in which everyone could reveal their abilities. You are the best comforter and reconciliator. Forgiving people their negative deeds and sins. You influence their conscience, make them think about the moral foundations of our life. The problem that worries you is the lack of determination and initiative, the inability to demand in a strong-willed form. This is facilitated by some shyness or even timidity inherent in your character to one degree or another. You are very scrupulous, afraid to seem intrusive, inappropriately causing attention to yourself.

You are a modest, non-aggressive person. Accepting the challenge. You do not dare to actively respond, prefer to hide your grievances in yourself. You are even uncomfortable accepting protection from others. You think that the person who offended you should realize everything and repent. If he does not, you try to avoid communication with him, punishing him with silence. You are advised to develop self-defense in yourself: to directly express your condemnation of dishonesty and dishonesty, not to show pity for people who are not able to improve or repent, not to allow themselves to be used for someone else's selfish purposes. Learn to say "no" at the right time. Empathize less with strangers and pay more attention to loved ones.

Your other problem is a very careful study of the details of any business, which leads to slowness and lack of emotion. Getting bogged down in trifles, you hardly find time for a good rest in nature or in the company of friends, which can adversely affect your well-being. You carefully and deeply analyze everything that concerns you and your friends. The results of such an objective analysis are often disappointing, because of which you sometimes experience a feeling of deep sadness and pessimism. Everything that goes beyond decency, morality and spirituality unnecessarily depresses you.

Do not follow the lead of your pity, so that later you do not scour yourself for deviating from honesty and justice. Remember that true justice does not allow compromises with conscience.

Speed ​​up the pace of work, concentrate so that your attention slips past the little things, stopping only at the main, essential. Try speed reading - this will help you learn to see the big picture of a phenomenon or event. When analyzing facts, strive not for clarification, but for generalization. Knowing the general laws will save you from spending energy and nerves on unjustified, few people are interested in aspects of the case.

The best partner in marriage, friendship, work - STIRLITS. Your quadra (four types in whose society relations are best established) - DOSTOYEVSKY, STIRLITS, HUXLEY, GABIN. When you see him, it is impossible to understand what kind of person he is. Sometimes even he himself cannot fully comprehend his huge inner world. The existence of good and evil... The constant struggle of people for their own interests.

Man - who is he in this life? ..

Where is the love of people for each other, where has their conscience gone... Sometimes he is afraid of these thoughts, the impossibility of solving these problems hits him in the heart. God, this cry of the soul, which no one will hear, is his pain, his cross ... Have you tried to simultaneously accept with your soul that which cannot exist together, that which can never be reconciled? Have you tried with all your heart to love deadly warring people and try to be the best friend for each of them? Have you always tried, even in small things, to live only according to the laws of conscience?

EII wants to live like this all his life - to the very maximum, so that his conscience is clear and his soul is bright. And this unfading light will illuminate the way for people lost in the dark...

Nothing is too much

The EII has an innate gift for understanding people; behind any "mask" he can see the real inside of a person, his moral potential. But he does not divide people into "good" and "bad", because he believes that even in the most immoral and cruel person one can always find grains of goodness. He is also able to see subtle signs of unseemly motives in the most humane and altruistic actions (including his own - he tries not to distinguish between other people and himself).

Love rules the World

Initially, since childhood, EII counts on humanity and love in relations between people. And in his soul, as long as he can remember himself, a strong and selfless love always lives: for his mother, brother, girlfriend, beloved teacher ... It is expressed not in words, but in sincere trust, fulfillment of other people's desires, obedience in everything, heartfelt sympathy for adversity loved one.

EII would like all people to love each other at least a little, to live in peace and harmony among themselves. In fact, he tries to be an example in this for everyone around him.

He believes that the best way to resolve conflicts is a compromise, which all parties without exception should make (after all, there are no absolutely wrong people, which means there are no absolutely right people). And he himself goes towards people, makes concessions, easily apologizes if someone is offended by him (even for nothing), - but all this is done not only in order to convince a person of his friendliness and disposition towards him, but also with the aim of instilling in him the same friendliness and readiness to make counter compromises.

I give my whole life...

