Let's get acquainted with another story of healing from rs from Rivil Kofman today!

She was able to defeat her "incurable disease" and now helps children with cancer get rid of tumors.

Her life motto: "There is no such thing in the world that can resist desire."

I recently read an article in a magazine about amazing woman, sorceress, storyteller, psychotherapist Rivil Kofman.

She lives in Ukraine.

She works in an oncology center, treats children with cancer. She teaches how to love your disease passionately so that it leaves the body sooner.

Rivil works with children in three oncology departments. For children who need rehabilitation, she created a theater, it is located in a small room in one of the capital's children's clubs. Rivil takes the children from the oncology center for several hours and brings them to his Magic Room. Using her methods, Rivil Kofman saved several hundred children in 9 years.
She heals those children from the disease, which doctors have long refused to treat. Rivil herself was terminally ill many years ago. After the fourth birth, she was given terrible diagnosis- multiple sclerosis. She could not walk, her eyesight and hearing began to decline. Doctors predicted Rivil life in a wheelchair. But she did the impossible - something that doctors still cannot believe: she recovered!

“I gained faith in my strength along with ... illness.”
It all started seven years ago, when Rivil, suffering from multiple sclerosis and bedridden for more than a year, saw on TV a report about children with leukemia. And their eyes... So a goal appeared in the life of a hopelessly ill person. “They must be made to smile! - said Rivil to her daughter Yulia.
“And I know how I will do it!” When, chained to the bed, she asked herself the question: “What important work awaits me in this world, for which it is worth fighting death?”, She swore to herself that she would get on her feet - she would save terminally ill children all her life. After all, they themselves cannot understand what is happening to them, what the disease wants from them. Therefore, they need help.

“I clearly saw how thousands of cleaners and builders work in all my cells, go through all the neurons of the brain, stretch out new “wiring”, bring Construction Materials... The work went on for 20 hours a day, I was lying all wet - I worked so hard!

Once Rivil read that in the pediatric oncology department of one of the American clinics, a doctor comes to his patients in a clown costume. The woman had an idea to create something similar for our sick children. As soon as she got to her feet, she dressed up as a fairy and went on crutches to the children's oncology department. When the children to whom Rivil told fairy tales began to recover, she forgot about the crutches.

“To recover, you need to set a goal that is worth even crawling towards.”
Three years ago, Rivil got excited about the idea of ​​a puppet theater. She began to sew dolls and invent fairy tales. “...Scientists say we use only 3-7 percent of the potential of the brain. So, you need to look for something that will help to use hidden reserves organism, the goal for which it is even worth crawling. Rivil sewed her first dolls - the resilient Abram and Sarah - while still lying in bed. First, she learned to hold a needle, then to walk, and, finally, she decided to test the power of the dolls' charm on the audience. In her performances, Sarah and Abram overcome difficulties.

Rivil considers illness to be a problem not of the body, but of the spirit. She is sure that if a person lives in the negative, he allows the disease to enter into himself. All contented people live happily and do not die of cancer and others. incurable diseases. But only those who do something for others are truly happy.

Unfortunately, the vast majority of adults do not believe in themselves and in the power of their positive thoughts. Inside each of us huge world in which a person can do everything. But people even in their imagination limit themselves. Rivil is convinced that thought is material, and the main thing is to make a person believe in own forces. “A sick person needs a fighting spirit. You don’t need to feel sorry for him, it relaxes, on the contrary, you need to push him to fight the disease!

“Recovering to help others is a very powerful mindset,” Rivil says.

- The main thing is to remember what you promised. Help should not be one-time. You have to do this for the rest of your newfound life.”

Let's analyze together Rivil's story about her healing.

• What kind key factors success can be seen in this case as significant:

• Taking responsibility for own life.
• The desire and desire to do something important for other people.
• Trust your own intuition.
• Consciously chosen and suitable for her method of treatment based on concentration of attention and visualization.
• Change of outlook.
  
• Finding the meaning of life in the spiritual space of goals.

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Having defeated an incurable disease - multiple sclerosis, Rivil Kofman realized that she returned to this life to help others.

A psychologist by education and vocation, she opened the Rehabilitation Center for Children with Cancer in Kyiv " Fairy World”, where kids are treated with magic toys, enchanted trees, fairy tale characters and even the wish-granting turtle Lolita.

