Very often, people after constellations have a question - what should I do to make it work? What can and should be done, what is better to refrain from?

It is very important to understand that what is a problem for us is a solution for the system. That is our problems are a reflection of some violations in the system. If we compensate for these violations during the arrangement, then the old solution becomes unnecessary for the system. It's in theory. In practice, we are faced with the fact that after some time we return to the beaten track.

There are many reasons for this, but the most important is inertia. We are used to acting like this, feeling like that, talking like that. And the new may be rejected in a few days. Then we return to the same place where we started, but with a feeling of disappointment.

What can be done so that the effect is not lost after a few days? How can you stay in the new state and not slide back?

1. Do something after work

Constellators often talk about the triangle - Body-Mind-Soul. And it is very important to use all three elements in the work. If the body does not go where the soul needs, then nothing will happen.

Therefore very it is recommended to go to the temple after constellations, put candles in order to honor the memory of those who are no longer there. You can also light candles for the health of all those who are now close to you, order services, and pray. it spiritual level, which is able to harmonize all the lower ones - physical, emotional, intellectual.

2. Live the constellation at the level of the soul, not the mind

We can live the constellation at the level of the body and understand it at the level of the mind. But if we do not feel it with our soul, any stress can nullify the effect. This is very well known to those who consider psychotherapy from the point of view of the structure of the brain.

It's very simple - problems usually live in the right hemisphere of the brain. Having lived the constellation at the level of the mind, a solution appears in the left hemisphere of the brain. And between the problem and the solution, a connection is formed that turns out to be too long and unstable. At severe stress this connection is destroyed, and everything returns to normal again.

If we live the constellation with the soul, then the solution is formed in the right hemisphere of the brain, and then this connection between the problem and the solution is not so long. And much more stable.

Therefore so it is important to look at the arrangement and see it with your heart. Open your soul to everything that happens and accept. Accept everything in your heart as it is. With gratitude and respect.

It is important to live all those feelings that come. Accept them and live. Open your heart, no matter how hard it is.

3. Follow safety precautions after work

I usually talk about this at the end of the group, and this information is not always fully perceived on a wave of emotions. Therefore, I will outline the main points.

1. Do not talk about your work for at least 36 hours.
   This is due to the fact that together with stories and emotions, we release energy from the field. And the energy is much more needed there to complete the necessary transformations.
2. After the arrangements, it is advisable to take a bath with salt so that everything unnecessary is gone. And be sure to wash all the clothes that were on you.
3. Do not do repeated work on the same topic within 3 months. The system needs time to come into balance.
4. Warn loved ones that after the arrangement, emotions will begin to come out of you. They are very different - someone has anger, someone has pain, someone has joy. It is important that loved ones understand that this is not related to what they are doing.

4. Everything has its time- and you need to let go of your desire, not expecting its fulfillment. The system needs time to readjust. We, too, need time to change our way of life, the way we act and think.

For some, changes happen immediately. This speaks of high degree readiness for change. And also says that this request could be executed quickly. For example, you can build a relationship with your husband faster than getting married. Because in order to get married, you need to meet a person, make out, understand whether you want to be with him all your life. And you can't rush here.

Arrangements are a way live the blocked feelings. They can also help you see the situation for what it is. But it is important to realize that they do not guarantee a cure for illness, restoration of relationships, a successful marriage.

To solve the problem, you need to pray, ask God about it. Constellations are a way to understand the will of God, to see him in your situation.

And if you follow the rules, then the likelihood that the arrangement will not be in vain is very, very high. That is what I wish to all those who will ever resort to the services of a constellator!

I stopped resisting the questions "how to arrange the arrangement for myself" and began to collect constructive ideas :) Additions and new ideas are welcome :)

Arrangements for oneself (for the time being, without a group, that is, in splendid isolation in general) are difficult because the person himself cannot feel the excluded dynamics in his system. If he had felt them, he would have deciphered and lived them long ago. But he cannot feel them directly, and that is why he lives "someone else's fate."
However, there are some things you can do for yourself.
Let's start simple :)

The first idea: "Let's go to the cinema?"

So, to go or not to go to the cinema? Should I go to Professor Preobrazhensky's seminar? Stay in Verkhnyaya Pyshma at the Sheraton or Hilton hotel?

Today at 19-00 in the cinema. The Moscow City Council is filming "The Elusive Avengers". Do I need to go there?

In a room where (preferably) there is no furniture and enough free space, we mark the place "I'm in the cinema named after the Moscow City Council on Elusive Avengers today." You can mark it, for example, with a sheet of drawing paper. Just put the paper on the floor. Better not an A4 sheet, because in the cinema you are surrounded by space, and in the arrangement it is better to be surrounded by space too. Smaller furniture is better so as not to catch extra speakers in chairs and tables, both from the cinema and your own.

We stand at a distance from the drawing paper, look at it and slowly walk. We monitor our condition. Sometimes already at this stage one feels, for example, "an insurmountable barrier". You can put it on a chair or stretch it with a rope.