He is very attached to his family, to his loved ones. Pretty closed; in childhood, running around in the yard prefers quiet games with kids or lonely homework. At school, he can be frightened by noisy, aggressive antics of peers, strict and picky teachers, tests and exams. In an attempt to overcome this, he sometimes puts on a mask of swagger, mock gaiety, eats to demonstrate his energy and will. But he will only have a real problem when this mask grows on him for the rest of his life.

The EII has a limited circle of reliable friends; with strangers, he behaves rather stiffly and very tactfully. For some time he looks at them, assesses their ethical potential.

The secret of human existence is notonly to live, but in what to live for

This is a dreamy nature with a bright, slightly sad look; sometimes he withdraws so much into his inner world that it happens that he does not distinguish between his fantasies and reality. A serious, deep, thoughtful understanding of people allows him to almost always see the possibilities of their moral improvement and improvement of relations between them - if not immediately and completely, but even a small change for the better gives him joy.

At first, he strongly idealizes people; a few serious disappointments in them do not turn him away from them, but now in his communication with people behind external cheerfulness reproach will always slip through, and the older he gets, the more visible it will be.

You don't have to teach me how to live

Sometimes, once again trying to reconcile "irreconcilable contradictions", the EII sees bias and inconsistency in its actions. This upsets him a little, since he attaches great importance to logic - he develops it in himself, studies objective laws, and tries to develop principles in himself. But in the end, all the same, preference will be given not to logic, but to the ethics of actions. Moreover, persistent attempts to “artificially” inculcate this principledness in himself will lead him not to solving problems, but only to piling them up.

A bad peace is better than a good quarrel

But the use of violence in any form EII condemns fundamentally. He would like it to be completely and completely excluded from human relations. He understands that by force you can force a person to do what he does not want at some point, but you cannot convince him to do so always. He believes that it is impossible to limit the freedom of people by anything external. He accepts only self-restraint based on the principles of his own conscience and sense of duty.

Work not for fear, but for conscience

EII in people highly respects professionalism and competence. His own business abilities are not very great: he tries to become an attentive and obedient executor of the orders of competent people and considers that this is enough. It's hard to believe, but EII likes to read instructions and follow them without question.

He does not like to do several things at the same time, scatter; it is better to do one thing, but with full dedication. Due to their diligence, children of this type usually study well, complete all the tasks of teachers on time. EII tries not to stand out with his appearance, his goal is to make a good impression on others. Vulgarity or inaccuracy he considers as disrespectful to people. However, it is not very easy for him to take care of himself, and there is a certain risk that he may gradually become gray and nondescript in appearance.

What is happening to me now is also part of the universe

Outwardly, EII is calm and restrained, and rarely anyone can guess the emotional richness of his emotional experiences - he is simply convinced of the "sovereignty" of the internal state of any person and that it is impossible to deprive him of the right to those emotions that he has by "voluntaristic" methods Currently. At the same time, he often even imperceptibly shows attention and interest in the mood and well-being of other people, their emotional state. Moreover, he is not interested in what they are trying to show to others "from a great mind", but in what they really feel - fatigue, disappointment, resentment.

If a person is very ill, he can persistently convince him to change the mode of work for a while, take a break, and put aside his worries for a while.

Life is full for the EII when it is filled with close communication with people; nevertheless, he is diligently careful not to take away their time by this communication.

His developed intuition can even help him see the possible dangers in the way of other people, and then he will warn them in time. At the same time, he may not see the troubles that stand in full growth in front of him at point-blank range (this is easily overcome if he gives himself advice as if to an outsider).

Description of the sociotype Dostoevsky-Psychologist according to Slinko

Excellent understanding of human relationships, evaluates them subtly and objectively. Prefers communication at a short psychological distance ("chamber" person). A tireless creator of kind, warm human relationships, long-term attachments. Avoids direct dislike of anyone. Consistent in its ethical principles, which are close to Christian morality.

He accepts all people as they are. He sees their individuality, strengths and weaknesses, makings for the future. Almost always "open" towards people, "lets" them into his soul, because he is very unprotected. Provides a person with maximum psychological space, which contributes to the most complete and free manifestation of the personality of the interlocutor. Knows how to listen carefully, shows delicacy in advice.

