The loss of a loved one is a painful grief for any person. Attending the funeral of acquaintances and friends, it is difficult to find farewell words to express pain and sympathy for relatives.

The proposed material considers examples of mourning speeches at such events, commemorations for 40 days or 1 year after death.

The funeral speech is distinguished by its own characteristics. When pronouncing the text, a person addresses the guests, friends, relatives of the deceased in order to console them in the hour of bereavement and listen to others.

Those present are expecting what you will say, so it would be appropriate to show more pathos, since it is not only spoken from one's own face, but the opinion of others is expressed.

When giving a speech, observe the following rules:

• Speak briefly - do not unnecessarily drag out speech, exercising in eloquence.
• Remain sincere - words coming from the heart will show the true attitude towards the tragedy.
• Do not use quotes, poems - the speech is pronounced in your own words, do not resort to excessive theatricality.
• To say kind words about the deceased - do not retell the biography, but mention a couple of facts from personal relationships that testify to the positive qualities of the deceased.
• Do not talk about the shortcomings of the deceased - everyone is accompanied by bad moments and unseemly acts. Talk about your strengths and weaknesses.

At the end of the speech, mention the memory left by those present about the deceased, that life has not been lived in vain.

When mentioning the best qualities of the deceased, keep in mind that shortcomings easily turn into virtues with the right emphasis.

The table shows examples of the characteristics of negative qualities on the positive side:

Note! In addition to correctly chosen phrases, an appropriate epitaph is important, reflecting what was said about the deceased.

Memorial speech: text after the funeral

In the Christian and secular traditions of our society - the commemoration of the deceased after the funeral, for 40 days and 1 year from the moment of death.

Of great importance at such an event is a farewell word pronounced in memory of the deceased.

Speaking is entrusted to the next of kin, who has the following qualities:

• Stress tolerance.
• Clear pronunciation.
• Stable mentality.

When giving a speech, you must first sketch out a short plan, without resorting to impromptu. This will not bring the desired result.

For greater richness and persuasiveness, memories of friends and relatives about the best qualities of the deceased are included in the speech.

But do not unnecessarily drag out the parting word, it is optimal to keep within five to six minutes.
Any speech is individual, templates and samples are not needed.

But the words must be pronounced in this order:

• Representation - it is necessary to indicate who the deceased speaker is related to.
• Express sorrow for what happened.
• List the most important achievements in the life of the deceased.
• Talk about your best features.
• Give vivid examples from life illustrating the above.
• Finally, mention the eternal memory of the deceased in the hearts of those present.

Important! When saying a farewell word, it is necessary to remain solemn, avoiding a gloomy mood.

Example words for 40 days and the year of death

Anyone has the right to independently compose a text and select the right words that are appropriate in a particular situation.

But here are some examples of such speeches:

• Grandmother She lived a difficult but interesting life. She survived the difficult years of the war, post-war reconstruction, in old age - political instability.

  But she remained a role model and the core that united the family. Her husband, who was seriously ill for a long time, demanded care and attention, so she had a very difficult time.

  But my grandmother constantly kept the house in exemplary cleanliness, looked after her children and grandchildren. No one cooked borscht better. She will remain in my heart no matter what happens.

• Grandpa been my closest friend all my life. I confided to him the secrets that I did not dare to tell my parents.

  We went fishing together, made a kite, worked in the garden. He has always been an example for me - reliable, strong, skillful. Any business was argued in his hands.

  For grandfather, the word "I can't" did not exist. He took on any job and always achieved what he wanted.

  Following his example, I chose a profession and made the most important life decisions. His life left a bright indelible mark on the souls of all who were familiar with him and close.

When pronouncing the words at parting, it is necessary to remain extremely sincere so as not to offend the memory of the deceased with false phrases and artificially depicted grief.

What they say for an elderly person, friend, husband

How to choose the right words at the funeral of a work colleague, best friend, girlfriend, husband - it’s not always possible to express what you want, tears are choking, thoughts are confused.

But you need to pull yourself together, calm emotions and focus on speech.

It does not matter whether the speech is intended for an elderly person or not - it is necessary to express gratitude, grief and support to relatives.

Some texts that speak in a similar situation:

• My husband was and will remain the closest and dearest person to me.

  With his death, a part of my soul died. He always knew how to do the right thing, he had everything in its place and put on the shelves.

  I think that his things will remain in perfect order, as in life. I don’t know how long I can live alone, but my husband will forever remain in my memory.

• Peter was my best friend. Do not list how many difficult situations we got out of together.