So now Rivil is a real sorceress! Every week she puts on a fairy outfit, picks up magic wand and comes to sick children to give hope for a miracle.

Ravil, how do you manage with the help of fairy tales to wake up children who have already been sentenced by doctors?

Children have not lost the ability to believe in miracles, and this is their strength! Therefore, they must be treated differently than adults: first of all, to make them smile, to restore their good mood. Believe me, this is even more important than chemotherapy and combined! Therefore, I tell them fairy tales, for each my own - the one in which this particular child will believe. Believe - and get well!

What should parents do when their child is diagnosed with cancer?

First of all, pull yourself together, think about your own mistakes and do everything to correct them. I have been communicating with cancer patients for fifteen years and I can say: children do not want to live if their parents do not have a relationship.

Sometimes mothers, while still carrying a fetus under their hearts, allow themselves to hate the father of the child. This is scary, because all the negativity is transmitted to the baby, penetrates into his cells ... The mother needs to restore relations with her father, accept everything as it is, forget and let go of grievances!

How to explain to the baby what is happening to him?

Parents very often make a serious mistake - they do not tell a child with cancer about his illness, they do not explain why he got sick. It is not right. You need to do the following.

Tell about the disease in his, childish, language. Sometimes I say: “Some harmful and shy Barakabola has moved into you from another planet! Get in and get in the way! Why do you think he moved in? Were you thirsty? Evil? Offended others? As a rule, children think, find the reason - and only this makes it easier for them. Because now they know what needs to be changed.

Ask the baby: why does he want to be cured? You need to communicate a lot with the child, talk about how many more things on Earth need to be redone so that there is no grief: homeless cats go around, and hungry dogs, and dolphins die, and trees ... And he can help and save everyone - you just need to get better !

I give a task to a sick child - come up with 10 things to do - and the children come up with it very quickly!

It is very important that the child realizes that something is wrong with him, he must fight it, he must fix it - and this is in his own power.

The disease does not spare even breast crumbs ...

Does official medicine recognize your method - fairy tale therapy?

The trouble is that children with cancer are often viewed as incurable, and the work of psychologists in oncology centers, as a rule, comes down to preparing parents for the death of their children ... If a child suddenly gets out, this is perceived as a miracle ...

But there are many ways to start the internal reserves of the body. My fairy tale therapy is one of them. This, of course, is not an independent treatment - only the background against which the traditional health care can triple the positive result.

I come to children with cancer and tell, for example, that in this dropper with "chemistry" it actually flows living water… What's happening? The child's faith in recovery "prays" this chemistry, structures it - and the "chemistry" helps ...

Everyone wakes up at least once in their life with the thought: “Enough! It can't go on like this!" And something changes in the everyday flow of days. On that decisive morning, Rivil Kofman from Kiev opened her eyes and realized that she practically did not feel her legs. And she said, "Enough!" It was an ultimatum to all official medicine, who had been unsuccessfully treating her for multiple sclerosis for five years. According to the forecasts of doctors, in the near future their patient was expected to be blind, dumb and completely immobile. Since then, 1 year has passed: today Rivil is in excellent shape, she travels, builds the Fairy Tale House in the capital, puts on performances in which children with cancer participate, and, by the way, she recently got married.

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Photo gallery: Multiple sclerosis: alternative treatment

Why did this happen to me?

Rivil is sure that doctors themselves do not fully know where diseases come from. And they do not know how to take multiple sclerosis, alternative treatment is needed for this. And most importantly - how to treat them. Thousands of medical reference books have been compiled, drug regimens have been drawn up, but each time trusting "white coats", the patient agrees to an experiment on himself.

At 34, Rivil seemed the epitome of carelessness. A psychologist and journalist, she was an exemplary wife, she wrote children's fairy tales, raised three children and was expecting the birth of a fourth - a son. Rivil was scheduled for a caesarean, but something went wrong in the operation, bleeding began, the woman in labor lost a lot of blood. So much so that there was not enough of it in the blood bank, I had to throw a cry among the miners (it was in Donetsk) to donate blood for a young mother. The miners gave up. And, apparently, along with someone else's blood, a neuroinfection entered the body. Mom and son survived, but for Rivil it was a completely different life with a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis and the first group of disability.

