Love yourself for the benefit of others.

A woman dies, and Death comes to her. The woman, seeing Death, smiled and said she was ready.
- What are you ready for? Death asked.
- I'm ready for God to take me to Paradise! the woman replied.
- And why did you decide that God would take you to himself? Death asked.
- Well, how? I suffered so much that I deserved the peace and love of God, the woman replied.
What exactly did you suffer from? Death asked.
- When I was little, I was always unfairly punished by my parents. They beat me, put me in a corner, yelled at me as if I had done something terrible. When I was in school, my classmates bullied me and also beat and humiliated me. When I got married, my husband drank all the time and cheated on me. My children exhausted my whole soul, and in the end they didn’t even come to my funeral. When I worked, my boss yelled at me all the time, delayed my salary, left me on weekends, and then fired me altogether without paying me. Neighbors gossiped about me behind my back, saying that I was a walking woman. And one day a robber attacked me and stole my bag and raped me.
- Well, what did you do good in your life? Death asked.
- I was always kind to everyone, went to church, prayed, took care of everyone, pulled everything on myself. I experienced so much pain from this world, like Christ, that I deserve Paradise ...
- Well, well ... - Death answered - I understand you. There remains a small formality. Sign one contract and go straight to Paradise.
Death handed her a piece of paper with one sentence to tick. The woman looked at Death and, as if she had been doused with ice water, said that she could not put a tick under this sentence.
It was written on the piece of paper: "I forgive all my offenders and ask for forgiveness from everyone whom I offended."
Why can't you forgive them all and ask for forgiveness? Death asked.
- Because they did not deserve my forgiveness, because if I forgive them, it means that nothing happened, it means that they will not answer for their deeds. And I have no one to ask for forgiveness ... I didn’t do anything bad to anyone!
- Are you sure about that? Death asked.
- Absolutely!
- What do you feel for those who caused you so much pain? Death asked.
- I feel anger, anger, resentment! It is unfair that I should forget and erase from my memory the evil that people have done to me!
- What if you forgive them and stop experiencing these feelings? Death asked.
The woman thought for a while and replied that there would be emptiness inside!
- You have always experienced this emptiness in your heart, and this emptiness has devalued you and your life, and the feelings that you experience give meaning to your life. Now tell me, why do you feel emptiness?
- Because all my life I thought that those whom I loved and those for whom I lived would appreciate me, but in the end they disappointed me. I gave my life to my husband, children, parents, friends, but they did not appreciate it and turned out to be ungrateful!
- Before God said goodbye to his son and let him go to earth, he said one last phrase to him, which was supposed to help him realize life in himself and himself in this life ...
- What? the woman asked.
- THE WORLD STARTS WITH YOU..!
- What does it mean?
- So he did not understand what God told him about ... This is about the fact that only you are responsible for everything that happens in your life! You choose to suffer or be happy! So explain to me who exactly caused you so much pain?
- It turns out I'm on my own ... - the woman answered in a trembling voice.
- So who can't you forgive?
- Myself? The woman answered in a weeping voice.
- Forgive yourself - it means admitting your mistake! To forgive yourself is to accept your imperfection! Forgiving yourself means opening up to yourself! You hurt yourself and decided that the whole world is to blame for this, and they do not deserve your forgiveness ... And you want God to accept you with open arms?! Have you decided that God is like a soft-bodied stupid old man who will open doors for fools and evil sufferers?! Do you think he created the perfect place for people like you? That's when you create your own paradise, where first of all you, and then the rest, will feel good, then you will knock on the doors of the heavenly abode, but for now God has given me instructions to send you back to earth so that you learn how to create a world in which reigns love and care. And the one who cannot take care of himself lives in a deep delusion that he can take care of others. Do you know how God punishes a woman who considers herself an ideal mother?
- How? the woman asked.
- He sends her children, whose fates break before her eyes ...
- I understood ... I could not make my husband loving and devoted. She failed to raise happy and successful children. I couldn’t keep a hearth where there would be peace and harmony… In my world, everyone suffered…
- Why? Death asked.
- I wanted everyone to feel sorry for me and sympathize ... But no one took pity on me ... And I thought that God would definitely take pity on me and hug me!
- Remember that the most dangerous people on earth are those who want to arouse pity and compassion for themselves ... They are called "victims" ... Your greatest ignorance lies in the fact that you think that God needs someone's sacrifice! He will never let into his abode one who knows nothing but pain and suffering, for this sacrifice will sow pain and suffering in his world...! Go back and learn to love and take care of yourself, and then those who live in your world. And to begin with, ask forgiveness for your ignorance and forgive yourself for it!
The woman closed her eyes and started the journey again, but only under a different name and with different parents.

