And they gave me everything always wrong. Unfulfilled dreams

He dedicated a poem written in 1825 "I remember a wonderful moment ..." to Anna Kern. Fifteen years later, the composer Glinka set these lines to music and dedicated the romance to her daughter, Ekaterina Kern, with whom he had been in love for a long time.

From the archives of Russian poetry

A. S. Pushkin remembered himself from the age of 4. He told several times about how one day on a walk he noticed how the earth was swaying and the columns were trembling, and last earthquake in Moscow was recorded just in 1803. And, by the way, at about the same time, the first meeting between Pushkin and the emperor took place - little Sasha almost fell under the hooves of the horse of Alexander I, who also went for a walk. Thank God, Alexander managed to hold his horse back, the child was not hurt, and the only one who was seriously scared was the nanny.

From the biography of A. S. Pushkin

And in the famous lyceum Pushkin A. S., it turns out, he entered through pull. The lyceum was founded by Minister Speransky himself, the enrollment was small - only 30 people, but Pushkin had an uncle - a very famous and talented poet Vasily Lvovich Pushkin, who was personally acquainted with Speransky. I don’t know how my uncle felt afterwards, but on the list of successful students that was prepared for graduation party, Pushkin was second from the end.

From the biography of A. S. Pushkin

The first duel of A. S. Pushkin happened at the Lyceum, but in general he was called to a duel more than 90 times. Pushkin himself suggested shooting more than a hundred and fifty times. The reason might not be worth a damn - for example, in the usual dispute about trifles, Pushkin could suddenly call someone a scoundrel, and, of course, this ended in shooting.

From the biography of A. S. Pushkin

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On the birthday of Sergei Vladimirovich Mikhalkov, a poet whose name has been known since early childhood to each Soviet kid, the author of the words of three hymns of our country, we decided to recall one of his poems. These lines of the author of the legendary "Uncle Styopa" should be read to parents in order to better understand their children.

Unfulfilled dreams

When I was eight years old
I only dreamed about
To a small bike
He rolled into my house.

I am morning, evening and afternoon
I would ride on it.

I was embarrassed to tears
When I heard: - No!
With you baby and no wheels
You won't get into trouble.

I dreamed about sledding in winter
And I saw them in my dreams.
And in reality I knew for sure:
They will not be given to me.

Have time to head
break!-
I was told every time
mother.

Wanted to raise a puppy
But they gave me advice
So that I don't play the fool
At twelve years of age.

I dreamed less about puppies,
Or better yet, read something.

I rarely heard the word:
"Yes!" -
And I did not dare to object
And they always gave me everything
Not what I wanted:
Now - a scarf, then - new
coat,
That is "musical loto",
That - Mikhalkova, then - Barto,
But it wasn't all that -
Not what I wanted!

What a pity that adults
sometimes
They don't understand us at all.
And childhood, they themselves say,
Happens only once!
<Сергей Михалков>

People tend to dream and make plans for the future. We all, in one way or another, sometimes dream about something pleasant, this is human nature. beautiful but pipe dream- element inner peace a person who wants to significantly transform their life. If we did not fantasize in our minds, then in our life there would be no place for romance and the expectation of a miracle. This is actually a blissful state, when space opens up for a run of thoughts, a state of inspiration and incredible self-confidence comes.

An impossible dream is different from real themes that, despite the great desire, it never comes true. It also happens like this: a person is ready to dream, but does not believe in himself and does not take any active actions, and then the desired does not become a reality. Some people are more comfortable living in an illusion than building something themselves.

What is an impossible dream?

Sometimes people deliberately dream about something impossible. Then they are prepared in advance for the fact that their desire will not be fulfilled. This circumstance serves as an excuse for them, thanks to which they do not make any attempts to approach the cherished goal. In this case, you need to decide for yourself how important it is for you to make your dream come true. If the quality of life does not change in any way due to the loss of desire, then you can safely refuse it. A dream comes true only when you really want it and take active steps to achieve it.

A pipe dream can take a lot of time and effort from its owner. When we want something, but do not move in the direction of what we want, our possibilities fade away, the belief that it is real disappears. A pipe dream is a chance to discover and make it your goal. Only then will it bring tangible benefits.

great strength

How would we live if we did not make any plans for the future? Most likely, they would go with the flow, they were afraid to approach grandiose projects. It's amazing, but many people live like this: by inertia, they wake up in the morning, rush to unloved job, not at all rejoicing at the new day. True dream makes us move, gives extra energy for the implementation of the plan, gives inspiration, inspires to completely unexpected feats and accomplishments.

If, being in his usual state, a person does not always dare to bold deeds, then when he is guided by a dream, he is ready to act quickly, without hesitation. A huge source of energy appears inside. great strength dreams lead us forward, make us believe in ourselves and our endless possibilities. If we really knew that we are capable of much, then the quality of life in society would reach a completely different stage of development.

Ability to strive for more

Only the highest goal truly reveals the available perspectives of a person. Without the ability to dream more, the individual would not move towards the realization of his intention. If everyone were completely satisfied own life, then there would be no desire to big goals. All great discoveries are made only because there are people in the world who believe in their dream and with its help transform the world.

Does a person change when he starts to follow his dream? Of course, there is no doubt about this. Many say that only then did they begin to truly live. Be yourself, realize your talents and abilities - great joy and happiness in life. But this right must be earned, and then your opportunities will increase even more.

When does a dream become a problem?

Only when it turns into obsession. If someone thinks something like this: “I want to achieve the goal right now, by any means and immediately,” he will never get the expected result. In this case, the person gets hung up on the end result and does not get any pleasure from the process. The problem of a pipe dream is more or less familiar to each of us. When such a situation arises, you need to be very clear where you made a mistake, why the goal seems unrealistic. In principle, any dream has a chance of becoming a reality, unless you dream of something completely fantastic. Building castles in the sand means just dreaming without supporting your thoughts. concrete action. Only pre-planned and deliberate steps can lead you to the result. Believe in yourself, that you deserve all the best, and the world will answer you the same.

What is an impossible dream called? Each person answers this question differently. Many give it such names: utopia, illusion, fantasy. home distinguishing feature of these concepts lies in the fact that they do not lead a person to the desired, but force him to stay in one place for a long time.

How to learn to let go of fruitless fantasies?

If you suddenly realized that you lived in an illusory, invented world for a long period, it will take time to say goodbye to utopian moods. Man is such a creature that always needs to be convinced of the futility of his intentions before he leaves them completely. When your own fantasies make you suffer and deprive you of spiritual strength, it's time to think deeply. Realize what you really want and move in the direction you want. The most difficult thing is to part with illusions, but if you do not do this, then your path to your dream will become even longer. It is a pipe dream that can lead us to collapse. A synonym for it can be chosen as follows: acceptance of self-deception, delusion.

Instead of a conclusion

It is very important to stay true to your dream, but for this you need to clearly know what you really want to achieve. There is no point in wasting time on something that does not bring any joy, causes negative emotions. Find an occupation you like, become a specialist in your field. Do your best to resolve important task, use the available opportunities, and you will definitely come to your goal.