Strives to understand the root causes, the mechanism of phenomena: why everything happens this way and not otherwise. Feels the need for logical ordering, structuring the environment. gravitates toward the scientific way of thinking. Does not accept violence, acutely feels someone else's pain. In cases when it is necessary to exert volitional pressure, put forward strict requirements, he is uncertain: is it necessary to do this, in such a form, etc. Therefore, he almost always yields, but even then he cannot avoid torment, for he himself, or his relatives, or his business are infringed.

Needs constructive advice on business feasibility. Feels grateful for people who help improve well-being.

She prefers classic style and pastel colors in clothes. Aesthetics is of particular importance. Any phenomenon "verifies" harmony. Beauty for him is a source of inspiration.

The psychologist perfectly understands art, music, knows how to convey the subtlest feelings (Andrey Tarkovsky, Sting, Nina Matvienko). Those Psychologists who fixate on the topic of violence usually end badly (Igor Talkov).

The psychologist is a wonderful therapist and an unsurpassed psychotherapist (a man, not a woman!). Surgery, as well as work with hands in general, is subject to him little.

Having learned to use his energy capabilities (here women have a clear advantage), the Psychologist, with his kindness and understanding of child psychology, as well as real didactic talent, turns out to be the best of teachers. Unfortunately, he remains vulnerable to the tyranny of the school authorities. The head teacher-Sybarita, for example, does not cost anything to "devour" a teacher-Psychologist.

Dostoevsky after Gulenko

1. Its main feature is humanism and sympathy for people. He maintains an even, friendly relationship with everyone. Peacekeeper: able to reconcile hostile parties, but at the same time remain objective. Listening to people relieves their emotional stress. He does not accumulate evil in himself, forgives his offenders and ill-wishers.

2. Ready to help people who turn to him for support. Negatively refers to violence, opposing it with calm stubbornness and endurance. Although we are tolerant and compliant, we do not forgive betrayal and injustice. He is good at noticing alternatives and omissions in new endeavors. Reveals human vices, but clothes it in a tactful form.

3. Demonstrates diligence, punctuality and discipline. Prefers a calm, measured rhythm of life. Conscientious, although slow in performing specific work. It requires detailed instructions for its implementation. Dislikes crowds, loud compliments.

4. Quite unsure of himself, lacking initiative. However, he is able to force himself to do more if it is expected of him. Impressive and vulnerable, hard to tolerate rudeness. He cannot put pressure on people, be aggressive, although he will sharply respond to attempts to dictate. The strongest of his punishments is the complete disregard of the person. His kindness can be abused, as it is difficult for him to refuse.

Female types

The position of theoretical socionics that Dostochka is indifferent to her appearance is not confirmed in practice. She dresses really without excessive extravagance, but elegantly and tastefully. He considers branded clothing an important element of his image and feels much more confident in it. Despite her inherent frugality, she will never wear a “second hand”, even if this dress is from the shoulder of Princess Diana. In a noisy company, he tries to take up as little space as possible. He doesn’t even sing songs with everyone, but purrs a melody a little audibly.

Due to natural shyness, it is difficult for a Humanist to take the first step towards acquaintance and rapprochement. You will have to go all the way, but it will not be long...

She does not rush to work, but not because she is lazy, but because she is too modest in her assessment of her abilities. And it’s completely in vain - she has invaluable data for performing scrupulous, accurate work. The dostochka does not show initiative, but, having received the task, performs it qualitatively. A rare leader does not dream of such an executive and not talkative employee, ready to take on a lot of additional tasks that everyone refuses. In addition, she does not weave intrigues, is not capable of lies and betrayal, and most importantly, she is embarrassed to ask for an increase in salary.

Dostochka is a rare type of woman who can arouse the strongest affection without having the appearance of a movie star. She is so kind and trusting that men often seem attractive, regardless of her real appearance. Imagine, she believes in omens, horoscopes and even news reports! But a shrewd partner, who can see through her deep-seated ambitions, doubts whether she is as innocent as she looks.

And yet - this is one of the best marriage options for those whose ideal is a "quiet marina." Yes, we almost forgot about a rare quality for a wife - she knows how to listen, moreover, she listens to your advice! And you can be sure your mom will love it...

In sex, he does not like abstract conversations, he needs clear methodological recommendations: you will have to explain exactly what you want and how. But do not fantasize too much - the diligent Dostochka will literally follow any of your instructions. She is not active in bed, but she does not complain about her partner's sexuality either.