“At first it was a shock,” Rivil recalls. - I could not understand why this happened to me - so cheerful and positive. I was looking for reasons, but did not find for multiple sclerosis, I could not find an alternative treatment. I analyzed all my thoughts and actions. I realized that by the age of 34 I had not realized my potential, I was dependent and did what others needed, not me. I was neither loved nor wanted. I came to think about my cruelty - psychosomatic reason multiple sclerosis. After all, I myself never loved my husband, rather, I was afraid of him. And with that, she drove herself into a corner. The causes of almost any disease are deep resentment, lack of cheerfulness, hormones of happiness, satisfaction. The illness has completely changed me.”

Rivil says that respects his illness. It either kills a person or makes him extraordinarily strong. The second scenario is probably an exception, multiple sclerosis is not treated and slowly but surely turns a person into a wreck. “With this illness, you walk like on clouds,” my interlocutor continues. - Sclerotic plaques destroy the membranes nerve fibers they seem to be naked. A person becomes insensitive, does not see, does not hear. You want to go, but your legs don't know how. You want to take something, but your hands do not take. On that decisive morning, I could no longer hold a pen or a needle in my hands. My fingers did not obey me, and my legs refused to go.

This condition was preceded by five years of classical hormonal treatment in multiple sclerosis hospitals, an alternative treatment. Rivil's liver was already exfoliating from side effects prednisolone and other heavy artillery pharmacies. Her vision was deteriorating, her speech became incoherent, and she moved mostly on crutches. “I am completely disillusioned with medicine. I realized that I can’t expect help from this side, ”Rivil shares with me. I felt like they were experimenting on me. 16 years have passed since then, but nothing has changed in the treatment of multiple sclerosis. I meet young people who turn to me for help - everything is the same: the same drugs and approaches. And the finale: a wheelchair, a bed, and - there is no person. I fell into a medical bondage, and, realizing this, I began to look for another way. ”

From point of view official medicine Rivil engaged in nonsense. Every day she imagined how a company of brave soldiers cleans her liver with special pumps, sucking out sclerotic plaques from it. She talked with her body, convinced sick cells (they are mad or crazy) to live in unison with healthy ones. It was much more difficult than taking a pill. She imagined herself on an operating table in heaven. A council of angelic surgeons decided to change Rivil's liver not all and completely, but in parts. And she fantasized about how the organ was restored, lobule by lobule. When a couple of years later she was sent for an ultrasound, the doctor could not believe his eyes: the liver was healthy. In her imagination, Rivil bathed under the jets of a heavenly waterfall, washing away the disease from every cell. She battled multiple sclerosis with creative thinking.

Conversation with barakabala

"I believed in my internal forces, that my body is a beautiful machine that is tired of refueling with bad gasoline, Rivil explains. And I started working with my body myself. always woke up in good mood, greeted all my organs, which, by the way, I do to this day. I did morning exercises of my thoughts and organs. When you are sick, you need to think less about yourself, but at the same time love yourself. I started a diary of good deeds, and began to look for those who are weaker than me, whom I can help. My fingers still did not obey me well, but I made the first two dolls and went with them to the children's oncology department in Kyiv. Later these visits entered the system. She talked with the children, asked about her well-being, smiled, sang songs with them, showed performances, composed fairy tales. One of them is about a mad cancer cell barakabale, an alien from another planet that everyone is afraid of, but she is actually afraid of us herself. I helped myself by helping others."

Rivil did not allow feel sorry for yourself, ceased to consider yourself a sick person. And this, according to her, accelerated the break with her husband. He did not tolerate the acquired by her inner freedom. They've divorced. For three years she took care of herself, but at the same time, as if she did not notice herself. “Once I realized that I could move without crutches,” Rivil recalls. - For a while I walked with sticks, and then I felt that they were in the way. One woman grabbed me. He says: “You are so beautiful, young, why do you need sticks?” I thought: “And really, why?” Friends invited me on a hike, I already walked normally, but without a feeling of hardness in my feet. I was ashamed to admit that I can't skate. They found a bicycle, I sat down, put my feet on the pedals and went. Soon sensation returned to my legs. Main principle victory over the disease - do not put it on the throne, otherwise it will conquer all your territory, it will require sacrifice and worship.

The stimulus that, step by step, moved Rivil away from the diagnosis of multiple sclerosis was life itself, the desire to do something good and useful. She started with a puppet theater for children with cancer, who were its actors. composed good tales, where the main characters magically defeated their ailments, and then staged them with little patients. The hospital life of children undergoing chemotherapy does not shine with joyful events and diversity. Kind fairy Rivil, with her performances, pulled the kids out of the oppressive atmosphere. She worked with everyone together and with each one separately, and the results were amazing.