Sometimes it suddenly becomes clear that "there will be no kina", i.e. there is simply no object of our movement. If this event is really announced in the poster and it is today (and not in six months), then this is very strange. Two options - either it really won’t happen (you looked at the wrong poster), or you got into some kind of dynamics with this movie and are simply not able to stage and see “just a movie”. For example, in the cinema Moscow City Council 20 years ago, Mitya said that this is your last date. You have long forgotten this, but the body remembers .... Or it was said by the groom to your grandmother.

Just in case, you can put "where this actually leads me" (also a chair) and see if this figure is visible. If the figure evokes strong sensations and another barrier rises, we have arrived. Keane will not. You for a professional placement.

The difficulty with this arrangement is that the "movie" target is quite difficult to place. For example, if the building of the cinema them. The Moscow City Council is being attacked by raiders from Truba LLC, then the owners of the building and these raiders radiate such trash into the space that it can score anything. If the film is "cult" and a million people have already watched it, then it already has an "egregore" and it can make noise so that you won't find yourself there. All the girls are already in love with Lanovoy, and on the spot "in the cinema" you feel the energy of girls touched by the head, and not yourself in this cinema today.
A professional arranger could clean up the trash and put the configuration cleaner, but we don’t want to do it ... :)

And yet: "I'm in the cinema named after the Moscow Council on the Elusive Avengers today."
We stand on whatman, we feel. Well, how are you today? :-))

You can complicate the task and divide the object into (for example): "what kind of film", "what kind of people", "how are they fed", etc.
It is possible that the film is garbage, then there you will meet Petya ... Or a classmate Masha and she will say that ...

Important addition: If a we are talking about whether to go to the cinema with Vasya from a parallel class, the arrangement should be completely different! About this next edition of our radio show.

About the hotel, I put, for example, "silence". If there is no silence, then I do not need "comfort", "location in the center" and so on.
About seminars, you can separately put "personal benefit", "usefulness in learning", "people", "status / for a piece of paper", etc.

The psychological method of the German doctor Bert Hellinger has earned the recognition of specialists different directions Keywords: pedagogy, psychotherapy, sociology, marketing. The uniqueness lies in the simplicity of the method, the ability to find the root of problems in various fields human life, as well as to determine ways to solve the identified negative states and situations. Hellinger constellations have been used successfully for several decades. However this method has not only admirers, but also opponents who believe that the system harms program participants.

What are system arrangements

The teaching is an effective practice that was introduced in 1925 German philosopher and psychotherapist Bert Hellinger. System constellations are the ability to feel, “scan” the energy and information field of a problem situation. Hellinger's method is based on innate ability feel people. Its proof is our feelings after random encounters with people. Some awaken in us exclusively positive emotions, after communicating with others, I want to take a shower and wash off negativity and irritation.

Hellinger constellations involve working with a group of people. Each participant must use natural ability“feel” people and the problem situation that was set by the leader. As a rule, people easily read information about the difficulties in different areas life of the main participant (the person whose problem is being worked out).

Each of us is a complementary part unified system. People connected generic programs, family relations, religion, national traditions, friendships, business partnerships. We influence and depend on each other, we seek mutual understanding and love, but among a huge number of people we often feel lonely. This sense of self is dictated by the state of isolation: a person extols suffering and pain, his own exclusivity.

The Hellinger installation serves simple method helping people to realize the commonality of their problems. With the help of constellations, program participants can get rid of many far-fetched problems, mental beliefs, revealing their root causes. As a rule, they are destructive family programs and unfinished problem situations in the family, providing bad influence to the fate of man. With the help of Hellinger constellations, it is possible to uncover the root causes:

• diseases (drug addiction, alcoholism, genetic diseases);
• difficulties in family relationships, in relationships with the opposite sex;
• various phobias, depression, panic attacks;
• childlessness (if there is no infertility);
• business problems;
• unfulfillment in life.

What are the constellations according to the method of Bert Hellinger

Psychological consultation, based on any approach (classical or systemic), begins with identifying the client's problem. At this stage, the specialist determines which placement method is best to apply. Hellinger's system implies several main types: family, structural, organizational, client and spiritual constellations. What are their features and differences?

Family

The type of arrangement involves working with family problems. Family constellations according to B. Hellinger include study intrapersonal conflicts, generic messages that negatively affect a person's life. Experts are convinced that the difficulties of many clients are due to traumas that have been transferred within the boundaries of the family system in the past. Problems are often associated with a failure of the order of the hierarchy or the principle of "take-give" (the desire of parents to take from children, children's awareness of their superiority over their parents, and the like).

Bert Hellinger believed that family traumas are main reason any health, personal or financial problems. The psychotherapist is convinced that the root of any problem is the desire to erase (forget) the participants in the family trauma - both the perpetrators and the victims. This desire to exclude what happened from memory becomes the “causative agent” of various problematic situations and incorrect mental programs in subsequent generations of the family. The Hellinger constellation method helps to find hidden reasons unhealthy state of the client and get rid of them.

Structural

This type Hellinger constellations helps to establish such areas of life as work, finances, illness, and get rid of fears. The method is extremely effective if it is impossible to logically substantiate the reason for the repetition of the same problem. Structural constellations help to extract underlying causes problematic situations at the level of consciousness. The program implies the transformation of a person - this allows him to independently change into deep level.