She is inclined to a “subordinate” style of behavior, but she does not accept obvious forceful pressure, opposing it with completely unexpected stamina and stubbornness. Literally before our eyes, she erects a psychological “wall of alienation”.

With a sigh, we move on to the last part of our essay - parting. We will not find out what this incarnation of meekness has done to you, but no special measures are required to break up. If you decide to leave, leave, you are not threatened with reproaches, scandals, or revenge. Even if Cinderella is slightly offended, she will try not to give it away and quietly disappear from your life. Unless the crystal slipper will remain as a keepsake...

Female portrait of Don Quixote by Lyubov Beskova

Dostoevsky. Female portrait

Quiet, friendly, even meek - such epithets come to mind when it comes to girls like DOSTOYEVSKY. The face is often with wide cheekbones, a graceful chin and large, radiant eyes. There are also narrow faces, very youthful until very late years. The look of representatives of this type is soft and compassionate. An unobtrusive, kind smile often lingers on their face for a long time. This girl is always ready to listen and support others, and if necessary, give quiet comfort and inspire hope.

Women of this type are very feminine and delicate, modest and even shy. But that doesn't mean they're spineless. Not at all. They have a special, meek, stoic manner to accept all the hardships and blows of fate.

They have a very ephemeral body, often there is a slight stoop. They dress quite modestly, trying not to attract much attention to themselves. And with age, and in general, they begin to choose mostly something dark and inconspicuous.

School life allows them from childhood to begin to develop obedience and diligence in themselves. These are quiet, diligent girls who will never argue with teachers. And even if they are unfairly given grades, they do not grumble, explaining the situation to themselves in some way so that the authority of the teacher does not suffer.

In the class, this girl, as a rule, has a couple of best friends, with whom she stands at breaks against the wall and in a quiet voice, with dignity, discusses all the events of school life. She does not like to gossip, she tries to evaluate everything objectively, so that there are no guilty or offended. This is one of the most decent girls in the class.

Humanitarian inclinations are manifested in girls of this type very clearly. They are well versed in the vicissitudes of the personal life of all the heroes of literary works, which are studied under the program, and write the best essays in the class. In addition, they read a lot in addition to the program, write poetry and prose themselves, as a result of which their character acquires strongly romanticized features. This is, in fact, one of the most dreamy girls in the class.

Representatives of this type for the most part do not like to engage in sports. But in childhood and youth they like to dance. This occupation corresponds to their romantic, lyrical mood. And, most often, they prefer ballroom or classical dances.

Girls like DOSTOYEVSKY always enter the institute, because they study well at school, often graduating with a gold medal, and in general they make the most pleasant impression on the examiners with their excellent education, ability to behave with dignity, quiet voice and good knowledge. But it would be better if this girl chooses a humanitarian field for herself than goes to study as an engineer.

If you thought that girls of this type never have fun in companies, then you are wrong. But the company should be its own, where they are noticed, loved and appreciated. There, this quiet flower opens in all its glory towards friendship, love and good, warm fun. Keep in mind that she will not stay in friends where they swear or abuse alcohol next to her. She has her own, and very high demands on others. The man she dreams of must be correct, reliable, intelligent and self-confident.

When the girl DOSTOYEVSKY becomes your wife, know that a quiet angel now lives in your home. However, he has such a developed sense of duty that he will not disdain to clean, wash and cook. Of course, she does not like to cook, this is not what she sees as her calling. But she will never leave her family without food. And if one of the family members is so picky that she wants to eat only freshly prepared food, she will cook three times a day. That's how she's made.

She also cares about the health of her relatives, and therefore diligently writes in a special notebook (which she will keep all her life) not only culinary recipes, but also the composition of herbal preparations, as well as the most necessary medicines that can be useful for certain diseases.

Not only the husband, but also the parents on both sides, and the children will be embraced by her warm attitude. She will find time for everyone, an opportunity to help, as well as friendly words for the occasion. She takes care of the children. Moreover, he does it with pleasure and all his life. She knows everything about their mental structure, about the problems of their inner world, makes sure that they study well, strives to comprehensively develop their abilities, educates them gently but persistently. But it is difficult for her to make serious decisions when it is necessary to place a child in a school or choose an institute for him. However, this applies not only to problems related to children. So it's best to take care of identifying important milestones in the development of your family. She will gladly submit to you.

