Selection of a new partner or partner - what should be considered. The partner is very dependent on the partner

Example #1.

One good, talented girl had great opportunities in order to successfully dance (I mean, financial). Moreover, she was very talented. And very efficient. It would seem that such a girl is very easy to find a partner. And so, in order to be sure, so that they would agree to dance with her, her parents from the very beginning, when there was an agreement with the parents of a potential partner, said that they take on the financial side of dancing children. What more could a boy want! Talented, hard-working partner, who also pays for everything!

Not everything turned out to be so simple. Each of the partners (more precisely, the parents of the partners) had their own view on this.

They paid for the boy everywhere: at lessons, tournaments, in restaurants, they bought suits and shoes. After a while, he and his parents decided that he was too talented for her (after all, that's why they pay so much for him that they are afraid of losing him, so unique!), And they left for another club, for another partner, less talented, less wealthy , but, apparently, respecting their independence. And the girl was left with nothing.

After some time, they found another partner for her (who would not agree to such conditions?), Even higher in class than the previous one, since she had already managed to grow up in terms of dance. And what do you think? History repeated itself exactly. She has now found a third partner. Under exactly the same conditions.

And now the conclusion: what actually happened?

This situation is called "Bought Partner". In this case, the partner is threatened with star disease. He will feel flawed due to the lack of money and, in this regard, he will begin to build himself out of a tough one, in order to somehow compensate for the situation that is sick for his pride, which he will eventually get used to (with his far-fetched image) , and cease to evaluate themselves adequately.

For a girl, this situation means something else: she will simply be left, as a result, with nothing, despite all her virtues.

Example #2.

Another good girl danced with an equally good boy. And although he was from a large family, they had enough money to dance his younger brothers. In addition, his parents helped the club financially.

And so, the partner’s parents said that their son would only go to those tournaments that his brothers (“N” class) would also go to, thereby making the girl dependent. In fact, they could go out much more often, since this couple had both the level and the opportunities. With this situation, the girl's father turned to me. The situation was successfully resolved, the girl paired up with another partner, junior in level, but diligent, and soon they continued their dancing career very successfully.

Conclusion: money not only solves problems, but also creates them.

Therefore, looking for new partner or a partner, try to financial terms be independent of him (her), solve their financial problems on their own.

In addition, it should be borne in mind that the difference in level affects the atmosphere in a couple in the same way as the difference in financial wealth.

Hello. Can you please tell me how to write radio partner or radio partner?

Compound words with first part radio- are written together: radio partner.

Question #281556
Hello. Regarding answer 281533: please provide a rule so that I can justify the dash and which I can refer to in similar cases. Thank you.

Answer help desk Russian language

Applications are appended with a hyphen, for example: partner countries. But if in combination with the application one of the parts contains a space (that is, it is a phrase), a dash is used instead of a hyphen: EU Member States.

Question #251708
Dear employees of the Russian language service! Thank you for your invaluable work.
I address you rarely, but aptly :) Do not scold me if I state it poorly.
How do you think the word "code-sharing" will be used in indirect cases?
Code-sharing (English code sharing) - an agreement on the joint service of an airline. It is formed by analogy with the word "weekend" (lit. "end of the week"): this is the designation of a flight with a joint double code of the operator and the partner airline.
If the word "week" does not exist in Russian, and therefore this word does not change (we do not say "weekend"), then the word "code" in Russian is present, and therefore can appear in a sentence in various case forms. Formally, the main word is "code" male, respectively, both words will be inclined: code-sharing, code-sharing, code-sharing ... There is no analogy with "barcode" here, since in this complex word the main word is "code" and it comes after the application "bar" .
But if you follow a different logic, namely that the expression "code-sharing" is a "tracing paper" from of English language and the first part is invariable, then it should be used as follows: code-share agreement, code-share flight, etc. - as, in fact, it is currently used. The adjective "code-share" is also formed from it.
I want to figure out whether the word "code" should change in this case.

The answer of the reference service of the Russian language

first part compound word(code) no need to decline. Correctly: codeshare, codeshare. Wed: Web, Web, but web mastering, web mastering.

Good day!!!
I have the following question. Words such as partner store, pencil case are written with a hyphen, everything is simple here. And how to write in the case of a client- individual or a resident individual? Those. where to the name of a noun. an adjective is added. I believe it is exactly as I wrote.
Thanks in advance!!!

The answer of the reference service of the Russian language

In this case, the hyphen is replaced by a dash with spaces: the client is an individual, an individual is a resident.

Question #217545
Hello, please tell me how the expression is written: directors of partner companies, with a davis or separately?

