Initially, the article was not conceived as a tutorial for losers: offended, humiliated and offended, who secretly or clearly feel sorry for themselves and hate other people, want to take revenge on “everyone” and find out how to humiliate, insult, “send” a person with words, preferably culturally, smartly and beautifully, without a mat.

A wise and harmonious person in the soul cannot be humiliated, insulted and offended (“sent”) with words, because they do not take offense at the truth, and a lie does not deserve attention.

This article is still about how to use the psychological counterattack ( psychological judo, aikido or sambo, if you like), i.e. how to resist insults and humiliation, rudeness and offensive words, how to react (or not react) and how to respond correctly, culturally and beautifully, of course, with words without a mat, to those people with a low I-position who want to humiliate, insult, offend you ... (that is, they want to elevate themselves by humiliating you - they, to put it mildly, without harmony in their souls - they were also humiliated earlier by someone who was stronger than them and to whom they could not correctly answer insults and humiliation, keeping insults in their souls, and now, working them out, they take revenge on others - don't be like them... learn how to communicate without conflict... read this article carefully).

Remember! No one can humiliate, insult or offend a person with words - only he himself, subconsciously interpreting the conflict situation not in his favor. What beliefs and ideas you have about yourself, that is who you are ... and no insulting, offensive and humiliating words can belittle you ... i.e. you belittle yourself by paying attention to the bad words of another person ...

The power of the word, or how to “humiliate”, “insult”, “offend” (“send”) a person with words without a mat

Words in a query how to "humiliate", "insult" and "offend" ("send") a person enclosed in quotation marks, because in reality, we will not humiliate, insult, or offend anyone ... “send” - we won’t send either - this is the lot of losers with a negative life scenario and disharmony in the psyche (soul), in which grievances and other negative emotions are accumulated, breaking out in the form of revenge.

These words are used in the article only because there are too many similar requests on the Internet, i.e. a huge number of people have accumulated grievances in themselves and want to vent them (work them out), and without realizing it, drive themselves into a vicious circle of aggression and conflicts, primarily against themselves and with themselves, which in the end will have an extremely negative impact not only on relationships with other people, but also on their own mental health, and on their whole life in general ...

With all this, many want to humiliate, insult and offend a person, “send” him, a man or a woman, a guy or a girl smartly, beautifully, even culturally, and, of course, without a mat ... (apparently, he still “breaks out” ...) . Those. an illusory goal is to get "pleasure", "gloat", to laugh at a humiliated and insulted person who is confused, confused and fell into a stupor at the moment of a psychological counterattack on him - to feel displacement - while not upsetting his moral convictions ("without mate"), and even amusing them ("smart", "cultural", "beautiful" ...).

However, these people do not understand or do not realize that not every laugh prolongs life, and that they will not elevate themselves at all by humiliating and insulting another ... that they, in fact, will become the same as the one they offend, i.e. . disharmonious personalities with an underestimated position in life.
And as you know, everything in the world returns to normal (like this person whom you insulted and humiliated - you “returned”, and you will “return”, if not him, then someone else - such is the nature of life).

How to morally "humiliate" a person with clever words without a mat

Insults, offensive and humiliating words are often perceived as psychological pressure on a person, and therefore as stress. It is known that the negative perception of stress (not stress itself) significantly lowers a person’s intelligence (IQ), and with it rational memory along with vocabulary, so some people begin to speak obscenely - a few words, but how many meanings ... and most importantly - emotions ...

Therefore, in order to morally "humiliate" a person with clever words without a mat, first of all, you need to learn how to quickly relieve stress, or calmly treat it.

And if at the moment of a psychological attack on you you remain unperturbed, do not fall into confusion, stupor and stress, feeling like a “victim” of an emotional attack, then you will retain your intellect and the knowledge gained about conflict-free communication and methods of psychological counterattack will “surface”, t .e. you can calmly, intelligently, culturally and beautifully morally “humiliate” a person with clever words without swearing and unnecessary emotions.

How to "insult" a person so that he is silent, without a mat

It often happens in a conflict situation that the opponent constantly speaks and says something abusive, insulting and humiliating, with appropriate gestures, raised tone, and facial expressions, i.e. exerts psychological pressure, which often leads to stress.
Of course, many want to know how to "offend" a person so that he shuts up(shut up).

Because a conflict or pre-conflict situation presupposes a dialogue, i.e. alternating conversation between two or more people, then you will need psychological counterattack techniques (some psychotherapists and psychoanalysts call this psychological judo, aikido and even sambo).

