Buying an apartment is a crucial step in the life of every person. After all, even a small living space will cost a decent amount of money. It's good if the buyer already knows what he wants to see a new apartment. However, this is rare, and the decision is often made spontaneously. How to buy a dream apartment?
Realtors have provided a few tips for our site that will help the buyer not only make the right choice, but also make a list of requirements for the place of their dreams. So, what are the main points you need to pay attention to when buying an apartment?
First step. Where to start choosing?
In order not to be disappointed in the purchase, you need to determine in advance the purpose of the acquisition and the amount of money that you are willing to invest in real estate. From the answer to this question will depend on which area you need to look for an apartment, its size and floor, the class of the house. The greatest difficulty arises when choosing a region. A person tries to find an apartment in a place where he is well oriented, if the purchase is not tied to the work or study of the client. If he nevertheless decides to settle in an unfamiliar area, then the main criterion for choosing will be the infrastructure of the place.
Second step. Old or new?
Unfortunately, this question leads many buyers to a standstill. What to choose - a new building in which no one lived, and the price for it is cheaper, or secondary housing, but with which unforeseen problems may arise? The choice depends on the financial capabilities of the buyer. If there is a shortage of money, but there is time to wait, then the best option- This is a new building. Get a house of modern construction with new communications and a contingent of neighbors about your social status. However, there are some nuances - you will have to additionally invest in repairs.
Third step. Inspection of the acquired property.
It is better to inspect the apartments during the day. You should take your camera with you. Taking pictures, it is possible to evaluate the apartments the next day or show them to loved ones. When inspecting the property, pay attention to its layout: if there are two rooms, then it is better to be isolated; the room itself should be well lit; the presence of a dressing room, a hall. Looking around the apartment, you should collect information about the neighbors with whom you have to live.
The choice of a profession is the choice of a successful life path
profession choice success
The idea that the right choice of profession is the key to a successful life path is quite obvious. To illustrate it most clearly, I propose to use the method by contradiction (there is such a method in mathematics).
Suppose a person has chosen a profession that does not suit him. What then?
It would seem that it's okay - you can take it and change it. But in fact, this is not entirely true. Most professions require serious training: you need to study for several years, then work under someone's guidance for at least two or three years to become a real specialist. And when you are 25 years old or even older, you have a family and children, your parents no longer help, and you suddenly decide to change your profession, then what? It is necessary to break the existing way of life, to find money on which you will live, studying, but not working at the same time. You may need to move to live in another city where the university you are interested in is located. This is all very, very difficult. Therefore, it turns out - measure seven times, and cut once.
If changing a profession is difficult, then maybe you can get used to it? This is actually what often happens. However, it is almost impossible to expect that the life of such a person will turn out successfully, and here's why.
Suppose a person has chosen a profession for which he has no talent. For example, an accountant who constantly makes mistakes, or a hairdresser who cuts badly. Such a specialist will constantly be condemned or punished. The business will suffer, and the person himself will be extremely uncomfortable to live. Therefore, in order to achieve maximum success, you need to choose a profession with which a person can not only cope, but for which he has a talent!
It happens that the ability is there, but the desire is not. Taking will into a fist, of course, you can force yourself to do almost anything, but can we achieve an excellent result? Hardly. When a person does something that he does not like, he gets stressed, a desire not to do it at all. And instead quick results, worthy of the admiration of others and the joy of the work done, it turns out something in between, which took longer than usual and did not bring much satisfaction. That is, when choosing a profession, you need to strive to ensure that the future work is to your liking.
But here, it would seem, a person has chosen a profession - one that he likes and at the same time does well. is that enough? Not always. Importance has the income that the work brings and how it relates to the needs of the person. Here, as they say, comments are unnecessary.
Let's get back to the topic of the essay. We have proven that incorrect choice profession (that is, not meeting the capabilities and desires of a person, not corresponding to his level of material claims) entails such consequences that you cannot call success in your life path.
What is a successful life path? Perhaps, how many people, so many answers to this question. It seems to me that this is a life lived happily, if at the same time a person brought maximum benefit, which he could bring to himself and society, and did no harm to others.
If we agree with this definition, then it will help us to determine the components of a successful life. Maslow's pyramid. According to this scientist, human needs are divided into basic: in food, housing, security, and social: in recognition, love, self-expression.