Organizational

Designed to solve problems among the members of labor collectives. Special areas of application of the program are working with business consultants, script writers, scientists. Organizational constellations by the Hellinger method imply "playing" roles, main character traits, specific stories. The purpose of the method is to unite the team to increase the productivity of the team or to resolve internal conflicts. Priority organizational constellations become the workers themselves, their community.

Client

Constellations according to the Hellinger method are aimed at people whose professions involve helping others (doctors, social workers, psychologists, teachers). This type of program helps to consider the relationship between helpers and help recipients. Through client constellations, it is possible to see how effective this support is, what motives drive those who help, and, if desired, correct them.

Spiritual

The doctrine positions the spirit as something that stimulates development. This Hellinger constellation identifies the therapist and participants as instruments for the manifestation of the spirit. The technique is somewhat contrary to therapeutic constellations, where the main role is assigned to the therapist, who is looking for a solution to the client's problem. The system does not use the concepts of "problem" and "solution". Spiritual constellations consider the situation through the free movement of consciousness.

Laws of the order of love

family method constellations is based on two main concepts - conscience and order. The psychotherapist in personal philosophy relies on the aspect of conscience, which acts as an analyzer and "organ of balance" of a person. The system will work well only if the conscience is calm - then there is inner confidence, what family life formed. Anxiety means that a person can no longer belong to the system. This concept is a detector of the degree of internal equilibrium.

Hellinger divides conscience into unconscious and conscious. If the individual acts in accordance with the latter, he violates the rules of the unconscious. So, the conscious conscience gives us excuses, and the unconscious makes us feel guilty. The therapist says that the conflict between them often causes problems in the family. The relationship between husband and wife in such a conflict will be destroyed even if there is strong love.

Many people believe that established family orders can change under their influence or that they can be easily overcome with some effort. However, love is not able to give order, since the latter is a fundamental principle, and love is only a component of order. Thus, love is formed exclusively within an order, and it is impossible to change it through one's own efforts.

How is the system placement

Group therapy involves working with each participant, which can last from 30 to 90 minutes. The duration of the system placement is determined depending on the number of requests. The person whose problem is being worked out determines for himself who from the group will play the roles of members of his family. For example, a woman who has a problematic situation with her husband chooses participants to be herself and her husband. The client, under the guidance of her own ideas and feelings, according to the instructions of the psychotherapist, arranges the participants around the room.

Amazing things happen during the program: “deputies” (they are also participants) on own experience the feelings and emotions of family members, whose roles they perform, live. So, strangers immerse themselves in the situation so deeply that they can clearly express situations that are happening to someone. Thanks to this effect, there is no need to talk much about the events that took place in the client's family.

What is the danger of the method

Every profession is associated with risks to some extent. For example, an unprofessional driver can knock down a pedestrian, an inexperienced lawyer will deprive a person of freedom, an unqualified doctor will let the disease kill the patient. Due to the lack of experience or low qualifications of the psychologist, the client may lose personal integrity or mental health. In the hands of a non-professional, even psychological work.

The benefits of the constellation method are directly related to the professionalism of the presenter. Only an experienced specialist will determine which version of the system is best suited for application for specific person, and which one can cause harm or be useless. Through Hellinger constellations, participants come into contact with other people's personalities as they play roles. The psychotherapist's guidance makes the process safer for the "actor" who will exit the assigned role without negative consequences.

Features of teaching the methodology

The constellation school will be of interest to beginner or practicing psychologists, family doctors, psychotherapists, social workers, teachers and everyone who works with people. The main teaching methods that are used in the program include a theoretical and practical part. The first one involves studying the basics of constellation, reading philosophical notes, considering the methodological and morphogenetic prerequisites of the system. Practical part contains analysis specific situations and work through the family constellation method.

During the course, students are introduced to the psychological and philosophical teachings arrangement method. Students learn about the basic prerequisites of the system, such as positive conditions for developing healthy family or work relationships. During the training, it is considered how love relationships are formed or destroyed. Course participants can study their own problem situations through the prism of Hellinger's constellations and see how to solve them.

Video about system constellations according to Hellinger

Modern psychotherapists We are convinced that the method is most valuable in practice, not theory. However, in order to reach best results group work according to constellations, you need to understand what the basic concepts and principles of the system are. With the help of the video below you will get basic knowledge and ideas about Hellinger's psychological method.

Hellinger constellations are a kind of psychotherapeutic method of group or individual orientation. It designates a person as a part of the system, the source of whose problems is determined by the life and actions of the representatives of his family. Studying information about constellations ​according to ​Hellinger​ ​and about doing them on your own, will help to understand the processes of the subconscious and look at various situations in a new way.

What​​are​​systemic​​constellations

The creator of the constellation system is the German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger, who in his methodology indicated the presence of intra-family patterns that lead to negative, destructive consequences. it psychological direction gained popularity and popularity, despite his youth.

The essence of Bert Hellinger's constellations is to find the cause and solution of the problem that has arisen in the human pedigree. It is believed that unresolved life tasks, unlived scenarios, mistakes of the past are reflected in the client's present.

According to constellation psychology, “family weaving” occurs when descendants work through situations that the ancestors did not complete. It is possible to determine such a course of events if there are no troubles that happened in life reasonable explanation(a person works a lot, but no money is added, observes healthy lifestyle life, but often gets sick, suffers from jealousy in the absence of treason, etc.).