The essence of psychological counterattack(psychological sambo - self-defense without weapons), as in ordinary, physical martial arts, this is the use of the enemy’s strength against him, with a minimum expenditure of his strength, in this context, mental energy, and not literally offending a person so that he is silent.

Those. here you must first "succumb", as if to "humiliate yourself", "offended", in order to then deliver a psychological counterattack. But not so that your opponent loses and fails, but so that both "win" - otherwise, as mentioned above, everything will return to normal.

For example, if heavy, wet snow presses on a branch, “wanting” to break it, then the branch does not directly resist, does not resist, wasting its strength - it bends, as if humiliated ... gives in down, and the snow under its own weight (“force”) slips off it and does not break the branch.

Also, the sambo wrestler, with physical pressure (attack) on him, uses the inertial force of the enemy, applying the technique throws him over himself and drops him to the ground, while practically not wasting his strength.

Very similar techniques and techniques are used in psychological sambo (psychological counterattack), i.e. in the event of an emotional and psychological attack on you (insult, humiliation, offensive words…), you, as a sambo wrestler, need not to resist and confront directly, but, on the contrary, confusion, a dead end ... (and then he, you can say "your" - control this person and manipulate him as you want) ...

But not for the sake of revenge and gloating over the "offended" opponent, but for the sake of justice, balance (congruence) in relations, and, possibly, for cooperation (to the extreme - compromise) and a way out of the conflict situation.

How to "offend" a person with words

Phrase how to "offend" a person with words, as you already understood, we will use in the context of psychological self-defense (sambo), without exceeding its limits ...

Remember! Each person is responsible for his own thoughts, emotions and behavior, and every mentally healthy person can control his negative feelings, such as resentment, irritation, anger, and the corresponding behavior in the form of defensive aggression, including verbal (verbal)...

This is easy to check, for example, if a husband gets angry and insults, offends his wife - he seems to be unable to contain his anger - “bullshit” ... firstly, she is simply initially weaker, secondly, she allows herself to be offended. Most likely, this aggressive husband will hold back the same anger in front of his superiors or the police - they are stronger for him and will not allow themselves to be offended - the husband understands this, which means he controls the situation ...

However, the subconscious desire to get rid of internal negatives gives rise to such a protective reaction of the psyche as "Displacement" ("Movement"), which can be expressed in "vicious circle" anger and aggression.
For example, the boss “offended” the husband ... the husband, in order to work out the negative, can offend his wife with words and behavior ... she, in turn, will offend the child ... and he - the domestic dog .... the dog will go for a walk, and there ... the husband’s boss - she is his , for some reason, it will bite ... (this is again to the fact that in life everything returns to normal) ...

Therefore, instead of literally offending a person with words, you can use psychological counterattack techniques (sambo), even if you have a boss or another person who is obviously stronger than you...
("twist the ropes" it is possible from a strict boss and from a despotic husband, and from a tyrant parent ... but we are not talking about that ... we are talking about psychological self-defense ...).

How beautiful and culturally "send" a person, without a mat

How sometimes you want to “send” (you know where) an annoying partner, an obsessive client, an annoying boyfriend, a stubborn friend, an overly demanding boss, an eternally dissatisfied subordinate ... or another person. But the internal "moral code" and the external "administrative" force one to restrain oneself and suggest thinking how to "send" a person without a mat beautiful and cultural.

To understand how to culturally send a person, in the context of psychological self-defense, i.e. literally without offending, offending or humiliating him (otherwise he will take revenge later ... maybe not you ... remember about "our own circle"?), we need to proceed from who is in front of us and what result we want from interaction with counterparts.

So, how beautiful it is to "send" a person, based on who is in front of us and what we want from him:

• If this is the boss, then we want from him ... probably ... to be less demanding and critical ... or maybe a salary increase ... or the implementation of our idea ...
• If this is a subordinate, then, on the contrary, in order to work better and fulfill their duties ... do not “beg” for an increase in salary and in the service ...
• If this is a business partner (in business), then, probably, good trusting and honest cooperation, without “pulling the blanket” on yourself ...
• If this is an obsessive girl or boyfriend, then to “fuck off (a)” ...
• If a friend, then so that he not only listens and hears himself, but also others ...
• If this is a too strict or overprotective parent, then in order to begin to understand his teenage child ...
• And if this is a child, ours or whom we are raising, teaching, then to be obedient and diligent, probably ...
• If this is a seller, then so that “the leftist does not sell” ...
• If a client or a buyer, then in order to buy a product or service ...