A person can buy food, an apartment, clothes or receive it from someone free of charge. The second option is rare: an inheritance, a rich husband (or wife), winning the lottery, etc. If money is not important for a person or he can get everything he needs without earning himself, then the choice of a profession for this aspect of success in life of great importance does not have. However, I repeat, in the realities of our life, it is practically impossible to count on such a course of events. Conclusion - it is important to choose a profession that will be in demand (it is desirable that at the same time the demand for specialists exceeds supply) and will bring a stable income.
Work that is done with love, with the ability to do it with high quality, will certainly bring recognition and respect from colleagues, customers, students and the whole society. Work is, of course, not the only way to gain recognition. An alternative can be - successful parenting, beautiful appearance, cleanliness and order in the house, but little else. But given the work we dedicate most life (168 hours a week, about 60 of which we sleep, 50 hours work (with the road and lunch), everything else is 58 hours), then it becomes clear how important it is to receive recognition for what you do, namely at work .
Self-expression, realization creativity- this is the highest level human development. Without self-realization, without disclosure creativity human life is more like a mechanical one, it is poor and uninteresting. Again, you can find a way to implement this outside of work, for example, as a hobby, take pictures, draw, play sports. This is all wonderful and very necessary, but if an element of creativity and self-expression is present in labor activity person, then such a person is doubly happy.
Returning to our definition, we need to remember the benefits. A successful, happy life path is not only pleasure, but also the contribution that a person has made to the life of his relatives, friends, society, country, and maybe the whole world. If a person baked delicious buns, made correct diagnoses, wrote good poetry- it means that he brought benefit to society, and his life was successful. If people in our country perform work with great productivity, high quality, and maximize the potential inherent in each, then the country will prosper, providing safe and comfortable conditions living in it. Otherwise, it will be very difficult for us to compete with other countries, and we will be forced to be content with a minimum of benefits, or even completely obey the rules of others. This, I think, should not be forgotten either.
Life ordinary person: home - work, work - home. If we appreciate the importance successful work in the success of the life path, I would define its significance as 40-80% (40% for women, 70% for men, 80% for businessmen), taking into account the social component and the time devoted to it. Accordingly, if you are 50% unsuccessful (you chose the wrong profession and did not achieve anything in it, you bring evil to people by doing poor quality work, plus some failures in other areas), then it will no longer be possible to call such a life path successful.
In a Russian person, both Lefty and Emelya are mysteriously combined, and therefore, if the work is to their liking, it argues every now and then, and if the person is not interested in the work, then there will be no result.
I hope I convinced you that the right choice of profession is the key to a happy, harmonious, meaningful life!
Human life is a series of numerous choices. Serious, on which the future depends (for example, the choice of a life partner), and everyday, household (what to cook for dinner - a casserole or vegetable stew).
A profession is a kind of labor activity that requires certain training and is usually a source of livelihood.
Choosing a profession can be attributed, perhaps, to the most difficult. After all, this is also the choice of what place the profession will take in a person’s life, what he can get from his future work how the features of the specialty will correlate with others life values and plans, whether the profession will interfere with them.
Choosing a profession, on the one hand, is a look into the future (at least not far off): what do I want to do, what difficulties can I encounter on the way to the profession? And on the other hand, a look inside yourself: how ready am I to overcome obstacles to achieve the goal? To accept the right decision It is important to take into account the main factors influencing the choice of profession.
So, since childhood, a girl dreamed of entering law academy and work as an investigator. The wish came true. Education at the Institute - sheer pleasure interesting objects, the anticipation of exciting and extraordinary work, and the police uniform suits her. Closer to the end of the academy, the girl began to have thoughts about creating a family, having children. I must say that she also could not imagine her life without a prosperous and harmonious family. However, the profession of an investigator involves an irregular and intense working day, frequent night trips, urgent business trips. Naturally, there is not enough time for the family. In such a situation, a contradiction between the two life goals inevitably arose. Of course, this does not mean that all investigators, geologists, captains long-distance navigation forced to constantly “torn” between work and family. However, when choosing a profession, a person must first imagine its specifics and possible difficulties. Then he will be able to find a compromise, and as a result, "the sheep will be safe and the wolves will be fed."