  He was always ready to help at the first call, to support in difficulties, to share joy, to help in times of difficulty. I have many friends, but no one was closer. May he rest in peace.

• I didn't know Sergey well enough, we were just work colleagues. But now I regret that I did not know him enough.

  He always remained punctual and executive, he performed any difficult task with brilliance.

  I am grateful to him for the help that he was always ready to provide in a difficult situation. We will all miss him greatly.

Whoever delivers a farewell speech, it is important not to forget to mention the best character traits of the deceased, to express sympathy and support to relatives.

Do not record on video and send the last word to the relatives of the deceased. In such cases, personal support is very important.

Do not forget to offer help to the relatives of the deceased; in a difficult situation, the support of friends and relatives is always needed.

Funeral words of grief for the deceased

Condolences are mourning words of sorrow who express sympathy for death. Sincere condolences provide for the format of a personal, personal appeal - verbal or text.

As part of or public condolence is also appropriate, but should be succinctly. In an expression of sympathy from a believer, you can add: "We pray for ___". Read more about the rules of condolences on the Epitaph.ru website.

Etiquette condolences from muslims is distinguished by a fatal attitude towards death and acceptance of loss, as well as clear requirements for rituals, clothing, behavior, symbols, gestures.

Condolence Examples

Universal Short Words of Sorrow

In the case when the words of condolence are pronounced after the burial or on the day of the funeral, then you can (but not necessarily) add briefly: “Let the earth rest in peace!” If you have the opportunity to provide assistance (organizational, financial - any), then it is convenient to complete the words of condolence with this phrase, for example “These days you will surely need help. I would like to be helpful. Count on me!"

• I am shocked by this sad news. It's hard to accept it. I share your pain of loss...
• My heart is broken by yesterday's news. I worry with you and remember ___ with the warmest words! It's hard to accept the loss ___! Everlasting memory!
• The news of the death of ___ is a terrible blow! It hurts even to think that we will never see him/her again. Please accept our condolences with your husband on your loss.
• Until now, the news about the death of ___ seems like a ridiculous mistake! It is impossible to comprehend it! Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss!
• My condolences! It hurts to even think about it, it's hard to talk about it. I sympathize with your pain! Everlasting memory ___!
• It's hard to put into words how ___ and I sympathize with your loss of ___! Golden man, what a few! We will always remember him/her!
• “This is an incredible, catastrophic loss. The loss of a real person, an idol, an exemplary family man and a citizen of his country ”(about Ilya Segalovich). .
• We empathize with your loss! The news of ___'s death shocked our entire family. We remember and will remember ___ as the most worthy person. Please accept our sincere condolences!
• Little consolation, but know that we are with you in grief of loss ___ and sincerely empathize with your entire family! Everlasting memory!
• “Words cannot convey all the pain and sadness. Like a bad dream. Eternal peace to your soul, our dear and beloved Jeanne!(Grave and)
• An unimaginable loss! We all mourn the loss of ___, but of course it's even harder for you! Sincere condolences, and we will remember all our lives! We want to provide any help that is needed at this moment. Count on us!
• It's sad... I respect and remember ___ and sincerely condole with your loss! The least I can do today is to help. At least I have four empty seats in the car.