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You have to live with the pain of loss. There is no escape from this pain. You can't hide from her, you can't run away. Sooner or later, it covers again and I want only one thing - deliverance.

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The DEATH of a loved one is the most terrible grief that can befall a person. The pain of loss sometimes seems unbearable.

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Life and death are just two moments, only our pain is endless.

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Ah, I... I'm sorry... I'm calling... I'm crying!!!

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Everyone died, what's the point in denying it now. But how to understand this with the heart.

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Take me, Lord, instead of him, and leave him on earth!

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When you first encounter the loss of a loved one, then you understand the price of life and the inevitability of death.

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Death denial. Family members may act as if their loved one is not dead; waiting for him, talking to him.

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Although it does not sound sad, our life is short and sooner or later we will all go into oblivion.

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The feeling of loss gives rise to torments similar to the torments of a person thrown overboard a ship ...

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Take care of those you love!!! Appreciate the moments spent together! Feel free to forgive! So that later it would not be excruciatingly painful for unspoken words, for not perfect deeds!

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Probably, if you truly love a loved one, you will never come to terms with his loss.

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On the stone wall of the temple was carved a poem called "Loss", it has only three words, it has only three words. But the poet scraped them off. Loss cannot be read... only felt.

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People regret not for what was or is. People regret lost opportunities.

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The loss of a loved one breaks our familiar world.

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Time may heal, but one does not live long enough to forget the one who was dear.

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Death passes through the Earth, separating loved ones so that later they can unite in eternity.

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Friends always live in each other's heart, even after one dies, in the heart of the other he will remain forever.

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You left so suddenly ... It is unthinkable that your life was interrupted like this, we are left with only tears and the truth: Remember and pray all the time.

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There is no life on earth where there is no child. Why do I live on earth if children are dying?

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It is impossible to return, it is impossible to forget... Time is inexorable!!! Half a year has already passed. Life is passing by… Awareness has not come!!!

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To give up your love is the most terrible betrayal, an eternal loss that cannot be replenished either in time or in eternity.

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We mourn for Lokomotiv, we are sorry for the guys, but we were waiting for them in Minsk... Life is very unpredictable...

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The most important man in my life is you, daddy, and no matter how old I am, I will always remain for you a little daddy's daughter, and you will be my main man, no one will replace you. May the earth rest in peace for you.

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As soon as we lose faith in our strength, we lose ourselves. Statuses about the bitterness and pain of losing a loved one

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It is very painful and scary to lose loved ones, relatives, loved ones, but with each loss, feelings become dull and the heart becomes colder ...

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It is necessary to pray for the departed, in the world of dreams of silent silence. So that tears do not shed from heaven, for us ... for sinners ... they.

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They say that time heals ... It seems to me that it simply tears out pieces of our memory, with blood ...

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It hurts to look into your eyes and realize that you cannot help... It hurts to be there and know that this is the last night... When a doctor declares death... The pain of losing loved ones is unbearable! … There is no replacement for them!!!

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Damn… it’s so scary… you see a person, you say hello to him… and after a couple of days they call you and say that he’s gone… It’s scary…

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When a loved one dies, it feels like you've lost a part of yourself.

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Don't try to avoid painful experiences. Don't hold back your tears. What happened is real grief. It needs to be felt and experienced.

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The memory of the deceased can become an incentive for later life.

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Only when we lose do we begin to appreciate ... only when we are late do we learn to rush ... only not to love, we can let go ... Only by seeing death do we learn to live ...

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Somehow reconciled with fate ... then there are two of us ... and you are alone there. Stock up on a pood of salt with you ... now we eat it with our son ...

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Life is too short to realize its meaning, death comes too quickly, not allowing time to understand that life is given only one.

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This status is for all those who once stupidly lost their soul mate and because of pride missed the moment when they could return it.

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How to relieve the pain when a loved one goes to where there is no way back???

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Do you know why people look at the sky when they are very hurt? So they try to hold back their tears...

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It's sad when people die! It's even worse when the scum that killed them is still alive!!!

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Talk about the past in past tense.

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Today I have a lot to do: It is necessary to kill the memory to the end, it is necessary that the soul turns to stone, it is necessary to learn to live again.
Anna Akhmatova.

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And I burned everything that I worshiped, bowed to what I burned.