By resorting to the constellation method, the client makes contact with a representative of the clan and resolves his conflict, while helping himself. The work of a psychologist with a person occurs systematically, the sources of negativity and problems are eliminated not only in the present, but also in previous generations.

The constellator, with the help of people who are strangers to the client (“deputies” of his relatives), creates an image of the situation that is subject to detailed study and processing. Individual constellations are used, when using figurines instead of representatives of the genus or playing scenarios in one's own imagination. In these cases it is possible independent application method, having mastered the necessary skills.

According to Hellinger's research, in systems generic constellations there are key orders (laws), non-observance of which leads to negative consequences:

• Give and take balance. It consists in maintaining balance, each element of the system brings and takes something in a relationship (love, care, money, gifts, etc.). Imbalance causes family interweaving (for example, a child becomes its victim when the balance of the parents is disturbed).
• Law of Hierarchy. It is determined by the order of entry into the system: the first generations have a greater advantage than subsequent ones. Violation of the hierarchy leads to negative consequences. For example, if a child performs the function of a parent, this leads to his overload: he does not study well, gets sick, and later on is unhappy in marriage.
• System membership. Every member of the family has the right to a place in it. The system does not take into account whether a person is a criminal or a saint, whether he is alive or dead. When order is violated, family interweaving arises (the living with the dead, with relatives with a difficult fate, etc.). At the same time, a person hardly controls his actions, desires, lives someone else's life. It is possible to correct the situation by restoring the order of ownership of those excluded from the system.

What is the danger of the method

It is widely believed that Hellinger constellations are dangerous. This is due to the lack scientific justification method, its mystical orientation, the presence of conflicting reviews of the sessions.

There are the following dangers when using constellations:

• Absence scientific base and unequivocal certainty. This is due to the unreliability of the information received, the inability to objectively assess the benefits and harms of the measures taken.
• Temporary obsession. AT this case we are talking about substitutes trying on other people's personalities. The principle of operation of this phenomenon cannot be explained by constellators. Deputies do not imitate, do not play a role, they really live through the scenarios of strangers, feeling their experiences, worries, connections, and so on. In this case, hypnosis is not used, the person does not lose awareness of himself. Danger is the difficulty in exiting the role, the risk of subsequent communication with the substitute. For this reason, it is not recommended to replace the dead, people with a difficult fate, serious illnesses, and so on. When carrying out the technique, ways out of the role are used; in case of difficulties, one should seek help from the constellator.
• Own conjectures of deputies. The conclusions of individuals should not be taken into account, the result is determined by evaluating the system as a whole. The deputy should not voice personal opinion, information about the replaced object must arrive without distortion.
• Unprofessionalism. Wrong arrangements, incorrect transmission of information can harm the client.
• Changes in emotional sphere, the manifestation of hidden, repressed feelings. A person opens up new sides of himself and the world around him, sensations, you have to look into the eyes of fear, experience some situations anew, including psychotraumatic ones. Sometimes this causes a strong emotional outburst, as the entry into the scenario occurs abruptly, without preparation.
• Negative consequences with frequent constellations. The changes launched after the session continue for a certain period of time (from a day to several months, a year), based on the complexity of the problem. In the case of the imminent application of the next arrangement, the previous process is interrupted, remaining incomplete. The frequency for each person is determined individually.

Contraindications

• during pregnancy;
• children;
• in diseases in acute stage(bodily and mental);
• in a state of alcoholic and drug intoxication;
• with mystical requests for placement.

Arrangement methods

As the system constellations began to be used not only classic family, but also their other types. Methods aimed at resolving human problems in various spheres of life are presented.

Constellations are used to unravel family entanglements, make forecasts, to determine relationships in the work team, to improve them, in order to personal development, stabilization emotional background, physical well-being and so on.

Family

The classical family constellation works with problems in the family, intrapersonal conflicts, negative family settings. More often the session is held in a group. At the core psychological method lies the reproduction of a part of a person’s system with the help of his relatives’ deputies, who, at the same time, feel and experience emotions characteristic of real people. Intra-family relationships, relationships, and influences become visible, which is important for eliminating the “interlacing” and solving the problem.

It is obligatory to observe the correct functioning of the system, where each element occupies certain place and fulfills the role assigned to it. Violation of the rules leads to negative consequences.

Structural

Arrangements of this type are intended for research integral structures, consisting of abstract components. The method is usually based on structures from other techniques: 5 elements of the Chinese tradition, Tarot cards, astrology, and so on. The principle of operation of such an arrangement involves 2 tools at the same time.

The method solves problems in structures such as fears, health, work, well-being, and so on. This also includes symptom constellations that work with physical condition organism.

Organizational

Constellations are designed to resolve conflict situations, estimates professional relations, problem solving in organizations, labor collectives. The method can help the client understand his position, role in the system in which he works or manages.

Business constellations allow you to make the right, effective solutions, based on many factors: past experience, state, relationship structure, and so on. Ideal method for working with family businesses.

Client

The method is considered part of organizational constellations. Designed for faces a certain kind professions providing different nature helping people (doctors, social workers teachers, psychologists, etc.).