We meet many different people in life, many different situations, including conflict situations, can arise in interaction with these people. Our task is not to humiliate and insult a person, with or without a swear word, but to answer correctly and wisely (psychologically counterattack) without harming ourselves and him ...

To clearly and automatically master these techniques of “psychological sambo”, training (practice) is necessary, as in ordinary martial arts ... otherwise, even knowing how to answer, but having entered stress and confusion in a specific conflict situation, you will simply be confused and forget all your knowledge - you need skills, and they are given by practice and practice again ...

Further, you will learn in PRACTICE (with examples from life) how to intelligently and beautifully respond to insult, rudeness, rudeness and humiliation with the help of techniques and techniques of psychological self-defense (counterattack) - this is the continuation of this article ...

Everyone can face insults from others, and the feelings that appear at this moment are quite unpleasant.

Of course, it's easier to answer with bad words as well, it's easy and simple. However, this can lead to unpleasant and sometimes dangerous consequences.

Not everyone will be able to respond to an insult with smart words without a mat, this technique should be learned in advance.

There are many phrases with which you can besiege and humiliate a person, and sometimes bring the offender to tears. Here's how to do it, you can learn below from the methods of insulting without a mat.

How to humiliate a handsome guy?

Human psychology is so arranged that even one bold word can cause strong resentment.

At the same time, it is not at all necessary that it be a swear word, it is possible to humiliate, insult, besiege, put in place with cultural words. It's just that not everyone can do it.

Often, unpleasant situations arise between a girl and a guy - a quarrel, misunderstanding, and sometimes a fight with insults.

In the latter case, it is worth using several tricks to humiliate and insult the offender with clever words, so that in the future he would no longer raise his hand.

Note! The worst and most unpleasant thing that a man can do in relation to a girl, a woman is to raise his hand.

In these situations, it is worth hitting him on the most painful place, and this should be done morally. Guys are heavily offended by phrases using the word "impotent".

The table shows the qualities that are considered holy for a guy.

If you want to take revenge on the offender, then in correspondence or in words you can use phrases mentioning these qualities in a not the best light:

Quality	Phrases
Manhood, strength. Guys react painfully to phrases that mention their sexual abilities. A girl can morally insult and humiliate a person with phrases that contain the word "impotent"	You are a moral impotent!
	Only an impotent man can offend a woman!
	You are impotent not in your pants, but in your soul! (Or maybe both there and there!)
If you want to hurt the guy's pride, then during the conversation you can hurt his status and wealth. This will be especially unpleasant for those who have a really low income or no work. Since ancient times, it was believed that a man is a breadwinner, so the inability to have prosperity is considered the strongest humiliation.	You are the disgrace of your parents and their ruin!
	You can't even provide yourself with toilet paper!
	Behind your insolence you hide your own failure!
If you want to brutally besiege the offender with cultural words, then you can pick up phrases. In which the emphasis will be placed on the stupidity and recklessness of the guy, even if he is well brought up and has a higher education. With the help of them, girls can firmly put a man in his place without a mat	You did not take place either as a person or as a man!
	Unlike mine, your dignity has sunk to the bottom!
	You are an immoral, weak and miserable person!
	All your words are helpless attempts to prove something!
	I'm sorry to see you!
	I would offend you, but nature has already done it for me!

How to insult a woman without a mat?

Sometimes women themselves ask for humiliation and insults. At the same time, it is not at all necessary to respond to curses with obscenities, you can answer harshly and competently without a mat. Phrases will sound insulting and unpleasant, even worse than swear words.

Women are sensitive to criticism of their appearance. It is important to choose the right and beautiful words, you don’t need to call them directly: you are terrible, you are ugly, but they will help you to understand this delicately.

For a girl, phrases with a hint of an ugly appearance will be offensive and unpleasant:

• When God created women, he decided to save on you!
• I would offend you, but just advise you to look in the mirror!
• Your words are the helpless barking of a dirty mongrel!
• Surprisingly, and the mind is not rich and the person did not come out!
• It's a pity to spit in such a face!

You can take revenge on a woman in another way.

Phrases that mention excessive popularity among men are very hurtful:

• Yes, there is nowhere to put a test on you!
• You have already given all your dignity to other men!
• You are the shame of the father and the tears of the mother!
• You are a quality male litter!
• Your whole life is serving the owner's sugar!
• Not a single normal man will even look in your direction!
• All your attractiveness ended 10 more men ago!
• To mess with you is to dishonor yourself!

You can put in place and morally humiliate a woman with clever words that can hurt a person as a person.

The phrases should point to the flaws of the mind, they should make her look like a fool in front of everyone.