Condolences on the death of my mother, grandmother

• This terrible news shocked me. For me, ___ is a hospitable hostess, a kind woman, but for you ... The loss of your mother ... I sympathize with you so much and cry with you!
• We are very ... very upset, beyond words! It is hard when you lose loved ones, but the death of a mother is a grief for which there is no cure. Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss!
• ___ was a model of delicacy and tact. Her memory will be as endless as her kindness to all of us. The loss of a mother is an incomparable grief. Please accept my deepest condolences!
• Woe, nothing compares! And I have no words to ease your pain. But I know she wouldn't want to see you despair. Be strong! Tell me, what could I take on these days?
• We are happy that we knew ___. Her kind disposition and generosity surprised us all, and this is how she will be remembered! It is difficult to express in words our grief - it is too great. Let the kindest memories and bright memory of her be at least a small consolation!
• The news of ___'s departure came as a shock to us. We can only guess what a blow her departure was for you. At such moments we feel abandoned, but remember that you have friends who loved and appreciated your mother. Count on our help!
• Words cannot heal a terrible wound in the heart. But the bright memories of ___, how honestly and with dignity she lived her life, will always be stronger than death. In the bright memory of her, we are forever with you!
• They say that grandchildren are loved even more than their children. We felt this love of our grandmother in full. This love will warm us all our lives, and we will pass on part of its warmth to our children and grandchildren ...
• Losing loved ones is very hard... And the loss of a mother is the loss of a part of yourself... Mom will always be missed, but may the memory of her and the warmth of the mother always be with you!
• Words cannot heal this wound of loss. But the bright memory of ___, who lived her life honestly and with dignity, will be stronger than death. We are with you in the eternal memory of her!
• Her whole life was spent in countless labors and worries. Such a heartfelt and sincere woman, we will remember her forever!
• Without parents, without mother, there is no one between us and the grave. May wisdom and perseverance help you get through these most difficult days. Hold on!
• With ___ the model of virtue is gone! But she will remain a guiding light for all of us who remember her, love and honor her.
• It is ___ that kind words can be dedicated: “The one whose actions and deeds came from the soul, from the heart.” May the earth rest in peace!
• The life she has lived has a name: Virtue. ___ is the source of life, faith and love for loving children and grandchildren. The Kingdom of heaven!
• How much we did not tell her during her lifetime!
• Please accept my sincere condolences! What a man! ___, as she lived modestly and quietly, she left humbly, as if the candle had gone out.
• ___ involved us in good deeds, and because of her, we became better. For us, ___ will forever remain a model of mercy and tact. We are happy that we knew her.
• Your mother was a smart and bright person ... Many, like me, will feel that the world has become poorer without her.

Condolences on the death of husband, father, grandfather

• We are deeply saddened by the news of your father's death. He was a just and strong man, a loyal and sensitive friend. We knew him well and loved him like a brother.
• Our family mourns with you. The loss of such a reliable support in life is irreparable. But remember that we will be honored to help you at any moment when you need it.
• My condolences, ___! The death of a beloved husband is the loss of yourself. Hold on, these are the hardest days! We grieve with your grief, we are near ...
• Today, all who knew ___ mourn with you. This tragedy leaves no one indifferent. I will never forget my friend, and I consider it my duty to ___ to support you on any occasion, if you contact me.
• I'm so sorry that ___ and I had disagreements at one time. But I have always appreciated and respected him as a person. I apologize for the moments of pride and offer you my help. Today and always.
• Thanks to your statements about his [qualities or good deeds], it seems to me that I also knew him always. Condolences to you on the death of such a loved one and such a soul close to you! Rest in peace…
• I sincerely regret the loss of your dad. This is a very sad and sad time for you. But good memories are what will help to survive this loss. Your father lived a long and bright life and achieved success and respect in it. We also join the words of sorrow of friends and memories of ___.
• I sincerely condole with you ... What a person, what a scale of personality! He deserves more words than can now be said. In the memories of ___ - he is our teacher of justice and mentor in life. Eternal memory to him!
• Without a father, without parents, there is no one between us and the grave. But ___ set an example of courage, resilience and wisdom. And I'm sure he wouldn't want you to grieve like that right now. Be strong! I sincerely sympathize with you.
• Your shock from the onset of loneliness is a severe shock. But you have the strength to overcome grief and continue what he did not have time to do. We are nearby, and we will help in everything - contact us! It is our duty to remember ___!
• We grieve with you at this difficult moment! ___ - the kindest person, without silver, lived for his neighbors. We empathize with your loss and are with you in the kindest and brightest memories of your husband.
• We are sorry for your loss! We sympathize - the loss is irreparable! Mind, iron will, honesty and justice… — we were lucky to work with such a friend and colleague! How much we would like to ask for forgiveness from him, but it's too late ... Eternal memory to a mighty man!
• Mom, we mourn and cry with you! Our sincere gratitude from children and grandchildren and warm memories of a good father and good grandfather! Our memory of ___ will be eternal!
• Blessed are those whose memory will be as bright as ___. We will remember and love him forever. Be strong! ___ It would be easier if he knew that you could handle all this.
• My condolences! Recognition, respect, honor, and ... eternal memory!
• They say about such broad-minded people: “How much of ours has gone with you! How much of yours is left with us!” We will remember ___ forever and will pray for him!