The arrangement reveals the relationship between the helping party and the receiving party, evaluates its effectiveness, the need for it, corrects it, sets goals, and more.

Spiritual

The basis of the constellation is the realization that the fate of the client and his family system is driven by the Spirit. Harmony, internal balance come to a person through agreement with him, problems - through rejection of oneself in the Spirit. The method does not use denial, the desire to solve the problem, get rid of failures. However, the connection with the Spirit can manifest itself with precisely such positive effects.

The purpose of the constellator is to create space for the client to determine the movement of the Spirit in his life. When conducting the arrangement, a short request of a person is used (or not used at all), the free movement of deputies, sometimes without voicing roles, without searching for " good decision».

Ways to conduct

There are several ways to carry out arrangements. The choice is made based on the preferences of the client, his desire and ability to open up to other people, the presence of a group, and so on. At the same time, the basic principles for conducting system constellations different ways are identical.

In a group

In the most common version, the constellation method is carried out in a group. The facilitator (constellator) interviews the client: finds out the problem, asks to name significant people from different generations, important tribal events in their lives. At the same time, the psychotherapist puts forward theories about family relationships, based on the voiced facts and emotions of a person.

For the role of relatives, the client or the constellator chooses deputies from among the group members. After that, they are arranged based on their position in the system. This is how the field in question is designated, the substitutes are immersed in roles. There is a translation of the processes of the family system. Deputies feel the feelings of those being replaced: mother - love for the child, hostile elements - aggression towards each other, sister - longing for the deceased brother, and so on. It is possible to add new roles and their deputies during the process of arrangements, while the changes that have occurred in the system are tracked.

The facilitator asks the relatives about their condition, feelings, the location and relationships between the elements establish violations related to the client's problem. Next is the search right decision by changing the location of the deputies, rearranging them, pronouncing permissive phrases (helping to bring the client closer to resolving the situation). As a result, the family field changes, the causes of the resulting negative consequences disappear.

In the process of constellations, the client is usually an outside observer and enters the field to perform key actions, working out and fixing the solution.

On figurines

The method is carried out without the participation of the group. Constellations are performed individually, they involve the constellator and the client. When mastering the skills, it is possible to independently conduct the method.

The essence of the arrangement is to use figurines instead of living substitutes, objects symbolizing representatives of the genus. Cups, stationery, tables, chairs and more can be used. On sale there are special sets with figures for constellations. The principle of operation of the method is identical to the classical one. Relationships, connections, emotions are revealed, the solution to the problem is determined by the interaction of the elements of the system.

However, the arrangement differs in the way information is read. In the classical scheme, it is transmitted by living participants, which is not possible with this option. For this reason, special reading methods are used. The most common way to obtain information is through the place of a substitute. The contributor or client alternately takes the position of the thing that translates the processes in the system, and transmits necessary information. It is possible to receive information through touching the figures, through the aura of the field, and so on.

Working in a group is characterized by greater depth and informativeness of the constellation process, however, for some clients, due to personality traits or the nature of the problem, the technique with figures becomes preferable.

in the imagination

This type of constellation is carried out in the client's imagination, while the process involves a person who solves his problem, and a constellator. The advantages of the method are the absence of additional human resources, the reduction of the time of constellations. The session is possible at individual personal meetings, remotely (via Skype) or independently (after mastering the technique).

The arrangement is made before the inner eye of the client. First, a relative is established through whom the problem affects life. Then the client in his own imagination creates various images verbal interaction with a family member until one of them allows contact with him. This is manifested by a sharp emotional outburst, catharsis. Further communication should lead the client to the resolution of the problem, the designation of its essence, to the realization of the causes, violations, errors that provoked negative consequences.

Result

There are a lot of conflicting reviews on the Internet about Hellinger constellations. In some cases, the method is perceived by people as an exclusively theatrical performance, an unsuccessful experience in solving a problem, in others - as a powerful psychotherapeutic tool, by resolving serious situations.

It is believed that as a result of the attitudes, the psychotherapist eliminates the violation and allows the person to get rid of the “weave”. The client reinforces the image of a “good decision” and gradually it is implemented in his life. The system is being restructured, significant changes on the life path: breaking old relationships, finding new ones, positive and negative transformations that need to be worked out (gaining independence, responsibility, recovery, reconciliation of warring parties, payment of "old debts", etc.).

After constellations, people often feel an internal unconscious change, they feel the extraordinary importance of what happened. It is recommended after the session not to discuss, not to analyze what happened, try not to leave the process, not to suppress it, but to accept and assimilate it.

Hellinger systemic constellations (or simply "constellations") are short-term psychotherapy. To solve a problem, a person does not need to go to a psychotherapist for months and years. Everything that is needed to solve the problem occurs within one constellation in one and a half to two hours. This is a huge advantage of the method. The constellation quickly falls into such deep layers of the subconscious, where ordinary psychology makes its way for years or never makes its way.

But the processes themselves, launched by the arrangement, of course, take much longer than an hour and a half. And you need to understand how to live these processes correctly.

The following partly explains what is happening in the constellations and helps to put it in your soul and in your head. But these are not absolute axioms, not mathematics and physics. These are subtle matters, sometimes even difficult to describe in words. Other constellators may work from a different picture of the world, they may have a different vision of processes. They may give different explanations and recommend completely different things. Please keep this in mind.