Consider a few suitable options:

• If you were smart, then you would have a decent man!”
• Men do not leave smart women!
• Here, you look at you and at first glance it seems that you are a fool! And then you look and for sure - a fool is a fool!

How to culturally send a person?

Sometimes there are times when you want to culturally send a stranger who gets you with his uninteresting and empty conversations.

However, you do not need to immediately answer sharply, this can greatly offend the interlocutor, you can do this with cultural words without a mat.

Important! If you do not want to offend a person, then you can patiently continue to listen to his conversation and delve into every word in order to somehow support him.

But this unpleasant situation can be resolved carefully, carefully, without humiliation and insults.

Learn a few simple tricks:

1. During a call try asking questions that relate to a different topic, so you can move the conversation in another interesting direction.

   If the interlocutor still continues to talk on a topic that is not of interest to you, ask him questions in a sharper tone, but you still should not go over to aggression.

2. Humor and laughter can give the conversation a different twist. Use jokes, sarcasm, the whole spectrum of humor, so you can quickly slip out of an annoying conversation and end it.
3. When talking try to say the same short phrase - “Yeah”, “Really”, “Mmm”, “I see”, Well, and so on.

   Or you can just be silent. As soon as the interlocutor realizes that you are not interested in the conversation, he will shut up and go looking for a “new victim”.

Smart curses

A person can be easily offended by clever words. In phrases, there may be a hint of illness, deficiency, weakness, appearance, status, and other important qualities.

They should be used if the offender offended for no reason, insulted, or even raised his hand.

Consider smart phrases without a mat:

• You are doing the right thing by giggling. They don't laugh with your teeth!
• You fall under a hot hand - you fly away under a hot foot
• Teeth are not hair, they will fly out - you won’t catch them.
• You remind me of the ocean... You just make me sick.
• I probably need to look like a sucker to match you.
• No need to feel sorry for him, he is not sick, this is his usual appearance.
• Yes perishing, beauty clearly not your dignity.
• I would send you, but, apparently, you have already been there.
• A positive Rh factor is, apparently, the only "plus" in the list of your virtues.
• Don't worry, I don't remember your name either.
• My strength is not to listen to your insanity.
• Are you always this stupid, or is today a special occasion?
• As an outsider, what do you think of the human race?
• I would like to punch you in the teeth, but why should I improve your appearance?
• At least there is one positive thing about your body. It's not as scary as your face!
• The brain is not everything. And in your case, it's nothing!
• Be careful, don't let your brain get into your head!
• I like you. They say I have terrible taste, but I love you.
• Have your parents ever asked you to run away from home?
• If only I had a face like yours. I would sue my parents!
• Don't be upset. A lot of people don't have talent either!
• No offense, but do you have a job to spread ignorance?
• Keep talking, someday you will still be able to say something smart!

To send an offender, it is not necessary to use a mat and insults, this can be done with clever words.

Clever phrases and cultural words can offend worse than profanity.

They may relate to the appearance, health, status, wealth of a person. The main thing is to present everything beautifully and correctly so that the offender is silent.

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Some relationships at a certain moment enter a phase when it is no longer possible to save them, and most importantly, there is no desire. Sometimes the guy is so disappointed or offended that it becomes difficult to calm the bitterness and calm the anger. In this state, sometimes there is an irresistible desire to inflict no less suffering on him. In this case, you can use words, because, as you know, this is the most powerful weapon that can even kill.

What to say

This primarily depends on what kind of relationship you had with the guy. Suppose close. So, quite a lot is known about its weaknesses and shortcomings. It is advisable to direct your efforts to these places. If you wish, you can even use its advantages for your own purposes. For example, he is outwardly attractive, knows about it and is very proud of his appearance. You can condescendingly say: “Strange. Usually girls are proud of a pretty face, in men, in real ones, that is, other qualities in price. I understand that you have nothing more to boast about, but you don’t advertise like that, otherwise the rest will know about it. ” Or: “You are so happy with your appearance, as if you were going to make money on it. Or is there something I don't know about you?!" Or like this: “Even a prettier guy will make you sick if he is so dumb. You'd rather read something, eh?"

A win-win option for any guy you've been in a close relationship with is expressing joy over the end of it. You can say, “Well, better late than never! Finally at least meet a man. The phrase said with enthusiasm is also touching: “Yeah ... I lost a lot of time with you, I need to catch up!” Usually the guy in this case is trying to say something offensive, like “who needs you” or “you are intimately zero.” To this one can exclaim with amazement: “What was it that made you go crazy? Now I’ll find someone really worthwhile, at least I’ll finally experience pleasure. ” Or: “Didn’t you think, maybe I didn’t always notice your participation at all?”