When a young person chooses a profession, he is interested in making his profession popular with employers not only today, but also in 10-20 years. This is called the stability of demand for a profession. Along with the “eternal” professions - a builder, a doctor, a teacher, etc., the transport, chemical industry, high tech, communications, communications, new professions at the intersection of traditional ones, economic management, social sphere.
A person is more successful in the activities that he likes. Therefore, when choosing a profession, you need to pay attention to what is interesting to do, what gives pleasure. For example, if a person likes to organize other people, to be a leader, most likely, professions that involve the ability to work with a team (manager, teacher, coach) are suitable for him.
What influences the choice of profession.
What factors determine a person's choice of a particular profession? In practice, it turns out that inclinations are taken into account last, but the opinion of parents has a huge impact. 8 factors of choosing a profession /According to E.A. Klimov/:
1. Position of senior family members
There are seniors who are directly responsible for how your life develops. This concern extends to the question of your future profession.
2. The position of comrades, girlfriends
Friendships at your age are already very strong and can greatly influence the choice of profession. You can only give general advice: the right decision will be that suits your interests and coincides with the interests of the society in which you live.
3. The position of teachers, school teachers
Observing the behavior, educational and extracurricular activities of students, experienced teacher knows a lot about you that is hidden from unprofessional eyes and even from you.
4. Personal professional plans
Under the plan this case your ideas about the stages of mastering the profession are implied.
5. Ability
The originality of one's abilities should be judged not only by academic success, but also by achievements in a wide variety of activities.
6. Level of claims for public recognition
When planning your career path, it is very important to take care of the realism of your claims.
7. Awareness
It is important to take care that the information you acquire about a particular
professions were not distorted, incomplete, one-sided.
8. Tendencies
Inclinations are manifested in favorite activities, on which most of the free time is spent. These are interests backed by certain abilities.
Mistakes in choosing a profession
1. Choosing a profession “for the company”
Often a person does not own necessary information not confident enough, not ready to take responsibility for their choices. In such a situation, the choice of profession “for the company” is carried out. No matter how difficult and exciting it may be, you still have to make a decision. And in such a situation, you want to be close to someone who is confident in himself, who has already made a decision and is convinced of its correctness. However, there is a danger that the profession chosen for the sake of the company does not meet the interests and abilities of a person, and after a year and a half of study at a school, college or university, disappointment, discontent, and a desire to “start all over again” arise. It is possible that the profession chosen in this way will not suit you. However, it should be remembered that a profession that your friend likes may not like or suit you.
2. Choosing a profession according to the external idea of it.
Some professions seem very attractive from the outside. But very often a person does not understand what a gigantic preparatory work needs to be done in order to achieve the desired success.
When choosing a profession, one should not pay attention to its external, attractive side, one must learn as much as possible about the content of labor.
3. Transfer of attitude towards a person to the profession itself.
It happens that you begin to like a profession because it is possessed by a person who is attractive to you. And having already entered such a specialty, the young man little by little discovers for himself that his interest has been mistaken for an interest in the profession.
4. Identification subject with a profession.
Even if you really like some school subject, it does not follow from this that you will like the work associated with it. It's one thing to emotionally discuss actions in class literary heroes, and quite another thing is to earn a living by reading a hundred pages of text of books being prepared for publication every day, correcting all spelling errors in them and editing unsuccessful phrases.
The main thing to remember is that a school subject is not yet a profession. Interest in it does not mean that you will like the work associated with it.
5. Choice solely on the basis of prestige.
For example, some young people choose economic Education based on this feature. And they do not take into account the fact that activities in such an area, as a rule, require specific qualities of character - for example, extreme punctuality and resistance to monotonous, monotonous activities, resistance to stress. Working as an accountant in a bank does not mean turning over millions. Not sure it's going to happen good worker from someone who went to study economics not because he feels interested in just such an activity, but because it is “cool”. It also happens the other way around: a person feels a vocation in himself for some kind of activity and wants to do it, but refuses his intention, because, according to his environment, this is not prestigious.
There is a fashion in the profession, like in most other life phenomena. But it is not always exactly what is fashionable that turns out to be the best or suitable for a person personally. Choosing a profession, guided by fashion, is not entirely logical. After all, by the time you graduate and start working, fashion will most likely change.