Condolences on the death of a friend, brother, sister, loved one or loved one

• Accept my condolences! It has never been closer and dearer, and probably never will be. But in yours and in our hearts, he will remain a young, strong, full of life man. Everlasting memory! Hold on!
• It is difficult to find the right words in this difficult moment. I grieve with you! It will be a small consolation that not everyone has experienced such love as yours. But let ___ remain alive in your memory, full of strength and love! Everlasting memory!
• There is such wisdom: “It is bad if there is no one to take care of you. It's even worse if you don't have anyone to take care of you." I'm sure he wouldn't want you to be so sad. Let's ask his mom how she can help now.
• Condolences to you! Through life hand in hand, but this bitter loss went to you. It is necessary, it is necessary to find the strength in oneself to survive these most difficult minutes and difficult days. He will remain in our memory.
• It is very bitter to lose your loved ones and relatives, but it is doubly bitter when young, beautiful, strong leave us. God rest his soul!
• I would like to find words to somehow ease your pain, but it's hard to imagine if there are such words on earth at all. Bright and eternal memory!
• I grieve with you at this difficult moment. It's scary to even imagine that half of you is gone. But for the sake of children, for the sake of loved ones, you need to survive these mournful days. Invisibly, he will always be there - in the soul and in our eternal memory of this bright man.
• Love will not die, and the memory of it will always illuminate our hearts!
• … this too shall pass …
• For all of us, he will remain an example of love of life. And may his love of life illuminate your emptiness and grief of loss and help you survive the time of farewell. We grieve with you in difficult times and will remember ___ forever!
• The past cannot be returned, but the bright memory of this love will remain with you for life. Be strong!
• Be strong! With the loss of a brother, you must become a support to your parents twice. God help you get through these difficult times! Blessed memory of a bright man!
• There are such mournful words: "A beloved person does not die, but simply ceases to be near." In your memory, in your soul, your love will be eternal! We also remember with a kind word ___.

Condolences to a believing person, a Christian

All of the above is appropriate in expressing support in a difficult moment of loss for both the believer and the secular person. A Christian, Orthodox, can add a ritual phrase to condolences, turn to prayer or quote from the Bible:

• God is merciful!
• God bless you ___!
• For God, everyone is alive!
• This man was blameless, just and God-fearing, and moved away from evil!
• Lord, rest with the Saints!
• Death destroys the body, but saves the soul.
• God! Receive the spirit of your servant in peace!
• Only in death, the mournful hour, does the soul gain freedom.
• God guides the mortal through life before turning him into the light.
• The righteous will surely live, says the Lord!
• her heart /(his) trusted in the Lord!
• Immortal soul, immortal deeds.
• May the Lord do mercy and truth with him (her)!
• Righteous deeds are not forgotten!
• Holy Mother of God, protect him (her) with your cover!
• The days of our lives are not numbered by us.
• Everything returns to normal.
• Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God!
• Peace bright to your ashes!
• Kingdom of heaven and eternal rest!
• And those who have done good will seek the resurrection of life.
• Rest in the Kingdom of Heaven.
• And on earth she, like an angel, smiled: what is there, in heaven?

P.S. Once again about active personal participation. For many families, even a small financial contribution to the future will be a valuable help in this difficult moment.

The loss of a loved one is a tragic event in everyone's life. Alas, even after some time it is difficult to find memorial words for the anniversary of death. It is especially difficult to express your thoughts 40 days after the tragedy, because it is so important to say all the best and most touching about the deceased, to voice his most wonderful qualities and virtues, to express signs of sympathy, while coping with your emotions.

Funeral speech - read or tell?

A funeral speech is an expression of your pain and sorrow, and, of course, it is very difficult not to succumb to emotions and clearly put the right words into sentences. Therefore, you can often see how people read a written speech from a piece of paper. Yes, it is much more convenient than telling from yourself, because this way you will not forget anything. But such speech looks "dry" and insincere.

A funeral speech is, first of all, words spoken from the heart.

It is best to prepare for a speech: remember interesting stories that connect you with this person, write down character traits and features, and everything that you would like to tell. You need to do it in a calm state, because in this way you will not miss the most important moments. This will help you not to get lost at such a touching moment and at the same time will allow you to make a speech sensually and concisely.

What do they say at the funeral?

The funeral speech has its own nuances, so it is worth figuring out what words are spoken at the wake, how long the speech lasts and who speaks first. Consider the following:

1. Brevity is the soul of wit. Remember that there are a lot of people at the memorial meeting who want to express their thoughts, so do not use vague long phrases. Each word must carry some meaning.
2. In the introductory part, you need to turn to all those present: “Dear friends, relatives and friends of our beloved (name of the deceased) ...”
3. Introduce yourself. Be sure to give your name and indicate who you are to the deceased, because not everyone knows you. It would be useful to name the degree of your relationship or kinship: “(Name your name). (Deceased's name) and I have been friends/girlfriends for many (date can be specified) years."
4. "About the dead, or good, or nothing." As you understand, at this stage it is worth talking about all the virtues of a celestial, about why it became so difficult without him. It would be useful to remember an interesting / funny / touching story that connects you with this person. In no case do not remember any troubles, sins, insults, and so on. Memories, forgiveness are the key components of the memorial speech.
5. It would be appropriate to voice aphorisms, favorite phrases that the deceased loved to repeat during his lifetime.
6. Do not hide your own feelings, tell how hard it is for you without this person, what he meant to you. Do not worry that tears will interrupt your proposal, because absolutely everyone understands how hard it is for you to speak. If you feel that you will not be able to control your emotions further, it is better to quickly end the speech so as not to aggravate the already difficult moment for everyone present.
7. “Eternal memory”, “Kingdom of heaven”, “Let the earth rest in peace” - phrases that usually end their speech. Everyone is known to say this. A well-chosen epitaph will sound more beautiful, for example: “Life is like a dance, like flying in a whirlwind of light and movement. I believe that death is only a transition. I know there will be a sequel

An epitaph can be chosen absolutely for any age, religious beliefs and other features.

Avoid meandering sentences. Do not show all your vocabulary. Don't worry about how to pronounce the mourning speech correctly. You need to speak simply and from the heart, and then you will reach the hearts of everyone who came to remember the celestial.

Are funeral verses appropriate?

As the saying goes, everything is good in moderation. This also applies to the verses in the memorial speech. By the way, at a funeral, poetry performances are completely inappropriate, as well as when you express condolences to a specific person.

If we are talking about the anniversary of death in half a year, a year or 40 days, then the speech may include poetry.

It is best, of course, if the poems are your own, because only you can write everything that you feel that you would like to express to others. But you can also turn to the classics, to excerpts from epitaphs that are consonant with the state of mind of a celestial.

Funeral toasts

The commemoration of the dead according to the Orthodox tradition is accompanied by a memorial dinner. But this is not at all an extra reason to eat or drink. Mourning etiquette has not been canceled. It is not allowed to laugh and speak loudly at the dinner table. Such behavior can hurt the feelings of the closest people. Do not forget the main reason why you are here - to honor the memory of the deceased.

Often, a memorial speech at the table is transformed into a toast.

But it is completely different from what we are used to. Such toasts are not intended to amuse the audience, on the contrary, they emphasize all the sorrow and pain of loss. Often such speeches are gaining poetic motifs.

Memorial Speech Sample

Dear friends, relatives, relatives of our beloved (name of the deceased). I would like to introduce myself (say your name). We have been working with this wonderful person for the last 15 years, and I would very much like to tell you a little about her. She was a true professional, specialist, leader and teacher for each of us.

She taught us the skill, gave advice and parting words, like a mother. (Name) was patient and responsive to each of us, listened to everyone who turned to her for support. She always cheered up the whole team, set them up for the best, even if something didn’t work out.

A year ago, we cheerfully celebrated her anniversary, but today this golden man is no more. This is a big loss for all of us. (name of the deceased) - the embodiment of cheerfulness, perseverance and determination. We will miss such a wonderful leader, friend, real mother and just a wonderful person. Rest in peace, dear (name of the deceased).

Days of wake after death: on the day of the funeral, 9 and 40days after 1 year.The essence of memory. What to say at the wake? Memorial words and mourning speech. Lenten menu.

What to say at the wake

The head of the family traditionally receives the first word at the wake. In the future, the duty to follow the general conversation and gently guide its course is assigned to one of the fairly close or dear people, but still not to the closest relative. It is cruel to expect from a mother mourning a child, or a spouse who has lost his wife untimely, that he/she will be able to maintain the order of speech and at the same time cope with their own feelings. This role is chosen person who knew the deceased well enough and able in a tense moment to remember some trait of his character, a nice habit or an event from life, about which you can tell the audience.

It should be noted that the usual rules of a "social party" do not apply to the commemoration: no need to try to fill the pause that has arisen in the conversation or break the silence with minor remarks - especially on an abstract topic. Silence at the wake is not only normal, but even right: in silence, everyone remembers the deceased and feels their connection with him more fully.

Funeral speech at the wake

If you want to speak- stand up, briefly describe how you remember the deceased (of course, only talking about the positives), which made him a special person in your eyes. If you remember any case when the deceased did a good deed for you personally or for someone abstract, unfamiliar, tell about it, but do not tell stories in which one of those present appears. Everyone can speak at the commemoration, but try all the same don't make your speech too long: after all, many of those present are already having a hard time.