Any guy who is not even too close can say a lot of humiliating phrases, for example: “Excuse me, there is too much difference between us - they were engaged in my upbringing.” Or: "Just in case, move away from me a little, otherwise they will think that we are together." You can say something like: “I ask you one thing, if a miracle happens and you find a girl, the main thing is always to protect yourself! People like you can't breed." The phrase said with participation can still be quite hurt: “Only one thing can save you: make a mysterious face and be silent, you can sometimes grin thoughtfully, just don’t open your mouth - you’ll ruin everything!”

Special attention should be paid to public insults. If there are spectators, humiliation with words can be turned into a subtle mockery. However, here you need to be especially careful not to lose your dominant position. To do this, you can use several methods prepared in advance. A universal way to repel a sudden attack from a guy is to exclaim with surprise, even approval, you can applaud at the same time: “Not bad, not bad! Even great for you! Answered directly almost on an equal footing! So maybe you've been pretending to be a fool so far? Come on, give me something else? After that, despite what he will say, without hesitation to answer in a disappointed tone: “No, I didn’t pretend, everything is true, it’s a pity.”

Being with a guy in the presence of third parties, you can have a lively conversation with everyone except the guy; suddenly turn to him and try to explain the meaning of a word that one of the interlocutors or you yourself just said. This should be done as naturally as possible, as if this explanation is dictated by concern for the mentally retarded young man, and not by the intention to offend him. You can also turn to him after the told anecdote with words full of sad tenderness: “Everyone laughs, and you laugh, poor thing? Let me explain to you the meaning of the joke?

If the situation is not conducive to long-term communication, for example, the guy will try to retreat as quickly as possible, you can use short sharp phrases without a background. As a rule, they relate to the appearance of the guy. You can exclaim in surprise in front of everyone: “What is wrong with you? Did your mother dress you again? Or: “Why are you dressed so lightly? Look - you'll catch a cold! And everything is so bad, and in five years you can’t do anything at all. ” If at first glance there is nothing to complain about, you can say something like: “Why do you look like that, did you decide to put pressure on pity? Well, in general, maybe you are right, at least someone will pick it up. However, the most important thing is not what, but how to say it: in order to hurt more painfully.

How to behave

First of all, never get angry. It is best to pretend that you are in a great mood, or, in any case, a completely calm state of mind. The power of words spoken in anger is halved; in addition, a person who is out of balance loses his dominant position. Thus, it is necessary to tune in to a complacent, calm way and maintain this appearance no matter what.

The possibility of force majeure should be taken into account. The situation can turn in the most unexpected way, besides, the guy will not necessarily be silent; perhaps he will try to respond with a barb or hit with a response word in a sore spot. You have to be prepared for this and take a hit. In this case, you must at all costs continue to remain calm or even pretend that this attack of his has sincerely amused you.

If you can’t quickly find the right words, you can resort to the method of distracting attention to appearance. This technique involves suddenly paying attention to some detail or change in the guy himself. For example, his insulting speech can be suddenly interrupted by the words: “What is wrong with you ?! You're all stained! No need to strain your modest mental faculties like that! Calm down, you can also live with this, ”while depicting almost concern for his condition, pity for him. Without letting you come to your senses, seize the initiative with the words: “Well, okay, okay, you gather your thoughts, come up with something original, consult with someone smart, then speak again.”

If additional background is needed as support or to create the illusion of immediacy and ease, you can start a correspondence with someone by phone. And it doesn't matter if it's a friend, mom, or even a total stranger. You can pretend that this correspondence is much more important than the presence of this guy. When you receive each message, you can smile, sometimes laugh, answer briefly, but with a sense of joy, each time being distracted again by the guy with words like: “So what am I talking about? Oh yes. Well, so…”, and then continue verbal humiliation, interrupting each time for a new message with the words: “now, just a minute…”.

It is best to avoid such words as "idiot", "goat", "bastard", etc. They are not as humiliating as they might seem, but they significantly lower the status and sense of worthy dominance of the humiliating person, more like a tantrum. You can interrupt the conversation at any time, as if suddenly drawing attention to the guy again, while saying: “How, are you still here?” or: "You can go, you're free for today." If he tries to argue or add something else, interrupt him and say in a “confiding” tone something like: “Honestly, I would have chatted with you more, but I already wasted a lot of time. Understand: there are people who are worth this time much more. At this point, you can turn around with dignity and leave.