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How often, for the sake of loyalty, you are tormented by loneliness, your love is not needed by the dead, your love is needed by the living.

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Disillusionment - is it a profit or a loss?

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The worst thing is to lose what you believed in, hoped for, and then bam! and a black hole formed inside.

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The person cannot accept the loss. He experiences shock, which manifests itself in the complete absence of feelings.

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It’s just… from time to time… it happens… your messages and voice are missing… I ask… don’t forget me… gradually turning into the past…

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What heart can endure? All the pain and sorrow cannot be expressed in words. Nobody knows how to love like a mother. How painful it is to lose your mother.

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Gone feelings can still return, but a departed loved one can never.

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When one person dies, it is a sad loss, but the death of millions of souls is a statistic.

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A person can come to terms with the thought of his own death, but not with the absence of those he loves.

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Wisdom is the highest in accepting death. It is important to understand that life does not end. We are all immortal. Our death is a tragedy only for our loved ones. - Mikhail Mikhailovich Prishvin

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You left the pain in your heart forever! Gone from this life forever! Dear, sweet and tender, my beloved mom!

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I can't live without you... My heart is crying and my soul is groaning... I, too, my dear, "GONE" from life.

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I recognize you... in the touch of a birch branch, I recognize you... in the river with seething water, I recognize... in the dew, which looks like tears, I know LOVE!!! you're near me.

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You can be 14, 20, 30, 42, 50… You will still cry when dear people leave.

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Getting attached to a person is a huge risk, leaving they take your soul with them.

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Who knows the sadness of loss, appreciates the joy of the found.

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I love and remember. We remember those who left us, We remember those who closed their eyes forever.

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The way out of depression gradually becomes possible, mental pain becomes less. A person begins to look for ways to solve psychological problems that are not related to the loss.

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Nobody dies too soon, everyone dies on time.

Statuses about the bitterness and pain of losing a loved one

One day I'll find out who I was, And who I could have been, And who I couldn't be, Why I lived in this world And why I died that day. I will see the temple of my soul, the earth, Imperishable and untouched by the earth, I will understand the pattern and every thread in it, But nothing can be changed then.

If you want to do something, do it! To not grieve before death!

Nobody stays in this world forever.

The birth of a person is an accident, but death is a law.

earthquake in Turkey. unexpectedly, no one was ready for this, not warned. in their own homes, people have become hostages of situations, of nature. let's pray for the dead

It hurts the most not immediately It hurts later in a few months When you begin to realize that he died that he will not come Never

Two lives Life begins more than once And is not interrupted twice. And death from life is not a denial, But the affirmation of its thirst, After all, we are given to see the gap Not between death and eternal life, But only between the will of man And that in which its motive is alive.

Say no to death!

People are mortal and therefore EVERYTHING is infinitely important.

If you are visited by thoughts of death, this is not so bad. The trouble is when death is visited by thoughts of you

You live, and you don’t feel the time, everything is barefoot, but negligee, well, hello, girl with a scythe, already ???

I used to be afraid of death, but now I'm waiting for it! After all, then we will be together again! It's not you who left this life, it's me who stayed here!

Time loves no one, hates no one, It is not indifferent to anyone, it takes everyone away!

People don't really die. They go to a better world and wait there for those they love. And then one day they will all return to this world again, just like the first time.

Only betrayal can be worse than loneliness, Because it makes you not only lonely, but also kills hope.

They say that the worst thing is to outlive your children. How then do people live after abortions?

Live as if you will die tomorrow; Learn as if you will live forever.

No one knows. No one knows the length of their life. Nobody knows how many years allotted. But many live with hope And many without it at all.

Take up arms, be prepared to die.

Immortals are mortal, mortals are immortal; by each other's death they live, by each other's life they die.

The subscriber is not available. And, the devil only knows, what's worse. Isn't waiting for you? Not you, waiting? Don't be afraid for now. There is no Love, There the battery is dying.

The beginning of merging with nature is a natural end.

People don't die from overwork. People are dying from a senseless waste of energy and anxiety.

Death is an abyss that suddenly opens up on the path of unstoppable life; living suddenly, as if by magic, becomes invisible in an instant, as if falling through the ground, disappears into oblivion.

If there is an Internet in hell, many will not even notice that they have died.

The good go to heaven. The good ones go to heaven, the bad ones are not taken to heaven. With a heavy and evil burden, the Underground will judge them.

Life is the food of death

WORTH TO LIVE - this is when great-great-grandchildren come to my grave.