You may not know exactly how to "correctly" hold a wake- Don't worry too much about it. The main thing in this case is sincere intention and pure thoughts regarding the deceased. When you do something in memory of the deceased with an open heart, you can't go wrong. It is important to remember only one thing: commemoration in a secular sense are needed more by the living than by the deceased: like any ritual action in our life, designed to alleviate experiences and accept the new reality of life. Therefore, when organizing a commemoration, do not forget about the feelings of those who come to honor the memory of the deceased.

As for strictly Orthodox commemoration, then here, of course, it is better to do everything in accordance with the canon, so as not to unknowingly do something unacceptable from the point of view of the ROC. It is better to find out about these rules in advance in the church - for example, when you order a funeral service.

Here is a collection of short condolences and words of sorrow that must be expressed to the relatives and friends of the deceased person. The texts are suitable to be included in public, spoken in private or sent as a short letter. They are also suitable for colleagues, friends and other people who are familiar with the deceased. All texts are not written in verse (in prose), for those who wish to express regret in their own words. Recommendations can be found at the end of the page.

All names, surnames in the texts are used only for the convenience of presentation, do not forget to change them to the ones you need.

Condolences to you and your family. Your mother was a wonderful, wonderful person and you will miss her. I wish you to find peace and comfort... We will pray for you.

Friends, we condole with your loss and mourn with you. There are no words that will bring your loved one back to you, but perhaps life itself will help you survive the loss. We will pray that the Lord will give you patience and strength. Your dad lived well, for a long time, managed a lot, realized himself and left behind many people grateful to him. He will forever live in their hearts as well as in yours. Blessed memory to him.

Friends, today is a day of deep sadness. There was a time when we rejoiced and rejoiced with the departed from us. But today we mourn with you, seeing off a loved one, dear to us, on his last journey. But we will keep in our hearts a good memory of our friend.

I knew him as an amazingly sympathetic, intelligent, human and extraordinary personality. He helped not only me, but also served as a guide and support for many other people on the path of life. Let it comfort you a little that today many grieve with you, who were also left without this ray of light in their lives. You are not alone in this difficult hour. We mourn with you.

Let me offer you my deepest condolences. I am terribly saddened by the death of your mother. She was a smart, kind and empathetic person, and many people, like me, feel that the world is dull without her. I have no words to ease your pain. I'm just sure that your mother would not want you to be so sad.

Please accept the feelings of our deep empathy in connection with the departure of the closest, dearest person, faithful companion in life. A great loss and great sorrow. Be strong, our dear ones, we are always with you.

Together with you, we will forever keep the memory of her in our hearts. She was an amazingly pure, honest, open person, and this earned herself the love, appreciation, gratitude and respect of many people. Your mom is the best of people. We will forever keep her memory in our hearts. Hang in there and accept our deepest sympathy for such a bereavement.

Dear Tatyana!

Please accept our condolences on the death of your father! Words are powerless in such grief ... Know that in this difficult time your colleagues, friends and like-minded people are with you.

Dear Svetlana and Sidor!

We deeply regret the death of your dear grandmother. She was kind, sympathetic and a good woman. We will all miss her greatly. Please accept our sincere condolences. If we can do anything for you, then we are ready to provide any assistance. We pray for you.

We suffered this heavy loss together with you today and mourn with you. Strength and patience to you to survive this difficult time of loss. Remember, everyone once loses a loved one, this pain must be endured. Sometimes the cross becomes very heavy, but it will help one day. Be patient, it will get easier after a while. We condole.

Condolences to your trouble on this mournful day. Our life, unfortunately, is not eternal and no words of consolation will help relieve the pain of loss or return the departed. I wish you strength of mind during this difficult time. May the earth be soft down to him (the deceased). And may the Lord keep you from all troubles.

Your dad was one of the most wonderful and wonderful people I have ever met. I am very lucky to have known him. And now I will miss him greatly, as well as you. I express my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Let me offer you my deepest condolences on the death of your colleague and dear friend Kharitonov Khariton. We deeply empathize and share your pain.

It's hard for us, but especially for you, and we know it. He was your closest friend, it's a huge loss. Your friend was an excellent friend for us too, reliable, faithful, simple and always fair. Please contact us at any time with any requests, we will be there. Let's stick together during this difficult time.

Please accept my condolences on the death of a dear, close and beloved person - mother. Having gone to heaven, she will not cease to be your guardian angel.

He meant a lot to you and to me. I grieve with you.

We express our sincere condolences to the family and friends in connection with the untimely death of Sidor Sidorovich Sidorovich. The death of a loved one is a great grief and a difficult test. Bright memories of a person who lived his life honestly and with dignity, leaving behind the fruits of his good deeds, will always be stronger than death.