"I was doing with a twelve-year-old girl who was operated on twice,” my interlocutor says. She was diagnosed with a stem tumor in spinal cord. Abroad, such neoplasms are considered fatal, inoperable. The tumor grows until it eventually crushes the person. When I started working with my patient, she already had metastases to nearby organs. We worked in the bathroom, decorating it with decorations, placing candles. And with eyes closed visualized swelling points and fabulous snowplows picking up and hauling them away. Then they turned on the shower, and the girl imagined how the fresh May rain washed away all the remnants of the disease from her. When she said that she could smell the flowers in the garden, the water was turned off. After three months of training, control MRI scans showed that the tumor had almost resolved. The doctors were shocked. Then this family emigrated to Canada. We haven't seen each other for five years. Recently they called - my patient is perfectly fine.

lust for life

Rivil argues that often people themselves do not want to recover. Ninety percent of seriously ill people like to live in the midst of self-pity. “Psychologically, it was very difficult for me to give up sticks,” Rivil recalls. - When you are not like everyone else, you use the bonus of sympathy: you do not stand in lines, they agree with you, they let you through everywhere. I had a man who, after several classes, refused to continue. He stated: “I don’t know how I will live if I get better.” The first rule of recovery is to despise your diagnosis. They tell you: you have something, but you don’t believe. If a person feels unwell and goes to the doctor, he involuntarily becomes subordinate. Including in relation to their illness. And it is also very important to act, to strive for something, to have a goal in life. AT Western Ukraine There is a man who cures cancer with fear. Hopeless patients are brought to him. He sends relatives, and he puts the patient on the back of a motorcycle and takes him to the forest for a ride.

At first they ride calmly, but at some point the motorcycle picks up a breakneck speed and rushes into the abyss. The passenger understands that they are about to break, clings to the driver (after the stranglehold of patients, his ribs broke more than once). A second before death, a person forgets about everything, and all his attention switches to his own life, he realizes its value. Then it turns out that there is no cliff ahead, but the vision of the world changes in these few seconds. After all, the patient has no goal, he wants nothing and dies of fatigue and emptiness. But at the moment of real contact with death, the thirst for life returns to him. This method helps almost everyone.

Last time Rivil took tests ten years ago - since then she has not been going to hospitals. She is not interested. She looks great and says that her life after the illness has become much more interesting and happier. Still would! Recently she met true love- her current husband Igor. Daughter Rivil, secretly from her mother, posted her profile on a dating site. At first, the list of applicants for acquaintance was estimated at 900, gradually the number of candidates was reduced to three. In the photo, Igor Rivil seemed too young, but very positive. She decided to get to know him in order to redirect her daughter. But, having met, they no longer parted. Igor opened Rivil the world of Ayurveda. She switched to a vegetarian diet, refused tea and coffee, and was imbued with Eastern philosophy after a trip to India. Igor and Rivil are like-minded people. Together they work on the Fairy Tale House project for children with cancer, work together in children's theater, enjoy life together and, with the help of each other, open up new facets of it.

“As a rule, when people get sick, they torment themselves with the question: why? Rivil says. - But few people ask: why? I answered it for myself: if I had not been ill, there would not have been a revolution in my thoughts, and I would not have been able to help many people. Before her illness, she lived in a garage, and then ended up in a palace. I realized that the human body has great power you just need to discover it in yourself.

After the fourth birth, Rivil Kofman fell ill with multiple sclerosis. She could not walk, her eyesight and hearing began to decline. The doctors gave Rivil a disability. The husband left. In order not to go crazy, she began to sew dolls and invent fairy tales.

Today she looks lively and bright: a petite woman with baby bangs and quick brown eyes easily climbs stairs. It is impossible to believe that she has a disability of the first group.

In addition, life, - confirms Rivil. - Well this disease is not treated! Recently I came to the doctor, who saw me motionless, and asked to remove the disability. He crossed himself: "There are miracles!"

It all started seven years ago, when a teacher, long years suffering from multiple sclerosis and bedridden for more than a year, she saw a TV report about children with leukemia. And their eyes... So a goal appeared in the life of a hopelessly ill person.

"They must be made to smile!" Rivil said to her daughter Yulia. "And I know how I will do it!"