And a healthy person can be healed to death for money.

Memoirs are a way to embellish yourself in front of the gates of hell.

We know how to die, we just have to learn how to live

Closing concert: Playing in a box accompanied by an orchestra.

To Papa You left untimely and quickly, Saying goodbye to your family on the run, Having managed to tell you that I love you, Our whole house was plunged into silence Friends, friends came to you Your family is crying, Mother-cheese earth swallowed the coffin And rain and snow saw you off

No matter how fate turns, you can find a way out of any situation. Everything can be fixed in this life, except for death.

And our body is mortal, only the soul is valuable

No memory - no pain And how not to remember if you love? And how not to feel pain, if only a memory remains.

Only the one who has not lost his relatives does not know the pain of parting Does not appreciate life, only the one who did not look death in the face And the price is worthless to the one who forgot the history of the country of his heroes And shame to the one who does not want to know anything about the homeland

And life is only one day. Do not spend it daydreaming about the night or fearing it.

Death makes us forget the weaknesses of those who are gone forever, leaving us only belated regrets.

The thought of death drives away boredom.

From a conversation with children (everything is simple and damn beautiful): -How do people die? - the stork takes them away.

There is no life without you, And there is no death. There is a VOID. Only black, All-consuming emptiness Which destroys everything inside.

Once the surgeon Ivanov lay down to take a nap on the table of the pathologist Sidorov. In general, a stupid, ridiculous death.

People do not die at 90, not in accidents. and nothing to do with the flu. People die after opening the envelope: “I don't love you and the person is dead.

It's scary when innocent children die. But it is even more terrible that those who give orders to shoot at peaceful neighborhoods will not weep, will not regret what they have done, and will even find an excuse for themselves.

In anticipation of death, three different fears converge: you do not know the day when you will die, the reason from which you will die, and, finally, death itself is an unknown.

You read obituaries and think: “Are the bastards really not dying?!

Sasha Galimov Eternal memory

Before they die, people think about their past, As if looking for evidence that they really lived.

Cry, sing, love, but don't bury yourself alive.

Death is not to be feared! As long as we are alive, she is gone, and when she comes, we will be gone.

The most important thing in life is that you are not dead.

Dying is not scary - once he died ... Living is much scarier.

Everything in life is false, there is only one truth, and that truth is death.

Only death turns life into destiny.

I'm not afraid to die, I'm afraid to stop living.

It is not death that should be feared, but an empty life.

When a person is gone, it doesn't matter what he was. What matters is whether the world noticed the difference.

Instead of being afraid of inevitable death, we should be afraid that we will not be ready for its coming.

Until we know what death is, it is not logical to fear it.

The best way to use life is to live it so that it continues after you die.

They say that the day of death is the same as everyone else, only shorter.

Nobody dies too soon, everyone dies on time.

Death is placed at the end of life in order to more conveniently prepare for it.

The evil created by man does not disappear with his death.

To die means to join the majority.

Death is the greatest mathematician, because it unmistakably solves all problems.

When someone dies, you feel guilty just for being alive.

Life separates people more often than death.

While we are thinking about how to kill time, time is killing us.

You shouldn't be afraid of death. Death, like life, is a long way to go with honor.

Have the courage to live. Anyone can die.

If you want to be able to endure life, prepare for death.

We first understand death only when it takes the person we love.

Death is beautiful. Only the dying, feeling her kiss on his lips understands this. Death is to be admired. Death deserves it. How you deserve happiness and peace after Death.

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Hello dear friend! Today we will dedicate our selection to a very delicate issue that not everyone wants to discuss and think about. Death is a scary enough thing for each of us. Although, there are people who are afraid of it, and, on the contrary, accept it as a completely natural process of life. Such people can be understood, it all depends on life experience and faith that leads us through life. Someone says that after death, heaven or hell awaits us. Someone claims that after death there is nothing, and we will disappear into nothingness and darkness. A big and strict aunt, in a black cloak and with a hood, holding a large metal scythe in her hands, one day will come and take our life at any moment, tomorrow, today, in a year, at any time. And, nevertheless, it is worth thinking about death, because while a person is alive, he is in a hurry somewhere, doing things and he is of little interest in how he will leave this life. During our lives we make many mistakes and think little about what. They say on their deathbed, everyone feels a sense of remorse and asks to forgive everyone who has been hurt and suffering. Statuses with a meaning about death will help you understand the essence of this issue and study it in more detail. Good luck, take care!