So, what you need to know a person who wants to make himself an arrangement.

Constellations are, first of all, field practice. Everything that happens in constellations happens in the field and through interaction with the field. They call it differently - the information field of the Earth, energy-informational, morphic, morphogenetic, noosphere, etc. The essence does not change.

This field has many properties known and unknown to us. One key is that there is no time for the field. Everything in it is happening right now.

After the arrangements, wet napkins remain, filled with tears of long-dead people. We can get to the maternity hospital, where right now the mother is giving birth to our client. Captive soviet soldier right now in front of us trying to escape from German concentration camp, and an adult woman in her constellation meets herself, a two-year-old girl who is crying right now because she is being sent to her grandmother.

This fact must be taken into account when making an arrangement for yourself.

Strong (emotionally rich) events in subtle world smeared (duplicated, resonate) at other points of space-time. From them waves diverge into the past and the future, like circles on water. And it can help us a lot if we consider as a constellation not only the one and a half hours that it physically takes place in the group, but a larger time interval.

Several times I saw future constellations in a dream, not knowing anything about requests or about the clients themselves. I carried out constellations in a dream, and then I repeated exactly the same thing in real life. That is, in some spheres of being, the process has already taken place, and the result is known long before the actual physical event.

In general, everything has already happened, but not everything has happened yet.

Before arrangement

When does the alignment start?

Apparently, it begins at the moment when the client signs up for the arrangement. From a phone call to me or the organizer of the group. At this point, for the first time, energy connection client therapist. On the subtle plane, their interaction begins. Processes are launched in the field related to the client's intention to solve their problem.

From this moment on, it is necessary to pay attention to possible manifestations in the surrounding space of signs that may relate to the future arrangement.

Mom suddenly remembered and told some family story. A distant relative called, about whom everyone has already forgotten. The former showed up, it is not clear what he needed. Found old photo, dropped out of family album for the closet. They threw out the garbage from the mezzanines, and I found my old medical card from the children's clinic, and read that, it turns out, in my childhood I had this, but I didn’t know. On the night before the arrangement, I had such a strange dream. Well, and so on ...

Space can manifest some things, and it would be good to notice them.

I do not urge you to start looking for mysticism in everything and to hear the voice of the Lord in every phone call. It is not at all necessary that something will happen at all, and if it does, healthy skepticism will not hurt here either.

But I do know that these things happen. I have great experience and serious statistics that cannot be ignored.

So just be in the flow and pay attention to the prompts of the universe. Remember dreams, pay attention to signs. And if it is important for your soul to convey some information to you, it will find a way to do it.

During placement

All that the client needs during the constellation is to be conscious and in contact with what is happening. To understand that everything that happens is safe, everything is done for him, and all the people in this room are now here to help him.

Of course, you need to trust both the therapist and what is happening.

Since a person is sitting in a client's chair, it means that there is already trust in the therapist.

There will also be trust in the group. I always voice the confidentiality rule before starting. Nothing that we learn in a group can be taken outside the group. No stories can be discussed with anyone and ever. Everything that happened in this room will forever remain in this room.

If you came with a relative or friend, but do not want his presence at your constellation, we will ask him to come out for the duration of your work.

It must also be remembered that becoming a client is not going to be shot. It's just a desire to finally solve your problem. No one can or will force you to do anything. At any time, you can ask to stop the arrangement, if you have had enough. Or if the process is going where you don't want to go. Or for any other reason. It is necessary to tell it to me, I will give, if necessary, time will end for some movements, some energies to pass, and I will complete the constellation in a safe place.

After arrangement

Just as the constellation sometimes begins long before everyone has gathered for the constellation group, so it can end long after its physical end in the hall.

I will describe the most common options for what can happen after the placement. And some general recommendations- what to do with it.

For example, as a result of the placement, you get access to a huge number energy. They opened the birth canal for you, removed someone else's load, brought you out of the interweaving with someone else's fate, etc.

You come home with a sea of ​​energy that has not been there for a long time (or rather, never at all).

With this energy, you can do useful things for which it was not enough before. Launch a project, learn to draw, make repairs, fall in love...

This state will not last forever, most likely you will smoothly return to your standard energy level. There will be a sense of belonging, a sense of peace, the completion of something.

Be prepared for the fact that around you will appear those who want to "eat" this energy. Relatives, friends, passengers in public transport and colleagues at work - all these people are created by the Lord so that we do not have too much energy. Therefore, do not delay with the planned plans and deeds - do them faster ... this state will not last long. However, if you are generous with your soul, share this energy, but mostly with your loved ones and loved ones… unless you want to save and make the whole World happy.

It might turn out opposite effect. You don’t want to go anywhere, you don’t have energy, you just want to lie on the couch, not see anyone, sleep or watch stupid TV shows.

This is also very good, which means that the energy from the arrangement did not go outside, but inside. It will be used for internal transformations. Changes in the deep energy and mental structures of a person are sometimes energy-consuming processes, and it would be nice to give them the opportunity to go smoothly and environmentally.