With sincere sympathy, the team of Peace to Your Home LLC

We share with you the bitterness of loss. Your father was a wonderful person. His dedication to his work earned him the respect and love of all who knew him. Please accept our sincere condolences.

I grieve with you and express my deepest condolences to all your family, my friend.

We condole with you. He was our colleague, friend and bright professional, without whom our entire team will have a hard time. We are together with you in this great loss. It will serve as a light and guide for us on our professional path. Blessed memory to him.

I offer you and your family my most sincere condolences. Be strong. God rest her soul...

Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of your uncle. And please feel free to ask for any help.

The loss of a father is a heavy loss. Be strong. He was my close friend and often told me that he tried to raise you wise and strong, and would not want you to lose ground under your feet even when he leaves you forever. And also, he wanted you to be able to survive the losses and not forget how to smile after them. Therefore, I wish you strength and patience to go through this mournful time and move on again.

My condolences. The death of a spouse deprives us of our main support and our partner in life. It is very difficult to find words of consolation. Hold on.

Dear friend. The loss of a mother is the hardest loss. This pain is hard to deal with and it is impossible for me to find words that will lessen your pain. I will just be there in your grief, contact me at any moment for any question. And just wait. Time should help a little.

Please accept our sincere condolences. May the Lord reward her in heaven for all the good she has done. She is and will always be in our hearts...

Today you lost your mother - a reliable guardian angel in life. This is the worst loss. And I lost my best friend and support in her face. I grieve with you. Your mom used to tell me how much she loves it when you smile. I'm sure she sees us now and is very sad that you are so sad. May the Lord give you the strength to endure such a loss and restore the joy of life to you. They say that he gives severe trials along with the strength to survive them. Be patient.

Please accept my sympathy. It has never been closer and dearer, and probably never will be. But in yours and in our hearts, he will remain a young, strong, intelligent, kind and cheerful person. Eternal memory to him. Hold on.

This tragedy affected everyone who knew her. Of course, you are the hardest. I want to assure you that I will never leave you without support. And I will never forget her. Please, let's walk this path together.

This is a difficult time in your life. Let our sympathy and support help you and at least slightly reduce the pain of loss.

It's hard to put into words how much good he did me. All our disputes, disagreements are trifles. And the good that he did - I will carry through my whole life. I pray for him and mourn with you.

Condolences to you, this is a huge loss and grief. Remember that a person dies, but love does not. And her memory will always light up our hearts. Brace yourself.

Unfortunately, in our imperfect world, such grief has to be endured. She was a bright person whom we loved. I will not leave you in your grief. You can count on me at any moment.

Words cannot express how we feel with you. It is hard when you lose loved ones, but the death of a mother is a grief against which there is no medicine and words of consolation. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss.

I would like to find words to relieve you of the pain or at least reduce it a little. But it is difficult to imagine what these words should be and whether such words exist at all. Bright and eternal memory.

I share with you the inconsolable pain of your heavy loss - the death of your beloved grandfather.

May the Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this difficult time of sorrow. Please accept our sincere condolences.

The death of a beloved wife is a bitter loss. It is difficult for me to express in words, but I am always with you. I will support and help you survive. Be strong.

Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your son. We ask the Almighty to give you the strength to hold on, patience, perseverance and faith.

The loss of a loved one is a huge grief and trial. I sincerely share your pain. Please accept my sincere sympathy and support. God rest his soul.

It is very sad to lose your loved ones and family. It is doubly worse when young, healthy, strong people leave us. Help the Lord to his soul.

I'm sorry she didn't live as long as I would like. I grieve with you, empathize, remember and love.

I share your grief at the loss. You need to find the strength in yourself to survive these most difficult minutes and difficult days. He will remain in our memory forever.

May God give you strength, patience and faith, dear friend. Survive it all.

We are deeply saddened by the news of your father's death. He was a just and strong man, a loyal and sympathetic friend. We knew him well and loved him like family. We mourn with you.

It is difficult to find the right words in this difficult moment. I grieve with you. May it ease your pain a little that few are fortunate enough to experience such a huge and pure love as yours. But let him remain alive in your memory, full of love and strength. Earth rest in peace to him.

I'm just devastated by the loss. It's unbearable to think about it. It's hard to put into words how much I feel for you. My heart is broken along with yours. Be strong.

I can't speak any words of sympathy now because no one is going through your grief the way you are. It just takes time... be patient, it will gradually reduce the pain.