So, how to offend a person? Yes, very easy! Just do not insult with an action, it is better to insult with a word. After all, the word will be worse than any weapon. A word can not only offend, but also kill a person. Therefore, be extremely careful! Do not use insults as a means of attack. Only as a weapon of self-defense. In a dialogue, in an argument, to put the exploded person in his place. That is, parry your opponent's statements beautifully and gracefully. Direct all his lunges back in his own direction. This is especially well done, while the dispute has not yet completely switched to emotions. Build your statements with contradictory phrases. Very often this introduces the opponent into a stupor. A person does not immediately realize whether he was praised or cheated. After all, he was initially set up to fight back on your part. And there is no hard rebuff.

After all, this is a very useful quality, the ability to send a person away with a word. Especially in our time! Yes, and at all times people with a well- "suspended" language were valued in society. They were quoted, their phrases were memorized. And then they themselves used it in everyday situations. The ability to find the right word in time, to quickly respond to an attack in your direction, is a very good quality. It is stupid and useless to prove something to a person, especially if he is not initially set up for a constructive dialogue. And he is trying to humiliate and insult you. Point his own weapon in his direction. Insult him! Not only rude, but graceful and beautiful. Listen carefully to what is being said to you. And respond quickly and effectively. But do not stupidly and blindly repeat after someone. Situations in life are different. Improvise. Train. And do not forget for insulting a person you can get a term! And sometimes in the ear! Think about whom and where you offend.

And yet, how to offend a person? There are a great many ways:

1. Agree with the person who offends you, and lower him to the same level.
This is the simplest - it's a classic:

- Yes, you are a complete fool and idiot!
- Yes. I have help too! Do you think it's very smart to prove something to a fool?

- You're just a fool!
- Agree! This is because you constantly have to talk to fools.

I don't like your answers!
What questions, what answers!

Yes, I'm smarter than all of you put together!
- Certainly! After all, you have a mind chamber. Still a watchman to this shed ...

2. Bring the statement directed in your direction to the point of absurdity:

- Hey, slow down!
- I can not, the brake must be one. (No, our pair already has one brake!)

- What are you doing?
- I do it in my pants.

“Are you divorcing me now?”
- And now who do you consider yourself a bee or a rabbit?

3. Turn a negative statement into a positive one:

- You are a horse!
“If it weren’t for the suckers, where would you be right now?”

– Some idiots around!
"Don't you usually feel smart?"

- What is the phone grabbed when I'm talking to you ?!
– I also prefer to talk to smart people!

4. Push the person “on weakly”. After all, no one likes to feel weak:

- You dance like hell..
- I don’t dance, I just remove my legs so that you don’t crush me out ... (Do you know how cool I embroider with a cross!)

– What are you talking about?
- It's strange, but others like my speech ... Do you have no sense of beauty, or hearing problems?

Are you making yourself smart?
- Do you have problems communicating with smart people?

5. What do you want?

“Well, why are you quiet?”
- And what, did you already want to get on the surgeon's table by this time?

Well, who's the brave one here?
“You talk to me like that, as if your emergency room membership is gone.

- You are a simple housewife

- BUT you want, to I was monetary prostitute?

There are times when we see the only way to stand up for ourselves in the ability to offend the interlocutor. It is worth recognizing that this method is not always justified, and, at times, can even lead to negative consequences. But still there are situations when it is very difficult to do without it. There can be many such situations, and we will consider some of them in more detail. self defense When someone allows themselves to speak offensively in our direction, often, we "boil" in response. Few people manage to restrain their emotions in such a situation and ignore the attacks of an aggressive interlocutor. Of course, if a person has managed to achieve the highest degree of self-control or simply cannot decide on an offensive response, then he is able to ignore negative words addressed to him. And yet, more often than not, holding back is not easy. Defense of the weak There are situations when we cannot help but pay attention to the fact that someone allows himself an insulting attitude towards another person. It is especially unbearable to watch this when a spouse, your child, a shy girl or even an unfamiliar pensioner falls under the shelling of offensive words. In general, aggression awakens in many of us when a weaker person suffers, who finds it difficult to fend for himself. Of course, in this case, the injured party needs protection, and, undoubtedly, will experience a deep sense of gratitude, having received it. Animal protection This point is somewhat similar to the previous one, but the difference is that this time it is not about a weak person, but about an animal. Some of us, seeing, for example, how teenagers torture a cat or a drunken person kicking a dog, try to pretend that they simply don’t notice what is happening, but the majority still cannot look indifferently at the suffering of “smaller brothers”. Of course, in this case, insults on your part will be more than justified.