From life: "When I read E. Bern's "Games People Play", I thought, what kind of fairy tale corresponded to my life scenario in childhood? And I remembered that when I was little, my favorite fairy tale was about a princess, who didn’t have to do anything, because by magic everything around her was done by itself. So I dreamed about this, so that someone would come and do everything that needed to be done, and I wouldn’t have to do anything all my life ".

By the way, this quiet, warm, domestic woman is one of the most obedient wives. She loves her family with an even, warming love. But make sure that her entire spiritual resource is not wasted on girlfriends who exploit your wife as a psychotherapist. She herself, of course, will never refuse them. Out of compassion. Therefore, it will be right if you take matters into your own hands and somewhat limit the flow of those who want to receive a psychotherapeutic session and useful advice from her.

Women of this type always show themselves very well in any job. They are friendly and responsible, never quarrel and do not demand anything for themselves, hoping that sooner or later they will be noticed and appreciated. They also consciously avoid getting involved in intrigues, spreading gossip and discussing someone behind their back.

They make wonderful teachers, editors, proofreaders, librarians, psychologists. They are good wherever you need to show patience and compassion for people. There are times when they even work as engineers, but, according to their own estimates, this work does not bring them much satisfaction. However, since they are always stoic, they do not complain about it.

Socionics is a science that studies the characteristics of a person's perception of information from the surrounding world, his reaction to certain factors, and a behavioral model formed on the basis of this. The foundation of the doctrine is the sensations and emotions of the individual, his logical thinking and evaluative qualities. Analyzing them, scientists divide people into 16 types. In this article, we will analyze one of their psychotypes, which is studied by socionics. Dostoevsky, namely, he will be discussed below, is a friendly person who likes to silently observe others rather than actively maintain a conversation.

Boy-Dostoevsky

According to socionics, Dostoevsky-man is a born intellectual. Since childhood, he is delicate and tactful, loves to read and learn. He likes to wear long hair tied in a ponytail and modest clothes. His voice is quiet, his gaze is meek, and his smile is affectionate. When you talk to him, it's impossible to lie. There is a feeling that conscience itself is looking into your eyes. It is impossible not to believe him, he perfectly understands people, goes to meet them halfway. Able to empathize, console and share the hardships of the interlocutor.

Quiet, inconspicuous and obedient - this is how socionics characterizes the boy. Dostoevsky maintains friendly relations with all the children in the class. He does not participate in fights, as he believes that any trouble can be resolved peacefully. Not ambitious, so he does not fight for leadership. He studies well, especially he succeeds in mathematics. But it is not science that occupies him more, but the personal life of classmates, which he observes, analyzing and drawing conclusions.

Youth

When entering a higher educational institution, she prefers the humanities. Getting an education, there are not enough stars from the sky, trying to get lost among the students. But among the Dostoevskys there are also truly unique individuals who can easily graduate from Harvard University with honors. The young man does not like sports. But you can get into yoga. In addition, he likes skiing, as well as any entertainment where an instant reaction and iron endurance are required from the participant.

Constantly being in society is the main goal pursued by Dostoevsky. Socionics describes this psychotype as follows: despite the quiet, sometimes closed nature, he loves the company of people, tries in every possible way to keep the conversation going on any topic. The character of the young man is flexible and soft. Already at this age, he is popular with women. Since he is a very gallant, attentive gentleman with a sense of humor and good manners.

Family life

Boys of this type make good husbands: faithful, caring and gentle. There is absolutely no aggression in them - and socionics makes a strong emphasis on this character trait. Dostoevsky, a man, will never raise his hand to a woman, he will not furiously prove that he is right. If he disagrees with something, then he will simply quietly do as he sees fit, since he will never deviate from principles. In the house, Dostoevsky knows how to maintain a pleasant, friendly atmosphere: he jokes with all family members, he often has a playful mood.