Unfortunately, I only now realized how unworthy my disputes and quarrels with this bright and dear person for me were. Forgive me! I grieve with you.

A person who leaves this earth does not really go anywhere, because he still continues to live in our hearts and minds. Please accept our condolences and know that he will not be forgotten.

I offer you and your family my most sincere condolences. It is very difficult, even when you are preparing for it, at the last moment you are not ready. Rest, Lord, his soul ... and you - hold on. Time will help you...

Please accept our sincere condolences. A terrible, insidious disease that has never been learned to overcome ...

On earth, her path was not easy and full of difficulties, may God take her under his wing and reward her with what she rightfully deserved.

A new star rose in the sky - it was his soul that acquired a new meaning and a new purpose ...

Small consolation, but know that we are with you in grief of loss and sincerely empathize with your entire family. Eternal memory to your sister.

Your father was a very resilient, joyful and optimistic person. I will remember his wisdom forever, it will be difficult for me without him. But it's harder for you. Losing your dad is like losing your ground. There are hardly any words that will ease the pain. Try to remember the resilience of your father and be the same, he would really like this. I will ask the higher powers to protect you from all troubles and that you find solace. I mourn.

The staff of the administration of the Central District of the Troekurovsky village council deeply mourns over the irreparable heavy loss - the death of the acting head of the village Tyranozavrov Isaaky Kharitonovich. We express our sincere condolences to relatives and friends, we share their grief, we support them in times of grief.

Be strong! With the loss of a brother, you need to become a support for your parents for two. May God help you get through these difficult days. Blessed memory of a bright man.

Dear Sidor Sidorovich, Tatyana Appolinariyevna and Oscar Platonovich!

On behalf of the board of the open joint-stock company "Kuzkina Mother" and on my own behalf, I express my deep condolences and sincere sympathy for the grief that has befallen you - the untimely death of your father and brother Zakhar Appolonovich Sidorov.

In this difficult time for you, your family and friends, I share your grief and bitterness of irreparable loss.

Brace yourself. The Almighty called him to him - he takes the best. I grieve with you.

Condolences to you. Losing your grandmother is like losing a piece of the sun in your soul. I will always treasure her memory in my heart. I pray that God will give you warmth and light in your heart, which will help you endure the pain of loss and find solace. Peace to her soul, and peace to your heart.

We are very sad about the death of our dear brother and from the bottom of our hearts express our sincere sympathy and condolences to his dear wife and all his relatives and friends. We pray for God's support for all of you, dear ones.

We believe that by God's will we will meet brother Sidor in the future paradise, which the Lord has prepared for all who love Him (Revelation 2:7)

Please accept my sincere sympathy for your grief. Losing a friend is like losing one wing. After that, it's hard to fly. I pray the Lord to help you cope and teach you to live with this loss. Strength to you, wisdom, good. Eternal memory to him.

I sincerely sympathize with your grief. But remember, losing your mother does not mean losing her love and warmth. May they always warm you, and you - remember her and all the light that she left for you after herself. I know she would love it.

May God give you strength to bear such a heavy loss. I grieve with you. Now it seems to you that no one needs our dead except us, but this is not so. Look around, if they are so unnecessary, then what are we constantly doing at their graves? Why do we visit them, talk, ask for advice and help? And we always get what we ask for. Even after they left us forever... Be patient, it will get easier. And remember - he ceased to be near, but did not leave you. You will see.

• • Reading condolences in verse is considered not entirely appropriate in these circumstances, try to avoid them;

• It is worth bringing words of regret only when it is appropriate. Do not impose them or persecute mourners as a formality. Do it sincerely, with warmth, at the right moment and do not go too far with sincere words to the deceased if you did not know him (otherwise the words will sound hypocritical, it’s better not to say anything at all, not to irritate loved ones - it’s not easy for them anyway);
• If the opportunity to express grief did not present itself, you can arrange any of these texts in the form of a short letter and send it to your loved ones. This will give them the opportunity to read them when it is convenient, and not listen to your sorrows when it is convenient for you.
• Words of condolence are usually formal words... standard, short and similar to each other. It is possible to make them warmer, more cordial and more personal by means of intonation and reminders (briefly) of episodes, small details that connected you with the deceased, gave rise to a warm attitude towards him.
• Do not impose advice and edifications that help you survive the pain of loss. It annoys loved ones. They (advice) should be given only when you are sure and see that they are needed or they are guaranteed to be necessary and will be able to help. Even better, if you do not speak, but do something to alleviate the situation. Since any advice, most likely, will not be correctly perceived, it will remain just an irritant.