The answer of the reference service of the Russian language

Correct with a hyphen.
Question #213294
Please tell me, is everything correct "our employees are trained at the factories of foreign partner companies"?

The answer of the reference service of the Russian language

The offer is correct.
Question #212791
Good day! I have a few questions for you! 1. Is the preposition "from" used correctly: The area of ​​the Ural Federal District is 10.5% of the territory of Russia 2. Is the word "airport" correctly used: The beginning of a large-scale reconstruction of the airport complex 3. Is it correct to write: geographical advantage 4. Is there a hyphen or a dash? Airlines-partners of OJSC "Airport "Koltsovo" 5. Is there a hyphen or a dash here? Airlines - participants in the negotiation process 6. Is the phrase "negotiation process on cooperation" correct thank you very much!

The answer of the reference service of the Russian language

1. Correct spelling both with and without the preposition _ot_. 2. The offer is correct. 3. Out of context, the combination is correct. 3. You should write a hyphen. Also note that the names of airports are written without quotation marks: _JSC "Koltsovo Airport"_. 5. Correct dash. 6. The combination is incorrect. That's right: _negotiations about cooperation_.
Question #209166
Hello! Tell me: are quotation marks necessary or not for the word Golden in the text ("Golden Partner"), which is printed on a memorable souvenir in honor of the company's 10th anniversary to be presented to the most honored partner clients. With gratitude, Elena Faikina.

The answer of the reference service of the Russian language

Quotes are not required.

The partner is very dependent on the partner:

  1. He is the head of music and determines when to dance what. And then the partner can be very worried if what the partner does with the music does not coincide with her knowledge of her part regarding the music.
  2. The partner leads the partner, determining by the movement of his body when, where and how the partner will go. And here again, the female partner can be very worried if his lead, angle, direction, speed, degree of turn, rhythm that the partner sets do not coincide with what she knows about her part.
  3. The partner determines the pressure and tension in the pair, with which he can accelerate the movement or reach risky, tricky points. And here for the partner there is also a lot of anxiety if the partner does not care about whether his partner looks worthy in this or that element, in this or that position in which he put her. Here he is responsible for her balance, balance, which, if she does not find them, can greatly interfere with her efforts to make this or that element technically, competently, beautifully.
In connection with all this, the partner may suffer greatly, that she knows and knows a lot about dancing, but she does not have the opportunity to do this, because the partner here does not care about her. And she is afraid to look "a cow on ice", "thanks to" his conduct.

At the same time, in connection with this, the partner has a lot of responsibility for the dance of the partner. He is the bearer of the initiative. And therefore, there is always very fertile ground for conflicts here, if the partner does not realize the magnitude of his responsibility or if the partner does not respect that hard work, great amount tasks that the partner must cope with.

In fact, the partner has two tasks: to be technically well prepared, athletic, and to take care of his partner's dance. And both of these tasks are equivalent in weight, significance and volume. training work, while the partner should be just well technically prepared and athletic.

Conflicts in this area arise most often at the initiative of the partner, because the partner often does not realize the volume of work of the partner, since from the position of her role it is quite obvious what the partner must do in order for this or that figure to succeed, where and how he needs to lead it .

A gross mistake here would be to try to tell the partner what exactly he should do. This technique is not productive, since the partner acquires the ability to lead a partner only if she allows him to lead, without doing all the work for him, sensitively reacting to the slightest changes in his movement. Here, too, there is a risk for conflict if the partner does it defiantly: look how clumsy you are, what position you put me in.

Leading is a difficult coordination and quickly tiring job.

With all this information, it seems possible to identify strategic points that can help build competent management paired with minimal emotional costs and losses.

Assignment for a partner.

Remember about the partner, about her balance and desire to look beautiful. Respect this desire and support her. Consider her impatience and be able to endure it. To realize that by her demand to do something according to her desire, she does not demand submission, not humiliation, but attention to her difficulties. Realize that her body does not work the same as his and she does not obey mental orders, but is only able to respond to what he does. And she is able to do it exactly as she really knows how.

Task for a partner.

Remember that the partner solves two problems at the same time - his movement, and her movement, trying to coordinate them. Take into account the partner's ability to get tired of this work. Consider it own wish to look nice. Consider his impatience and be able to endure it. Consider that he has his own own speed understanding and awareness of the process of interaction in a pair and the knowledge of the partner about herself and her feelings in the dance are not transmitted to him telepathically. He is able to do only what he can at this stage.