How to morally humiliate a person without a mat

Not each of us is able to humiliate a person without resorting to swear words. However, if you learn this, then you can say that you have mastered the art of the most "subtle" insults.

Clever phrases to shut up a person

If you want to put a person in his place, with some kind of veiled insult, take note of a few phrases.

Open your mouth at the dentist! Usually, those who cannot manage their own climb into someone else's life. Do not fall under a hot hand, so as not to fly away under a hot foot.

Cool and funny insults

Such insults can seem cool and funny not only to the person who utters them, but also to the person to whom they refer. However, it all depends on how touchy your interlocutor is. If he is too sensitive to the slightest hint of insults and overly vulnerable, then, of course, he will not be funny in this situation.

Yes, close your laugher already! Stop waving your tongue like a flag in a parade.

Offensive sharp phrases

If you want to offend someone with a sharp and offensive phrase, then, apparently, this person really managed to hurt you. Of course, in no case should you show that you are offended or angry - in this case, you will not achieve the desired effect. Speak sharp phrases in a calm tone, which may well be accompanied by a slight smirk.

Looks like the stork dropped someone on the way. And more than once. You would have been taken to the Kunstkamera even during your lifetime. One more phrase like that, and you will have to move through life in jerks. You should think about saving nature by sterilizing yourself. It must be difficult for you to love nature, after what it has done to you.

How to culturally send a person by calling witty words

You may well offend a person, even being with him on “you”. To do this, it is not at all necessary to switch to obscene words or direct insults. One witty phrase is enough. Therefore, you can even say that, in this way, you will send a person culturally.

Are you leaving already? Why so slowly? I'm too busy a person to pay attention to your complexes. Shock me, finally say at least something smart. It seems that youthful maximalism has not gone away with you. .I hope that you are not always so stupid, but only today.

And yet, most likely, you understand that in the case when we insult someone else, it is quite difficult to talk about any level of culture. Often such conversations simply roll into an ugly squabble.

Play on his weaknesses and complexes

If the situation develops in such a way that you have to insult a woman (we note that these are still the most extreme situations), then, of course, you can play on her complexes. Most often, the weak point of a woman is her appearance. Even if she does not show that your words somehow hurt her, most likely, you will still achieve the goal - she will remember what you said and it will disturb her. It is also worth noting that some men can also be offended by mentioning their appearance or physical parameters. Although most often a male representative can be offended by mentioning his unenviable mental qualities, most men react quite painfully to these remarks. So some examples:

Alas, you cannot save the world with beauty. However, with your mind too. Woman, you are not so beautiful as to be rude to people. Just looking at you, I can believe that a person really came from a monkey. Don't worry, maybe one day you will say something smart. Where did you learn to do makeup in the style of Valuev? What, no one wants to get married, why is she so angry? Is everything really tight? Well, at least try to spread your bone marrow. It’s immediately obvious that your parents dreamed that you would run away from home. It’s true they say that the brain is not everything. In your case, it's nothing at all.

Create long-term systematic pressure on the enemy

Naturally, in this paragraph we are talking about psychological pressure - the influence on the interlocutors, which occurs in order to change their psychological attitudes, decisions and opinions. Often this method is used in situations where, for some reason, you cannot openly be rude to a person, but you are also unable to not react to his behavior in any way. So, what types of psychological pressure exist? Moral pressure It can also be called humiliation, which is expressed in the desire to morally suppress the interlocutor. Systematically, you point out some feature of a person, even if your words are not true. Thus, you intentionally sow complexes in your opponent. For example, you can always hint or directly tell someone: “How stupid you are,” “You are very clumsy,” “You still need to lose weight,” and the like. In this case, it becomes difficult for the interlocutor to control himself, and if at first he practically does not pay attention to your words, then later they begin to seriously offend him. It is important to note that this technique is appropriate to apply to people who suffer from self-doubt. Compulsion Such a method can be used by a person who is endowed with some kind of power - finance, information, or even physical strength. In this case, the opponent is not able to give a worthy rebuff, realizing that in this case he may suffer financially, not receive the necessary information, and so on. Belief This kind of psychological pressure can be called the most rational. By applying it, you are trying to appeal to the logic of a person and his mind. This method is applicable to people with a normal level of intelligence who are able to understand what you are trying to convey to them. A person who tries to act by the method of persuasion should select the most logical and evidential phrases, not allowing doubts and uncertainty in his tone. It is important to understand that as soon as the "victim" begins to notice any inconsistencies, the force of such pressure will begin to weaken. suspension In this case, the person makes an attempt, as it were, to “starve out” the interlocutor. You are trying to put pressure on someone, but when they try to convict you of this, then you step back or move on to other topics. You can also, in response, accuse the opponent of inventing everything, twisting it, and so on. Suggestion This method of psychological attack can only be used by a person who is somehow an authority for his “victim”. One way or another, you are trying to inspire something to the interlocutor, speaking in hints or directly.