Communicating with children, chooses analogous tactics. It is absolutely non-confrontational. This is not a strict father, but a friend-educator who respects the kids, knows how to interest them, convey life experience, spiritual guidelines and his high goals. Here is what else he writes about this eternal romance of socionics: “Dostoevsky has a huge reserve of patience. But if you still managed to offend him, a meek look and eyes full of sadness will make you simply fall underground from the realization of your own worthlessness and stupidity.

Characteristics of a girl

Cutie - this is how you can call a young lady who belongs to the Dostoevsky psychotype (socionics). A woman is already kind and accommodating from the cradle, so she does not cause unnecessary grief and trouble to her parents. She is very charming, delicate, modest and shy. Despite her fragility, she has amazing resilience when problems hit like snow on her head. The eyes of such a girl always glow, a spark wanders in them, a light. He dresses modestly so as not to draw too much attention.

At school, she is a diligent and diligent student. He does not argue with teachers: even if the assessment is unfair, he will remain silent. The authority of a teacher is dearer to her than her own. The girl has few friends: usually a few classmates, just as quiet and modest, with whom she discusses the events of school life in a corner at a break. Inclined to the humanities: she writes the best essays, invents poetry. Literature influences her character, giving him the features of a romantic nature.

Young years

According to socionics, Dostoevsky, in which a female portrait is very similar to a male one, is usually always a delicate and fragile creature. She doesn’t like sports, but she loves to dance - this activity most closely matches her image of a “lyrical young lady”. Such girls often finish school with a gold medal, after which they must enter the university. Treat teachers courteously and with dignity, which impresses them and evokes sympathy. Her knowledge is solid and her demeanor modest.

Despite this, the Dostoevsky girl (socionics) likes to have fun. A woman prefers a society where she is valued and loved, I notice and allow her to open up. Here she can loosen up, chirping cheerfully with friends or flirting with potential suitors. By the way, the man she dreams of must be reliable, intelligent and self-confident. And most importantly - correct. A man who swears and abuses alcohol will never win her heart.

Marriage with a Dostoevsky woman

This is the case when the husband was lucky. Such a spouse is a quiet angel, who has the most developed sense of duty and responsibility. Do not grumble, will cook, wash, iron, darn, clean. To be honest, housework does not attract her, but she will never refuse to do them. And if the husband requires constantly fresh food, he will cook three times a day, without repeating a single dish. He takes care of the health of the household, so he diligently writes down recipes for herbal preparations for all kinds of diseases.

Neither children nor old parents will be deprived of her attention. She will play with the kids and learn her lessons. Pensioners will constantly visit, call several times a day, being interested in the health of even the most distant relative. Sometimes it is difficult for her to make important decisions. According to socionics, Dostoevsky the girl in such cases relies on a man: she will listen to his opinion with pleasure and will definitely follow the indicated path.

Career for men and women

Dostoevsky always loves to live according to plan. Socionics characterizes the relationship of this psychotype to work as follows: rigor, clarity and adherence to principles. Therefore, they always make excellent workers: thorough, punctual, responsible. They always fulfill the plan, pass the work standards on time, sincerely root for the common cause. Their inherent human qualities allow them to occupy a special niche in the team. Employees appreciate and respect them for their reliability, responsiveness, ability to help and listen.

Their abilities can show in different areas of life. Here is what socionics says about these personalities: “Dostoevsky chooses different professions - from technical to humanitarian. He also makes an excellent teacher. And an equally talented engineer. Representatives of this psychotype can also become journalists, editors, librarians, designers. But the career of a psychologist is most suitable for them, because by nature these people have a rare gift to penetrate into the subconscious of the interlocutor.

The young man DOSTOYEVSKY is modest, tactful and delicate, a great lover of reading and, in general, an intellectual. Most often there is an asthenic physique. He has a quiet voice, a meek look, an affectionate smile and an elevated train of thought. He likes to wear long hair, according to modern fashion, sometimes he takes it in a ponytail. He does not pay due attention to clothes, believing that this is not the main thing in life, so he is usually dressed very modestly. Although occasionally there are real dandies among men of this type in expensive wide-brimmed hats and long coats. It all depends on the individual orientation of the character.

When you talk to DOSTOYEVSKY, it seems that conscience itself looks into your eyes. He has the gift of understanding people. He is sympathetic, able to empathize with other people's sorrows and misfortunes, console, sharing your bad mood. You can trust him - he will never go against the interests of people close to him.