If your partner or partner does something differently than you want, this does not mean at all that:

  • he (a) does it to spite you, defiantly, to emphasize your shortcomings.
  • he (a) does not understand or does not want to understand.
  • you know better how to do it (this is the prerogative of the coach)
  • you have the right to dictate to him (her) what he (a) should do
  • your irritation will correct his (her) shortcomings
  • you have only one choice - to suffer from it.
If following these recommendations seems difficult for you in relation to your partner, if you cannot bear his features to study, train, interact with you - look for another. But in another pair you will have to learn this. Long-existing couples are good because there is time to study each other and adapt. Ideal option no at all, in every new couple you have to learn how to interact, due to the uniqueness and individuality of each person. Nobody says it's easy - it's just another training challenge. Team sports differ from individual sports in that, in addition to sports and technical tasks, there is also this one - to train to do something in a team, in concert. If you are not a team person by nature, go in for an individual sport.

There are two partnerships opposite points vision. Someone cannot imagine life without a companion, but such a person only interferes with someone. Who is this partner? Who can be given this definition? What are partnerships?

Is it good or bad to be partners?

The term "partner" comes from the French partenaire - participant. A partner is a person who shares your interests, and his goals coincide with your aspirations and goals.

You look with him in the same direction, your views on the common cause coincide. The partner listens to the advice of a partner and tries to change in the name of good goals. A partner is, first of all, a companion, an accomplice, an associate. Why do some individuals do not need this form of relationship? Maybe because at one time such people had a sad experience of partnerships, which ultimately led to negative consequences?

What kind of people should be chosen as partners?

The first person who comes across cannot become a partner. Although in family relationships this often happens. marriage partner for long years becomes close person who can be found anywhere and anytime. Such a partnership is built solely on feelings. Business partnerships are not formed in a vacuum.

AT business world partner is a person or the whole company. The actions of companions are aimed at achieving common purpose and to make a profit. Only after a comprehensive check do they become partners, motivated for the success of the joint business. Partners in business should help each other and solve problems by looking for new ideas and opportunities. Business partner can offer something complementary to what you already have. Again, with one main goal- for the purpose of obtaining material benefits.

What other partners are

In addition to the aforementioned marriage and business partners, a number of other positions can be distinguished. The partner is a separate unit in common cause, participation in which leads to equal success of all parties. Many sports are impossible without companionship. For example, pair figure skating, relay races, football, hockey.

People are also considered partners. creative professions- artists of the circus, theater, cinema, as well as dancers. This concept is used in relation to cities and even countries. The meaning of the word partner, of course, has a very broad sense. Partnership in any business, no doubt, helps, not harms. It makes you stronger and more successful. A partner is a direct opposition to an opponent whose main goal is to achieve personal victory and gain superiority over other participants in an event.

I think many asked this question when starting to dance pair dances. I’ll make a reservation right away that this article will be intended primarily for dancers of social dances - bachata, salsa, zouk, tango, hustle and others. Although lovers of other dance styles, of course, will be able to learn a lot of important and interesting things here.

Before looking for a partner (or partner) for dancing, you need to identify your requirements. You, of course, understand that the more requirements, the less people can pass through this "sieve".

The trend in the “partner market” is that there are much fewer dancing men than girls. Even if a girl has no end to fans, it is far from certain that she can easily find a partner for dancing. Most likely, you will have to fight.

There are two types of search - active and passive. Active search- it's up to you to search for ads according to suitable criteria. Passive - you make an ad and wait for someone to respond to it. As you may have guessed, it is better to use both.

So how do you write a good ad for a dance partner?

Here are some tips for you:

    Analysis of competitors. Of course, it's best to look at other ads in your category before writing an ad and make a note of what you like and what you don't.

    Creativity. Creativity to the point will allow you to stand out and attract additional attention.

    Photos. I think everything is clear here - it's always nice to look at high-quality photos. And it's even better to dance with a beautiful person.

    Partner requirements. They should not be too many and they should not be too high. Put yourself in the place of a potential partner and ask if you would write to the owner of this ad (or profile).

Advertisements can be placed on the following sites:

And now let's talk about where you can find "that one" partner if you search in the "active" mode. Here are some ideas for you:

    Friends. Ask your friends of the opposite sex if they are interested in dancing. They may be willing to keep you company.

    Dance parties. If you dance a little, then after dancing with a good man(!) you can ask if he is looking for a partner (shu) for dancing.

    Colleagues (classmates, classmates). If you have a good relationship at work (at school, at the institute, etc.), why not try? Perhaps this is where you will find the partner of your dreams.

    Dance schools. If you are engaged in a dance school and have not yet found a partner in your group, then you can change the group, or change the dance school.

    Experience of other people. Ask for advice from your dance teacher, your dancing acquaintances. What do they think of it?