This state will also not last long. This is the state of a caterpillar that has pupated before becoming a butterfly. Under outer shell are happening important processes help them, try not to interrupt. Pupate, dedicate a week to yourself, get some sleep, don't answer the phone, don't go to parties.

Also be prepared for the fact that relatives and friends will make efforts to pull you out of this. Take care of yourself, let the processes complete.

After placement, it may be unstable emotional condition. You will want to cry or laugh out of the blue, feelings and memories will come flooding back. Constellations work with repressed and blocked emotions and feelings, unpack them and bring them out. Quite deep layers are rising, and not everything can be fully lived and completed in an hour and a half of arrangement. Something will emerge and survive after it. Be ready for it, be in touch with it, let the feelings and emotions come and go.

Arrangement of internal parts

If in the constellation we worked with personal history, with your personal trauma, then as a result you will gain access to your lost, cut off parts. You will connect with your subpersonality split off in the distant past and with everything that was in it.

These are not always easy processes. Together with her, you will connect with memories, qualities, states, and energies that you have long forgotten about, or maybe did not know about. You will connect with yourself, the one you have long lost.

I have received several times feedback from clients that they received a new body in the constellation. It may not be so literal, but with serious work with a deep psychotrauma, the elimination of a deep intrapersonal split can really feel like getting a new, young body.

It takes time to integrate all of this. Talk internally more often with that part of yourself that we found in the constellation, communicate with it. Ask her what she wants and give it to her.

For example, lost child parts want some childish joys. Go on rides, eat ice cream, feed ducks, play with other kids. Go there, walk your inner child.

Adult parts may want some adult joys that they were deprived of. If possible, give them what they ask for.

Try to make contact with this newfound part of yourself and promise it that you will never leave it again. Befriend her.

Gradually, before your inner eye, it will cease to be individual. It will merge with you, integrate, splitting will completely disappear, and you will become whole.

Here, too, you can access energy. But it will no longer be a channel and flow, not generic, and it will be your personal energy that has been blocked for many years. It may feel different. From this new energy there may be overstrain of the body, temperature, trembling, aches, something else. Help your body integrate and process this energy package. Yoga, massage, gym, bath, swimming and other bodily things will help here.

Arrangement of disease or symptoms

There are no exact schemes of what and how will happen to your symptom. We are working with the subconscious, with the soul, and we do not know exactly what path the healing will take. There are several main options.

1. Everything goes by itself. They were just symptoms in the body, like headaches. Your symptom was related to some kind of energy, emotion, feeling (yours or not) somehow ending up in your body. In the constellation, either this energy is simply discharged, or it is the owner, to whom it actually belongs. The body so manifested what lived in it.

In these cases, the symptoms usually disappear immediately after placement. They were caused by energy constructs present in the body. If we cleanly removed them, the disease disappears instantly.

Once a girl came to my group, straight from the hospital, in which she lay with sinusitis and complications from it. The next day, she was scheduled for an operation, to drill her skull and pump out something. She wanted to have time to make a constellation so that she could increase the likelihood of a good outcome of the operation. After the arrangement, all her symptoms immediately disappeared, the sinusitis disappeared by the evening of the same day, she did not return to the hospital anymore, she asked her mother to go pick up her things.

1. We need to help the body. In the constellation, we removed the cause that caused this disease. As long as there is a subconscious cause of the disease, psychosomatics, it cannot be cured. Illness is the tip of the iceberg, a small part big story. The soul will stand guard and make sure that the disease remains - this is a reminder of something important. In the constellation, we work with a large, underwater part of the iceberg. If the causes are removed, then the disease has no basis, the body recovers itself. Or the disease is already successfully treated by standard methods.

Now you just need to help the body recover. Maybe drink vitamins, homeopathy, something else. Maybe those medicines that did not work will now work well, and everything will be cured.

We changed the configuration of the field, now something can happen in your life, you will see some kind of opportunity, new way, find a person, a doctor, a healer who will cure her for you.

I had a client - chronic problems in gynecology, which for 15 years could not be cured by any doctors and medicines. They set her up. Randomly met her in the city a couple of months later.

"How," I ask, "are you doing? Did the alignment help?"

"No," he replies, "your constellations don't work."

"It's a pity," I say. "So, the problems remain?"

"No, it's over."

"How so, - I ask. - Say that they do not work."

“Yes,” she answers, “the arrangement didn’t work. But after the arrangement, I went to the dacha, where I talked with a neighbor, and she recommended me a herbalist grandmother, who also lives in our village. She cured me with herbs.”

And she, and the neighbor, and the grandmother-herbalist all these 15 years lived in the same village, but this opportunity simply did not exist in the field. Constellations change the field, and the field is already changing our lives.

1. Something happens to the symptom, but it does not go away. Maybe the manifestations of the disease decrease, become weaker, but do not completely disappear. Maybe, on the contrary, things are getting worse. As when a disease is transferred from a chronic form to an acute one in order to cure it, this is how, for example, homeopathy works. In general, you see changes that are uniquely related to the placement. This confirms that the disease is exactly related to what we saw in the constellation, we have changed something, something is happening with the disease, but the symptoms do not completely go away.