6. Choice in spite of, in spite of something or someone.
“My parents and friends say that a bear stepped on my ear - well, they’ll see me on the stage, we’ll see what they say then.” Cases where the choice of occupation in spite of any barriers and restrictions leads to life success, very little. If someone has irremediable speech defects, then his attempt to “defy” circumstances by becoming a TV presenter is unlikely to lead to anything other than making him a laughingstock. Although in other areas of activity that do not impose such stringent requirements on oral speech, this person could succeed.
Choosing a profession is a matter that significantly affects the fate of a person, and it is not very smart to do it “in spite” of someone or something. 7. Insufficient consideration of one's abilities.
7. Insufficient consideration of one's abilities.
With a great desire, having spent a lot of time and effort, you can become a specialist even in what you have absolutely no abilities for. That's just very mediocre. And if these efforts are applied to what corresponds to abilities, results achieved turned out to be much better.
8. Orientation to the opinion of random people.
Often, when choosing a profession, adolescents are guided by the opinion of people who have a very vague idea of the profession they are pushing them to choose. Sometimes people around are very fond of giving advice on who and who to be, even if their own ideas about the world of professions are limited only to everyday, stereotypical judgments. In principle, to give sound advice on whether any profession is suitable for a person can only be given by someone who knows both the profession and the person very well.
Wise people say: "Be careful what you wish for." This folk wisdom can be expanded to “be afraid of your goals”, since your choice of life goals largely depends on your future success. There's nothing worse than spending years climbing a ladder set against the wrong building of success. You can repeat someone else's success, but if you set false goals for yourself, then this external success will not bring joy. Choosing the right life goals largely determines your future.
Goals are divided into:
- short-term;
— Medium-term;
— Long-term.
Human life goals are among the long-term and most priorities, which are largely related to what is really important for this particular person. If any of the life goals is imposed, then a person may not have enough enusiasm to bring it to life. And if it is still possible to achieve it, then the result will not bring any joy.
HUMAN LIFE GOALS
I can bring own example. Once upon a time I entered graduate school and was enthusiastic to write and defend PhD thesis. But scientific director imposed on me a topic that was not interesting to me. As a result, the dissertation continued to choke more and more and it became more and more obvious that I clearly did not have enough fuse to defend my Ph.D. thesis. I did not drop out of graduate school simply because it was a legal way not to join the army. But defending a dissertation was clearly not included in the list of life goals. The real goal has turned into a false one.
In pursuit of a false goal, you risk wasting time and effort, which happened to me when writing a dissertation.
We are all very different, so the choice of life goals will be different for everyone. It is important for someone to travel and visit as much as possible more countries. Other people are interested in settling somewhere in one place and arranging their life here as much as possible. When choosing life goals, you need to do conscious choice regardless of the opinions of others.
You must clearly answer for yourself the question of what you want from life. Right choice a life goal is already half the success. And your brain, like the most advanced GPS navigator, will look for ways to achieve your goals. Goals can be achieved if there is a will. But the main thing is that these goals should be “yours”.
Success in life has many components. See the wheel life balance. These are health, family, career, money, self-development, friends, career and so on. In each of these areas of life, you need to put specific goals. For example, the work, it would seem, does not pretend to put any long-term goals here. life goals and yet at work we spend most of our active time and we need to set goals here. If only because if you find a job you like, you will not experience stress, but rather you will enjoy this work. And career growth will go uphill. Over time, money will follow.
Just like setting goals for your health. People who don't watch their diet, give up on their health, and don't exercise tend to give up their skates prematurely. But that's not the only negative. Bad condition health (eg. excess weight) has a significant impact on quality of life. Last summer Personally, I had such an uncomfortable problem as hemorrhoids. I think one of the reasons is being overweight. As a result, I visited the proctologist's table. I want to say that I would not even wish this worst enemy. Even a minor ailment radically breaks the quality of life and, if not crosses out interest in life goals, then at least greatly spoils the mood.
To find suitable life goals, you need to be able to listen to own feelings. Sometimes we understand that this or that goal is ours on an intuitive level. The problem of many people is that in the daily bustle they have forgotten how to listen to their own feelings and quickly run after false goals and they don’t even have time to think about what they want from life.