At school, boys of this type are usually transparent and quiet. They are friendly to all children in the class, friendly, always ready to enter into the position of any student, whether it be a friend or just a classmate. But they are not ambitious, they do not participate in fights, they do not fight for leadership. They know how to find a common language with almost any children. The DOSTOYEVSKII boys study well, they can valiantly cope with mathematics, but still they like to communicate more, they are more interested in the personal life of their classmates, which they quietly watch from the sidelines, thinking a lot and dreamily to themselves about everything that happens. They describe their experiences on this (and on other occasions) in poetry or prose, to which they regularly devote some time.

When choosing an institute, their inclination towards the humanities is most often manifested.

From life: “We studied with him (DOSTOYEVSKY) at the Faculty of Philology, on the same course. In pairs, he preferred to sit on the last row. Not at all in order to chat or copy unfinished homework from neighbors. taking notes, he most often added an unfinished poem, read Remarque under the desk or painted clouds. Sometimes he suddenly turned on and began to ask the teacher quite relevant questions. I don’t remember him ever answering out of place when he was called to the blackboard. He always found that answer. However, his scientific activity did not last more than five minutes. He also never had the patience to learn all the tickets for the exam.

Once I had a chance to look into his inner world. I found that outward carelessness is combined in him with a tendency to severe self-criticism. In private, he could spend hours worrying about his idleness or regretting a wrong word for a long time.

But among the representatives of this type there are also such heroes who enter the Bauman Institute and even graduate with honors.

Sports, especially in childhood, do not attract them too much. Although, having matured a little and having acquired a more material body, they can get carried away with yoga, skiing, or those sports that require speed and good reaction from the participant, with the exception of power sports, where the emphasis is on aggressiveness, wrestling and clashing opponents.

Despite his quiet nature and desire for a solitary existence, the young man DOSTOYEVSKY loves people and meets them with pleasure. Boys of this type are also in companies, but even there they still prefer to communicate one on one in turn with everyone who has aroused their interest or to whom they are attached. DOSTOYEVSKY's character is soft and docile, so that he is very responsive to women's initiative. He behaves like a gallant cavalier, jokes and maintains a soft, unobtrusive fun. By the way, he is witty, so he may seem quite an interesting partner to his lady. As for himself, he most of all likes strong-willed, determined, restrained girls who always know what they want, and can also tell you what to do in a given situation.

From the young men of this type, soft, docile husbands are obtained. They are caring and friendly. They don't have aggressiveness. And they also know how to maintain an atmosphere in the house, decorated with gentle humor. However, you should know that, being docile and meek, DOSTOYEVSKY is also distinguished by an extremely stubborn character and is able to quietly but persistently follow some of his own rules. He may not argue with you, but he will not back down from his principles either. However, he is usually non-confrontational, trying to avoid open confrontation. It is easier for him to laugh it off, to translate the quarrel into a humorous channel, especially since most often he succeeds well.

He chooses the same tactics with children. This is a benevolent friend and educator, rather pedantic, but humane. It will not only help you learn, but also teach you how to treat people with respect, as well as how not to lose high goals and spiritual guidelines in life. He becomes very attached to children, misses them if he leaves home for a long time.

In relations with his family, DOSTOYEVSKY's reserve of patience is extremely great. However, if you nevertheless managed to offend him, then DOSTOYEVSKY's meek air and full of sadness, downcast eyes, cannot fail to make the proper impression on you. There is no doubt that at this moment you will want more than anything in the world to fall through the ground, and you will regret your unfair words.

Since the DOSTOYEVSKIIs love and know how to live according to a plan, they are excellent workers who you can always rely on. They are punctual, quite thorough

at work and very responsible. Men of this type are passionate about the common cause. Their abilities find application in a variety of fields, ranging from humanitarian to technical. Often they work as teachers at school or university lecturers, editors, journalists. There are also among people of this type and those who are professionally engaged in chemistry. They can work as engineers or designers at the factory. But best of all they succeed in a career as a psychologist, because these people are born psychologists.

Their human qualities allow them to occupy a special niche in the team. Employees usually love and respect them for their tolerance, willingness to listen and understand everyone, for their responsiveness and reliability.