It can be the same as in the second option - you need to help the body. Maybe there are some other reasons, several stories were tied to this disease, not only the one that we removed in the constellation. The body shows what we're on the right way, digging there, but not everything is done yet.

1. Nothing happens. This happens with serious diseases that significantly spoil your life. This may be an indication that we are dealing with systemic disease, under which there are a lot of things, heavy generic or karmic stories. All this can and should be worked on further, but it would be good to understand that if this is some kind of serious, basic problem in your life, then it may not be possible to solve it quickly.

Transfer of a resource from a genus, resource constellations

This separate topic. When in the constellation we come to the fact that the client's problem arose due to the fact that some important resource was not transferred from the generation here, now living. We figure out why it happened, unravel all the tangles, complete the unfinished, and let the ancestors pass on what they want to pass on. In the form of a ritual, the souls of the ancestors convey something to the client.

The girl came to the arrangement with a request - "where is my life, where is my destiny?". She didn't feel like she was living her life. In the arrangement, they came to her grandmother, who carries something important, a resource of the family. This is vital to pass on. In life, my grandmother has been seriously ill for a long time, all relatives have the feeling that she wants to, but cannot leave. In the constellation, we do a ritual, and the grandmother, with relief, hands over to the client something that she calls "magical abilities." And says: "That's it, now I can leave". The field of alignment has calmed down, everything is in harmony.

The grandmother dies next week, the client remains the youngest woman in the family with this "something".

Thus, the ancestors pass on to their descendants the abilities, knowledge, vitality, energy, and indeed any resource of the kind. In the arrangement, it looks very beautiful and mystical. The client leaves happy and calls back two weeks later with the question: "What now?".

To be honest, I don't know. Maybe there is more to do in life. Go study, train. What didn't work before will work now. What was not capable, now they will be. What was difficult will now be easier. Maybe you still need to receive some initiations, initiations in real world. Perhaps, in some practices, meditations, try to tune in to what is transmitted. Maybe it will open itself in a few years. Maybe it will never be revealed, it must be passed on and will be revealed in the next generations.

In the arrangement by all those present, such processes are unequivocally assessed as correct. Those who go to constellations know that it is very difficult to do something wrong in the field, to pass it to the wrong place, to the wrong person or the wrong person. But we are dealing with such things, the meaning of which we can not always comprehend. So we can only help to happen what needs to happen, and then just watch.

In conclusion

As a rule, these are simple ritual actions - light a candle, plant flowers, go to a relative's cemetery, buy a toy, visit a church, talk with your child, and the like. Then it is highly recommended to follow these recommendations.

Sometimes, after the placement, you don’t need to do anything - everything is completely completed and closed in the process. Then just put its result into your heart and live your normal life.

Watch dreams - they may contain additional puzzles to the overall picture. They can supplement or clarify some points of the arrangement.

Mom or grandmother suddenly accidentally remember and tell something from family history- usually something that relates to the arrangement, and that will confirm to you the correctness of what happened in it. We dug a hole in the information field - information pops up, and people related to it can unconsciously catch it.

Relatives, old acquaintances, current and former partners. Communicate with them based on the new reality that was created in the constellation.

Maybe tell them something that was impossible to say before. Give thanks. Clear something up. Let go if they need to be let go. Accept if they must be accepted. Speak up, recognize what's important.

Probably something that couldn't be said and couldn't be heard before when there were complex dynamics that didn't allow you to communicate normally. After they are filmed in an arrangement, nothing will interfere with your communication.

We complete in the constellation what can be completed in it. Maybe complete in life what needs to be completed in life.

After the arrangement, something unnecessary will leave your life. And something new will come. Not necessarily right away, and certainly not in the way you think and expect.

Everything in the world has momentum. Our feelings, our thoughts, our consciousness too. Yes and myself physical world around us, our lives reluctantly change the well-trodden track. If they were moving in the same direction long years and decades, it may take time to completely stop and change course.

• Important!

Don't tell anyone about your setup. Treat it as an intimate, mystical process (which, in fact, it is). At the constellation, we take out some kind of important story. We watch it and complete something in it. Then put it back into your soul and into your heart. Let the energy of the constellation go inward, to heal spiritual wounds, and not to talk.

Do not talk about your constellation and those people with whom you dealt with it. Mom, husband, child, ex. You can (and should) say some important things that you understood after the arrangement. Awareness, recognition. Change something in the relationship that the alignment showed. You can do what is important to do after the arrangement, speak out, acknowledge. Just do not tell the process itself. Leave the arrangement inside - then it will retain its strength.

Sometimes the constellation works like magic and magic, and after the constellation, the person immediately wakes up in a new reality. Sometimes the processes of transformation, inside and out, take a while.

In constellations, we are dealing with subtle things, sometimes with such mysterious areas of the human soul that it will not be possible to make any exact guarantees and forecasts. Many processes in our soul will forever remain a mystery to us.

But one thing is certain. Our physical world is a manifestation of the subtle world. Everything first happens in the subtle world, in the energy-informational field, and then it manifests itself here. As above, so below.

And new reality, created in the constellation field, will definitely manifest itself here, in your life. It doesn't happen otherwise.

There are no set-ups that don't work. But sometimes they don't work the way we expected.

Just keep your eyes and heart open and allow what needs to happen to happen.