Is it permissible to use obscene names and curses

Of course, we are not always able to control ourselves and cope with ourselves in peak situations, but you should make every effort to achieve this. If it has come to the point that you do not see any other way but to get nasty to a person, then try to do it subtly and beautifully. As they say, there is no need to stoop to the level of “bazaar women”. Of course, if you couldn’t restrain yourself and switched to a mat, then there’s nothing to be done, and still try not to allow this, and put the person “in their place” in other ways. It’s not that you can somehow especially hurt interlocutor. It is simply believed that a person who has "descended" to obscenities is not able to defend his opinion in ordinary words - to some extent, this is how we demonstrate our own inadequacy. Of course, it’s another matter if you, in principle, always communicate with the abundant use of swear words, but this is a completely different conversation.

How to learn sarcasm using cheeky funny words

Having learned to use bold and funny expressions to the point, you will surely be able to gain fame in a close circle as a person with a good sense of humor and mastering the technique of sarcasm. But it is important not to forget that insolence can be fraught with consequences, and with such phrases you can provoke the interlocutor to an unpredictable reaction.

Go, lie down, rest. Yes, at least on the rails. It would be possible to offend you, of course, but nature has already coped for me. Nobody scares you, you will be scared at the mirror. A stapler would not interfere with your mouth at all. go.

Learning the art of sarcasm And yet, it is important to note that people who can express themselves in a sarcastic form do not always use this skill, trying to offend or humiliate someone. Often, sarcasm sounds when some non-trivial situation is commented on - then it looks funny and organic. It is almost impossible to comprehend the art of sarcasm for a person whose vocabulary is not very diverse, and his horizons are rather limited. That is why it is worth reading and learning more. Type in the search: "Authors who write with humor." As you yourself understand, in any case, truly “sharp” phrases are made up of words, the variety of which you can easily draw from intellectual films and books. By the way, examples of some witty phrases can also be seen in books. As a last resort, learn sarcasm from people who make a living with their jokes - we are talking about participants and hosts of various comedy television shows. If you want to pass for a really witty person, then do not repeat the mistake that many beginner jokers or people who think they are such. Having heard or read some interesting joke or funny expression, they periodically repeat it in order to make the interlocutor laugh. The first couple of times it can be really funny, but after a while people start smiling just out of politeness, and that's for the time being, for the time being. As you understand, it is simply unacceptable for a master of sarcasm to be associated with someone with a broken record.

If you want to be rude beautifully, then it is appropriate to use phrases that your interlocutor probably has not heard yet or those that he will not immediately orient himself with a witty answer. In this case, for sure, you will look more advantageous. So, perhaps some of these statements will seem appropriate to you.

If these beeps continue to come from your platform, then your dental staff will have to move. Are you sick or do you always look like this? you, but life has already done it for me.

We consider possible consequences Entering into a skirmish with an aggressive interlocutor, it would be foolish not to take into account the possible consequences of this step. You must understand and be prepared for the fact that you will have to move from words to deeds if, for example, you threaten someone with physical violence. If the opponent provokes you to further actions, and you simply start ignoring him, then all your threats simply lose their meaning. Of course, it can turn out differently - a person will be frightened by your words, and will shut up. However, you must be prepared for different developments if you still decide to enter into a conflict. When not to use insults All your "pungent phrases" and "beautiful insults" do not make any sense if you decide to use them when communicating with an insane person. So, what kind of person can be called insane. First of all, this refers to the interlocutor who is under strong alcohol or drug influence. Surely, such a person will simply not be able to appreciate the subtlety of your insults - he simply will not hear them, or he will react inadequately, even if your words are not too offensive. It’s really better not to mess with such people, even if they are trying in every possible way to offend you. Your task is to completely leave their field of vision, and not enter into a senseless conflict. If a drunk person offends a weaker one, then, of course, you need to help the offended party, but verbal skirmishes are unlikely to give any positive result. In any case, if you are sure that in this situation you can do without insults by solving the problem in some way or by any other method, it is still better not to go as far as swearing. It is possible that later you will have to regret your incontinence. As we have already mentioned, it is appropriate to take this step only in case of protection (of yourself or a loved one). If you yourself initiate such conversations, you will very soon get a reputation as a boor and brawler.