And as if in a hint, the Discovery Channel showed me a story about a little American who cured himself of cancer: he shot his tumor with an imaginary gun. And the remaining pieces, from which new tumors could grow, were sprinkled with magic powder and dissolved. I decided to go the same way and imagined that I launched a rescue team into my body, who eliminate the accident on the transmission line - restore every nerve. I spent hours negotiating with my body so that it would obey me again.

Rivil sewed her first dolls - the resilient Abram and Sarah - while still lying in bed. First, she learned to hold a needle, then to walk, and finally decided to test the power of the dolls' charm on the audience.

I gathered a company: three wheelchair users and two on crutches - and took me to congratulate my unfortunate friend Sasha, who also suffers from multiple sclerosis, on his birthday. He lived on the ninth floor, and we planned to take the elevator up to him. But, to our dismay, the elevator did not work. What to do? Give up? Go back? But after all, Sasha was waiting, preparing! And then it dawned on me: I need to call the fire department! I called the fire department, told our story, and... they sent us three cars! Imagine the picture: on the ninth floor there is a knock on the window. Sasha's mother, having already managed to upset the birthday boy, automatically pulled back the curtain, and outside the window the guests were in all their glory - with flowers and a huge cake!

There are many ways to help the body recover, - Rivil is convinced. - I have seen more than once how the same disease can both kill and transform a person. An illness is a sign that you need to change something in yourself, rethink your values. I walked for a long time, leaning on crutches. And suddenly I heard a whisper behind my back: Beautiful woman, but a disabled person!" And so I wanted to really become beautiful that I decided: I’ll die, but I’ll throw away my crutches! First I held on to the wall, then leaned on a stick and finally went. And now I ride a bike and do aerobics.

Rivil did not come to the Children's Cancer Center in Kyiv alone - she brought two circus performers with her: a clown and a trainer. The whole department gathered to look at the artists. One girl got so angry at Abram, who offended Sarah, that she even threw a slipper at him.

A sick person needs a fighting spirit, - says Rivil. - You don’t need to feel sorry for him, it relaxes, on the contrary, you need to push him to fight the disease! My dolls tell children about that American boy who beat cancer and teach them how to fight the disease. We close our eyes, launch cartoon rescuers armed with hoses into the body, and irrigate blood vessels with red blood cells. Children love to play this game.

She gets called often strangers and invite with dolls to a sick child, and for each she comes up with an individual "healing fairy tale". One of the grateful mothers, having learned that the storyteller dreams of creating a children's puppet theater, brought her under the roof of the Brigantina club, where ten little artists who managed to defeat leukemia are now rehearsing performances. The theater came to the 20-year-old Zhenya, a patient with lymphogranulomatosis, for his birthday.

I was very bad in those days, - says a nice guy. - Friends have forgotten, the beloved girl is gone, such melancholy, such apathy! And suddenly Rivil with his dolls. When she invited me to play in the theater, I seemed to come to life. But first, Rivil said, we'll exercise our imagination. I closed my eyes and began to imagine how soldiers were running through my body and fighting diseased cells. He built a whole factory in the spinal cord to produce healthy cells and transported them by train throughout the body. To be honest, at first I thought it was nonsense. But after a week I was so carried away by the game that I began to feel better. And three months later he passed the tests and could not believe his eyes: things were on the mend.

Doctors are skeptical about my method, - Rivil sighs, - although they cannot argue with positive statistics.

We are going near Kyiv, to Petrovsk, to see Lena Sukhorebra, who has been suffering from multiple sclerosis since 1991. We are warmly welcomed by the girl's mother Evgenia Arkadyevna.

We were desperate, she says. - They didn’t try anything: different medicines, and healers. And then I saw Rivil on TV and found her phone number. She came to our house on December 26 and went to Petrovsk every day until spring. She gave Lenochka a massage, told fairy tales.

After a while, the daughter began to rise from the bed, and then she was able to get up and sit on a chair herself. Now she's walking!

In April 2007, Rivil Kofman received the "Pride of Ukraine" award. "Now for complete happiness only to get married!” she joked.

And the next day, an imposing man with flowers came to Dragomirova Street, 11, where a rehearsal of the puppet theater was going on.

Probably, I will seem to you an eccentric, - he said, - but I fell in love with you on TV!

They recently got married. In his free time from business, Igor himself takes her to the sick.

Korets Marina ("Labor" dated March 13, 2008)